TheApologist:
Hi house, please there's this lady I just met some two weeks ago, kinda on rapport building stage but the problem I have is she hardly asks anything about me. She's come over to my place and we chatted well and I intend inviting her over in a few days please how do I get her to show interest in me as I really wish to make her my girlfriend

fucc12:
Is this thread still active?
I'm really having girl troubles, I would really like some advice.

lawrykings:
Please I need your counsel on this.

There is this girl in my place of assignment, I met her, went on a date, we kissed on first date, we even almost bleeped but distraction from friends stopped that . Finally finally we got to Bleep each other at some point and it continued that way.

My problem now is whenever I am around her, there are lots of fishy things about her (calls she receives) like I feel she isn't trustworthy and she is fucking plenty of guys and as the days goes by, I find myself developing feelings for her even though I tried to hide it by sometimes acting like I don't care, which she breaks this defense mechanism strategy by acting submissive and caring.

it's really eating me I don't know what to do because I feel giving her my heart would be risky. Thank you sir. help out

lawrykings:
Please I need your counsel on this.

There is this girl in my place of assignment, I met her, went on a date, we kissed on first date, we even almost bleeped but distraction from friends stopped that . Finally finally we got to Bleep each other at some point and it continued that way.

My problem now is whenever I am around her, there are lots of fishy things about her (calls she receives) like I feel she isn't trustworthy and she is fucking plenty of guys and as the days goes by, I find myself developing feelings for her even though I tried to hide it by sometimes acting like I don't care, which she breaks this defense mechanism strategy by acting submissive and caring.

it's really eating me I don't know what to do because I feel giving her my heart would be risky. Thank you sir. help out

ThaRealist:

Shoot !!

ThaRealist:



The question here is what do you really want??

, because you already got the cookie ... lest I forget , I am assuming this girl is below 24 ... Girls between the ages of 16-24 just wants to explore , they want some adventure , they want some new activities and they get several guys in their dm's that wants them ...

So stop trying to bother yourself about whatever she is doing ...what you should bother about his , do you get her attention whenever you need it ... Leave the distractions man !!

If you are actually clever , you can blend her into what you want by building an open rapport ... Don't try to cage her , don't be aggressive ...

There is a way to deal with this ladies !! Easy does it ...

xxxtedyxxx:
long time everyone, miss you all

tunlaji:


Howfar bros, your tips really work, i`m impressed i wish i knew all this before time. So when you get a gals attention with the line 'i want us to have a hot bleep together but i need your trust and connection first from you', how do u follow up when she responds?

xxxtedyxxx:
Never ever ask a girl if she has a bf.. Becos she alredy knows what u r tryna elicit.. If she is cute n hot..she wil most likely reply wit yes...if if she doesn't av..she will still say yes. No babe wants to be considered a chick without a bf. Assuming she says yes..den what next?..u gona reply..oh...dts cool..which makes u appear weak and not manly. If she says no..she alredy knows u wana propose. Let her bring up d topic her sef..she will most likely bring it wen she is getting attracted to u. And wen she doest..just act like its nothing..ignore it. Or just laf and say..u r not d jealous type. D point is..don't stay on d bf topic. Move to sth else. She is only teling u she has a bf..herself..so u don't think she is cheap or easy. Dats d psychology. The quicker u grrab it..d better.



#Attraction is not Logical. Its Emotional.

tunlaji:


Howfar bros, your tips really work, i`m impressed i wish i knew all this before time. So when you get a gals attention with the line 'i want us to have a hot bleep together but i need your trust and connection first from you', how do u follow up when she responds?

derrick015:
I have an ex I will love to get back with. how do I get her.

xxxtedyxxx:


Y do you want her back?

Is that you invested too much?... if you don't know what investement is, read pages 3-6.

Do you know there are. lots of girls out there waiting for you?

forget about your ez...whats past is past...

move on to other babes.

thats the bitter truth. You cant want someone who doesn't want you back.

open up on how the relationship went, then you can get tips on getting her. back.

xxxtedyxxx:


Your next approach will depend on the kind of response you get. You don't want to make it look like you are pushing or forcing her. You must lead her. Women like to be lead, especially by a man who knows what he wants.

What kind of response did you get?

Cuteli2:
Hi, there's dis girl I like, saw her d first time , tried to approach her but she didn't give attention. Help pls

derrick015:


Ok. I think I get the whole thing. There are lots of girls out there but I can't seem to find the one that attract me. Besides anyone I find is either older than me (which is a no no) or married.

My ex parted with me because of some immature things I did while we were together... It more than a year now.

Please where do I go to to get someone to love

xxxtedyxxx:
keep posting your datibg issues.

lessonsoflife:


So this lady is about 38 and I am 32 though average in height and with the face look of a 25yrs old boy.
This lady works in the same place with me although they said it's not good to friend in the same organization.
This lady is tall about 7 to 8fts with flat tommy I like to hit her and have been to her house severally that the last time I tried touching her tits but for her child, she protested.
Well for some times now I haven't gone to her house because I plan to hit it once and for all. Another problem, sometimes I am a 30seonds man and other times I am 5mins first round and about 30 to 1hr+ second round. This has been limiting me from taking things serious, don't want to mess things up especially since we work together.
Yesterday I was drinking action bitter at work then she came, I got up to buy one for her but she requested I buy recharge card which I declined. So grumbled and left.
She closed for the day and was about to leave meanwhile another staff was outside so they could go together. After she has collected her bag, and was about to leave with the other staff, she said I refused to buy her card. That if I send her love text again she will deal with me.
I am trying to keep our relationship secret but saying that got me angry.
So I sent her an SMS later on. I have attached the image. I don't know if I am wrong but I never wanted taking chances from her.

lahp:



so rude now u missed the chance to hit
bro u just sent her packing


100# recharge is not much
all I have to say is just forget about her

never let emotions overcome u when dealing with ladies

xxxtedyxxx:
keep posting your datibg issues.

xxxtedyxxx:
keep posting your datibg issues.

lahp:



so rude now u missed the chance to hit
bro u just sent her packing


100# recharge is not much
all I have to say is just forget about her

never let emotions overcome u when dealing with ladies

Robisky001:
Boss, kindly do justice to this conundrum. Pls, there's this cutie I met about three weeks ago, though I have been seeing her in Church but I officially walked up to her for friendship 3 weeks ago. I have been doing the random calls and trying to like build rapport with her. I really do like her and would like her to be my girlfriend, I tried asking her out just last week but she came up with the excuse that we will meet in church. We actually met and I brought out the issue again, this time around she said she will be traveling and I was like okay when you comes back from your trip and she said probably. My concerns, what else do I do to make her have a date with me and is it proper to bring up my intention of a relationship with her on our first outing?

lessonsoflife:


So this lady is about 38 and I am 32 though average in height and with the face look of a 25yrs old boy.
This lady works in the same place with me although they said it's not good to friend in the same organization.
This lady is tall about 7 to 8fts with flat tommy I like to hit her and have been to her house severally that the last time I tried touching her tits but for her child, she protested.
Well for some times now I haven't gone to her house because I plan to hit it once and for all. Another problem, sometimes I am a 30seonds man and other times I am 5mins first round and about 30 to 1hr+ second round. This has been limiting me from taking things serious, don't want to mess things up especially since we work together.
Yesterday I was drinking action bitter at work then she came, I got up to buy one for her but she requested I buy recharge card which I declined. So grumbled and left.
She closed for the day and was about to leave meanwhile another staff was outside so they could go together. After she has collected her bag, and was about to leave with the other staff, she said I refused to buy her card. That if I send her love text again she will deal with me.
I am trying to keep our relationship secret but saying that got me angry.
So I sent her an SMS later on. I have attached the image. I don't know if I am wrong but I never wanted taking chances from her.

xxxtedyxxx:


Welcome brother. Thanks for stoppong by and letting your heart out.

First..forget the fact that you like her. Yes you do like her, but keep that aside, or else, it will becloud your judgement and your approach.

Please don't ask her out again...in short, dont ever ask a girl out again. You have brought it up already. She obviously knows what you want, or where you are going; hence, the excuse of meeting up in church, and she travelling.

Don't ask her out again...just act like a boyfriend. In short, anytime you meet a girl, it's important to act like a boyfriend. Acting like a boyfriend from day one increases your chances of you ending up with her as your girl.

Do this, and the investment level will change. Ask her out again, and she would probably friendzone you or give another excuse.

You stir up attraction in her when you act like a boyfriend. Forget her excuses, if she wants to give you a reply, there and then, she will. She is just not attracted to you thats why.

Boyfriends don't act too serious when they are with their babes. They play light, they tease, they role play, they use endearing names, they take 2 step forward, 1 step back.

Stop being too serious with her. Her attraction will not skyrocket if she says yes to you today. Focus on increasing the attraction first.

By the way, does she invest? Does she laugh around you, call you, text,start chats etc? If ahe doesn't, start acting like a boyfriend, and watch what happens. She will surely feel your wavelength, and fine-tune hers to resonate with yours.

Do you know there are lota of girls like her? Don't limit yourself. Run other babes too. It will make you less desperate, and not dependent on one babe's reply.

Dating is a numbers game.

Cheers brother.