Mhizzard: Actually,have been thinking about this for soo long,meanwhile am being contemplating. as everyone know this online fraud better known as 'yahoo' is a sin to our own understanding.however,most of guys whom involve themselves into the act is not their willness but the hardship they found themselves in.now to the reason for my creation of this thread is,are there truly consequence in a long run for who does the act i mentioned up there even if he didn't involve himself into a diabolic??
To make money no difficult, take note I did not say hard but difficult. Na many of us dey look for hard short cut.. If you don't have the necessary certificate or skills to make money, go and do construction labour or go to apapa wharf to carry load on your head. Raise money and start selling, in a matter of time you will become a multimillionaire if you are persistent
ObviaSiere: I made so much money this year and I didn’t really save and it’s making me sad. Please someone should recommend strict app that’ll help me save i dollars and I won’t be able to withdraw it for a specific period of time.
Go for chipper cash you can save in dollars with naira without going to aboki or bank
Giftedhand47: I have a chronic anger problem I've tried not to get angry and overlook things but this demonic spirit will just do his thing Pls help me i really need tips from Nairaland family.don't know I may get help here . Thanks
Adanambra1: i am 39 weeks today and 5 days oo first timer mama i don exercise tire chop pineapple tire i dey do the do regularly i don chop spicy food tire... everything on the internet, i have done. scan already say my baby is head down position 3.5kg.... people of God, what do i do next to avoid Pitocin inducement or epidural
Avoid Excessive in take of Fat and Oil and Milk, Diary products generally. Take lots of vegetables, especially Ewedu grinded without salt. Drink lots of water, watch lots of comedies, tom and jerry is good enough, be happy to say simply. Have enough sex with your husband. Have a journal to track your pregnancy Speak to the child from now, speak good words and tell him or her to cooperate and not be stubborn
FanRong: I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.
My story We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.
On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.
Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)
After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.
Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.
She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.
I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.
A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.
Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home. 1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.
2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.
3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears. When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.
4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her. While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.
5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex. Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me. We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.
After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys. At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.
I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.
The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.
We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.
Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.
I need mature and candid advice please. Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?
Oga savior you don enter one chance, that lady has double standards, you have lots of things to find out later and your investment would have enter water.
I don't think the person needs it again, no be pass I see like that. Abeg just keep am in case the person won contest for election. Na this kind of result dey contest for governorship election in Nigeria. Just keep am
silibaba: Belated Merry Xmas and a properous new year in advance to you all.
Please my wife travelled for the Xmas/new year celebration. Am left with my kids and they have been yelling into my ears that on new year day, is fried rice or nothing.
I know how to cook jollof/white rice. But you see this fried rice, I no sabi shiban.
Please great cooks in the house, I need you all to help me with the recipe as well as the steps involves before I spoil these boys year new day.
Thanks in anticipation.
Am typing on the go so please overlook any error(s) @mod please front page for wider view.
HelloWhatsup: Hi Can I get a job without my B.Sc cert? I have a 3rd class degree in banking and finance so out of annoyance with my poor result I haven't collected the cert yet. I've been working as a salesman since graduation but the business owner has sold the business and traveled abroad . Now am about to start job hunting but am scared of what to say when I eventually land a job and am asked about my cert. Also,can i get an M.sc with such class of degree?
No, you have to go and do PGD.
My one kobo, go and look for job in an FMCG COMPANY OR REAL ESTATE Company that focus more on land banking and estate development, then you can get PGD via NOUN
Adeshi: I may not be foolish but i know i am not very wise, which is why I'm finding it difficult to decide on what business to invest my savings on.
My entire 2023 savings as at this morning is 1million naira, i want to make more money and do bigger things next year but there's no guarantee I'll have this kind savings next year unless i invest this 1million.
Please i need help, i do not know what to do to multiply this money.
You have to consider your main activities. Are you a 9-5 person if yes there are businesses you can't do because you won't be able to monitor it.
You best option if you are a salary earner is digital business, to start with get a laptop if you don't have one
You can do local drop shipping Blogging Content Creation Others
If you need advice feel free and chat me up on 08089456258
ahnie: I want to add weight and I have tried everything possible to gain weight all to no avail.
I have taken drugs aids one to gain weight but non worked. I have eaten lots of noodles and fried eggs,eaten overnight,but the weight is not just weighting.
Please help recommend what to do so I can gain weight. My current weight is 68kg.
Attached is a recent pics of me!
Cc: Nlfpmod Seun.
Get married, have children and you will gain weight
Anansa0003: There's is this land Mr A bought more than 10years ago with the necessary documents apart from the C of O...and Mr A has built his house on this same land that same time..10years later , he wants to do C of O cos of some land Tussles and the likes, he discovered that the Land Has a C Of O registered with another person's Name because the Original owner of the Land sold it to someone before and the person paid and left it like that for more than 5 years and the Thief of a man resold it again to Mr A....il
Please if paraventure the Man whose name is on the C of O returns and want to claim ownership of the Land will their be any Law to stop him or since his name is on the C.OF.O Mr A has no option than to vacate his own House with nothing..
PS: Nobody knows the Man whose name is on the C.Of .O... but from findings the Man leaves abroad and has been living there for more than 20years now..
AMI3: Somebody wants to buy scorpion venom. The fact is that I didn't know that this thing worth millions Scorpion venom urgently Needed budget £4m British pound
If u know how to get it chat me up 08154933420
General Burutai Snake farm in Nasarawa should have it
Animegirl: Please how can I raise 300, 000 naira without asking money from men or my parents from now to January 31st as a student.
Go to Twitter, Facebook and Instagram, use cardboard to pass your message, tell them you have to raise 700k for your school fees, you can't afford to sell your body but you must raise money for your school fee. Then create like a 5 to 10 page book on some ideas that you feel will help a particular industry. Sell it for like 3500 then focus on getting like 200 persons.
kennysam91: Please I want to go into farming Please which crop can I plant. And I want to start with 10acre
How much are you looking at in investment, what is your knowledge gap and experience. It's important you don't do what you don't understand. My best advice go into piggery and focus on vegetables like cucumber and watermelon so you don't lose money
Minsk24: Guys i need a review of Eck religion, i am seeking more spiritual understanding and knowledge, i base in abuja and want to know more about eckankar
Can we talk, chat or call me up on 08089456258 I have some information that will be helpful for you
Ronaldo723: First of all I would start this post about myself I’m 21 the second child of my parent, I moved out from my parents house on the 21st of July 2022… I have been catering for my self and to be frank in todays Nigeria life isn’t rosy for me at all…
I moved out from my dads house cuz he was a narcissist always talking down on me and comparing me to my younger sister who gained admission in 2021always telling me that I’m visionless and has no plan for my life he is a man I never wish to live with again….
Now to the issue on why I opened this thread sometimes I yearn for a change of environment like going to visit my parents and spend sometime with them but I just can’t my mom is married to another man who she stays with and my dad is nothing to write about he is poor can barely take care of my younger ones that stays with him…… my younger sister in the university is even the one that feeds him sometimes…and he doesn’t even care on how she is getting to money to feed him she gives him money to buy clothes cus he literally has none to wear … the last time I saw him he was wearing a faded shirt he looked like a pauper I felt so ashamed…
When we saw he was telling me I’m so selfish that I don’t send him money I only think about my self and this is a goddam man that swore never to buy me even a pair of clothes while I was living with him he made my life living hell I had to run to my moms place then…… when he was saying all this I told him i don’t really have money that’s the reason I haven’t been able to send him he said why won’t I have money that people that does the same work with me are making it big what’s happening to me.. then I told him me and does people ain’t the same and God would bless me in my own time…
I have really developed a very strong dislike for my dad and I wish never to see him again… the conversation I had with my dad yesterday has made me realize how I’m left alone in this cold world and had no shoulder to lean on when I’m down I literally have no one to look up to in my family is so sad 😞
I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.
However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.
I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.
She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything. Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.
I'm considering a breakup as a solution.
Has anyone navigated a similar situation?
Just give her all your salary, reach out to your mom, dad and siblings to also add theirs. Then tell her that you don't mind that she double or triple date to meet her financial demands.
70 years old man your mumu never do you, take it to another level in 2024
Collect like 10 million naira loan and give to her
Goodlyhrt: I have seriously and bitterly complained about my poverty state here and how I have lost all appetite to live this life.
I have been asking anybody and everybody who cared to listen for help so that I can at least stand like a man beside I went home this Christmas to see my ailing mom.
I never knew she was suffering from a stroke. Apparently, my dad and the others couldn't tell me the full gist knowing the kind of person I am.
I was so heartbroken when I met her for the first time in 5 years since I left for Lagos in search of greener pastures. I felt useless a thousand times.. I was weak from sorrow for my mum, her form was not a good sight.
She tried to convince me that all would be well and that she was even getting better. Then gradually I dropped feeling so bad at least to not add to the issue.
I smiled after two days of staying to cheer her up she must have greatly missed her boy. But I am deeply saddened every day since returning non-stop.
Right now nothing is stopping me from joining my friend who is into Yahoo Yahoo. Safe the fact it will break her heart because she is a hardcore religious person.
But I can't stand seeing her this way.
Infact I had to liquidate my computer business to be able to make the trip to Aba. So right now I don't have much option.
And I don't know how long it will take me to be able to start all over again in a new town as I am worried things might get worse and I wouldn't do much to stop or prevent it.
I don't know what to do right now just please someone advice me.
So sorry for the situation of things, but I think that what you need is not to go into fraud but to first and foremost detoxify your mind, then gain clarity of what will make you successful in life. If it's money you need and you are in Lagos my best advice is to start from somewhere and have the habit of saving at list 30% of your earnings.
As regards your mum her issues are more of dietary and aerobics, she needs to be doing therapy that relates to exercise, stop some foods and begin to eat some foods.
Put your mum on Garlic drink, Moringa, Onions, morning and night
Also, let her begin to drink more of Coconut Water daily
Then fasting of skipping at least one meal per day
No starch for like 21 days
Lots of exercise and stretching of the bones using of balm too and
SharingIsLife: Ok. Thanks for sharing. I know about Wise but I am yet to use it. How does it work for Nigerian residents? For instance, does it work seamlessly with Nigerian commercial banks? What are the difficulties? What are you enjoying the most about it? What are its advantages over Payoneer?
And Stripe too. Again, thanks in advance.
Wise is like a bank, a neobank that you can use to receive payment globally and tosend money globally. You can link it with Stripe and Paypal to receive payment
I think that one of the ways to solve this problem of bad economy is for more Nigerians to be able to earn in hard currencies. What I recommend to help us start doing that immediately is that people should try to sell any service they can offer online in a global market.
I believe that if more of us do this, it is going to help strengthen the Naira and reduce the rate at which Nigerian youths do illegal things online to survive. It will even reduce insecurity levels in Nigeria because if more people are getting more money then, less people would be ready to do violent acts. So, it's going to be a win-win for all of us directly or indirectly.
So, please, let's share. How do you get paid when you work for overseas clients as a freelancer based in Nigeria in 2023 going to 2024?
You know, there was a time everyone seeking online earning opportunities in Nigeria was struggling to get a Paypal because without a PayPal you couldn't get paid in most online opportunities. Then, Payoneer came and many of us heaved a sigh of relief. I still use Payoneer.
But, I'm wondering is there anything better than Payoneer now? Please share the one you use. Thanks in advance.
Nlfpmod please, help to amplify this hopefully helpful thread.
Romance › Re: Let Rub Minds Together by Ynix(m): 11:00pm On Jan 01, 2024
