seangy4konji: na self service deh worry you and dat yeye vibrator weh deh iinside ur wardrobe....enjoy tho...

kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me
2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.
3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.
4. i cannot give up my independence for nada
5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life might be appreciated or might not even be appreciated
6.mrs wife always comes last in the list of priority in many marriages
7.i dont have to be distracted by any man did this and that nonsense,inlaw craps etc
8.no need hoping,wishing or praying no one cheats etc
9.share my salary with nobody except the people i choose to
10. Live my life for nobody since no one is looking up to me or waiting for me to do this and that for him.

kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me
2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.
3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.
4. i cannot give up my independence for nada
5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life might be appreciated or might not even be appreciated
6.mrs wife always comes last in the list of priority in many marriages
7.i dont have to be distracted by any man did this and that nonsense,inlaw craps etc
8.no need hoping,wishing or praying no one cheats etc
9.share my salary with nobody except the people i choose to
10. Live my life for nobody since no one is looking up to me or waiting for me to do this and that for him.

chess guru:
Its very obvious that you are a lesbian. If not officially, deep down you are. Only opportunity and condition will bring it out

Dumkele_1: @raymondenyi...u sound so bitter. with dis attitude u have put up here,only a short sighted lady will be willing to put up with it......I think I will blame the African men who do not know how to appreciate women. if u appreciate and encourage all women(successful or not),I can assure u that they will give u d respect u deserve 100%.....to be Frank ,what d lady said is quite true.....ur grammar hmmmm.........lastly u had no right to tell d lady to shut up and kindly show ladies some luv cos without them we all won't be here...peace

SeanT10: these women are so arrogant. @ opt, if u ever met one, u wont b asking this question. A few of them that get married dont have respect for their husbands anymore. imagine the man bathing the children in d morning [the wife came back home late cos of a meeting ], the husband having to go pickup the children from school because she cant make it.
If u ever date a single successful woman, u are in soup. nothing matters to her if not her success. u will have to write application before u kiss her. should u attempt kissing her without her approval, u go her grammar die. the day u want the koko, oboi u will buy roses, burn candles nd play music throughout the night. if by chance she gets an Email from d office during that period, all u labour for goes for nothing cos she needs to work.
My dear friend, there is no place for marriage in their lives.

kulyie: sympathize with yourself first for being so mentally shallow.


Secondly,i will not be the first or last independent unmarried woman,there are millions of women who share my school of thought and there are also millions who do not,if it makes you angry,you can get me arrested,thank you...

Catalyst101:

Hah, this one don finish... Where is ur mother?

kulyie: so you dont even have sense sha i thought as much earlier. Youbetter harken to my advise before unemployment finishes you and frustration sets in.


I can see how well your mom trained you.is that how they spell 'b1tch'


'beeeeooottttchhhhh' buhahahahaha,try something better,except of course you are an illiterate :D8-)

godjohnson: i heard of a husband simulating droid you can buy on ebay,it works with solar energy, am sure you guys would make a good couple. Cos even with an anti-aircraft gun pointed to my head i won't marry you #no offence#

Dannyxy: I have noticed that women who are very succesful and have attained an appreciable status quo, never get married on time? At times they never marry at all, and according to them, the guys are running away.. Why?

mikeuz:


ITK see how you spell course, its "CAUSE" : F9

Pryme-st*rr:

Exactly my thought!!!... Little wonder why she got her child through ARTIFICIAL INSEMINATION?!
Girl r u tryna tell me dt u can't possibly find urself a gud man 2 work dt Veegee of urs!
Nawa 4 d 21st century/information age woman o!

victorD3:


It has to do with the attitude that comes with a woman acchieving firm and success.

mikeuz:


ITK see how you spell course, its "CAUSE" : F9

Raymondenyi:
Will u shut up n don't write what u know nothing about;
D ladies that achieve such firm n re not mingled with disgusting attitudes! Don't tek timme @ all to get married... It is the once with attitude! Moreover over 98% of them got attitudes, so what do u expect... When stable, they quickly place people they believe re below them! Behave anyhow to them! N always will wanna shw class.. How do u expect such attitudinal being to get mmarried? ( Generally we all know ladies re very greedy n self-centered beings, little 1da, why 2 ladies can't leave in a room 2geda) then imagine d type dat is stable, wat will u expect..,

With d experiences I hv 4rm ladies; I could do things 2x for my male friends, before I consider doing it 1ce for a lady!!!

*wicked set of beings** mtcheeeeeeewww!!!

Mr Aboki:


How old are you?!

My father bathed all 5 of us in the morning, everyday, from nursery school till we were old enough to bath ourselves..
#So whats your point?!

Took us to school every morning... Infact, it was once ina blue moon that my mum would drive us to school. Always my dad.

You are talking utter bullcrap.. Its obvious that you are not even old enough to be married.

The rules of marriage is not Master/Slave.. Its a pratnership with one party having just a 1% majority share (Veto power) to swing those decisions that end in a stalemate.



And I am a married man. Married to a HIGHLY successful lawyer with an annual gross income after taxes of 8 digits per annum.. She still cooks all my food (despite us working almost equal hours), picks out my clothes, takes care of our homes and fulfills her duties to me as a wife.


The bad ones are not the ones we are talking about here.. But if you expect a woman who has worked and toiled hard all of her life to attain great heights to throw it all away and reduce herself to fit into your life and massage your ego, then you are a joker. Real men would rather hussle to be bigger than their wives, rather than cut her down.


#No be quarrel o!! I'm just saying the ugly truth that we men shy away from.

Pryme-st*rr:

Eeehmmmm!
Brosy eh! Why u come fall my hand so na
U 4 jeje attack her via subject matter na than say come mess urself up 4 here via grammatical blunder.
She's correct with her COURSE in d OF COURSE... but u!... Guy u Bleep up wit ur CAUSE joor.

drmary: I was brought up amidst very sucessful women,who are far richer than their husbands e.g my mum,my uncle's wife,my aunty,my mother in law etc.
These women have so much respect for their husbands dt sometimes I get angry.at least I learnt dt having more money than your husband does not mean you should rub it on his face.
It all boils down to the kind of home training you got as a lady.
No african man will allow you rubbish his ego just because you are richer than him,so all you rich single ladies,drop your shoulders find yourselves good men,don't die single,old and frustrated .

kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me
2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.
3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.
4. i cannot give up my independence for nada
5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life might be appreciated or might not even be appreciated
6.mrs wife always comes last in the list of priority in many marriages
7.i dont have to be distracted by any man did this and that nonsense,inlaw craps etc
8.no need hoping,wishing or praying no one cheats etc
9.share my salary with nobody except the people i choose to
10. Live my life for nobody since no one is looking up to me or waiting for me to do this and that for him.

Lordlexyy: If being independent and unmarried makes you happy, so be it. But like it or not, there are better mannered, more intelligent and successful women out there who are submissive and happily married. Your stand is exclusively your believe and i will respect it if you keep it to yourself without necessarily trying to attract sympathy. @ post. True successful women, who earn successes through sheer hard work and divine providence, recognise the value of what being submissive is since it is the same quality that raised them to that ladder, such women will necessarily bring the same thing to her matrimonial home. But the suppose 'independently successful' women who rode on one mogu's back to get to where she is are the most arrogant since they have never tasted discipline that produces real success. Lastly, it is a known fact that most men prefered an independent woman to an arrogant and self centered one.

kulyie: lmao your opinion!


Which you are entitled too anyway and even if i were,what can you do 8-)

ogugua88: Women who are successful and financially independent intimidate some men for at least a few reasons:

1. They're confident, which can sometimes be interpreted as arrogance.
2. They have their own money and can buy their own things, support themselves, etc.
3. They can make a man feel inferior or inadequate, due to reasons given in point 2.

Men, particularly African men, are raised thinking that they are to be the provider; sole more than likely. Gender stereotyping is still rampant. A woman is to cook and clean; a man is to work. A woman who can do what a man can do renders a man useless.

A lot of men have egos, even if they won't admit it in front of women. In all honesty, however, there are some independent women out there who behave like they have both an egg and sperm. I, personally, think men should be more open to independent women as they've got a lot to offer. They're fierce, bold, and can be your rock in tough times. Meanwhile, independent women should be the go-getters that they are and still be womanly. Make a man feel like the man he is; you don't have to do all and be all because you're successful. No one likes a woman with an attitude, regardless of her wealth, fame, beauty, or whichever assets she may have.

dirtymoney: A Guy who has no job got married 2 a banker, despite his fears and
several advices that it's not good to marry without a job. Every month
the girl wud give d guy her full salary of N135k afta removin her
tithe.The guy would give the wife N20k 4personal upkeep and the guy
determined what happened to the remaining money. This happened for
3gud yrs. There was happiness in d family and d wife never refused to do
her primary home duties for that 3 years, despite wrong advice from
friends that 'you can't be paying the bills and still be doing all the
wok'.There was a particular month d guy used about N70,000 2travel frm
state to state for different interviews. He finally got a job with a gud firm
in Port-Harcourt.His salary was N600,000 monthly 4 a start. He bought
his first car (a brand new) for N4.5m, he gave d wife the car key,&
continued to take public transport 2work for abot 2yrs.Then he bought
the 2nd car for N6 million, took d keys of d first car & gave his wife the
keys of the 2nd car.They eventually moved into their own house after
few yrs. One day, d wife was looking 4some documents.She stumbled on
a file neatly hidden, when she opened it, she saw her wedding picture
when she was very slim in d first page of the file.She then saw dat d
document 2the purchase of the land and every other thing in the house
were all written in her name! At d last page was the husband's wedding
picture and a note written by him: ''MY WIFE IS ALL I HAVE GOT. NOT
EVEN THIS HOUSE WORTH N24M AT THE TIME I BUILT IS MINE''.Tears
started to roll down her eyes.This couple got married in 1998. Last
Sunday was their wedding anniversary with 3 children.True LOVE still
exists till this day. Are you sure the love you have for ur partner can be
compared to this one you just read?No matter wat, remember u chose
each other. It doesn't matter who puts food on d table or who pays d
bills.... culled from seth jones facebook page.