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Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Truckpusher(m): 6:58pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Atheist:-D:Men in the West cheats like every other man anywhere. Google is your friend. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Henrypraise: 6:58pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
I hate it wen tread like dis ar bein debated, from age 16 a girl is ripe for s3x n start indulgin in it a man is matured for s3x wen his pocket says so, n by den he has bin held captive by a lady hu has bathed hersef in numerous sexcapades n now wishes dat her husband shud be eatin only her sour soup, besides at wat point do we say sum one has cheated? Sum women ar in a relationship dey dnt even love n respect d man or dey tink of sum guy but may be for fear of d society dey restrain demsefs from indulgin in d act wen all other parameters ar visible even to d man n society. Listen most of des women commentin here on dis tread shud be careful, if a man cheats does he not cum home? N if a wife insist dat she will divorce her husband cos he cheated, is an indication dat d man was just a toy to d woman. I stand dat if women had d priviledges possessed by men in our nigeria society, dey will do worst, if u tink its a lie; check out d western world. Women rule relationships. Women ar being critical now, wat abt guys hu av serious gf n d gfs ar runs gurls? Wat abt guys datin ashii? U beta wise up, if my gurl is leavin me cos I cheat on her, m gona start datin d person I used in chatin on her. Simple. BE WISE. 1 Like |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
it depends of the reason, if you cheat because your wife refuses you sex for no reason then i don't see anything wrong with that . |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by druid06(m): 6:59pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Man is an animal, there's this inbounded instinct maybe coded in our D.N.A or something that makes us want to pro-create when we see someone of the opposite sex. Why do you think men are always around virtually aroused the entire day and most of the time all we do is think about sex. Our mothers and grand mothers and even the ones before them already knew this secret because they were instilled in them from by their own mothers and when they get married, it's no big deal to them if the husbands cheats and you see the reason why their relationship is always forever until one passes away. Modern woman especially those who are westernized/educated should better come to reality and face the truth, men are polygamous by nature. Any woman in the house that wants a long lasting relationship should be ready to face this truth and deal with it. If you suspect your husband of infidelity, there's no other option than to look the other way if you want a long lasting relationship/marriage. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Truckpusher: You're done raising disciples to attack everything I write here in NL abi?. I dont have anybody attacking you. Please feel free to continue the attacks on me tho. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by druid06(m): 7:09pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Atheist:-D: Same thing with western men. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by AtheistD(m): 7:11pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Truckpusher: Men in the West cheats like every other man anywhere. They do. It is a lot less. Cheating is a complicated thing. It is not genetic or evolutionary based however. Dont listen to those who claim it is... they dont even believe in evolution . They only quote it to explain their weaknesses. So, rather than cheating, why not go for an open marriage where you are free to sleep with whomever you want by agreement? Isnt that a better option than all the lies? |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Wallie(m): 7:14pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
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Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by druid06(m): 7:15pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Atheist:-D: Dude, what? I can't believe this is coming from you. Men in the west cheats as much as we African man. Why do you think 50% of the American marriages end in divorces? Same statistic in Spain too, UK and virtually everywhere. The reason I might believe the western men are a little less is the fear of reprisal. Most married men in this western societies are sometimes afraid of commiting infidelity because of the fear of loosing half of what they've worked for and their kids after divorce... |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Jman06(m): 7:17pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Lolzzzz...real men don't hit women while women are permited 2 break their men's head,shey?what wld u say if ur sister's hubby beats her 2 stupor 4 cheatn? Evestar200: *YOU CHEAT ON ME*I BREAK UR HEAD* I TAKE YOU GO HOSPITAL*I TREAT U*AND D SCAR DY UR HEAD*ANYTIME U WAN CHEAT* YOU C D SCAR*U NOR GO CHEAT AGAIN*shekina!!!! |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
druid06: Respect ..... |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by AtheistD(m): 7:24pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
druid06: No they dont. Many are committed. Marriage is not a necessity like it is in Africa. Many dont need to get married and can enjoy a joyous single life. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Love is cursed by monogamy... |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by texanomaly(f): 7:34pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
druid06: Man is an animal, there's this inbounded instinct maybe coded in our D.N.A or something that makes us want to pro-create when we see someone of the opposite sex. Why do you think men are always around virtually aroused the entire day and most of the time all we do is think about sex.Why do speak for all men? I don't believe it. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by druid06(m): 7:36pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
texanomaly: You can believe in what you like. This is the truth. So many researches have been done on this matter supporting my claim so belief in fairytales my dear, life isn't always as it seems. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by texanomaly(f): 7:40pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
druid06:So you are saying there is not a single man in the entire world that does not cheat? |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Orikinla(m): 7:41pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
CAN EVIL AND STUPIDITY EVER BE ACCEPTABLE? |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by dasparrow: 7:49pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
druid06: Man is an animal, there's this inbounded instinct maybe coded in our D.N.A or something that makes us want to pro-create when we see someone of the opposite sex. Why do you think men are always around virtually aroused the entire day and most of the time all we do is think about sex. @Bolded Sadly, there will be no long lasting relationship since the cheater (man) and his gullible wife will both die of HIV/AIDS before they can even reach old age. Do you honestly think that black Africa being the HIV/AIDS capital of the world is a coincidence? Other continents are reporting a decline in new HIV cases but black Africa's HIV/AIDS statistics is still through the roof because the average African-bred male has a risky sexual behavior. According to a recent article I read here on Nairaland, Nigeria has the second highest HIV/AIDS rate in Africa. It is no wonder you people don't live long and the average life expectancy rate for Nigeria is a miserly 52 years when your white counterparts in Europe and North America are living well into their 80s and 90s. Keep sleeping around like dogs on heat. It is your females I feel sorry for and your children who could end up being orphaned at a young age. Our grandmothers' generation did not have to deal with or worry about the HIV/AIDS virus but our generation has to deal with it. So any man who thinks a woman in this age of HIV/AIDS should tolerate his risky sexual behavior needs to get his head examined. I wonder why many of you bother to get married when you have no intentions of staying faithful. Later on, you people want to preach the bible to the homosexuals forgetting that adulterers according to the bible will not stand a chance of getting into heaven and neither will fornicators. So, if you care about your salvation, live a righteous life or face the consequences in the after life. 5 Likes |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
texanomaly: Some say everyone will cheat if they could get away with it. Truth is, in an increasingly sexualised society, where Beyonce has to wear skimpy clothes to sell a can of Pepsi, where every teenager wears tights with no underwear, and where every top 40 song sounds like a soundtrack to a p0rno movie....Man is a constant state of horniness Most men don't need an excuse to cheat...but society has made it all too easy...almost compelling even to cheat. True story |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by bukatyne(f): 8:00pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
@OP: cheating is not right for any reason. It involves stealing, killing and destruction. God gave humans the power of the mind and we can use this power to spice up our sex lives. For the guys saying all men cheat, I beg you, please don't believe all men lack self control and are senseless. It is an insult to believe that all men cannot make decisions and stand by it. His would they lead their homes? Marriage is not compulsory. If you know you are a selfish overgrown baby that cannot think with your God given brain on how to spice your own, don't marry. If you cannot uphold the vows you took before God, don't bother making them. I wonder who Adam was sleeping with besides Eve, perhaps the animals. For the ladies who think cheating is ok, goodluck 1 Like |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
bukatyne: @OP: cheating is not right for any reason. It involves stealing, killing and destruction. God gave humans the power of the mind and we can use this power to spice up our sex lives. You sound like the evangelist who is a closet prossteetute You know that sometimes things happen beyond our control Matters of the heart and loins are not binary equations that always hold true to logic - so your assertion that fidelity is matter of choice...or upholding vows, is a fallacy Remember the proviso in the bible? 'For ALL have sinned and come short of the glory of God...Even the Christian God is aware of man's extremely complex nature Besides I hope you know the forbidden fruit in the garden of eden was analogy for sexuall impropriety. I can almost bet your left testicle that your vituperation up there is a way of trying to assuage your guilt - but you have failed....woefully Chop and clean mouth bros. That is the way |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by texanomaly(f): 8:10pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
bukatyne: @OP: cheating is not right for any reason. It involves stealing, killing and destruction. God gave humans the power of the mind and we can use this power to spice up our sex lives.Thank you for speaking out. I knew that guy did not represent every man. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by olumidazz: 8:11pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Yes when it is 1-1 goaless draw. Do me I do u GOD no vex. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by MissEZ(f): 8:20pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Why should it ever be acceptable? People need to learn discipline and self control. Add honesty and faithfulness to that list. My take is if you cannot be faithful in a relationship, then don't get into one. That is except of course both parties are birds of the same feather |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Evestar200(f): 8:32pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Atheist:-D:HE NOR GO DIE |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by Rilikoko(m): 8:35pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
@Op...babe u too fine! Cheating is unpardonable. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by kliq(m): 8:57pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Oh well...jus maybe |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by druid06(m): 9:15pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
texanomaly: There're few principled men with strict morals and men who value honor more than life itself. Men who defend their honor and never let that guard down even for a second or fall into sexual temptations. Also men with low self esteem who would remain faithful till the end because they don't think they have a chance in the world with another woman out there. Those men like precious metal are rare and are the ones that keep getting cheated on by their partners. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by ravensckar(m): 9:18pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Atheist:-D:U'v sounded lyk one who tinks 4rm d anus. arguing wit u isn't wrth my hard earned MB. my only prayer 4 u is dt u get ur type 4 a wife. |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by lagerwhenindoubt(m): 9:21pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
it is not a crime to be a hypocrite and blissfully ignorant of it.. but as they say... Reality Bites. we aspire to possess LOVE only gods can give (or so we have been told)and yet cannot accept that we are only human, it is in our nature to cheat regardless of the reason. it is called Biology. it is hard-wired into our brains 2 Likes |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by AtheistD(m): 9:27pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
lagerwhenindoubt: it is not a crime to be a hypocrite and blissfully ignorant of it.. but as the say... Reality Bites. we aspire to possess LOVE only gods can give (or so we have been told)and yet cannot accept that we are only human, it is in our nature to cheat regardless of the reason. it is called Biology. it is hard-wired into our brains No it aint? If it was then prove it |
Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by lagerwhenindoubt(m): 9:29pm On Jun 24, 2013 |
Atheist:-D: Leave a bootylicious christian preacher babe in a room with a badt guy, cold night with heavy rainfall.. just one bed, no chairs |
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