man!!! I broke up with a chick because of that number 4th

u r on point @op

I can handle all other points from a woman but that point 5 is a MUST from the woman in my life

Good work keep it up,I think the number (5)has said it all.

mondi_cheeks: like turning into a zombie jus to have someone else's surname as my own? There is a reason why its 2013 not the 1950s anymore u adapt to it. Women had to adapt to going to receiving degrees and getting jobs jus like men,what makes a man too special to help wit taking care of his household ( chores)

somethings are just too unnatural for men, likewise the women. Men will never bow to some things no matter what.its a natural instinct. Unfortunately, the sweet feminish character that decribes the aura of womanhood is fast disappearing. What we have today is like another evolution story of monkeys turning to humans;but this time women turning to men in the guise of some western dominated 'gender equity'. No wonder, our men have also evolved into some sort of wild animals excersicing the mike tyson prowess on our 'evolved modern men' at every slight provocation. There cant be two presidents in a country,There will be chaos. I think the whole world is now acting a drama, hence the chaos. Long live the modern old school life of our ancestors.

mondi_cheeks: like turning into a zombie jus to have someone else's surname as my own? There is a reason why its 2013 not the 1950s anymore u adapt to it. Women had to adapt to going to receiving degrees and getting jobs jus like men,what makes a man too special to help wit taking care of his household (chores)

How many Naija ladies with their degrees want to split financial responsibilities 40/60 let alone 50/50? Most are still looking for men to pay the bill and take care of them.if a man is paying most if not all the bills, he can help with chores if he so pleases. We cannot have it both ways. Some Naija girls go to university in order to increase their marriage eligibility not to really get a job.

yoged: Point 3 #Gbam#. They should just stop gang banging their face with crayon. Rubbish.

pls dont be annoyed sir, are you trying to coin the word 'peacock' that best suits them.

Bright...:
hope they wil leastn...

Yes, we are 'leastning'

Mynd_44: ^^
Do they live in that house together? If they do why can't they share chores?

be prepared to share hwse rents,skul feez,car maintainance etc

sista-jay:
Blah. . . . blah . . . . blah and blah love em or hate them, you'll still end up with one.

kpele o (as the yoruba man will say) . I understand your plight. What a pity. They have trashed you with the truth. The truth is always a bitter pill

The village girls of 2day are worse than this morden ladies u talk about. Forget all the
Formings, wen they get married, d woman in them will comeout.

sista-jay:
Blah. . . . blah . . . . blah and blah love em or hate them, you'll still end up with one.

na wetin u tinnk abi!?... By d tym u enter voicemail ur eyes go open.

CAMEROONPRIDE: That's NL for you gathering of dumb women who talk anything but sense...These bitter women replying here are from broken or abusive home....now they want to put their anger on innocent men, look at them screaming the man "must", we must share the house chores , Tufiakwa...the day you pay our dowry is the day helping will b a must... Utter rubbish
Don't you have kids? Or househelp..

Do you think I did all that when I was single to do it again when Im married?


I will certainly help but It's not an obligation


Lol, @ people talking about 1950 and 2013 , talking about moving forward? Why don't you fight against dowry and bride prices which are money suckers
Why don't you battle to share the dowry with us?

Hypocrites.

That's Nl's women for u : dumb, bitter, angry ,frustrated.

no vex sir, e ma binu, ya isa danallah. Abeg make una no kill me, quite funny rearctions expecially from.................they know themselves. I hope one of them will not marry one hulk hogan and when he comes from work and his cloth are dirty and the wife says ' na you dirty your cloth, go wash am by yourself'...... RIP.

sista-jay:
Blah. . . . blah . . . . blah and blah love em or hate them, you'll still end up with one.

una no go hear now abi?

@ Op............U c what u av caused here, u think u r dishing out a favour and advice, but Alas! U av shot urself so badly in d leg, cos after giving them d clue(the orijo), they still end up abusing u........Now u can c dat not even u can prevent some of them from remaining single for d rest of their life..........leave them for guys to deal wt abeg......not even u can take most of them out of their misconception like" it is woman's world".....like "what a man can do ,a woman can do better", when they can only worsen it .........abeg, I won lem.

Na wa o. Constant advice for women

Julieccentric: Na by force to marry

if u ar married i congratulate u. bt if u ar single, den shall fnd answr 2 ur questn we u clock 39 & u ar stil searchin

No. 7 is so so on point.

steve_cantrell:

Yeah, I know what you're saying. But what is up with Nigerian women ?? No smoke without fire..

and what is wrong with Nigerian men, in fact what is wrong with humans

[b]Fantastic thread by the OP (Except the issue of refrencing which should be addressed) Otherwise what a fantabulous thread for any serious minded woman who is looking to experience a life of bliss when the corporate world finally tells on your body that you can no longer attain the independent, feminist and financial position you used to. God knows that when I finally decide to marry, I will be looking for a woman with all these traits and more except of cause the NO. 7 point (Because of its vitality in todays world were free punny is around every corner). And if it means going back to the village to find myself a loving, caring and respectable wife that will not give me bullshit after a day at work then so be it afterall it even seems those are the sort of women who bring out the best in a man (President GEJ) is an example that springs to mind and not all these "oyibo women wannabe" girls of today that believe the atrocious lies of "Feminism". All in all I believe the author of the post I quoted below to be 100% right and it is a shame that we have women (African women being my focus because I definitely think most make better wifey's and I am a very strong Pan African) in this generation who have lost all their appeal as a woman and are now rather clamouring to become a man. God forbid that I reduce to a level where my wife will tell me to go and perform house chores as an obligation and I do it (Although from time to time I will out of love and romance help out). We both can never and will NEVER put legs in the same "trouser" of our marriage because that will be the beginning of a fall waiting to happen. God bless all the men and women who understand these facts of different roles in a household(To the men, I hope you have not forgotten the obligation to love, provide, care and protect your wife and family irrespective of your wife contributing financially) and to the sisters who are still choosing to believe the deceit of "feminism" or 21st century bullshit, you better listen and learn. Nothing worse than getting to a stage in life when you are full of regret and saddness all because you refused to listen. I have seen very sad, lonely (unmarried)old women who toed that line and trust when I say it is a pitiable sight. A word is enough for the smart/wise/understanding. God bless [/b]

boarnerges: somethings are just too unnatural for men, likewise the women. Men will never bow to some things no matter what.its a natural instinct. Unfortunately, the sweet feminish character that decribes the aura of womanhood is fast disappearing. What we have today is like another evolution story of monkeys turning to humans;but this time women turning to men in the guise of some western dominated 'gender equity'. No wonder, our men have also evolved into some sort of wild animals excersicing the mike tyson prowess on our 'evolved modern men' at every slight provocation. There cant be two presidents in a country,There will be chaos. I think the whole world is now acting a drama, hence the chaos. Long live the modern old school life of our ancestors.

A lady dat is not a virgin will find it extremely difficult denying her would-be husband s.ex for too long a period as deemed appropriate by d guy. If u'r a virgin, try nd preserve it- Its worth d wait. Non-virgins should forget it as HARDLY will any fiance wait for too long. He knows d lady could b phucking her uncle,boss,neighbour,ex who has money or assisted her while claiming no-sex b4 marriage.most guys have witnessed such situation first hand where a lady claiming she doesn't want sex with her fiance is SERIOUSLY being screwed by another man,especially a guy who has been there b4 d guy surfaced.NO MAN wants to b a body guard only,hence d fiance wl dump her for a more willing lady nd d search wl continue for d lady.

Good riddance. Ladies need tutoring.

Kulyie the feminist are u seeing this!!!!:p

some guyz here might also end up single

But we still take some financial burdens off the man.I think wen there is luv the question of who does what won't arise. So far no party is taken for granted.

SniperInADiaper: ^^ the Op will marry an American

wao i realy love the message u tried to pass tru and this is indeed the reason why some ladies remain single for life and i am sure that this message will change lifes of some ladies

sista-jay:
Blah. . . . blah . . . . blah and blah love em or hate them, you'll still end up with one.

By their fruits post you shall know them.

Mintayo:

what happens if the househelp snatches ur husband?

i wont even employ househelp cuz i aint dat lazy type

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How many Naija ladies with their degrees want to split financial responsibilities 40/60 let alone 50/50? Most are still looking for men to pay the bill and take care of them. if a man is paying most if not all the bills, he can help with chores if he so pleases. We cannot have it both ways. Some Naija girls go to university in order to increase their marriage eligibility not to really get a job.

This is exactly what my aunt told me... Naija ladies depends on their hubby financialy even if they earn more than their husband ...and they will want the man to start washing plates, cooking etc as if it is the man duty

And seeing that the OP is attacking every comment made me realise He doesn't have the I.Q to write this nice and interesting write-up.

What you don't know is you are telling most of the ladies here what they already know but you couldn't read between the lines.

Kudos to the Writer.
Simple advice: next time, try to acknowledge the owner of any article.

@OP well done.
Western culture has destroyed our ladies. Everyone wants to be Nicki, Beyonce; in summary sex icons. No one cares about good morals anymore. Being a virgin has become a thing of shame (what should be a thing of pride).

Sometimes, I feel like weeping when a see some teenage girls of this generation and their IDGAF attitude; But i wouldn't blame them, the elder ones are not good examples. And men are not helping as well. We even help them become worse.

I won't point accusing finger on any gender, the truth is most of us are contributing factors.

I've met a few girls who started up with credible morals but then again end of like the majority.

In short, we all need Jesus and nothing else. He'll guide our discretion.

mondi_cheeks: like turning into a zombie jus to have someone else's surname as my own? There is a reason why its 2013 not the 1950s anymore u adapt to it. Women had to adapt to going to receiving degrees and getting jobs jus like men,what makes a man too special to help wit taking care of his household (chores)

You will surely End up as a single mum .... caring for kids from 10 different men..

mondi_cheeks: like turning into a zombie jus to have someone else's surname as my own? There is a reason why its 2013 not the 1950s anymore u adapt to it. Women had to adapt to going to receiving degrees and getting jobs jus like men,what makes a man too special to help wit taking care of his household (chores)

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No matter ur academic degree, when you cannot cook for your husband, be ready to loose him. He that books for a man has direct access to his heart.