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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by omega25red(m): 2:01pm On Sep 05, 2012
Mrs..Chima:
There are hundreds of men that are old as hell and SINGLE....what are their excuses?

None. So let this sexism shit go!
for real what is the big deal about being unmarried over 30? who says you have to be fulfiled by being married?

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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by dontador(m): 2:07pm On Sep 05, 2012
Mrs..Chima:
There are hundreds of men that are old as hell and SINGLE....what are their excuses?

None. So let this sexism shit go!
But those men still have chances of getting married.... But wen it comes to ladies it ain't the same....

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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Nobody: 2:21pm On Sep 05, 2012
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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by DExplorer1: 2:33pm On Sep 05, 2012
sanb: take it or leave it mehn....i got my post right the 1st time and i repeat myself again you need to be matured and prepared before entering a marriage union otherwise as you rush in you rush out again got it!!!!

Hey lass, don't scream!! Read again
sanb: huh!!!enough of this batching of single ladies in their 30ies NL guys leave them ALONE. there are reasons why some are still in their 30ies and single. marriage is hard work and you have to be matured and prepared to go into it otherwise as you rush into it you rush out as well....

If you didn't get it the "1st time" , your comment means that success in marriage has to do with increase in age since "marriage is hard work and you have to be matured and prepared to go into it" . To you, a 40yrs old single woman will be successful in marriage than a 25yrs old lady? Get your point right young woman.
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Victichyoj(m): 2:44pm On Sep 05, 2012
They are called Ms
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Nobody: 2:45pm On Sep 05, 2012
I JUST DONT GET IT. WOMAN GETS MENOPAUSE AT 45. SHE IS 30. SHE HAS 15 YEARS. 30 IS VERY YOUNG IF SHE STILL LOOKS YOUNG AND TAKES CARE OF HERSELF. HOWEVER IF SHE IS 30 PLUS AND LOOKS 30 PLUS ? WAHALA DEY OOOOOOOOOOO. TOO MANY COMPETITION OUT THERE. THE TRICK IS FOR THE WOMAN TO TAKE CARE OF HER SELF. EAT LOTS OF FRESH FOOD. ABEG STAY AWAY FROM NAIJA FOOD IF YOU WANT TO LOOK YOUNGER THAN 30 OOOOO. EAT FRUITS AND VEGES. NAIJA WOMEN WHO FEAST ON EBA AND AMALA HAVE A TENDENCY OF LOOKING LIKE THE MICHELIN MAN AT 30

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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by musspuss: 2:49pm On Sep 05, 2012
shocked
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Nobody: 2:50pm On Sep 05, 2012
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed grin grin

Late marriage, early marriage - what's the difference We bother ourselves over irrelevant things about what the society thinks and the status quo... Some people are just different and unique in their own ways of doing things - that doesn't mean they messed up their youth... I'd marry a 45 years Stacey Dash, before looking at some of the young chics out there... grin

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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by ArQueBusieR(m): 2:51pm On Sep 05, 2012
190-the-clown:
When d menopause stops flowing then dey would
Know how real age 30 is
Huh?! Are you feeling tipsy?
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by ghetomum: 2:53pm On Sep 05, 2012
let her s[b][/b]each for who she love[/size][size=8pt]
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by ujukala: 2:53pm On Sep 05, 2012
Life goes on..
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Nobody: 2:55pm On Sep 05, 2012
shymexx: lipsrsealed lipsrsealed grin grin

Late marriage, early marriage - what's the difference We bother ourselves over irrelevant things about what the society thinks and the status quo... Some people are just different and unique in their own ways of doing things - that doesn't mean they messed up their youth... I'd marry a 45 years Stacey Dash, before looking at some of the young chics out there... grin
I ENDORSE THIS POST. I WOULD MARRY A HOT 50 YEAR OLD WOMAN SEF. I WOULD MARRY VANESSA WILLIAMS AND SHE IS LIKE 50

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vanessa_L._Williams

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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by septua: 2:56pm On Sep 05, 2012
undecidedHmmmmmmmmmmmm... This goes to show its a mans world after all. Jeeest passing through.
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by DANILSA(m): 2:57pm On Sep 05, 2012
onyefin: Ping me on 2321B9B0
Let's chat because we might...
UTU OKU
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Policewoman(f): 2:57pm On Sep 05, 2012
slimyem: op,you confessed to be female on another thread..and now you acting male?
abeg clear the air!
Are you male or female.??

Maybe s(he) is a haemaphrodite.
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Nobody: 2:58pm On Sep 05, 2012
sanb: huh!!!enough of this batching of single ladies in their 30ies NL guys leave them ALONE. there are reasons why some are still in their 30ies and single. marriage is hard work and you have to be matured and prepared to go into it otherwise as you rush into it you rush out as well....
I tire o! is it their fault that they are still single? Abi na dem go go find life partner? Make una free dem joor!

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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Duxe(f): 2:59pm On Sep 05, 2012
Hehehehehe@comments!

@op..while reading this piece, my mind kept saying, 'get 2 d point' n then,i discovered there is no 'point'. Well done sha,@ least u don enter front page!
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by passionate88: 3:02pm On Sep 05, 2012
Excelboi: Life goes on! After she don use her youth stage form finish
after she don use her youthful age pursue people husband hw the wives prayes and curses no go catch her?.

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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by tucker12(m): 3:02pm On Sep 05, 2012
marvelck: When A Girl Is 30+...and still single. Though she's 30+, she still look young and feel young. And she's less bothered by what people say about her. Since she's comfortable, have a good job, a nice apartment and a fine car to go with it. And she dresses and wear things younger girls wear. Though she feels lonely atimes, especially in the night, but she consoles herself either with her BB + pinging to keep herself company, or by watching romantic movies and cuddling her teddy bears to keep herself warm. she partys alot and hang out with other girls, but it can never be like when u're with ur family (wife, husband and kids). and atimes it's fun when you're single and happy, and not under the 'chain' of any man. but the only 'comma' in all of this, is that each time she wants to hang out with other girls, she realizes that these girls are still in their 20s and she's like a aunty in their midst. since girls her age are already married...married with kids!

Hmmm I recall when a client with his friend came over to my office years back when I was worked in lag. My clients friend later called me aside and said he knew my female colleague. He simply asked is she now married? I said NO and he shaked his head and said he knew her in her youthful days. He just smiled and said nothing more.. Anyway she was around 42 then, still no show now.
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Nobody: 3:09pm On Sep 05, 2012
INFACT GUYS SHOULDNT EVEN MARRY A GIRL THAT IS 26+ COS U SHOULD KNOW THAT SHE WAS TO POMPOUS AND ARROGANT. ABEG, DE FUCCK DE THROW AWAY.

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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by AZeD1(m): 3:11pm On Sep 05, 2012
slimyem: op,you confessed to be female on another thread..and now you acting male?
abeg clear the air!
Are you male or female.??

OP is transgendered
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by demmie1: 3:15pm On Sep 05, 2012
slimyem: op,you confessed to be female on another thread..and now you acting male?
abeg clear the air!
Are you male or female.??

hermaphrodite
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Nobody: 3:18pm On Sep 05, 2012
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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by megxo(m): 3:22pm On Sep 05, 2012
she turns coogar.......... wink
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Nobody: 3:22pm On Sep 05, 2012
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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by Nobody: 3:23pm On Sep 05, 2012
although there is nothing "seemingly" wrong with a 30yr old single woman, the alarm bell will clearly ring in my mind, but that's just me....so here is how i will evaluate such person (this is just MBJ's views, pls dont get offended):

[b]- as much as a +30yr old would "seemingly" look great, we all know that the skin elasticity may have seen its fair share of cream etc, so before settling for such lady, a GOOD LOOK at her without make up is necessary in order to have a clear evaluation of the skin quality/elasticity. a poorly cared-for skin would mean that this gal would quickly look like an old hag, after a few months/yrs (check her mother without make up for CONFIRMATION).

- skin elasticity also means that her tittays would certainly sag quicker than a 20yr old (if they didnt sag already).....so a good look at her nekkid and standing IS A MUST. if her tittays already sag pass the belly button, then you already know what to do. pls dont get fooled by them gals with big tittays firmly locked in push up bras, this is one of the fallacy of the 20th century and just another trick used by our sistas out there, lol!

- if that girl is beautiful, then alarm bells will be ringing even louder, as you most definitely must ask yourself:" what is it about this beautiful gal that drives people away?" YES, there must be something within her that is driving all potential mates away, something so foul that men are willing to disregard her beauty...so thread carefully!

- then the idea of WHY she has never been able to meet the right person must also be considered. as much as many may be unlucky like that, there are equal chances that she may have the wrong attitude, the wrong goals in life, the wrong mindset, the wrong lifestyle, the wrong background/past, TOO DESPERATE etc. again, a thorough check must be done to get to the bottom of it all, and know exactly what it is.

- and then there is the issue of freshness of the toto, yep you heard me right FRESHNESS OF THE TOTO!!!!!
most single women meet about 5 different sex partner a yr (i am being generous), and since they start fukcing at about 19yrs old (and i am VERY generous once again), it means that a particular lady could have no less than 55 different men mounting her toto by the time she gets to 30yrs old. although there is nothing wrong with that, it means that this toto has seen its fair share of traffic, and as we all know that traffic mean heavy maintenance, that toto has long pass its sale by date. it may taste great, but chances are the elasticity and mechanic of that said coochie is close to giving up on you. a 20yr old coochie will get its elasticity back after a pregnancy (with the right exercises), for a 30yr old coochie it will be 3 times as hard.....[/b]

so looking at if from a life long investment's point of view, it is not a great move to go for such ladies, especially when we all know that you can get a fun, "easy go lucky", friendly young 20yr old coochie for the same hassle that you would get from most desperate 30yr old woman.

PS i am not even going to dwell on trying to educate and "reboot" the mind of that said +30yr old lady, and getting rid of all the "viruses" that have been implanted in her mind by her past r/ships. NO operating system/antivirus could handle such heavy duty work load!

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Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by timbros(m): 3:25pm On Sep 05, 2012
tucker12:

Hmmm I recall when a client with his friend came over to my office years back when I was worked in lag. My clients friend later called me aside and said he knew my female colleague. He simply asked is she now married? I said NO and he shaked his head and said he knew her in her youthful days. He just smiled and said nothing more.. Anyway she was around 42 then, still no show now.

hmmm
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by dontador(m): 3:28pm On Sep 05, 2012
@mrbrownjay you are one hell of a writer... Kudos
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by dokkyelele(f): 3:29pm On Sep 05, 2012
Can we be friends?
Only if u are FEMALE!
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by shizzle11(m): 3:29pm On Sep 05, 2012
Naturally, the market value for women drops as they get older compared to men. Most career women who have made their mark in their profession usually don't marry early cos they cling to their jobs not giving much thought to marriage, and to some, marriage has become a thing of status, so they're waiting for their 'level'. A few other ladies can't just come to terms with living with a man and playing the role of surbodinate to some man. Different reasons I tell you, some of them just so so funny.

Now op, kindly confirm if you're female or not (and tell us where you belong).
Re: When A Girl Is 30+...and Still Single. by passionate88: 3:30pm On Sep 05, 2012
berem: I tire o! is it their fault that they are still single? Abi na dem go go find life partner? Make una free dem joor!
the marriage institution suffereth violence and the violent taketh it by force... A gal won't jst wait on her guy(s) to propose, she gats 2 be dropping some words nd making some moves u girls knw hw 2 make 2 give him the ideas.. @ OP, sometimes it's the gals fault, waiting 4 a rich guy to marry, thinking they will be pretty in 3 yrs time as they are now, wanting to marry from their tribe (hausas nd yorubas).

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