Chat2MeBac:

, see this one nah, YOu better let the Feminism in ah me flourish, Him, who?

Chat is in looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove!
I'm spreading this around NL. You know they are bound to pick up this news and even say you're pregnant for him.

im still waiting for eldee's response.

j-girl:

There's something called the Proverbs 31 Man. It's a book about how men should learn to accommodate their wives. I'll go find it.

I refuse any other book
The bible is what we should draw or facts from

Jackal:

@ Eldee,

You are a star but u have to consider most of em go to Churches to flaunt their Louis Vuitton bags.
Stillwater gets to Church when the pastor is sharing the grace . . . . so how do u expect her to know Proverbs??

J-girl only goes to church because her Pastor is number three on E! Entertainment's sexiest preachers list

Chat2MeBac:

@Rev. Eldee, where is your Deacon Sly? Please stop using the Bible's scriptures for your own selfish gains o, abeg , The same Bible said a Man should leave his mother and Father and cleave to his wife, And he must LOVE and cheirsh her, NOT bang and bash her, olodo

Love and cherish his wife
The biblical definition of a wife is a submissive woman
If she's submissive, the love will come easily

onyinye2:

well eldee since you want to bring the bible into this, lets. well you are taking about the Proverbs, well i went to this women's summit and well they said that when a man marries a woman they become one. so if you treat a woman like a slave then what does that make you? ? ?

Don't twist the bible here
When they become one, it means they're a set of people that come together to achieve one goal
BTW a wife is the Proverb 31 woman. . .that's the only way they can become one
She does her part and he does his part. . .c'est fini

@ eldee
oka if they come together for one set goal, so when she is slaving away washing your drawers, you are beside her, washing her panties??

j-girl:

Chat is in looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove!
I'm spreading this around Nairaland. You know they are bound to pick up this news and even say you're pregnant for him.

ROFLMFSAO, Me, in Love? You need to stop smoking herb jare , I have already locked up me hart of harts with a key and buried it in the Sahara, .

Go ahead o, spread it, You know how much I am "loved" on NL, I know you would yield a lot for this story now,

Jackal:

Madame, what time did u get to Church and what bag did u carry today? Gucci or Prada??

Neither, nor, I rocked my LV today, I decided to spice it up a bit with a pair of Miu Miu, Being a Feminist has afforded a lot, much more than being a house wife

onyinye2:

@ eldee
oka if they come together for one set goal, so when she is slaving away washing your drawers, you are beside her, washing her undies??

Oh my dayz!!! Whatchu on
Do you want me to paste that chapter here?

eldee:

I refuse any other book
The bible is what we should draw or facts from
J-girl only goes to church because her Pastor is number three on E! Entertainment's sexiest preachers list

Eldee - did we not go to the same church this morning? BTW - My pastor is #1 and not #3.
I'll get the book tomorrow and probably open a thread about it.

Chat2MeBac:

ROFLMFSAO, Me, in Love? You need to stop smoking herb jare , I have already locked up me hart of harts with a key and buried it in the Sahara, .

Go ahead o, spread it, You know how much I am "loved" on Nairaland, I know you would yield a lot for this story now,
Neither, nor, I rocked my LV today, I decided to spice it up a bit with a pair of Miu Miu, Being a Feminist has afforded a lot, much more than being a house wife

You're in loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove and you're in denial too. Where do i start spreading it from?. . . . .
LV bag to church? Dang girl - what are you trying to do? Stop oppressing those small boys now!

Jackal:


What statements? The Bible instructs women to be submissive and men should love/respect their wives endlessly.
How is that hard to figure out. . . . . I would help her install her gadgets n stuffs but she must help with washing, cooking and maybe bathing.

That's not what you insinuated in your earlier post. You specifically relegated your idea of a wife to a housemaid, period!!!!!!!!

It's not your fault. Coast guards have rescued u now and you're feening like Jessica Simpson.

And what are you feeling like now since your escape, James Bond? By the way you ought to be practicing by now, I don't want to see you lose in the competitions. But I would like to see you in those flimsy materials marathon racers wear.

eldee:

Oh my dayz!!! Whatchu on
Do you want me to paste that chapter here?

please post because im looking at King James version. and you are obviously looking at some otha.

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE A SUBMISSIVE WIFE?

Proverbs 31:10
A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.

genius33:

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE A SUBMISSIVE WIFE?

A slave

NubianQ:

A slave

and also to add:

House help,
dishwasher,
washer women,
door mat
mugu .  . . fool!!

eldee:


Love and cherish his wife
The biblical definition of a wife is a submissive woman
If she's submissive, the love will come easily

Rev, don't get me wrong, I do believe that Husbands would be the head of the home, NOT house , not when I pay half or the entire mortage , My point is, men too often use that submissive theory as a means of taking advantage.  To whom much is given , much is required.  If my husband treats me like crap, I am NOT going to be submissive to him. Matter of fact, I wont stay in any abusive, be it physically, emotionally, verbally et al, marriage.

There are NO marriage/relationship without problems. Afterall, we are ONLY humans.  What matters is how the parties involved deal with, and resolve those issues when they arise.  My mom and dad used to argue, but they ALWAYS made up before they went to bed, I have looked at them and if I ever decide to marry, I will marry a man like my dad. Even when my mom acted up, instead of getting mad he would walk away and let her calm down.  Did that make him less than a man? Hell no, And of course Mama was submissive. She loved that man and did everything possible to make him happy.  Even today, 6 yrs after his passing, I would still see her blush or chuckle at  the mention of his name.  

I just hate hearing men of today ranting about submission without having any inclination as what it entails, Treat me right and I will rock your freakum world.This y'all is ma policy, This is how I was taught to do it in de Islands now

Chat2MeBac:

Neither, nor, I rocked my LV today, I decided to spice it up a bit with a pair of Miu Miu, Being a Feminist has afforded a lot, much more than being a house wife

Thats ma point. . . . . U are more bovvered about what u wear than what u hear from the Pastor!!!!
Being a feminist won't work for u. . . . Settle down with a dude like me, wash ma drawers n do the cooking and u shall be BLESSED.

stillwater:

That's not what you insinuated in your earlier post. You specifically relegated your idea of a wife to a housemaid, preriod!!!!!!!!

My wife cannot be used and abused . . . . I'll love ma wife to death.

And what are you feeling like now since your escape, James Bond? By the way you ought to be practicing by now, I don't want to see you lose in the competitions. But I would like to see you in those flimsy materials marathon racers wear.

Flimsy materials marathon racers wear??  This chic has got a dirty mind.
I'll be racing in long johns.

IS Jackal Married??

Busta:

and also to add:

House help,
dishwasher,
washer women,
door mat
mugu .  . . fool!!

Right on the spot. men want that in a woman so they can go out and leave slave @ home.

you forgot to add a Baby making machine

Busta:

IS Jackal Married??

nah! he is too young!!!

Busta:

IS Jackal Married??

naw girl. not at all. negative.nope.

@topic.
a man should run the household, not his wife.

NubianQ:

Right on the spot. men want that in a woman so they can go out and leave slave @ home.

you forgot to add a Baby making machine

that in fact, should have been #1.

But really . . .what is it with a lot of these african men thinking that women are inferior to them?

Only in Africa!!

JAckal,


u have lots of explanation to do!!

Pr 31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
 15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.

17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.

19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. {scarlet: or, double garments}

25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
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27 [size=16pt]She looketh well to the ways of her household[/size], and eateth not the bread of idleness.

31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
(KJV)

As you can see, emphasis was placed on her job to hold up the hosehold

I wan't the one that wrote this, so er. . .don't attack me

Busta:

that in fact, should have been #1.

But really . . .what is it with a lot of these african men thinking that women are inferior to them?

Only in Africa!!

to tell you the truth, i dont know. maybe because im raised in america where the women dont take smack from a man. shoot i wish a man would come home yelling at me that he is tired and hungry. he wont only be tired and hungry after im done.

eldee:

As you can see, emphasis was placed on her job to hold up the hosehold

I wan't the one that wrote this, so er. . .don't attack me

Woman don suffer!

Busta:

IS Jackal Married??

I am about to. . . . . but with the number of feminists lying around every corner, it's difficult finding the needle in a hay-stack.

Busta:

JAckal,
u have lots of explanation to do!!

What explanation?

@ NubianQ,

Remember we stay in the same island. . . . . .I can have u kidnapped.

Explanation about all this women claiming they are ur wives and baby mamas.

Jackal:

@ NubianQ,

Remember we stay in the same island. . . . . .I can have u kidnapped.

. _{i am as sleepy as hell} Goodnight and when i wake up i hope the girls knock that male dominative attitude off you.

Nite Girls Bleep

Oka im reading eldee and not once does it say that the man should treat the woman like a slave. and you missed a part where it states that
Proverbs 31:31

GIVE HER THE REWARD SHE HAS EARNED,
AND LET HER WORKS BRING HER PRAISE AT THE CITY GATE.

Jackal:

My wife cannot be used and abused . . . . I'll love ma wife to death.

Good to hear.

Flimsy materials marathon racers wear?? This chic has got a dirty mind.
I'll be racing in long johns.

Ha ha!!!!!!!!! You've finally accepted your fate!!!!!!!!!

African customs did not enslave women. European influence is what diminished your social roles and made you subservient to men. Before the white man arrived its on record that our women were in council with the Kings, they were in council with the Head Warrior, they were the primary custodians of cultue and no ceremonies are held without first consulting and obtaining their clearance. Where do you think titles such Iyalode and Erelu (yorubaland) come from? The ibos and the Hausas, as well cultures all across this continent have their equivalent titular female positions. We had women priests, Iyemoja. I am yet to hear of Babamoja.

Busta:

IS Jackal Married??

Now you know.LOL , Busta how de body child??

Jackal:

Thats ma point. . . . . You are more bovvered about what u wear than what u hear from the Pastor!!!!
Being a feminist won't work for u. . . . Settle down with a dude like me, wash ma drawers n do the cooking and u shall be BLESSED.

Two points.1. First misconception about me, I am NOT at all materialistic, YES! YESSER! and YESSEST! Me likey nice things, However, my life is NOT based around them. When I dress and go about my way, let those who hate do so, I go to church for ma blessings and to hear the word,

2.  You see!! There you again, Why must I settle down with you and NOT the other way around?  You men need to seriously scrap this mentality.  If you guys continue like this, me see meself being some dyke's missy in de near future

Busta:

that in fact, should have been #1.

But really . . .what is it with a lot of these african men thinking that women are inferior to them?

Only in Africa!!

onyinye2:

to tell you the truth, i don't know. maybe because im raised in america where the women don't take smack from a man. shoot i wish a man would come home yelling at me that he is tired and hungry. he wont only be tired and hungry after im done.

Nah. . .there's still are number of people outside of Africa (yes even in the US) who believe that women are inferior to men. The major difference is the Government in most African countries is not really helping the women out and spreading the awareness that men and women have equal rights.