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bbstarr:
Eyinju.ege means beauty

I dont think it means beauty.
It means sezy eyes or apple of my eyes depending on the context you use it

cRobo:
Is there hope for the poor if the rich can't get treated?, should be the question every Nigerian should be asking by now

Until then

I won't say a word

Testing will not do anything to help your ministry.

It's a viral infection with no cure, and it's usually left for your body/immunity to handle it.

If your body is already weak from other underlying problems like diabetes, bronchitis etc, it may succumb to corona.

Its symptoms are similar to malaria, but with cough.

Once you have symptoms of malaria or a cold, isolate yourself from other people including your family. Stay home for at least 7 to 14 days before venturing outside. Drink plenty of water, use paracetamol.
Inform the appropriate authorities by phone of your symptoms
If your symptoms get worse and you begin to work harder than normal to breath, it is time to go to a teaching hospital as worsening symptoms may mean you need a ventilator
The majority of healthy infected people will recover, however you have to do your part in preventing its spread.
Avoid unnecessary waka about. Wash your hands etc.

Much ado about nothing.
Women should stop carrying marriage on their heads.
They end up being losers for that.
Work on your financial capabilities and don't ever give that up for marriage or raising a family in Nigeria.
Your sacrifices will never be appreciated.
Allow men to love their mothers.
Nobody said you should not love your own mother/father, as they also sacrificed a lot for you.
Treat people with the same courtesy they give to you.

loshybab:
With all these grammar you wrote up there,it still doesn't change the fact that little piece of mucosal tissue deserves to be kept for the right man and broken at the right time. It remains your pride and dignity,albeit,not the only one. It's even better you have other dignifying things,but pls,don't downplay the God-given one.

No one is stopping women from having sex,it's been ordained. All I'm saying is DONT do so under some premarital conditions. That simple misuse of power is why many of you cried,still crying and will cry foul when the consequences stare at you in the face.

No.
The piece of hymen will be broken whenever I chose for it to be, by who I choose.
Women will lose their virginity when they want to do so.
There is no God given pride and dignity.
You create your own pride and dignity as you grow.
Yes, let the consequences stare women in the face. Life in itself was never meant to be perfect.
It's not your business what the consequences of deciding to have premarital sex is for a woman.
Worry about the consequences for you as a man, and stop policing our virginity.
Police your own premarital adventures, and stop disturbing the cyberspace trying to police others.
Women out there, have sex when you want to as an adult. However, practice safe sex. No man is worth getting an STD for . If you have a steady partner, make sure you're both tested for HIV and STI.
Also get proper contraceptive now as an adult, pregnancies can be prevented if you don't want them.

Everyone should stay in their homes and avoid contact.
Coupled with other measures such as handwashing, avoid touching you face, self quarantine if you have a cold or sore throat with cough and fever.

People no dey hear word.
Some are still going for owambe party and some places are still doing religious services in their buildings when they can easily do online.

That's irresponsibility on our own part. Stop waiting for any government and do your own part in curtailing the virus

The most annoying ones are those still travelling about and spreading the virus.
Can't you stay in one place ni?

She was just being neighborly.
A good neighbor is worth more than gold.
You wouldnt know this, until you're in such difficulty that the only people that can help you immediately are your neighbors.
IMO, she hasn't done anything wrong. She has done the right thing for her conscience

If you cannot handle been a step dad, please leave them alone.
It's not by force o. Let her be

loshybab:
@first bolded, the earlier women realise they call the shots in this premarital sex of a thing,the better for us all. No man or very few will force you to do what you don't want,if you say NO and firmly stand by it,but the warped mentality of thinking you could trap men with some mid-body orifice or force yourself on him some with pregnancy is the bane of it all.

@the second emboldened, the first step to this decadence is not believing your virginity is your dignity and pride as a woman,once lost on a cheap,forget it. That's why we found ourselves in this sorry situation. It's quite pathetic.

I still maintain women wield the most power,and until they realise this and begin to use it in the most subtle manner,the ugly situation cannot be remedied.

Women want to have sex, so they are using the powers you claim they have to do so. Simple as ABC.
I can never see an anatomical piece of mucosal tissue/hymen as my pride or dignity.
NEVER.
There are more things I take my pride in, and that I find more dignifying. My hymen was never one.
It seems some of you think you love women more than they love themselves. Stop feeling that way, because you can never love me more than I love myself.
Perhaps for your own sake, you may continue to preach about keeping my virginity, but don't say it's for my pride and dignity. I'm not keeping it because you want me to, as it's got nothing to do with you in the first place.
If it affects you so much, then work on those taking away the virginity. Majority of women don't care, as most feel it doesn't define them.
Sex is enjoyable, whether premarital or in marriage. Let women also enjoy sex, as men have been enjoying it too. If you want women to stop, kindly ask men to keep their peepees in their trouzees.

loshybab:
It's quite disturbing. Yet,they will never admit majority of the societal problems we all are having now is born outta premarital pleasure.

More worrying is d fact that it's not gonna stop anytime soon,rather on the exponential increase.

Our society is in for some big shit.

Are women sleeping with themselves?
Who are they sleeping with then?
Perhaps the group more concerned about women's virginity and body counts should do something about this?
Women don't mind losing their virginity and having as many body counts as they want , so don't ask them to do anything about it.

Mckandre:
Pls don't insult the OP, I can attest to the authenticity of the story, it's hard to believe but true. It happened not far from where I reside. The issue was even raised ryt in the state breeders group.

You really don't have to publicly post private conversations with people's phone numbers on it.
Remember you owe nobody on here any explanations or proof about anything and majority of people on here do not care.

Let her walk out of the house and find a safe place to be.
That's first things first.
Afterwards, you can start talking about the divorce.
I'm assuming he is violent and her life isn't safe, right?

PervertProphet:
For real.

How will you do this to a 4 year old child?!!!

Just imagine for a sec if that was your sister or daughter that was raped.

Will you believe that claim of mistake?

Why do people lack no sound conscience and morals these days?

This one that will be the one to rape his daughter and sister ?

If he hadn't been caught, this one too would have been looking for virgin to marry.
Bastard.
They should put a knife through his heart

It's just a trial.
Nobody knows if it would work

hisexcellency34:
The same N50 naira Chloroquine that scratches ones body if taken?

You better go and buy ya own

Innobee99:
I want to date a fine babe, See wetin fine babe done put me now?

Ur babe don born?

healthserve:
Alas. Do you know the effects of their witchcraftry? Again like I said riding on the tide of popularity to appear legitimate

Is it your witchcraft?

So are you asking for applications from potential girlfriends on NL?
Or you're looking for potential boyfriends?

Psoul:
I don't want to keep responding to some of these little girls who have bn quoting me up and down especially @LadySarah cos I have seen that they lack common wisdom and understanding.

The fail to see the main issue in this whole thing. They believe that the problem with the woman is that the man was angry with her wife cos she is making money.

I told them severally that that was not the problem with the man. The man was just scared of the stories he heard about the boy but the woman, instead of working on the man based on that, she was telling the man that she has enough money that will take care of the boy.

Well, she has decided to force the boy on the man. Reasonable men have a way to handle such women. It's not by fighting the woman. The woman and other low brain Nairaland girls will be hailing the woman and feeling that she has won the battle.

What will happen if there is a case where a presence of a man is needed in that boy's life and the man refuse to stand in?
What of in case of some traditional rite?

The woman has succeeded in creating a kind of enmity bw the man and that innocent boy. Also, as a woman, I know she will be feeding the boy on how the step dad hates him to an extent he refused to let her bring him to the house. This will make the boy to love her mother and hate the step dad.
When this fire starts burning, the woman will be the one that will feel the heat more.

The woman failed to work together with her husband to have a mutual agreement on bringing the boy home. This would have helped to creat a better bond btw the boy and the step dad.

You're talking of traditional rites?
Don't be funny please.
You say she's feeding the boy on how the step dad hates him? How do you know that?
And you say she has created enmity between him and stepdad? How did she do that?
To be honest, I think the step dad truly hates the boy and I'm not even a family member.
Hates him enough to see him homeless when his mother can take care of him.
So if I were her, I would watch my son like a hawk when with his step dad.

Munzy14:
lol, not only Yorubas, I am sure it is popular in some parts of Ebonyi and abia states because of the availability of that particular yam.

I think ojojo originated from the Ijebus. Not everyone will bother to go through the process of making it because the yam is available.
You have to grate the yam into a paste, then add your ingredients and start frying
It's been decades I had it, but I know the taste.

Witch
I hope she is also killed.
Meanwhile, men who commit adultery should take note.
They always try to tell us it's only dangerous if a woman commits adultery but never dangerous if a man does same.
We can see the dangers it poses to the family.
Stop exposing your wives and children to harm.
If you want to quit your marriage for your side piece, do so honorably.

Davash222:
Life wasn’t easy for Linda hence she developed herself first before having a baby.
After having Children from different men, now you want her to develop herself on a beer budget.
Let’s be realistic here, please. We’re adults.

I'm being realistic here.
You on the other hand, are not facing reality
There are many couples who are raising families and still developing themselves.
Look around you, and start seeing
Even on NL here, many married folks with kids are living in rented apartments and struggling to build their own.
OP has a business and she doesn't seem to be doing badly. She just needs to persevere and keep pushing.
She hasn't complained any financial struggles to you or anyone here, so do not assume anything for her.
OP may already be building a house for all you know.

Davash222:
Someone that is bragging of paying 6 months rent should build a house
You must be mistaking her for Linda ikeji.

Life is in stages and men are in sizes.
Life was never always easy on Linda and she didn't grow up with a silver spoon
Because the OP is struggling to pay 6 months rent now doesn't mean her finances won't be better tomorrow.
That why I advised her to work on her finances. It's not going to be a day's job, but it would definitely happen if she's diligent enough

Davash222:
Okay, let’s assume it happens the way you projected.
A single woman not up to 40, having 4 children from different husband.

This is the life I will wish for my enemy.

There's nothing wrong with that life. It may be different from what you believe in, but nothing makes it wrong.
So what if she has children for different men?
There's nothing new under the sun.
It's even more common than you think, and they live their lives like other people who grew up in the same family. My advice for her is to face her work squarely, and make sure she continues to improve her financial circumstances. She should also prepare for the future and start building a house for herself, even if it's a small one, for her retirement. While doing that, she should go for strong family planning as she already has enough to look after.
Because a husband has left her doesn't mean she cannot enjoy her life

Whether the husband is richer than her is irrelevant especially when she has her own money.
If they both are financially comfortable, they will part ways with no wahala. Afterall, Babangida's son and Indimi's daughter parted ways after 4 children. Both given custody of 2 children each.
Life is not as hard as we make it.
She has chosen the welfare of her son whom she has a responsibility towards over her husband's displeasure. She took the right decision for HER. It may not be the right decision for other people, especially if the said child was been well taken care of where he was.
Till now, I still cannot understand the husband's reservation about bringing in a 12 year old boy who was being maltreated where he is and accused of theft. He is just 12 and can be redeemed under the right care.
Only a parent will fully understand that the mother has her son's best interests at heart, and it supersedes everything else

Davash222:
Sarah, it is not yet over. Believe me.
That man is up to something. Endeavor to tell your WcW to update us when kasala burst, though I’m not praying for that but it must occur.
The woman in her quest to bring her child home has dagger the ego of her husband and I believe that man will soon strike.







Oyindidi. You keep giving people bucket and tank to donate tears, are you now working with Water resources? Good morning

The worst that could happen is for him to divorce her, and move out.
She has stated in her post that she is ready to be a single mother to look after her children.
What more do you people want?
Unless you're expecting him to kill her son and possibly her other children since they are the most important thing to her.
Perhaps you will be happy then?

Your mother was Ill before being isolated. She must have had a temperature and possibly cough.
She was Corona negative, so something must have caused her temperature.
Perhaps malaria or a pneumonia?

quineP:
Hi everyone

To the doctors in the house

I would like to go straight to the point, ive had irregular periods for a year plus and i was told to run a hormonal profile test which came out fine. Now the issue im having is my fiance wants me to get pregnant before having our wedding inwhich im fine with but i jst dont know how to go about it. I dont know the type of test to run and the type of drugs to use to make my period normal.

Note: ive bin to the hospital and i was told its because im in my late twenties thats why im having irregularities.

Pls doctors in the house should come to my aid

See a gynecologist and get tested for PCOS.
Check online for the meaning of that and the diagnosis and treatment

Most cravings in pregnancy is a way your body tells you that you need certain minerals and nutrients.
The lady that said she ate a lot of beef while pregnant when she normally used to eat fish had that craving possibly because of some iron deficiency.
Allow women listen to their bodies when pregnant please, and stop with the whining.
We all want a healthy baby and if its hot suya that can do the job, pls allow her eat it.
Unhealthy cravings like sand, potash, wall paint are also all signs of some nutritional deficiency

Kekereekun123:
this is a lesson to all ladies who thing they can do any how. na loneliness and misery go kill una. 9ice former wife still dey lament while oga nice don married like 3 times more enjoying prime toto. Kings lets not hesitate to teach women who be boss

The same Nice that went to prostrate for his ex wife and publicly tendered an apology to her?
Very funny.
Nice is still looking for love, and we hope his 3rd or is it 4th marriage lasts this time around.

Oga OP, pls support your son well o
I can only imagine what the poor boy is going through right now.
If I say make you involve police, they will just chop your money. I find it hard to trust Naija police.
That allegation is a serious one.
We both know that man is on the verge of madness, you should stick up for your son gidigba.
The poor boy will be so ashamed of going in and out of that house and even walking around your streets.
But that accusation still carries a lot of weight too.
Pls, once again support your son in all this. Encourage him and always talk to him and allow him express how he feels about this whole nonsense.
It might have long lasting psychological impact on the poor boy.

LadySarah:
You should have vehemently warned him there and then and then mind ur biz but since you kept quiet after the accusation, go on keeping quiet.

If it gets intense, report to the landlord or police. Never get violent, some ppl are just walking corpses waiting for a trigger.

I'm sure he is a woman wrapper and accuses the wife to justify his acts.
Ogbu nma n'ana ekwe nma ka Ola ya n'azu.

It's so easy to mind your biz. Once in rented apartment, anything can be said or happen.

Still ask your son why he was fingered in this matter.

MAY God give you wisdom in all these and make us landlord's. ;DAmen

Read the post well.
OPs pastor has been fingered in this matter
OP himself has also been fingered in the past.
It's now the poor 16 year old boy's turn.