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salinson:
The engineer in the house kindly help with networking
i want 2 network 2 laptop through wire {cable} and now the 2 system can see each other but t the other one cannot browse the internet through the other one.
i conf the lan manually pls kindly help
thanks

you have to allow the other one to let other computers to connet to the internet through it

manny4life:
My computer takes about 3mins to boot back up though I have cleaned out all the files, arrange them in folders and sub-folders and compressed them, removed unused programs, have up to date software virus, limited the amount of startup programs during boot, and I still have about 60% memory left on my computer but for some odd reason, I expect it to boot in less than a minute, but it takes about 3mins or more. What do I do? My operating system is Vista on a Dell Inspiron laptop and have had it since 2008, it turned 3 years in January. Anyone have any idea what's going on with it? I was advised by the Geek Squad to replace another one, but that's a hell to the NO, I have really important software and platforms for work installed on my computer that I'm not willing to give up. I wanted to know if anyone could help me

first thing check what is in start up folder i,e programs that starts once you switch on the pc any program in that START UP may slow down your pc becoz they start to run once you which on your pc, secondly do a DISK DEFRAG it arranges the files for faster access

tunddy:
Pls, I've complained about this before, i have a problem with my wireless on my laptop (hp compaq nc6220), and i don't think is the driver because it's drives, since when i formatted it to window 7 the wireless doesn't work again, so i thought it was the operating system that caused it, when i formatted back to window xp it gives me the same problem, pls someone should help me out.

in formatting you sometimes loose drivers, thats the case in your pc

download the drivers for the OS you have

mutter:
What better way to learn, than from copying
You have said it all.
A child between 0-4 learns from copying.
Besides later these children grow up.
Toddlers they remain for just a twinkle of an eye.

there is a difference between copying and learning

mutter:
Sorry siblings are involved as well.
Anyone who has more than one kid, knows that the younger ones learn so much from the older ones.
Where there are two or more kids together, they learn to share the even learn how to have disagreements and make compromises. This is something that parents cannot teach.
This has to be learnt amongst peers.
The older ones learn to take responsibility for the younger ones and the younger ones have someone to look up to who understands them sometimes better than the parents do.
Children understand certain things better than adults do.
Children also can open the parents eyes to something they overlooked in the another child.
I had a son that was being mobbed in his new school. Because he is not so outspoken, he could not express to me the gravity. Thank God I had two other kids in the school already, they were able to let me see exactly what was going on.

i disagree on most points kids learn from parents period thats the reason a child cant look after another child  a child can copy from another child who was taught there for it looks like s/he learnt from the other kid but s/he only copied for that moment what s/he was taught, if a parent is not there the child wont learn anything

NB am talking of age between 0 months to 4 years  am talking of the very early years up to 4 years i.e toddlers

mutter:
I guess you know that one of the major problem of the youths today is that more and more homes are relying on the schools and other structures to raise their kids.
Raising a kid and teaching social skills is one of the fundamental functions of the family.

your contraditing your self

yes it the family that teach social skills but family doesnt mean mum, dad and others kids but it starts from mum and daddy only

remember parents are the one who teach us social skills etc

mutter:
There are advantages and disadvantages of growing up as an only child.
The advantage of being an only child, is that one can invest everything one has in one child. In this case this does not apply because there is more than one child. In fact it could even get more expensive because it`s like starting everything twice all over again.
The other advantage is that one has more time for one child. This does not apply because here there is more than one kid. Whoever thinks that children are more work, when they are younger, does not really know what comes along with children.
Small children, small problems. Big children, big problems.
I have smaller kid`s and I can tell you they do not occupy me as much as the big ones. Compare changing diapers , with problems like bad grades or kids getting into bad company.
When there is more than one child and the age gap is not so big, they keep each other company and learn from one another. Nothing like having a big brother or sister in the same school.
Apart from that, such children have better social competencies. The learn to share and relate better.
With one child it is difficult to be firm sometimes while when you have more than one you find it easier to say no and stick to it.

cant the kids learn that from school ? and other gathering i.e visiting relatives or even playing with other kids after school etc

tpiah!:
quite true.

is it a disadvantage ? is there any disadvantage to grow up as the only child

mutter:
ZIM DRILL, what I meant is that when the gap is too big, each kid grows up like an only child.

i think thats good the child will have all the attention and also it give mum time to be free i.e not alwayys busy with kids or life always around kids

i think most people are confused

a pastor is someone who leads a church or parish he is employed by the church and the church pays him/her

so the question is, do churches pay TAX if they do then a pastor salary can be TAXED

NAJALYN:
@Poster if I get you clearly you are saying that couples should space out having kids reasonably so it does not disturb them. I agree with you. But again some couples like making it quick so they can get it over with & relax, & then concentrate on raising them. Even so I say 2 years in between is alright.

YES that what am saying

but i dont get it though imagine there are 3, one 3 one 2 and the new one  all they need full care and add the years you need to nurse them out the crutual years and there are 3 imagine one still needs poo training or assistance to feed and the baby needs you all the time

my theory have one, take care of him/her till he is five or six and have another one

eyoiba:
Hello house. Please i need your help and advise. I have a HP Pavillion dv2000 laptop that came with vista but due to the policy of the organisation in which i'm working, i had to remove the vista and install Window XP professional in order for it to work on my organisation's network as that is the permitted OS. The problem now is that i can't find the driver for the Audio, Wireless and Bluetooth also my mouse works irrationally and very sluggish. I've gone to the HP website but was not able to get installable drivers. Please what can i do next or any body that has any of these drivers should please help out. Thanks.

all the XP drivers though for a hp pavillion 2015ea

www1.hp.com/ewfrf/wc/softwareCategory?os=228&lc=en&cc=uk&dlc=en&sw_lang=&product=3216117">http://h10025.www1.hp.com/ewfrf/wc/softwareCategory?os=228&lc=en&cc=uk&dlc=en&sw_lang=&product=3216117

amosfunmi:
Please help me, anytime I want to start my computer, it will give a message insert smart card and the screen will not come up.
Now it has become worse, its not booting at all but the stand by will on and the screen will never come up to boot.
amosfunmi2010@hotmail.com

since you said it nolonger boot what happens when you press the power button ? does it stay dead of the fan and HDD kicks but then it wont boot?

no need to be banned all you need is not to believe in it and you are done

so many million dont believe in christanity/islam etc its the same with valentine

mutter:
a two to three years gap is ideal. what would you think is right. Having kids with too long a gap in between is almost like raising two single children

i dont get that part

4 and 5 is good for me

mutter:
a two to three years gap is ideal. what would you think is right. Having kids with too long a gap in between is almost like raising two single children

how is it confusing

spyder880:
I dont think anyone will seriously want to have another child just because you want the older one to have a playmate. You have kids because you need them.

not in that sense but having them to close to each other leaving no room to yourselfs as both or more needs attention eg one is 2 or 3yrs the other one is just a month and above

i was thinking some people have kids one after the other, i mean one this year or two years difference and they say s/he will have someone to play with

my question is, why bring another kids to be a toy to the other one

why have a child if you can not spare time to play with him/her or buy toys for him or her

your solution, to have another child wont be that double trouble the young one still needs attention and you bring out another one

besides you and the wife wont enjoy freelance time i.e they need much attention that you forget about your own needs and free time

whats your say guys

nothing is suprising when parents are black and white

it only confuses when parents are of the same colour, it then needs family history i.e if down the line one has a white/black blood relative

aloy/emeka:
Thursday, February 3, 2011

Should I marry a man who doesn't believe in love?

Another email,

He asked me to marry him after telling me he's never been in love and doesn't plan to ever fall in love because he doesn't believe in the existence of love . He wants to get married because it's time for him to start a family. Should I marry a man who doesn't believe in love? Toks

Let me rephrase that Toks. Should you marry a man who doesn't love you? I wouldn't! But that's me. I'm weird. Let regular folks answer that question for you. Over to you guys, !

http://lindaikeji..com/2011/02/can-i-marry-man-who-doesnt-believe-in.html

you can never plan to fall in love it happens on its own

one can not believe in love but can beloved and shown love and start to believe in love

Equity7:
hello @ all,

i'm working on a system, dell Vostro 1000, the problem i first detected was the board, it would power on but it wouldn't process to display stage, so i worked on the VGA chip integrated on the board after which it started powering and displaying. the problem now is when i tried to set the BIOS to boot from CD first, it refused and always boot from HDD. i removed the HDD and load windows on another lappy but it would still not load when i returned it

this might help

http://support.euro.dell.com/support/edocs/systems/vos1000/en/OM/PDF/WY122A01MR.pdf

mama-gee:
[color=deeppink]Is it okay for a woman to boast about her child being so intelligent, hardworking and courageous to her friend all the time almost acting like her daughter is the best child out there while her friend's daughter should follow in her daughter's footsteps.

Do you think it's okay for a mother to do that or is it just plain rude?[/color]

rude ?

never heard of such

do you mean TOO PROUD/BOASTFUL

they should be a limit becoz the day s/he will embrass you, shame would be on you

samparian:
Mugabe did what was right and taking back their ancestral lands.
The sufferings of his people were caused by the West who imposed sanctions on the people hoping that they would revolt in hunger and anger against Mugabe, but that was not the case.
Do you know that majority of the produce from the land was exported to Europe, leaving the people to starve in the midst of plenty.
how can you farm on my land and refuse to sell food to my people and expect me to keep quiet. Hell NO. i'd run the M++F+CK++S out of town

thats a lie zimbabwe never exported maize to europe

yes zim used to export beef to europe but people never starved because their was no cheap beef


people starved because mugabe government sold maize from national reserves to malawi & zambia

http://allafrica.com/stories/200105240199.html

tpiah*:
can someone educate me on when promiscuity is a bad thing and when it's not.

when you say you no wan do, dem go abuse, say you dey proud.

when you say you wan do, dem go call you ashewo.

its cool on your side if you know that you dont want to be married

bad if you want to be married it might hunt you

scottN:
How would you define the relationship between you and your FATHER'S BROTHER'S WIFE'S NIECE! Is it legal to go out with her and go on to marry her?

you should have started from the other end i.e the niece of your uncle's wife, the uncle being the brother to your father or your mum's brother

tpiah*:
@zim drill

remove your area from the list if respect for elders is not taught where you come from.

please reason hard

everywhere is the world people love respect and want to be respected it got nothing to with being african or unafrican

it is up to individuals and the society there are in

NAJALYN:
I am just wondering if this will help since marriage is a life- long affair. Please your contributions.

yes it is

the problem is people focus on the time itself though some periods are too short

thats sounds as a recipe for disaster

she is from his class, if they go out and he breaks her heart she might mess up his jobs

becoz the guy has chance of meeting new girls and date them while he is still seeing her, she will be disappointed and her as scorned woman before she might take him down

unless the college has immoral people like him that they wont fire him

tpiah*:
why do so many people feel its ok to just start raining curses and insults on others simply because they're not as old as them?

is this a form of madness, or do we blame the visa officer who gave them a visa.


africans who were actually born overseas do not act this way in general, so it's very puzzling when the ones who came from the motherland, display this trait.

and they teach others to do the same.

why call him/.her african when s/he wasnt born in any of the african country ?

there is nothing called unafrican, african has 53 nations meaning we got different cultures among the 53 nations and many within each country

rudenes got nothing do with africanness or the west but it has something to do with individuals