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OP is a potential cheat yet to explore because you didn't just lost appetite for sex you lost it for your hubby. Believe It if you ain't cheating now, u will do it with a random guy that shows interest then you will know you are still a sex freak. When sexual attraction starts dying in a marriage, that marriage is just at the mercy of God. My advice to op pls look for a solution within ur marriage not outside because once you allow another man u find the slightest attraction with into you that fire will start burning & believe me you are gone. only God will help you.

But these women of this days are jst smtin else.

Trust a woman like that at your own peril

Very true my Guy, it is foolishness for a man to think that women think the way men think, If a woman cheats on her man, the man is likely to leave without thinking twice, but when a man cheats on his woman reverse is the case, the woman will even beg you to remain in her live and will even check herself why you cheated and blame herself for cheating on her.

very true but not to all women and here is the difference btw an OBEDIENT woman & a SUBMISSIVE woman. an Obedient woman will love and respect you because of the financial gains & when she tells you she loves you she does that out of hunger, she loves you for the provisions and gift and not you, she tolerates all your excesses and never really loves you for who you are but what you give her (Financial gains & gifts) and as long as it keeps coming from you she will stay & tolerate you. But when a Submissive woman tells you she loves you, she actually does and its coming out from her heart not from an empty stomach, she will love and respect you not for what u gave her or what u intend to but she loves you for you. An Obedient woman is a potential bitch because when your resources finish she is gone 2 the next available provider but a Submissive woman is a potential wife and a resourceful woman. without you she is incomplete and jst want YOU in her life. that kind love na final. if na me my wife starts misbehaving because she don dey get money pass me i go leave her & go tell God thank you because e don open ur eyes to all her fallacies. I av dated broke ladies & also rich ladies, this broke ladies aint loyal at all & the rich ones are afraid that you are after for their money vice versa .Experience is the best teacher.

saphiere:
Finally a Nigerian man has made sense. I don't support infidelity though men should stop with the DNA nonsense.
Before you do DNA, consider the emotional state of the child.

Another Simp, Stop encouraging some promiscuous bitch out there who can't stick to one dick, we still have some true women that won't cheat on there husband for anything. It is the attitude and ways of the woman that will make a man opt for a DNA test

My brother if you keep something like this from your brother honestly, you don't love him and u don't love yourself because that woman isn't your brother's wife neither is she your in-law again. Imagine bring another man to her matrimonial home, imagine how they must have been nacking before now to the point she has the mind of bring the He-goat into her lost home. Bros if you av not told your brother already you are making a grievous mistake because that Bitch will kill your brother when she is ready as a matter of urgency na God want use you save your brother. If you are thinking that you are destroying the marriage my brother there is no marriage again because the Bitch ain't loyal no more & when a wife isn't loyal no more to you then you death is inevitable in her hands. Keep this from your brother at your own peril. My Opinion ooo. . Imagine the set of bitches we have as woman this days no one can even condemn the act instead they are blaming the brother for visiting his own brother house unannounced just to watch a cheating bitch riding a cock in her husband house chai we are doomed in the hands of this females

My brother if you love your life and that of your brother please tell him without thinking twice. I wonder the breed of bitches we have this days, not a single woman condemn the act instead blaming the bro for going to his own brother's house to meet the unfaithful bitch riding another dick in her matrimonial home damn, dat bitch can kill your brother when she is fucking done with him. You are not destroying your brother's home you are saving it from vultures that calls themselves wives. That's the worst thing a woman can do to a man not to call a wife because she just an olosho in marriage. My mind ooo

Well is almost impossible to get back to normal, if it's the man the possibility of the relationship/marriage to stil be normal is 50/50 but if its the woman my guy the chances are 10\100 because women don't just cheat with their body they cheat with their Hrt and once they start they don't think of the repercussions or how u feel again but a man can sleep with a 100 woman and stil don't love dem in his Hrt but once a woman/ bitch Cheats in a marriage|relationship my guy just forget it she is already gone even if u forgive her

Never trust & forgive a cheating bitch. Forsake the advice at your own peril

As in this one pass see finish, i cant imagin myself being accomadated by a woman in the first place, you are doomed as a man because this female folks don't have no joy but if reverse was this case we won't hear this manipulative genda coming here to rant as if she has not given the weaklin enough attitude to Read the handwriting on the wall

This one don mad ooo, so because you marry nonvirgins all of us must Marr nonvirgins abi? So the ones weyb virgins who go come marry them? Oga abeg pack well make I hear better thin

Not surprise it is happening there, those people are full of doings.

This is probably the most deadly advice I have ever heard in my life. Follow it at your own peril.

This is probably the most deadly advice I have ever heard in my life. Follow it at your own peril.

Divorce that Bitch while you can otherwise when you are super rich tomorrow she will kill you and lavish YOuR wealth with another man. A good wife is suppose to support at the time of trials. Forget what people will say after that you will be happy.

Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.

Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.

I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.

Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.

There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.

In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.

Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.

The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.

Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.

Dis guy is so sick because he just ended up saying rubbbish

OP am sure you know better because you knw her better than anybody here. I am opine to say that some women are destiny killers believe it or not those kind of women even though you give them money wey full river them go stil waste am and no go do anytin reasonable with am. Some women are not meant to be married even if you give them Jesus as husband they will still not be okay. my bro please try not to kill yourself with your hand ooo. use your head wey God give you because once you die she go follow another man even before them bury you

this idiot has already been cursed from birth imagine the mind to kill your own mother chai this world is becoming something else

OP Your case is not different from what is trending now, this folks are bent on telling us that it is no longer for better for worse again. As a man honestly with the economic situation you have to be up and doing in every aspect of your life, OP please put yourself together i cant say we feel your pain but i understand how you feel because i have been down there before. You need to be stronger than the way you were before. this is an opportunity for you to be of your best. Forget about ur wife for now, if she truly loves you it is now she was suppose to show you better. please be strong for your children, be a better father, forget about anytin women for now because Nigerian Women has lost their value. if you know what so many men are passing through in marriage because of this folks honestly you will prefer to be without her for now, dont forget about those kids with her also they are also your kids. please be a man that you are and if you are a nice man please dont change your nature because she is not worth your happiness.

Honestly this thing baffles me. you dont want sex but you can suck my dick like a fucking porn star. i met a bitch last two weeks mehn she gave me a Mouth Action i have never had in my entire life but that she doesnt want sex and i begin to wonder what tha Bleep are you saying you just milked my dick and you said i cant Bleep you. are you for real. trust me i still bleeped her and her moaning made my neighbour to come and knock my door to ask if we still made it out

with the rate of house wives cheating and some of them if you see the person they are cheating with sef he no even reach their husband for house. i have come to the conclusion that some women are not meant to be married even if they are married to Jesus, they will still misbehave.

I pity who no fear woman. this species are turning the table. as for me i have two kids a boy and a girl from my ex and i dont think i can settle with any of this folks again as a wife but if na nacking that one na steady something becos dis folks even like am pass us believe me.

this days women are leading are tends to always be ahead.

Op is among those ladies that married their husband because other people are getting married not because she loves the man. If you love your husband and he misbehaved or you assumed he is cheating on you the first thing you will do if you truly love him is to confront him and find out why he is doing it. Although some men dont have any reason to cheat they just cheat without emotions. Men can cheat with a lady without having any strong emotional feelings for her but when a woman cheats on her husband be rest assured she is no longer in love with the husband. I wonder why some people marry for the wrong reason. if you know you dont truly love your intended spouse please do not commit because you will only ruined yourself eventually. Madam you may think you have not cheated on your husband but you have already do just that you have not been laid yet, you are sharing your emotions with somebody else. you are also cheating on your your husband wether you agree or not. My advice for you is that if you know you ever loved your husband please confront him and be sure then hear him out am sure if he also loves you and he is aware that you are aware he is cheating see his reaction and you will see how sorry he will be and probably desist from it because he may not want to loose his family. That is if the both of you ever loved each other enough

See meat done set oooo

this is the most irritating and annoying news i have heard in a long time, i wonder how person dick go stand for him own mama or how the mamma pussy go wet for her own son . infact the two of them need to undergo psychological evaluation because this is the height of immorality.

thats a very nice piece of work. this thing should be worth a fortune

when a man you claim loves you starts telling you He needs space my dear, He is being idiomatic with you and doesnt want to come out plane so He doensnt Hurt your feelings, probably He has realised that you love him thats why he is giving you a soft landing, my dear if you have invested in that relationship pls just forget it and move on because a man who trull loves you will never tell you to give him space especially when you have been dating for a while and same with a woman. my advice to you is that gather your life together and move on straight away, trust me if He trully loves you He will come around.

A big congratulation to them
But if you want to be an enemy to that family and you want am appointment to God just mention DNA test and see yourself having your appointment with God

That girl is just a coming up lesbian with time am sure she will show her true self... I can see the traits

What the Bleep am i doing with 10k job or 15k Job is that for the weekend or for my sub.
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Never ever fall in love dont say i didnt warn you