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Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:49pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Volumptuos_bebe: Well she was damn stupid. Never rely on a man. I have my own money and car so no Nigga will put me in the motorway seriously big time fool Lmao @ "being dumped on the motorway" Was she dumped on the M-6 or M-25? Independent ladies rule. |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:50pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Volumptuos_bebe: lol and do you think i keep players for longer than 5days. Players come in different levels and i kno how to handle each one. Shame its a pity you guys have never met a gal like me. Hopefully someday as you know karma is a bitchhhh A girl like you can't do nothing to me - I've been in the game for too long... I'll just take you on a long trip and give you the longjohns afterwards... |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:51pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
coogar: I'm not crushing on Shy! The misconception here is u think every rapper is some sort of gangsta, u don't know JAY Z personally so we can't say much about who he is. Moreover, how many artists do u know that marry ppl outside their field? Celebrities like hooking up with each other, something about being with someone that understands the life they live. The fact that Steve Job is a geek doesn't make him a nice guy. Most jerks I've met are nerds. They take pride in how smart and knowledgeable they are and will not hesitate to brag about it. Mumu guys are not nice guys. If u think acting like a jerk to a woman is going to make her like u then you're on a long thing! You have a chance with a high school chic though, the ones that still thinks a guy that pays them no attention is cool. |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:51pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
You know the ish my man. Thats why u will always get the good ladies, you are smart and nice. Men learn from this man CFCfan: |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:51pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
SAFO:u think say nah boot pad she put 4 there? |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:52pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
CFCfan: M-25 things on a cold winter night... Phones switched off and all that... Damn! Every time that chic sees me now, she runs like Usain Bolt... That's what you get for running your mouth... |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:52pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
shymexx:You wish! |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:52pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
lmao wel dude you have never met a girl like me. I'm a veteran in players. I got a phd in players. Pleazzzzzzzzz shymexx: |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by coogar: 4:54pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
shymexx: scared? no - respect? yes! it's a golden rule - you have to respect your opponent. respecting them means planning ahead in case she decides to wild out.....seasoned players see these things before they come and they have a foolproof blueprint that would effect their escape unharmed and uncaught! babayaro and dwight yorke put the p in playing in their days.....only george best beat their record. |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:55pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Volumptuos_bebe: lmao wel dude you have never met a girl like me. I'm a veteran in players. I got a phd in players. Pleazzzzzzzzz Damn!! You need to put your money where your mouth is and let's play the game!! I bet I'll be all up in that massive batty before you know what's gwaning!! And I'm not even a bad boy, anymore.. |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by JuanDeDios: 4:56pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Op is not as bullsh#tty as some here have tried to make it sound. In fact, there is nothing bullsh#tty about it. When he said "nice guy" he explained what he meant - that is key to understanding the article. |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:56pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
lmfao well if you not a bad boy then i'm sorry you are not my type shymexx: |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by coogar: 4:58pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Shollypopz: what can jay-z possibly be in that industry of his? think about it.......
jerks do what they want and get what they want. nice guys don't get to do what they want and don't always get what they want. who would you rather be? the one that invests his emotions to get a chic or the one that doesn't give a fück to get his chic? |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 4:59pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
coogar: Bro., I'm just more watchful now and I think being a perfect gentleman is the way forward... It's just difficult messing up emotional beings without expecting repercussions... George Best's career was also destroyed by that lifestyle... |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:00pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Volumptuos_bebe: lmfao well if you not a bad boy then i'm sorry you are not my type It's a bet - I just want to show you how vulnerable you're... Still got some of that bad boy ethos in me... |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:02pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Volumptuos_bebe: lmao wel dude you have never met a girl like me. I'm a veteran in players. I got a phd in players. Pleazzzzzzzzzif u open leg b4 the guy give u money na im play u ooo |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:03pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
lol then i guess i gotta get that ish outa you. They call be Badbusters, i will exterminate all the bad out of you shymexx: |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:04pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
u dey craze. You think i am a Mumu. Tufiakwa lefulefu: |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by coogar: 5:04pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
shymexx: perfect gentleman? a bad guy is a perfect gentleman! see eh - do you really think women don't know who a nice guy is? look at shollypopz drooling over you from boston to bolton. it's not like she doesn't know a nice guy in her church whose trousers don't touch the ground......that brother in the church who doesn't even know the latest fad in town. he's just concerned with his work and his God...... sholly wouldn't want such - she wants the one in true religion jeans, the one with a smart car, a nice crib, and a successful career. she wants the one that is also desired by half of the women in the city. she wants the one that is more prone to cheat on her. that's a woman for you. they want the bad guy because they hope to change him into a nice guy once he becomes their possession! |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:04pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Most immature women mistake a jerk for a manly man. You don't have to be rude to stand your ground as a man. You don't have to destroy my self esteem as a woman because u're trying to prove yourself as a head in the relationship. Jerks are simply insecure men and are always trying to prove themselves, prolly because they've been ridiculed by their peers or come from a family where no one shows them love. Jerks are troubled men. Why would I want a troubled man?? Why would I want a relationship that drains my energy? Why would I want a relationship that requires extra work?? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:05pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
dahonestboss: you must NOT know who you are dealing with here, this is HRH MBJ...... dont get it twisted, everything i type on NL come from me, and what you wrote was so weak that i had to reply. coogar: but the op is right - nice guys finish last! Bro Coogar, how is life, its been a while since we had a convo, so lets get it on: you see what you have to first realize is that LIFE IS LONG and the only ones that "truly" finish last are the bad boys. here is how it goes....... young inexperienced gal meet a nice guy and because she thinks there is no adventure in such r/ship, she decides to go settle for a bad boy instead. after a few black eyes, STDs from cheating and being treated like a rag, this lady will realize that she is too good to be treated like that, and thus understand that she will never settle for a man like that FOR MARRIAGE (or long term r/ship). so guess what happens? she run right back to nice guy's arms and they live happily ever after. sadly the story could have a different ending, where the nice guy tells the confused damsel that she had her chance and missed it, but either way she will still learn a great life lesson, which is: a nice guy is a marathon runner and she can enjoy his "niceness" forever, while a bad boy is a 100M runner, she can only take so much of his BS before she calls it quit (or die). so the catch is not why how where or what is wrong with nice guys, as we all know that there is NOTHING wrong with being nice, the catch is to understand that being a bad boy will always get you nowhere if you are looking for a serious long lasting committed r/ship. but what the OP wrote is garbage and complete nonsense, and you of all people certainly KNOW THAT! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:05pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Enough said Shollypopz: Most immature women mistake a jerk for a manly man. You don't have to be rude to stand your ground as a man. You don't have to destroy my self esteem as a woman because u're trying to prove yourself as a head in the relationship. Jerks are simply insecure men and are always trying to prove themselves, prolly because they've been ridiculed by their peers or come from a family where no one shows them love. |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:07pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Volumptuos_bebe: lol then i guess i gotta get that ish outa you. They call be Badbusters, i will exterminate all the bad out of you Hmmm... Can you put your money where your mouth is?? Where do you live?? - my sniping can't go beyond the UK for now... But I'll like to snipe that big batty in return for your "badbusters." Are you game?? |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:08pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
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Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:09pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Shollypopz: Most immature women mistake a jerk for a manly man. You don't have to be rude to stand your ground as a man. You don't have to destroy my self esteem as a woman because u're trying to prove yourself as a head in the relationship. Jerks are simply insecure men and are always trying to prove themselves, prolly because they've been ridiculed by their peers or come from a family where no one shows them love. Word is bond!! Sholly gatts her thinking cap on today... |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:09pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
pls am not an ashawo shymexx: |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:10pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Volumptuos_bebe: Truth a nice guy expects sex because he treats a lady right, and sex is a simple reward (like many others) for such accomplishment. |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by coogar: 5:10pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Shollypopz: Most immature women mistake a jerk for a manly man. You don't have to be rude to stand your ground as a man. You don't have to destroy my self esteem as a woman because u're trying to prove yourself as a head in the relationship. Jerks are simply insecure men and are always trying to prove themselves, prolly because they've been ridiculed by their peers or come from a family where no one shows them love. women want a leader, a guy who will lead them. a guy who, when he dates them, takes them places and takes care of things his way, who stands up for who he is and will debate her on topics if he doesn't agree with her. women want to be with a guy who knows he can actually get laid by other women but chooses to be with her - this does her self confidence a whole world of good!
if this is true, why are you not dating the assistant pastor in your church? |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:12pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
So you expect a reward for being nice So that means you are not genuinely nice but pretending to be nice to get the reward. So basically the difference between a bad guy and a nice guy is that the bad guy does not pretend. Now i see why Men are all the same lol MRbrownJAY: |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by toshmann(m): 5:14pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
my advice to men . . . never make it your life ambition to satisfy a woman . . . you will fail, bc first of all, women dont even know what they want. my advice to women . . . when u identify a nice guy, hold on to him and treat him well, disregard his errors, bc, the next guy may be your heartbreaker . . . my advice to all the girls i will toast this year: disregard everything i posted just now 1 Like |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:14pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
check on my name, thats who i am, i play my game as nice, she wants to run away, i give her a hard physical romance and we are back on.. nothing is wrong with being nice, the problem is why and how you do it... initially i started with being a mesiah for ladies then i realised its because i want to be nice... at this i dont give excuses, i dont explain.. i jsut remain being nice.. i want to be..i recently broke up, start hunting chicks again, i was going mad and unfocused, dem too plenty. them we made a reconcilation.. its was an ego boosting experience.. be nice for a while, go mad mad, then come to earth again.. this is healthy.. |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:14pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Volumptuos_bebe: pls am not an ashawo I know you're not... I'm just telling you to stop preying on vulnerable lads.. |
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