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bhusayor:
^^^^^ he already told us what he would do,you even quoted it, so wat else do you want to hear You want him to tell you he would have hit her?

read carefully i mentioned specific things in order to make him think further meaning i want him to respond according to the specific things i mentioned

and besides i condone hitting and i said it before my thoughts

justwise:

do you agree or not

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=606085.msg7743540#msg7743540 date=1297886606]OP.
Candid speaking,The husband acted so wrongly,He could have held his temper atleast till they get home which i'm sure by then he would be cool and wouldn't bother to do what he did . . .How would you brutalize your wife cause some1 ''her malefriend'' hit her buttocks while joking . . . . .EXtra jealousy!!!hmmm
I think i wouldn't act in a such way . , I'm better off the joke, so i would take it easy . . , But would definitely feel strange and jealous. [/quote]yes the hitting was wrong but what would you think if your wife work mates hit her bum out in the open ?  what happens behind closed door? what of those hours she comes late from work, will she be really working or smacking each others bum in office in wils sex

all those are questions which pops up in your mind

ZIM DRILL:
though am not in support of hitting each other my question is on the WHAT MAKES YOU A MAN

what is a man ?

but do you know that, its your own value/principle that you are imposing on another man

justwise:
You shouldn't have hit her back, holding back is what makes u a man, hitting her back makes u a weaker person.

though am not in support of hitting each other my question is on the WHAT MAKES YOU A MAN

what is a man ?

kokoye:
^^^^

Females always choose the perfect time to call themsleves the weaker sex.

Of course.

you can say that again

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]This got me crackin

Mr but what the hell did u think u were doin?u slapped her back?when u were talking i think say u go make sense small like maybe give her a silence treatment or something, not turn around & slap her like a biatch!what did u gain from that?did that make u feel any better of a man?or did it change the fact that she had already slapped u?man u na life don scatter 4 real!

U should be beaten till u vommit the fat your body consists Off![/color]

the same should be asked to the lady

lets not be blind fold by gender

enamaye:
all guruslodger pls come to my aid . I know here is nt d right tread, but dis is were ppl dominat,if i wan play music on my laptop it says media cant play d file becos there is problem wit your sound device .there may be no sound device installed in your computer.help me @all pls

go to device manager and see if the drivers look OK if not install the lasted driver according to your OS

donkennyakademy:
their is this girl am dating for close a year now. We have been faithful to each other since we got to know each other. And also we both have profess love to each other and even her parent knew me. One silly thing that she did that really annoy me is that i ask her for we to make love on the day of val she refused . my greatest annoyance is that all the time we have been together i haven't request that from her  then why is it on the day of love celebration that she has to turn me down. Please what do you people say on this.

you really have to ask?

you create the an atmosphere that leading to touching then sex

Omolola1:
@Zim, that is what makes you a man

why are you avoiding the question

i never said it makes me a man or it makes one a man i asked a simple question

Omolola1:
I still insist that a man shouldn't hit a woman, no matter the circumstance

what about woman who hit man ?

remember who reports first always make his/her side better, so may be she never mentioned that she hit you first

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741831#msg7741831 date=1297870098]If I am a fool then you are a dumb arse. Why the bleep would I reason with a dumb arse? Go wash some clothes.[/quote]yes i am for the mean time becoz am trying to reason with a fool

ebila:
It's his business,but with his wife.Yeah,he should have stayed out of it till he gets home.His actions are not justifiable,so also hers.

dont waste much time on mrs chima

never reason much with a fool s/he will twist you along the way the fool will win through experience

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741607#msg7741607 date=1297868543]The only CRIME THE WOMAN DID WAS laughed and chased the guy around. What else she could have done? Beat the guy? What was already done was done. The woman can undo a tap on the arse neither the husband can undo the BLUEBERRY MUFFIN makeover he gave his wife.

That is bleeping crazy. You would beat the woman because she laughed BUT WON'T SAY poo TO THE MAN? THAT SOME BULLSHIT AND YOU MOFOS KNOW IT.[/quote]do your male friends tap your ar.se ?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741509#msg7741509 date=1297867762]What I AM SAYING ONLY IN AFRICA and other countries, a man can beat a woman and get away with it.

In America, if a man saw his wife getting her arse tapped by another man and he beat her up. HE IS GOING TO JAIL/getting killed/burn up. There wouldn't even be a discussion.[/quote]and only a loose woman would let her boss get away with sexual harrasment

bug24:
i met dis babe on blackberry less than one week now, she's the wild type. but seem to have some brains in her head and me, i wanted her as a good friend but now she's breaking my first policy, DONT EVER ask a guy for money when you just met.

this babe is already asking me for 3k to renew her BIS when we havnt even met face to face, u guyz knw wot i think? i think she wants to add me to her list of Alhajis.

do i help d poor bitc-hy gurl?

tell her that its her own idea to renew so she must have her own to renew that using people to renew it for her

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741384#msg7741384 date=1297866945]There is no need for you to get upset WOMAN BEATER. You better hope you don't marry the wrong woman if YOU ARE NOT MARRIED. You need to get you a man then if you thinking that WOMEN CAN CONTROL actions of other men. As I stated BEFORE if she continue to allow the guy to tap her on the arse SHE IS WRONG BUT YOUR ARSE IS TOO BUSY BEING UPSET that you didn't even see that.

As usual ALL THE WOMEN BEATERS reporting for duty. Come one and come all.[/quote]WIFE BEATER ? did my wife came to you telling you that i beat her up ?

you got no facts to support your reasoning dear

UPSET ? nope dear my reasoning goes beyond yours then you think am UPSET


read again i aint in support of the husband in beating her thats one of the reason i said BOTH ARE WRONG

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741359#msg7741359 date=1297866713]I do apologize because I forgot THE WOMAN IS IN AFRICA.  Enough said.  

Men will fight women and beat women BUT DARE CHALLENGE ANOTHER MAN even if he is the instigator.  

Please take back all my comments MINUS THE ONE AFRICAN THAT IS SUFFERING FROM ADHD and need RITALIN bad!  

I totally forgot THE WOMAN WAS IN AFRICA.[/quote]there is no reason for him to take it to the man who tapped the ar.se why becoz his wife didnt not complain roughly meaning she liked it

if she had complained then to her husband, then the husband would have stepped in to defend his woman

and also he is married to her so the  first step is to talk to her, may be she doesnt see the harm in it but her husband is hurt so the husband needs to talk to her and tell her how hurt he is

mairodi:
hi Zim Drill
Nice to hear from another Zimbo on Nairaland. How do you do kinsman? Are you in the Diaspora or are you in Zim like me

i dont know him/her

am in europe

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741288#msg7741288 date=1297866266]LIKE I SAID STAY FOCUS.  Ritalin is necessary.[/quote]you cant reason dear period

i rest my case

those who reason will see my point of view

no men in the world would love a woman who let her bum tapped by any nigga besides him whether its her boss or whatever

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741240#msg7741240 date=1297865927]Again EINSTEIN, WHERE DID I SAY THE GUY SHOULD GET AWAY WITH IT?  If you actually read THE ORIGINAL POST, the woman laughed and chased the guy around.  My explanation for that ACTION was she MAY HAVE NOT WANT TO MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT.  

The woman and the guy is TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE.  Please stay focus.[/quote]i asked explain the meaning of this may be i got it wrong

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741075#msg7741075 date=1297864279]The man could have been her supervisor or the owner of the business where she work.  She didn't want to make a big deal out of it because she knew the person and if she felt it was out of turn she would have simply told the guy not to do it.[/quote]so its no deal becoz may be the guy is her supervisior or the owner of the business? and you mean it doesnt matter as long the she knows the person even when it is not her hubby?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741203#msg7741203 date=1297865573]Both is not wrong.  Stop thinking like a man who manliness is caught up in a blender and see the poo for what it is.  The woman's arse was tapped by her friend and if she asked the guy to do that then she is wrong.  You can't control other people's actions but you can control what they do after the action.  You either tell them they are wrong or you move on.  

In your THWARTED MIND, the woman was wrong because the GUY TAPPED HER ON THE ARSE like her arse said TAP ME!  There is nothing feminist about the statement and get over the fact that NOT ALL WOMEN you meet will put up with the bullshit.  

Since you want to flip scripts and poo, let me flip this for ya! May your wife or future wife BURN YOUR ARSE for looking at another woman. Since we being illogical and poo.[/quote]like i said dont let the feminism blind you

the guy tapped meaning it aint the first time to do it, yes you can control someone if s/he doesnt something that offends you, you tell them not to ever doing it again thats how you control them

if it was the guy's first time am sure the lady would have shown signs of not liking it and the hubby would have picked that

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741176#msg7741176 date=1297865405]Where did I saY the GUY SHOULD GET AWAY WITH IT?  Please stop adding poo and it is not cool.  Now you want to change the situations, the THREAD IS ABOUT A MAN TAPPING A MARRIED WOMAN ON THE ARSE and now you shifted to a husband rubbing his cock on a woman.  BUT I AM THE CRAZY ONE, WHAT THE bleep.

Do you have ADHD?  SERIOUSLY.[/quote]adding ?

ok explain this


[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741075#msg7741075 date=1297864279]The man could have been her supervisor or the owner of the business where she work.  She didn't want to make a big deal out of it because she knew the person and if she felt it was out of turn she would have simply told the guy not to do it.[/quote]

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741137#msg7741137 date=1297864971]See that poo you just said is ILLOGICAL. How the BEE as you called her WOULD KNOW HER FRIEND IS GOING TO HIT HER? Come on! You is not dense as you look.[/quote]your reasoning sometimes surprise though i have used the word B.ITCH  it doesnt change the point in my statement

reason!!!!! is ok for your mums male friends to hit her bum in front and not in front of your father

dont let your feminism blind you dear


BOTH ARE WRONG

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741075#msg7741075 date=1297864279]He should have TAP THE MAN that tapped his wife.  The man could have been her supervisor or the owner of the business where she work.  She didn't want to make a big deal out of it because she knew the person and if she felt it was out of turn she would have simply told the guy not to do it.[/quote]you are crazy

so the guy should get away with it becoz he is her boss? would you love it if your hubby is rubbed his cock by his female work mates or boss

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741075#msg7741075 date=1297864279]The husband is wrong period.  The wife did not TAP THE MAN's buttocks, the MAN tap the woman's buttocks.  

The dumb arse man was sitting in his car the entire time LOOKING AT THE ENTIRE SITUATION.  He should have TAP THE MAN that tapped his wife.  The man could have been her supervisor or the owner of the business where she work.  She didn't want to make a big deal out of it because she knew the person because if she felt it was out of turn she would have simply told the guy not to do it.  

I can see why the guy was upset but TO BEAT HER TO THE POINT where she have to go back to work LOOKING LIKE A BLUEBERRY MUFFIN?  Seriously. Men can be so illogical retarrded sometimes!.[/quote]both are wrong the husband shouldnt have beat the bi.tch and the b.itch has no morals that her friends smack her bums

it seem like some nigerian substute GIST for TALK

i.e LET US GIST which i think he meant to say lets us TALK the main points

as far as i know GIST is the main point or focus point in a message

check this

Hey guyz today is valentine eve, as we all know, 2morrow would be a working day, and majority of us would make maximum use of today(sunday) to share love, time and gifts with our loved one's, This thread is specially opened for us to jist about our experiences either good, bad or worse,

Were u slapped, Kissed, beaten, Deceived, Robbed, Made love, Snatched your friend Gf, Cheated, Whatever the case maybe. Just Gist us, Lets av fun guuuuuuyzzzzzz

mairodi:
hello people! The way you find my saying "pregnant from" as wrong is the same way I find the saying "pregnant for" equally strange. I think u can agree with me that saying something a certain way all your life does not make it correct. Its just that its the way you know it, and if you hear it said differently, it sounds wrong. I am refering to all of us. I am not saying either of us is right. I was surprised to see people saying I am wrong. Anyway, can anyone else give us their input ( Not Naija's or Zimbos because it will be a long debate). Thanks

it is common among nigerians i think they would be trying to tell who is responsible though i think they try to say to much when not asked

Demdem:
nop, he didnt marry a virgin. she wasnt a virgin when they got married. simple.

yes but she never slept with anyone besides him so he wont bother about the virginity thing

Omolola1:
@Zim! are u sure about that? and u wuld be able to take her out to social gatherings?

yes

remember you are the one who looks or sound smart so you wouldnt take her to a gathering that might embrass her

and also very few people are born into richess and class, they get rich and classy through learning the ropes of life so am sure one can be and so she can be