₦airaland Forum

Wkaay:
Am in need of help, I know something is wrong spiritually, I ve prayed and fasted, I ve met with pastor and Alfa but all they demand is the money that I don't have. I don't get anything done easily, I always get whatever I get through the hard way, I have people around me that can help but instead they bring up fight against me. I always get rejected where I expect blessings. I am married with three kids, no money, no food my job is not going well. Please I really need help. I waited for so long but something just pushed me to voice out this night that help will come through this please I need help.
Any form of help that will enable me feed my family and be a complete and responsible man, father, husband etc.
I need financial breakthrough
I need spiritual deliverance
I need total freedom from lack and want. Please help.
All the people I have met in the past always demand money and I hardly have. Please anyone that can liberate me to be able to fulfill my destiny. All my job is just down no money to feed I have alot of debt on my neck. Please help me for God sake 🙏

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Bomberman:
Hello guys,i need your advice on something that has been bothering me for a while and I'm so confused right now..i have 1 million naira currently and i don't know what type kf business to start..I'm thinking of starting a pos business which I'll employ someone to be taking care of it or I'm thinking of adding money to the 1 million so i could buy a keke napep and give it out as an hire purchase. Please i need advice on this.or if there is any other good business which i can start with a million naira,you can suggest to me as well..

Get a laptop, register for digital skills that can earn you up to 200k per month, if you are in Lagos or Abuja try going into Real Estate agency your 1M will become nothing less that 5 M by the end of the year. During your free period you use your digital skills.

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Versitee:
I recently separated ( not divorced) from my husband. Most of you read just a fragment of the story here.

I have one daughter, she is just 4 years.

I want to learn a skill. ( A high demand skill)
I want to be able to take care of myself and my daughter.

I need a skill that I won't lack jobs.


P.s

I am a writer. I write children novels but I have never published any yet. I have like 8 children novels in my word office.

Who knows how I can market the books once I publish? I am also open for any opinion on this.



Please what skills can I learn? I feel like I'm starting afresh.

Should I go for soft skills like tech or hard skills like fashion design? Or is it too late?
Or should I focus on my children novels.

Please house, help me.

For the short time go and learn fashion designing for the long time learn creative writing.
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According to the Holy Scriptures Power comes first then money/wealth follows

Hezzyluv:
Power is good and depends on which power persay. But, what shall it profit a man if he has power and lives in abject poverty? I.e begging to feed or watch his love ones dying from curable sickness simply because no money to treat such malady?

If you don't have money but have power, you are as useless as the P in psychology. Money stops nonsense!!!

Get money, even the person that has power would be calling u sir upanda.


Modified:
Show me the man with power and I will show you the man with money. Show me the man with money and I will show you the man with power.

You can't have power and still be poor it is impossible

Ojagun:
Nigerian music,movies and tv shows have a passionate following by other African nationalities (especially the women) on the continent and outside the continent so that helps too.

That's true and we get plenty MOGs

Raydos:
I've been to 15 states in Nigeria my whole life, and one thing I always notice is, Untarred roads, Lack of drainage system, Lack of proper planning e.t.c

Which always make me curious, Why does everywhere in Nigeria look like it got hit by a nuclear bomb? Why? Why don't we have modern streets and cities!!

Since the inception of Nigeria, I Don't think we have built any city, And please don't even mention Banana island, It's a piece of crap!!

It's sad that only about 3% of Nigeria is actually developed and the other 97% is just straight up piece of trash!!

Lack of futuristic planning

VictorUSA15:
I came to realize that ladies in other parts of Africa love Nigerian Men so much.
Personally I have dated one physically when she visited Nigeria before going back to her country, Ghana.
I have met alot of young ladies online and when I tell them I am from Nigeria they don't want to leave me. Some of them become more desperate to come over to Nigeria or I go over to see them.
I have been wondering but I need to put this out here. Why do we easily atract ladies from other African countries?
Screenshots below...

Nigerian guys love spending on their ladies, unfortunately unlike other climes it led to entitlement mindset among our ladies but for the foreign ladies they aren't use to that

Yankiss:
What is Omokri's own na? At his age he is supposed to be gunning for Governorship or even the presidency like Sowore. What is exactly his angst against Obi? He has shifted from Atiku to now Tinubu. It's obvious he is belly face front. I used to respect this guy so much until I found out he was just one of them.

Oga na format to cash out, all is propaganda

Ningishzida:
Christianity; the religion of texts copied from Sumerian Tablets, used by the Europeans to enslave the dumbest among humans.
I can't believe I used to shun worshipping the God's of my ancestors because my early child hood religious brainwashing made me afraid that a White man in some heaven will reward/punish me.
To hell with every Abrahamic religions and the division they have created for humans.
Pastors can worship the God's of their ancestors and keep scamming the mugus who believe a White man is watching over them from Heaven. Abrahamic religious people are Creatures, not conscious enough to be considered Beings, therefore, they should be treated as such.

Unfortunately you didn't know that our forefathers were more sumerians before Abraham. Abraham wasn't a white man you know

BlaqScarface:
I want to pursue a masters abroad as a means of escaping this country. I’m jobless at the moment but I’ve been saving from my former job for two years and also got a couple millions from sport betting and inheritance.

I’m confused about this while japa thing as I don’t want to go abroad and start doing useless jobs or start suffering or get depressed in another man’s land. I want stability and peace in a country with a reasonable economy.

Also, I have a first degree in English language, I’m 24. I’m confused on the path of my life to take please advise me.

Go to Sweden or Norway

NLchief:
I made a terrible oversight of not checking electricity bills before purchasing a house. It just completely escaped my mind till after purchase.

I just found out there's electricity debts of 500k unpaid to IBEDC.

How do I handle this?

I know it will be difficult getting such a negligent
previous owner to pay such bills.

Reach out to the landlord first, second if by all means get your own prepaid meter for the apartment, disconnect the existing one for now if the landlord is not cooperating, it's better you pay postpaid than you pay that debt

beekind:
Hi everyone,
I have some naira I am planning to convert into dollars (USD).
Can anyone confirm to me if I can just walk into any bank and buy dollars since the government has now unified the rates.

Thanks .

No just visit aboki or use platforms like chippercash, geegpay etc

JASONjnr:
I bet he doesn't understand anything from his economic copied and paste text....


An accountant that will advice a president to print more currencies......and to increase taxation.....


Dude is a mistake!!!

That is the craziness introduced by Maynard Keynes promoted by World Bank, IMF and the Western World

WayStage:
Please I urgently need a payment gateway that can receive alipay/RMB/CNY...
Any suggestion?

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notmyrealmonika:
Good day everyone. Please o, like many Nigerians, this country done tire me. And like many Nigerians, I wan Japa too. And like many Nigerians, I no get millions. I believe with the right connect and guidance, once there is the will, there is always a way. I have the will and it's getting stronger and stronger everyday, please I wan make una show me way abeg..............

That zeal should push you towards knowledge for making more money, because what is the essence of Japaing when you don't have the cash to do so. It's either God sents you a sponsor or you develop skills to make money. Meanwhile, your Japaing is not useful to the place you want to go to if you aren't valuable enough for them

adebayo987:
In civil service, we call it retirement benefits/pensions. The money is nothing to the Saudis. All they want is the players' influence on their football, that is, to motivate their younger players, to get their fans watch Saudis football, to attract international attention, to make their football relevant like other top leagues, to build skills in their country to be able to win world cup, etc. and lots of other benefits. So, the money they're paying is nothing. As for the players, they're just going to arrange for their retirements.

The Middle Easterners especially the Arabians are also master in the art of money making from Tourism

Englishisamust:
I always feel like veteran programmers can code 3000 lines code off head without checking any third party

Not true

Englishisamust:
This thing have been baffling me, I can't code off my head but I always understand what I'm doing and I know all the steps. But to write code off my head na problem. I will a have to go google to check whether I'm correct with my syntax. Not like I can't write functions, arrays, operators, class off my head
The only thing I can code of my head is css!!! But anything pertaining to backend, I can't do it. Not like If I see others code I won't understand it. I want to ask I'm I only one experiencing this!!. Let say I want to write a login function in java, I can't write it off my head but I know the steps to follow to do it.

No gain in you coding from your end because the essence is not to boast but to solve problems structurally

Jewessgratitud3:
It's the family that determines that most of the time. You and your babe may want a low-key something but one parent will just rise up from no where and kick against it. It's either you go through with it or call it off. Simple

Exactly, the day we free ourselves from our unnecessary traditions then many will keep getting married late

Jewessgratitud3:
Guys, marriage is not chere wereh. Be financially prepared when planning a wedding and stop making the woman feel bad at the end of the day like she caused your downfall.

You are the one who went for her hand in marriage so you should be very ready on all levels to go through with it and provide all that is required in the list and for the ceremony. This why I said some time ago that a guy earning 100k can not get married and many came for me. You will end up borrowing at one point or the other.


Why he's ignoring the lady in the new marriage now is what I don't get. Dem force am? Biko kwa. Make una dey hold enough before talking about marriage and wedding ceremony.

Getting married is not expensive na werey dey worry many of us in Nigeria. If I were the guy I will just stop the wedding process even if I had all the whole cash. The father of the lady is just interested in selling his daughter

sir3pu:
I want to start a cement depo and I want to every necessary things to do before I embark on it.

Please anyone with Cement Business idea should share, I'm eager to learn and all your advises and guidelines are totally welcomed.


Thanks

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Nice2023:
I just clocked 40 year old and I feel as if I have not done well for myself. May be because I had always set a standard, hence my high taste and expectations.


Now goes the question,as a Nigerian,what achievement do one expects from a 40years old man irrespective of his education?

It's okay to feel like that, now get a paper and write down what important things you have been able to do since you clock 20.
It can include going to school even if it secondary school
Starting a business
Getting a certification
Getting married
Having children
Traveling to some cities and state within and outside Nigeria
Among others.
Look out for what make them successful

Then on another list the most critical mistakes you made and what you have not being able to do. Write out the possible reasons why you made such mistakes and how you can avoid them.
Then list the things you want to achieve by the time you get to 60
It doesn't have to be about money

alanto:
But they didn't succeed at booting out Putin who has been ruling for too long.

Putin and Wagner have no issues, it was all a script to deviate attention of the opponents that are sanctioning

mazinooyolo:
So this is me.😂😂

I have been struggling to get my password all these while.

Some people might not believe this incident but it is true

Well done 👍 bro

Doolove:
Good afternoon everyone, I am currently in a fix and doesn't know my way around the cross road that I have found myself in. I will try to be very brief.

I just graduated not long ago and just finished my project a couple of weeks back. I've been looking for a job and submitted my cv is some places.

Now there is a single man probably in his forties that has been on my case, he has bailed me financially several times and already shown interest in me and my boyfriend knows about the man. He is also aware that the man tried to force himself on me when I went to visit him on two separate occasions but I managed to escape.

The man offered to connect me to a job that pays 50k in abj while I stay in a room in his apartment since he's not always in town. Now this is an upgrade to the 20k jobs that I've been seeing in my present location but my issue is that my boyfriend is against me staying in the man's house because he knows the man is interested in me.

Instead, he is suggesting I stay with my rich uncle that resides in Abj but the issue is that the man is too strict and everyone in the family avoids him so I can't possibly stay there.
My guy is facing some financial challenges and I can't depend on him right now.

Should I stay back in my location and look for better jobs or should I move to Abj and damn the consequences of living with the man because I already know the outcome?

First question ask your boyfriend is he ready to marry you in two to four years time.
Second if you feel you can endure harassment to the extent of being r*ped or having sex with the man due to just 50k salary then go ahead.
Third if you feel like being strict is being bad without getting closer to the strict family member then it's okay.
Select which you prefer and do what pays you the most

peretei2024:
My fellow Nairalanders,

Tell me why I must forgive my daddy and my Late Mummy.

I was 4years while my elder Sister was 6years when my daddy and my Mummy had a serious misunderstanding, so few weeks later, my daddy was transferred to Kaduna from Lagos being a Solder ( who knows I he was the on that requested for that).

On one fateful day, my Mummy went to the market to buy some stuffs in the Market, then here com my Daddy's younger Sister( Aunt) with a vehicle. She forced I and my elder Sister to the vehicle and moved is straight to my Daddy's village in Ondo State. We cried, cried ,
and cried but our tears couldn't saved us.

Finally we landed in a village where there is no light, no hospitals, no good schools, in the hand of strange people we don't know.

Remember I said we were moved when I was 4years. Now at 5years in the village, daddy never visited, mummy never visited, so I had to start tapping Palmwine just to raise money to start my Primary school in the village. After a year or so, I was able to get some money to pay for my Primary school. I decided that I can't continue with this Palmwine tapping at this year, so I work hard and raise some money to start selling bottles of kerosene to sponsor myself from Primary to Secondary school.

When I was in JSS3 , my Elder Sister got pregnant for a guy out of frustration and betrayal from the path of our Parents who abandoned us for years. Our Uncle in the village who never care about us , informed my daddy that his daughter is pregnant for a guy ooh, then my daddy said the guy must marry her . Finally the guy agreed, then my daddy who never visited us for over 15years came down to the village because of the money he will collect.

After marriage rites, I was taken to Lagos by my elder brother.

Note: my Mummy whom I never see for over 15years knicked me out of the house after spending just 1week with her in the house. Her complain was that I believe like a bush boy.

My elder Sister is still married to the guy in the village and she can't even express herself in English, and this is a lady that was born here in Lagos.

Tell me how I will forgive them after going through hell because of selfish Parents.

My mummy died 4years ago but I didn't even know where her grave is because we were never in good terms and till tomorrow, I will not forgive her not even my daddy.

You better forgive forget and move forward what about those who don't know their parents at all

Unique9:
Umuahia sweet, check out this land that I'm marketing, located at Umuana Ndume ibeku Umuahiahttps://youtu.be/O8tdBv3C0VM

Don't say you came to Lagos to do business instead say you came to Lagos to trade as in hustle. It was a Japa plan not a business tourism thing, if you actually came to Lagos to do business you won't bother to build house in Lagos and thereby turn to developers

Greenscientist:
I'm not someone that take tribal sentiment on my head, I'm just saying the truth.

Only Ibadan is bigger than the whole of Abia state, Oyo state and Southeast are on par in term of land mass - Go and verify😁

This means there is no much land to go round. You systematically buys Front lanes of cities not because you're richer than your host, but because your host majorly don't like business and will prefer to sell a land of 1M for 15m and go and start life somewhere else. Ultimately, you people becomes Yoruba along the way.

The green/purple/yellow roofs you people have are because they are newly built houses and they are due to two reasons.

1. You people are ready to share property immediately your parent die

2. There are not many land to go round

You people know business 🤝 but that doesn't mean your host are not successful, if they don't have the purchasing power you would not be here. How many USA company is in Nigeria?

A Yoruba lecturer with 400k in a month is content but a Igbo counterpart will look into business and will be financially better than the first but that doesn't the first is not content with what he have.

Bros they don't know business they know trading which actually they learned from the Ijebus, the Ijeshas and the Igbominas. The missing link in the last century was that this major three Yoruba dialects didn't include apprenticeship else the igbos will not be boasting of being business oriented today. It was the civil war that push many of them into apprenticeship which today they call business which is actually trading.
How many of them are actually into world class manufacturing, very few and to that all they are doing as regards trading every tribes in Nigeria have selected population who love trading too.

The main issue is that we don't take statistics seriously in our country

Berankis:
But we cannot dispute the fact that Igbos are. more venturesome when it comes to businesses that other tribes in this country. They are hardworking, industrious and dedicated. They practically dedicate their lives to their businesses and grow it.
I respect them for that. I work with them a lot in the Pharmaceuticals sector.

Based on Statistics and history is not true

Nice2023:
Don't divert it to ilaro,I said about 50 communities and I can send u the list if u are still uncomfortable with the truth here.

What about developers helping the 50 communities have good electricity. As for me I believe there is nothing that Developers can't do

nabiz:
i always advocate that we should stop calling our place a village. It is better we use the word HOME TOWN this is because most of our village is better that our place of residence

And what is bad about the word village, no be English? Does it stop Development?
Have you heard of Nashville,
Abbeville, Louisiana.
Amityville, New York.
Argusville, North Dakota.
Asheville, North Carolina.
Barbourville, Kentucky.
Barhamsville, Virginia.
Beattyville, Kentucky.
Belleville, Illinois.

All the villes means village and that didn't hinder development.
Na we choose not to develop our villages always waiting for government