I made it out of 2023. It can only be God. Thank you families and well wishers you re all part of my success...

On behalf of real and valued men, we say NO to this offer with all due respect.

Mkelv0106:
Had a friend that always do this, man no get shame. I just couldn't bring myself to do this.

na play you dey hungry never wire you first

Sure say you never knack inside... because some girls got evil in them...

That's why you shouldn't do drugs...

Honestly, this is a caring father that has the interest of his son at heart and also knows how manipulative our Nigerian woman can be. If you ask me if the woman is sure of herself she will do this without hesitation and also ask the husband to be to do the same. If you know the number of dudes (mostly, rich dudes) that has suffered from the hands of Nigerian women( the gold diggers ones ooo) you will know why the dude's dad is insisting on this and probably the dad also is a player and knows what he has seen in the hands of this women. My guy pls listen to your dad because na him dey this hell of country so him eyez don see things wey you no see for the last decade of your life.

Honestly it's immaturity & insane to blame the husband for your adulterous life under the guise of him not taking care of his responsibilities. What happens with wife being helping mate to the man. So she gat nothing to offer or no means to help except using her over used pussy to assist. The herbalist self got what he deserved, a woman with after 4 children wetin you want gbench for there again. Na wa these luciferian therapist are so unstable and unpredicted. 😜

It's not wrong but she will never tell you the truth...

Any woman that can't take you in your worse moment never deserves you in your best moment. Hope you re still a young man & with plans pls focus on it & let her be. Build yourself & concentrate on yourself now the only person that should bother you is your daughter because your wife is gone alrdy never accept her back even if she comes back but learn from your mistakes. God will see you thru...

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

Here is the difference btw a man & a woman, even if the divorce is coming from the man he won't put the woman thru all the aforementioned, he may just want her out of his life and still does his responsibilities & will still allow the wife access to the kids but even if she has some bad characters but when a woman files for a divorce you will hear hell of a thing coming from her about the man, she will want to wreck the man down & make sure she turns him miserable where the matter go worse Na if she come get better Gbola wey pass the man own I sorry for the man. I wish the man quick recovery sha because he is in for rough ride.

Righteousness2:
Lies from the deep pit of Hell.
God's institution of Marriage is very much alive.
What is dead is humans who have decided to turn their backs to God's will, God's ways, laws and commandments.
When you turn your back on God you open yourself to all sorts of things

that's why he didn't say God,he said women, God gave every human the ability to make decisions on their own as it affects human but this women have now decided to turn it into a business because na only them b capitalists. He won't be the only human man to defeat a woman in this world so you guys should pls start dealing with it because it has come to stay. Hakimi our Hero & saviour..😜😜

Mkelv0106:
No insult, but who is your father next of kin, is it his wife or his mother?
Some wife are good some are devil incarnate, if your wife is the former, you life will be a blessing, if it's the later, then you feel as if you're the most unlucky man on health.
If you don't trust your wife to be your next of kin, use your child.

I have seen a woman killed her husband upon realising that the son was the next of kin & left with the kids to flex the wealth with another man. Fear the Luciferian therapists

FuckDModz:


Typical Nigerian terrorist mentality.

So because you have a gun, you think a woman should be scared of you?

Omo, women that date these rodents in uniform are either rejected ugly women or public toilets looking for a retirement home.

so because they re soldiers you think they re rodents well some of them are more intelligent & ever better man than you will ever become. Go to the barracks & see the most beautiful women trooping in to collect Glories, even your serious girlfriend or wife. Women re just women & you can't just justify their actions even them too can't justify their own actions. Stop being myopic & egocentric here like you re a better man. It's just a means to an ends & they put in alot not for themselves but for gays like you dumb ass.

Ofemmanu1:


All those shitt creams and oils won't work.

The best is to get to the root of the pimples first,

Now listen good, those acne on your face is caused by germs, dirt or fungi.

Those causative agent gets to you face through dirty pillows, beddings, incessant touching with your hands and poor hygiene.

Solution;
1. Get rid of those dirty bed sheets/pillows cases, get some new bed stuffs.

2. Don't share pillow with someone else most esp women.
Their makeups and oils are bad for your face.

3. Observe proper hygiene by bathing with hot water.

4. Avoid touching your face unnecessarily.

If you can do these things, you'll be a fresh boyy and if not, Craw-craw and othe bad skin disease are on the way.

in addition, get a hand towel, always keep it clean and damp to clean your face always except when sleeping, keep the face clean and dry always to avoid dirt because it's the dirt that causes the pimples and acne...

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UBA

Your opinion thou! Didn't see any proof to back that up. Nice write up sha. Some truth.

Force or cajole her into marrying you at your own detriment. leave her jor and thank her later.

Heavensent01:
inec doesn't have the power to stop announcement of Result being certified by the state returning officers, agent in various parties should have fought for any Questioning figures



whether you think the election is rigged or not, once inec chairman received all the states election result and make announcements then you can go to court for redress with a pictorial evidence that the election was rigged, it's then you've the opportunity to win if it was rigged


any igbo that caused havoc in my area won't go unpunished

oga don't talk as if you are from 19th century. Talk because you have passion and love for your country and stop forming James Bond because if e start maybe na you go first collect...

Women and their irrational confused emotions. I dont blame her Gbola is at work.

They play ooo

Nextlife1:
All I needed is kind advise I believe we still have good people here on nairaland
Am so confused now.
I have told her about it she is still writing her final year exam I don't want her to fail exam because of this problem reason am keeping it to myself for now.

there is no better time to tell her than now. When she was fucking another man she never considered you so why consider her. That woman is no longer your wife but a public hole. Believe when a supposed wife starts fucking out she's already gone. So put your self together, let her know & see her reaction, I bet she won't be remorseful & she will blame you for it with pride self. Send the woman out already because she has just been using you.

Wetin I dey go school for if not to make money. Even Primary School I go do am...

Wow this is awesome! a Brig Gen (Baby General) in the US Army. A big Congratulations to her.

OP is a potential cheat yet to explore because you didn't just lost appetite for sex you lost it for your hubby. Believe It if you ain't cheating now, u will do it with a random guy that shows interest then you will know you are still a sex freak. When sexual attraction starts dying in a marriage, that marriage is just at the mercy of God. My advice to op pls look for a solution within ur marriage not outside because once you allow another man u find the slightest attraction with into you that fire will start burning & believe me you are gone. only God will help you.

But these women of this days are jst smtin else.

Trust a woman like that at your own peril

Very true my Guy, it is foolishness for a man to think that women think the way men think, If a woman cheats on her man, the man is likely to leave without thinking twice, but when a man cheats on his woman reverse is the case, the woman will even beg you to remain in her live and will even check herself why you cheated and blame herself for cheating on her.

very true but not to all women and here is the difference btw an OBEDIENT woman & a SUBMISSIVE woman. an Obedient woman will love and respect you because of the financial gains & when she tells you she loves you she does that out of hunger, she loves you for the provisions and gift and not you, she tolerates all your excesses and never really loves you for who you are but what you give her (Financial gains & gifts) and as long as it keeps coming from you she will stay & tolerate you. But when a Submissive woman tells you she loves you, she actually does and its coming out from her heart not from an empty stomach, she will love and respect you not for what u gave her or what u intend to but she loves you for you. An Obedient woman is a potential bitch because when your resources finish she is gone 2 the next available provider but a Submissive woman is a potential wife and a resourceful woman. without you she is incomplete and jst want YOU in her life. that kind love na final. if na me my wife starts misbehaving because she don dey get money pass me i go leave her & go tell God thank you because e don open ur eyes to all her fallacies. I av dated broke ladies & also rich ladies, this broke ladies aint loyal at all & the rich ones are afraid that you are after for their money vice versa .Experience is the best teacher.

saphiere:
Finally a Nigerian man has made sense. I don't support infidelity though men should stop with the DNA nonsense.
Before you do DNA, consider the emotional state of the child.

Another Simp, Stop encouraging some promiscuous bitch out there who can't stick to one dick, we still have some true women that won't cheat on there husband for anything. It is the attitude and ways of the woman that will make a man opt for a DNA test

My brother if you keep something like this from your brother honestly, you don't love him and u don't love yourself because that woman isn't your brother's wife neither is she your in-law again. Imagine bring another man to her matrimonial home, imagine how they must have been nacking before now to the point she has the mind of bring the He-goat into her lost home. Bros if you av not told your brother already you are making a grievous mistake because that Bitch will kill your brother when she is ready as a matter of urgency na God want use you save your brother. If you are thinking that you are destroying the marriage my brother there is no marriage again because the Bitch ain't loyal no more & when a wife isn't loyal no more to you then you death is inevitable in her hands. Keep this from your brother at your own peril. My Opinion ooo. . Imagine the set of bitches we have as woman this days no one can even condemn the act instead they are blaming the brother for visiting his own brother house unannounced just to watch a cheating bitch riding a cock in her husband house chai we are doomed in the hands of this females

My brother if you love your life and that of your brother please tell him without thinking twice. I wonder the breed of bitches we have this days, not a single woman condemn the act instead blaming the bro for going to his own brother's house to meet the unfaithful bitch riding another dick in her matrimonial home damn, dat bitch can kill your brother when she is fucking done with him. You are not destroying your brother's home you are saving it from vultures that calls themselves wives. That's the worst thing a woman can do to a man not to call a wife because she just an olosho in marriage. My mind ooo

Well is almost impossible to get back to normal, if it's the man the possibility of the relationship/marriage to stil be normal is 50/50 but if its the woman my guy the chances are 10\100 because women don't just cheat with their body they cheat with their Hrt and once they start they don't think of the repercussions or how u feel again but a man can sleep with a 100 woman and stil don't love dem in his Hrt but once a woman/ bitch Cheats in a marriage|relationship my guy just forget it she is already gone even if u forgive her

Never trust & forgive a cheating bitch. Forsake the advice at your own peril