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OsuMustGo:
Your husband or your baby daddy?
From your story, you must be a teenager or someone in early 20s.
You don't have any business in that house anymore.
Go and hustle to be alone or just go and stay with your "husband".
You are a burden in that house.
Pity your dad nau

The very first statement of her post says I'm married with one kid.
It's not her baby daddy but her husband

To those saying get a restraining order, I'm not sure how that would be useful in OPs situation.
A restraining order means OP has to move out of her father's house , because that is the abode of her step mother.
Her step mother won't move out for her, and they can't be together in the same place
Now if OP moves out, there would never be contact between them ever again anyway, so what is the point of the restraining order?
I doubt the stepmom would care if she never sees OP again.

frozen70:
You are supposed to be leaving with your sister of five years so that she will be far from that wicked step mother

What happened to your child is a sign that the worst thing will still happen to her

Just pack your things and take your little sister along to baby seat for you, whatever you and your husband sees you eat and you too start thinking of something

I believe the 5year old sister is her half sister (step mum's child)

Tiarababy:
Our rent expired we moved out of the house that’s why I moved back to my dad and my husband is staying with his sister

Why can't you stay with his sister, and your husband goes to stay with a friend or something? That's if you get along well with the sister otherwise it might be a case of frying pan to fire.
They will kill your child where you are now, and your dad will just tell you sorry o.
See this as an emergency.
I would have said report to the police, but I doubt if anyone will take the words of your 5year old sister serious at the station. They will all claim it's an accident. Even your brother you left your child with doesn't know what truly happened to the child.
Anyway, the main reason I quoted you is to make sure you look after that wound well, so it doesn't get infected. Also, get some aloe vera plant and use the gel on the wound to help with the wound healing.
Some people can make one commit murder sha, and it needs special grace and patience to stay around them. I'm not sure what I would do in your position, but I would advise you to stay calm. You need to move out of there ASAP, because it seems your lives are in danger.

This had better be superstory because hmmm....

lexy2014:
U had to employ d use of YouTube to understand poultry business and how cows are milked yet u are asking me to visit a Nigerian poultry which invariably means that u might never have seen a poultry urself.

You obviously have unresolved issues..
I probably should have posted another link to show you how eggs from poultry is not "harvested" , but laid.
I attached a video so you would understand how milk is produced on a farm.
Anyway, I really hope you're able to shake off that feeling of entitlement you seem to have over the property of developed nations.
Good day.

lexy2014:
What is d shelf life of d foods like eggs and milk being destroyed? When were they harvested?

Those are daily products.
Their eggs are nor manufactured, but laid by chickens everyday , same as in Nigeria. Perhaps after the lockdown visit poultry in Nigeria and see how they work.
Milks are also produced everyday by cows, otherwise they become engorged and in pain. The farmers are even still trying milking the cows despite reduced hands to do so.
Video of how cows are milked:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Qzelz4ixbk

lexy2014:
Are d milk and eggs being destroyed yet to be harvested? Which movement restriction are u referring? Is it Nigeria that went to China to collect test kits from jack ma or it was jack ma who made arrangements to deliver at our doorstep? How are relief materials distributed? [/b]Is it d beneficiary that goes looking for relief materials or is d benefactor that looks for ways to get it out to people?[b]

You haven't been offered any of these products, but you're the one begging for them. The onus is on you to look for ways to get them. They don't want to be your benefactor, they don't owe you.

lexy2014:
U said all this but u weren't able to answer d questions I asked. But am glad u made this comment:

"Their farmers are not happy their food is wasting, their govt is not happy either that they're unable to get enough food to all their citizens"

and yet u say:

"Their government doesn't have time for that right now."

Did d poor people u referred to just suddenly show up? Is fighting corona just about fighting d disease and then ignoring hunger? If it was, why is d US govt putting together a stimulus package for its citizens?

Is it all d states in d US that have corona or that are being strained by d virus?

In answer to the previous questions you asked, the answers are clear as day, didnt know I had to spell it out: Milk cannot last more than 24 hours without been processed. There's nobody to process the milk.
Eggs need to be distributed as soon as possible to make room for new eggs that will be laid the next day. There's nowhere to store new eggs laid even though expiry dates of eggs are long.That's simply not possible because cornoa has disrupted everything.
Stimulus package is different from you asking the government to start delving into the distribution of farm produce. They've never been involved in that before, and now is the wrongest time to ask them to get involved, because some Africans don't want it to waste
Farmers have always discarded farm products not used in the past, but not in this proportion.
Many struggling people in America would appreciate these farm produce, but a lot of logistics are involved and they cannot access it due to the distance of these farms
If your African nations are so keen to have the produce, they should make arrangements themselves to go get them. You can task your government to go and make arrangements to get eggs and milk from America.

lexy2014:
So which milk are they throwing away? Is it milk that was just harvested? When was d milk harvested? How long is d shelf life of egg?

If these farmers don't have d resources of jack ma, nothing stops them from donating these goods to d govt for upward distribution as it deems fit. D jack ma analogy was to help u understand how relief materials move. They move from d benefactor to d beneficiaries especially in cases like this

Their government doesn't have time for that right now. They are busy with the virus killing thousands of their citizens daily. 2000 people died within 24 hours, 2 days ago. I've not checked the figures in the last 24 hours yet.
Their farmers are not happy their food is wasting, their govt is not happy either that they're unable to get enough food to all their citizens , yet you expect them to remember to donate food to some african nation thousands of miles away, with all the logistics involved in this pandemic?
If they can do that, that means they wouldn't have trouble with supplying their own citizens with food, because I can assure you there are many starving people in the US that would also need that food.

lexy2014:
Are d milk and eggs being destroyed yet to be harvested? Which movement restriction are u referring? Is it Nigeria that went to China to collect test kits from jack ma or it was jack ma who made arrangements to deliver at our doorstep? How are relief materials distributed? Is it d beneficiary that goes looking for relief materials or is d benefactor that looks for ways to get it out to people?

Milk will get spoit and cannot get processed. They majorly use liquid milk, and need staff to process it, pasteruise it. Even your powdered milk is processed into powder. You need staff to do that.
Eggs also need storage, where will they keep the millions of eggs produced daily, without transporting them to shops and the millions of eateries that use them? Almost all eateries are closed.
Majority of farmers dont have a hundredth of resources available to Jack Ma. They're also just sttuggling themselves. Its just like comparing a palm kernel or rice farmer in Nigeria to Dangote. That's ridiculous, they're only just small time businessmen themselves.
Last but not the least, there is a pandemic going on, affecting everyone. Do not expect anybody or any nation to leave their burning houses and cater to yours. If Africa- specifically Nigeria starts burning alongside the other nations, nobody will look our way. Nigeria will not look the way of Chad either when dealing with their own issues

lexy2014:
There are definitely better ways of handling d situation instead of destroying d food

What better ways?
There is a pandemic going on.
The labourers that help them pick fruits and help on the farm are not there anymore due to lockdown and fear for life.
Many farmers just allow the fruits to rot because they can't do it alone.
Those that can harvest their products do not have enough storage for them, nobody can come and collect them even for free (because their is movement restrictions , and these are very rural areas far from everybody) so the farm products just go to waste

Amotolongbo:
Can they find a way of importing them to Africa instead of destroying them?

With the way things will start going this week, NCDC will start getting their confirmed cases mixed up, thinking that the deaths recorded are COVID-19, not knowing that majority of the deaths are from HUNGER-20.
And we know that when one is severely hungry, it can manifest with different symptoms. Too much hunger can show the combination of symptoms of Ebola Corona and HIV in just one manifestation.

They can't find a a way to transport it to Americans next to them, it's Africa they will be looking for a way to transport it down to?

What do you mean by closeness?
What exactly have you seen to make the conclusion that they are very close?
That neighbor has been helpful to your family, so I'm not sure why you keep abusing him. Is it a crime to be single?
Or is it a crime for your wife to ask someone help her?
I'm sure other than putting on the gen, he helps with other things like taking payment from her for the electricity bills instead of her having to go there herself, and helping her with other stuff. She is practically a single mother when you're away, and so she needs all the help she can get.
If you have such low expectations of your wife perhaps you shouldn't be with her in the first place, or are you scared because you're also sleeping with other women in the abroad?
The poor neighbor may just be doing good samaritan, not knowing his integrity is under question.
If your wife is cheating, it's probably with someone else she would not be mentioning to you

SciLab:
I've reported the bastard to the mods. The pedophilic fool thinks he will get away with it forever. Even if he gets away with it now, in future that little girl will always remember and come for him.

Crime has no expiry date as long as justice is not served yet. The law has an elephant's memory.

Unfortunately, the little girl will be told she is a liar and that the incident happened 20 years ago so there is no evidence of such. Same as in Busola Dakolo case.

Smartsly11:
Am so happy right now,a friend of hers just messaged me on Facebook that she ass the info to the daughter...am so happy right now

Be careful so that you're not scammed.
Facebook is not a place people bother with anymore.

GraGra247:
If you had a working brain you should easily know where sarcasm is totally inappropriate. You call a 12 year old a woman and you dare call it sarcasm.

You're just on the same boat with the Op. I strongly suspect you. Filthy pedophiles.

It's a game. He's in level 26 and the woman is in level 12.
Perhaps if you read the post itself and not just the title, you wouldnt have fallen into this confusion many did.
OP is just trying to be mischievous, but not funny at all.

gambia:
Very commendable, Its better than all those people donating to FG.

Those donating to FG are not donating directly to FG, but to the Cacovid initiative.
They have successfully built 2 centres in Lagos and Port Harcourt , waiting for covid patients. There are 4 more centres to be built in Enugu, Kano, Sokoto and Maiduguri.
I think Kano is also done or almost completed.
I'm not sure who is ready to go to Maiduguri to go and set up the place, but we wait and see.
Port Harcourt covid center:

decatalyst:
My God destroy who ever wants to divert these equipments to their own hospitals and for personal use.



May God bless the hand that provided these equipments.

This is what all those useless banks, except GTB, that steal from us and went and give the money to bigger thieves.

Many of those banks too donated into the cacovid initiative, perhaps not as much as GTB and Zenith. Check the list I posted up there

igboamakaaa:
That of lagos was donated by GTBank, that of PH isnt being built by the FG either. Please get your facts right

Non of them are built by FG.
I'm talking of wealthy men of various extractions coming together to build isolation centres regardless of their tribe.
The one in Lagos is part of the cacovid initiative. Here is a list of donors of the cacovid initiative. 41 donations including GTB, and the amount contributed.
GTB insisted on setting up the centers and not just giving FG money, as it would be embezzled. These guys are monitoring these projects themselves otherwise it would enter one chance. Once built, they hand over to the governor of the state
Adenuga dropped 1billion to the Cacovid initiative and 500million to Lagos state, despite being from Ogun State.

MarieAnn2012:
You can say that again adadike
Eye Service

What pains me most is I'm from Oraifite, and this bastard hasn't done anything for Oraifite or Anambra at large.

Dangote contributed only to Kano state and other billionaires only to their states even pastor's only to their home state

Sir E as you are fondly called You have rendered Oraifite useless with your useless politics


Cc Anambraistson

Dangote didnt contribute only to Kano State. His contribution is being distributed all over 6 major centres in Nigeria to cater for all Nigerians.
I wish more people would step up though, and make their own positive contributions to the society

adadike:
Pls start with the south east, followed by the south south. How many of the yoruba and hausa rich men will remember ndigbo if the reverse is the case.

The cacovid initiative building the covid centres in 6 places around the country.
They have remembered the south south and the south east, despite the fact that majority of the contributors are not from that side. Nobody is making an issue of that, instead majority of Nigerians have thanked them and moved on.
Places to have the cacovid initiative isolation centers- Lagos, PH, Enugu, Kano, Sokoto, Maiduguri.
What exactly is the problem na?

People are working, albeit silently regardless of their tribe. Those that want to help and make a difference are definitely doing so. Stop tribalising covid pls. It doesn't know the difference between your tribe and another .

https://www.instagram.com/tv/B-22QqwpaoB/?igshid=1i2tgeqdglz2z

https://www.instagram.com/p/B-rdKtvHWaS/?igshid=1sp493lsm3jvj

ChimaAgbalajob:
Igbos have been in forefront of donating to the Janjaweeed federal government that will simply ignore igbo states to die like flies if they ever have an outbreak. The current FG will be overjoyed if a virus helps them to eradicate the hated igbos from Nigeria. Something they couldn't do with marginalization or military force.


Imagine that Buhari released N10 billion naira to an already rich state like Lagos to equip its isolation center, yet ignores Anambra to depend on paltry donations from individuals to equip its isolation centers.

The same way they ignored Rivers state appeal for help in setting up its isolation center, knowing the PH international airport could easily risk having expatriates from France and Italy living there.

Igbo People donating to the fantastically corrupt Fulani Federal Government instead of their cash strapped states need to have their heads examined!

Covid center in port Harcourt. Part of the contributions of the cacovid coalition including Dangote, otedola, adenuga, Jim Ovia, Jimi Agbaje, Adeleke etc. They were about 24 of them or so.

The plan is to build 6 of these across the country. Lagos, Portharcourt, Kano, Enugu , Sokoto, Maiduguri.

They are working on it. Lagos was built first because thr 1st case was there, it's a commercial hub and densely populated.

https://www.instagram.com/tv/B-22QqwpaoB/?igshid=1cd9hrefl66b6

More pictures of the Port harcourt isolation center here:

https://www.instagram.com/p/B-rdKtvHWaS/?igshid=1sp493lsm3jvj

Aunty ND is happy because she is getting Good D

Abeg free her, and be happy for her.

Her last child has left home, so its time to groovy groove.

The older the berry, the sweeter the juice.

Goldmaxx:
I now understand. I can never argue a CNN watcher.

The last time I watched CNN was over 4 years ago

Goldmaxx:
Someone got to call out china for this and WHO their protectors.

How is WHO protecting China?
You give them the power they do not have