Sisi_Kill:

Put him in Jail with no proof but the word of a child. ....who is living with the woman who clearly hates him?!!!

In which country?!!

davidylan:

Here in the great US of A. Happens all the time babe.

Sisi_Kill:
Lol....They can have the allegations dismissed before the ink is even dry with a simple lie detector test and that's just for starters.

Haba Naa!!!!

Abrantie: Some of you women forget that, it takes a lot of energy and time to play the game of "court & lawyers". Most times, it's easier for a guy to just say "fvck it!"

The best strategy is not to play the game at all, and that's what some guys have chosen.

jidegirl12: Losing his job? I thot it's employers discretion whether to or not hirer a previously investigated person or convict ?

Sisi_Kill:

No one is denying that. ...we are just saying he should stop acting like it is the woman who won't allow him see his children when it's him who couldn't be bothered when it is easier to discard his kids.

Sisi_Kill:

No one is denying that. ...we are just saying he should stop acting like it is the woman who won't allow him see his children when it's him who couldn't be bothered when it is easier to discard his kids.

jidegirl12: Losing his job? I thot it's employers discretion whether to or not hirer a previously investigated person or convict ?

bjcole: D guy shoud do more 4 the sake of the kids, this woman is witch, she is wicked but the man should go extra mile for his children, i think thats d arguments of d women even though they failed to admit one of their own is a devil.

davidylan:

If only wishes were horses.

child molestation charges are taken extremely seriously here... if in doubt just go on google and check for yourself.
The child doesnt need to say it, all CPS needs is to testify that the child is not old enough or is too traumatized to articulate what happened in her own words...
Lie detector tests are not 100% foolproof so throw that out of the window...

Sisi_Kill:

David the courts. ..the social workers, Child Protection Services are all aware that these kinda accusations can crop up during a custody battle....They know what to look for. They won't just jump the gun based on the child's word alone. Some of the pamphlets they have in CPS deal with this issue. ...

WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE ACCUSED OF CHILD ABUSE DURING A CUSTODY CASE.

HOW TO PROETECT YOURSELF FROM FALSE ACCUSATION OF CHILD ABUSE DURING A CUSTODY CASE.

Copy one of those and you will be surprised what comes up. They know!! And they know how to handle it and handling it does not involve a knee jerk reaction. They might be cautious and suspend or introduce supervised visits but they won't automatically condemn the accused.

I mean the man who didn't molest the kids when they were with him will suddenly start when they aren't. ...it is sooooo suspect only an idiot will wanna go that route if it isn't true.

Sisi_Kill:

David the courts. ..the social workers, Child Protection Services are all aware that these kinda accusations can crop up during a custody battle....They know what to look for. They won't just jump the gun based on the child's word alone. Some of the pamphlets they have in CPS deal with this issue. ...

WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE ACCUSED OF CHILD ABUSE DURING A CUSTODY CASE.

HOW TO PROETECT YOURSELF FROM FALSE ACCUSATION OF CHILD ABUSE DURING A CUSTODY CASE.

Copy one of those and you will be surprised what comes up. They know!! And they know how to handle it and handling it does not involve a knee jerk reaction. They might be cautious and suspend or introduce supervised visits but they won't automatically condemn the accused.

I mean the man who didn't molest the kids when they were with him will suddenly start when they aren't. ...it is sooooo suspect only an idiot will wanna go that route if it isn't true.

CHILD CUSTODY – WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU HAVE BEEN ACCUSED OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE?

[size=18pt]An allegation of child sexual abuse, even a false one, will change your life[/size]. This
is particularly true in a child custody case. [size=14pt]Your character will be called
into question and you will sense tension between you and your friends, family
and co-workers[/size]. Your child will also be negatively impacted. Your child may
have to undergo physical and psychological examinations, which can be traumatic
for a child. Unfortunately, false allegations of sexual abuse are raised in
some child custody cases in an effort to gain an advantage. This creates a
terrible situation for the child, particularly where children are coached to
make false allegations against their parents, which can result in parent
alienation.

When allegations of sexual abuse are made in a child custody case, the court may
appoint a mental health professional to help decide how to handle the case.
Also, grandparents, other family members, neighbors, caregivers, teachers, and
others who have a relationship with the child may be interviewed. A multitude
of information must be gathered and evaluated to determine whether allegations
of sexual abuse are meritorious.

dayokanu:

Any little charge that might lead to a felony or misdemeanor first thing is a call from HR and a very sympathetic white lady telling you "we are sorry we know you are a good man and couldn't have done that but the company policy states blah bah blah.." PINK SHEET

Abrantie:

Don't you think if the woman really wanted him to see his kids, she would have made the situation easier?

The guy is playing the game based on which pieces are on the board. You expect him to play by sentiments? If he does that, he loses.

jidegirl12:

..... Pink sheet! Dayo you no go kill me with laugh.

But you actually know that the criminal record check sheet is not just black and white... It's either it checks No or Yes with please call blah blah for details..... I've hired ex-convicts ( HR only will hire with my final say) when I called the RCMP it was just a [b]minor offenc[/b]e.... I've hired a ex- drug addict and so on ,

speaking for myself if I call for this guy, the RCMP will definitely say he's just been investigated for child molestation accused by his wife....

they go in details about any offence.... I usually ask the officer his opinion, puts me on hold ( look in his files)and advice me ... they're not daft too you know? Sh it happens , especially when it's Domestic.

In conclusion it's obvious most men will rather avoid all these problem..... Man go do fine boy na

jidegirl12:

..... Pink sheet! Dayo you no go kill me with laugh.

But you actually know that the criminal record check sheet is not just black and white... It's either it checks No or Yes with please call blah blah for details..... I've hired ex-convicts ( HR only will hire with my final say) when I called the RCMP it was just a [b]minor offenc[/b]e.... I've hired a ex- drug addict and so on ,

speaking for myself if I call for this guy, the RCMP will definitely say he's just been investigated for child molestation accused by his wife....

they go in details about any offence.... I usually ask the officer his opinion, puts me on hold ( look in his files)and advice me ... they're not daft too you know? Sh it happens , especially when it's Domestic.

In conclusion it's obvious most men will rather avoid all these problem..... Man go do fine boy na

bjcole: D guy shoud do more 4 the sake of the kids, this woman is witch, she is wicked but the man should go extra mile for his children, i think thats d arguments of d women even though they failed to admit one of their own is a devil.

davidylan:

Wake up, this is the real world not cuu co land.

In the USA, there are a few things for which the police will arrest you now and ask you questions later. Wife and child molestation are top of the list. By the time you get to reading the CPS pamphlet, you are already behind bars, lost your job and speaking to a lawyer.

Sisi_Kill:

Lmao!!!! Why do people think I am living in la la land.

Okay back to the matter at hand. . .where false accusation have not been made.

Sisi_Kill:

Lmao!!!! Why do people think I am living in la la land.

Okay back to the matter at hand. . .[size=14pt]where false accusation have not been made[/size].

Woged2005:
There was also a visitation order in place with drop off and pick up location. But the wife formed the habit of rushing to her lawyer to file allegations of abuse/ neglect each time the kids came back from their dad's house. One was an allegation by the wife that the dad kept alcoholic wine in his refrigerator at the reach of the kids during visitation. though that was not investigated. The mediator said these types of allegations made the man to restrain himself.
What I don't understand is why her husband doesn't have his own lawyer to take on the other lawyer heads on? He's very educated and has a stable job. I may have to hands off from this case.

Sisi_Kill:

Okay so you are going to battle ko and you find out your opponent is using every available weapon. . .Good weapons too, in their arsenal. Sure the weapons are hi-tech and all but you also have good hi-tech weapons in yours, the problem is yours is not as close to you as your opponents and when you get them there is a high chance you will win...do you just give up because your defense is harder to get?!!

The guy is NOT playing the game on which pieces on the board because some pieces have not being unpacked!!

baby_123: I wouldn't advise him to violate the restraining order. But for future purposes he should fight the charges against him. And how she has spoiled his name in public. He probably doesn't want them to lose their mum for a few years if they find out she committed perjury. Eyah. Its a tough situation. He cannot just fold his arms, he needs to lawyer up and fight all these accusations in court. If she loses and goes to jail, oh well. She is an adult. An adult whoever it is must live with the consequences of their actions.

dayokanu:

I did exactly what you suggested and the below was what I found

I googled "WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE ACCUSED OF CHILD ABUSE DURING A CUSTODY CASE" and found the below



http://hynumlaw.com/uncategorized/child-custody-what-to-do-when-you-have-been-accused-of-child-sexual-abuse/

So assume the man works in the school as a teacher, school bus driver principal etc do you think he would hold on the job for even 5mins even if its a mad woman who accused him

Your child will also be negatively impacted. Your child may
have to undergo physical and psychological examinations, which can be traumatic
for a child. Unfortunately, false allegations of intimate abuse are raised in
some child custody cases in an effort to gain an advantage. This creates a
terrible situation for the child, particularly where children are coached to
make false allegations against their parents, which can result in parent
alienation.

[size=18pt]When allegations of intimate abuse are made in a child custody case, the court may
appoint a mental health professional to help decide how to handle the case.
Also, grandparents, other family members, neighbors, caregivers, teachers, and
others who have a relationship with the child may be interviewed. A multitude
of information must be gathered and evaluated to determine whether allegations
of intimate abuse are meritorious.[/size]

baby_123: I wouldn't advise him to violate the restraining order. But for future purposes he should fight the charges against him. And how she has spoiled his name in public. He probably doesn't want them to lose their mum for a few years if they find out she committed perjury. Eyah. Its a tough situation. He cannot just fold his arms, he needs to lawyer up and fight all these accusations in court. If she loses and goes to jail, oh well. She is an adult. An adult whoever it is must live with the consequences of their actions.