shymexx:

I know you're not... I'm just telling you to stop preying on vulnerable lads..

toshmann: my advice to men . . . never make it your life ambition to satisfy a woman . . . you will fail, bc first of all, women dont even know what they want.

my advice to women . . . when u identify a nice guy, hold on to him and treat him well, disregard his errors, bc, the next guy may be your heartbreaker . . .

my advice to all the girls i will toast this year: disregard everything i posted just now

Volumptuos_bebe: lol who says am preying on vulnerable lads Are u vulnerable?

Shollypopz:

I'm not crushing on Shy!
The misconception here is u think every rapper is some sort of gangsta, u don't know JAY Z personally so we can't say much about who he is.
Moreover, how many artists do u know that marry ppl outside their field? Celebrities like hooking up with each other, something about being with someone that understands the life they live.

The fact that Steve Job is a geek doesn't make him a nice guy. Most jerks I've met are nerds. They take pride in how smart and knowledgeable they are and will not hesitate to brag about it.
Mumu guys are not nice guys. If u think acting like a jerk to a woman is going to make her like u then you're on a long thing! You have a chance with a high school chic though, the ones that still thinks a guy that pays them no attention is cool.

Volumptuos_bebe: So you expect a reward for being nice So that means you are not genuinely nice but pretending to be nice to get the reward. So basically the difference between a bad guy and a nice guy is that the bad guy does not pretend. Now i see why Men are all the same lol

MRbrownJAY:
Bro Coogar, how is life, its been a while since we had a convo, so lets get it on:

you see what you have to first realize is that LIFE IS LONG and the only ones that "truly" finish last are the bad boys. here is how it goes....... young inexperienced gal meet a nice gal and because she thinks there is no adventure in such r/ship, she decides to go settle for a bad boy instead. after a few black eyes, STDs from cheating and being treated like a rag, this lady will realize that she is too good to be treated like that, and thus understand that she will never settle for a man like that FOR MARRIAGE (or long term r/ship). so guess what happens? she run right back to nice guy's arms and they live happily ever after. sadly the story could have a different ending, where the nice guy tells the confused damsel that she had her chance and missed it, but either way she will still learn a great life lesson, which is: a nice guy is a marathon runner and she can enjoy his "niceness" forever, while a bad boy is a 100M runner, she can only take so much of his BS before she calls it quit (or die).

so the catch is not why how where or what is wrong with nice guys, as we all know that there is NOTHING wrong with being nice, the catch is to understand that being a bad boy will always get you nowhere if you are looking for a serious long lasting committed r/ship. but what the OP wrote is garbage and complete nonsense, and you of all people certainly KNOW THAT!

MRbrownJAY:

in which world are you living?! read my words AGAIN: treat people how you want to be treated!!!!
so if i am nice to someone, i expect them to be "nice" to me. where is the big deal here. sex is just part of being nice to your partner. she may prefer to go shopping while i like to get my ball sack emptied! to each their own so long as we are "nice" to one another.

what you wrote is exactly the nonsense that the OP wrote, being nice to someone and being treated like a mugu, and smiling about it. a nice guy would TREAT YOU RIGHT, and he would expect the same from you.

shymexx: Isn't "very good bad boys" oxymoronic?

Confusing alpha males for bad boys, no??

BABE!:
Bad boys aren't necessarily jerks. We have the overrated typical "bad boys"/players and the real bad boys.

The real bad boys know when to strike the balance. They keep you coming back for more ... Love + stocklhome syndrome ... I call them "very good bad guys". I'm lucky to be fûcking with one.

Nice guys are bleh .. the only chance they have in the game is if their niceness is accompanied with excellent bedmatics, then, they can be on the same level with the real bad boys.

coogar:
basically, when a woman says you are nice then she's using you.

i envy your husband - word to mother!

missy1010: Honestly speaking I kind of agree, my ex boyfriend was a complete loser, always insecure and jealous, i mean I have no problem with the jealousy but d insecurity was just plain disgusting, it's really not sexy and it made him seem like a pussy. Girls want the a confident, sexy, intelligent guy not a weepy, whining man-woman, dat just sick. Only one person is supposed to whine in a relationship and its not the man.

miccodb: truth be said. this for sure is true. i have both been nice and ruthless and belive me i killed more being ruthless.

Real-Mccoy:
Women in Yankee are scared of Nigerian men for one thing, leaving them high and dry. We act like mr nice guy at first, when we hit that punny, we drop them like used coins. @OP are we bad boys, nice guys or just sharp bad guys? Naija boys in Houston are sharp bad guys, when it comes to dating. Afro American women always say; He cooks for me, pays for my grocery, open champagne for me and my girls in the club, gave me his car to drive but I just found out that he does same thing for several other women. OP there is no such thing as mr nice guy or bad boy, humans have both traits.

coogar:

i dunno about you but when i find used coins, i pick them up and use them again

I taught you well

coogar:

i did but it's not true....



you are a fantasist.....
that's the only plausible explanation or you only date secondary school boys. you don't play a player....a player plays you.

coogar:

i dunno about you but when i find used coins, i pick them up and use them again

dahonestboss:

Tha age bracket might be a determining point just like naturality said, and being bad is relative.

The kind of bad boys girls like do not necessarily mean guys that goes about doing bad things, but a lively guy who can stand on his decision regardless, a guy that take charge and will not take bullshit from them. which are contrary to the nice boys.

there is also a popular saying that if you are out on a date with a girl, do something bad or try fighting with someone, it helps

and believe me, it works!

coogar: long time no writtens.....
i still remain your loyal attentive student!

the beauty of this story is the girl in question would not leave - go where? she's madly in love. if anyone dares tells her she's in an abusive relationship then she would stab such individual. there's no perfect relationship - everyone is just tolerating the other and majority of the happy couples we see have hidden issues like you described above.

there's nothing wrong with the nice guy but he always finishes last......women don't want them to date - just a shoulder to cry on. when they need food, drinks, material stuff, someone to share emotional issues with, the nice guy comes handy cos he's a good listener. however, when these women want the rough sex, they ignore the nice guy and seek the bad guys.

shymexx:

Never have and never will... I smell bs from afar..

Any chic that tries preying on me will end up with frostbite...

MRbrownJAY:
as i always say, to each their own, but a bad boy never last the distance. if you want to go the long way you need to treat your woman right.

coogar:

scared? no - respect? yes!
it's a golden rule - you have to respect your opponent. respecting them means planning ahead in case she decides to wild out.....seasoned players see these things before they come and they have a foolproof blueprint that would effect their escape unharmed and uncaught!

babayaro and dwight yorke put the p in playing in their days.....only george best beat their record.

bukatyne:
And why do you think she can't play a guy?

I don't support playing from either party but to think that only guys play is a fallacy.

Greedy people are actually more susceptible to being conned or duped.

shymexx: Isn't "very good bad boys" oxymoronic?

Confusing alpha males for bad boys, no??

coogar:
i envy your husband - word to mother!

Volumptuos_bebe: lol neways enough of my craziness as you could see was just joking but still it does not pay to be a bad guy. Nyc guys all day besides these days women are fed up with all you bad boys. You really would not want to meet a real badbuster for real. Unfortunately karma is a bitch so just saying

BABE!:

Yes, it's oxymoronic. The key word here is balance. I little bit of this, a little bit of that.

You want tips on how to be a VGBG ?

Uncle which one are you; VGBG, mr nice or player?

bukatyne:
What really do you define as playing?
Are you sure the women were not just interested in having a piece of his flesh and move on?

BABE!:

Yes, it's oxymoronic. The key word here is balance. I little bit of this, a little bit of that.
You want tips on how to be a VGBG ?
Uncle which one are you; VGBG, mr nice or player?