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Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:07pm On Dec 12, 2013
Hey pals...am teddy..aka sweetpapa. The purpose of this thread is to improve our dating game; and if u r aving any dating bottle-necks..u can tell us here and get ur advice. First tins first..pls no insults..if u don't like a post,simple ignore it. Let's help one another. Am gona be posting stuffs dat hav worked for me over the Years. Thankx for stopping by.

Note: IF U INSULT ME--- I GO SWEAR FOR UR DESTINY..Lols

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:17pm On Dec 12, 2013
Gona be kicking this thread off wit a basic concept. YOUR inner Game. That's basically abt ur beliefs or how u see ur ursef. Ur sense of worth and oda stuffs relating to Your inner pysche. Do u see ur sef as ugly, tall, short, etc..well.if u r aving a limiting belief..u need to fix dat first. Becos in the long run..its gona affect how u relate to girl...basically ur outer-game. More on dat later.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:20pm On Dec 12, 2013
av u ever seen a crazy chick u wud like to meet.but u were just so scared u cudnt even look her in the eye or say Hi..?..well I guess u av... Do u av a chick u wana get all cosy wit?..but u don't just know ow or she keeps rejecting ur moves. Pls note. Am not talking about prostitutes here...I mean real chicks.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:08pm On Dec 12, 2013
So we kick It off wit FMAC....FMAC is an acronym for Find Meet Attract Close.

Find-- dis is basically d part where u av to look for the chick, be it online, or one-on one

Meet- dis is d part where u open the chick.. Or say hi. A simple line I crafted myself dat works all d time is "" hey..hi..I av seen u arnd a few times, but we a avent met...am <insert ur name here>"" #smile...u can move ahead from there. Note its ur dilivery dat matters..u may or may not use d same exact words.u can frame it arnd to sth dat suits you.

Attract -- this is d part where u ease her and make her relax using different methods. Humour,buying temperation,teasing,role play etc

Close- this is d part where u get her contacts or u move the convo to a different location. Closing can also mean s**x too. So it all despends on your time constraints.

Note..u don't av to be Goodlooking...Just be LOooking GOOOD.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by mojibbz(m): 10:12pm On Dec 12, 2013
Nice topic OP...I dey subscribe sharpaly.. Well done
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:16pm On Dec 12, 2013
mojibbz: Nice topic OP...u dey subscribe sharpaly


tђA̲̅n×..more stuffs coming Up

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:27pm On Dec 12, 2013
Hi friends..u can start posting ur dating issues or any area u aving problems... I will do my best to help.

Guys take dis.. Here is a working line I crafted. It works in populated places like ur sch department, motion grounds..or places whre u av lots of peeps..going up n down.

""Hi, excuse me, I know dis is really forward of me, but I was goin to regret it if I didn't say dis..I tink u r amazing cute..and I just had to say hello""

U can also remix it like dis

....""Hi.I saw u walking past, and ur dress sense attracted me....what dept r u" blah blah..or just introduce ur sef. This line works cos an inherent excuse is already embedded in it. Note u don't av to use d exact wordings...but if u want to..Go ahead.It works. U can also remix it anyow u like.

By d way..never approach a babe from behind. It sucks..it makes u seem like a nuisance. She myt just be like "" who dey Bleep is dis again"

Always approach.head on..wit a smile..or coming from adjacent her. And Note never take an approach too serious..Go out dere and catch fun. And pls don't forget ...""U DONT Av TO be GOOdLOOKINg...JUst be LOOking GOOd"..lols

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by 2Awesome: 10:28pm On Dec 12, 2013
I am a learner ooooo. Nothing will make me happier than having a big booty girl as a gift from santa. What I want for december is a big booty girl.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:35pm On Dec 12, 2013
I will be talking abt emotional investment now. U see ..emotional investment is what makes a guy regret or lament after a breakup. It is no longer news dat "" the one who invests more in a relationship or dating cover or chat, is d one dat is more attracted" . Simple as ABC. Do u call her more dan ten times a day and she barely flashes u or sends u pls call me?..my guy..u r d one dat is more invested. Are u d one doing stuffs for her all d time?...u send her credit, call her, say hi, u r d one always starting d chat..my Guy..u r d one dat is more invested. ...u see ..d basic stuff is dis..once a girl is invested in U..she automatically likes U. Girls don't decide weda dey wana like a guy or not. Attraction wit a girl is emotional. If u like buy am shawarma tire..if she no feel u..she no go like U. So my advice for u is dis...reduce ur rate of emotional investment..and make her do some work. Relax and chil, don't call her for a while..give her d gift of missing u. Stop spending ur cash anyow..wen u know she aint feeling U. The person dat invests little is d one dat calls d short. No wonder..haha..if d babe say she no wan see u..or she no do again..after u don do lots of tins for her..u go begin cry like small pikin..#justjoking.. And don't forget. Sex is the greatest investment.


Unto the next one.pals.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 10:36pm On Dec 12, 2013
noted...op help me awt... there's this chick i saw on fb,xchanged contacts and text via whatsapp! 17,shes 16 +... am 100+,she js got admitted,am in ESUT,shes in UNILAG,am in engrng,she,acc...wer still in hobbies discussion,shez rili cute,i aint ugly either... how can i step up ma game and have her as my girlfriend before christmas

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:48pm On Dec 12, 2013
ifex370: noted...op help me awt... there's this chick i saw on fb,xchanged contacts and text via whatsapp! 17,shes 16 +... am 100+,she js got admitted,am in ESUT,shes in UNILAG,am in engrng,she,acc...wer still in hobbies discussion,shez rili cute,i aint ugly either... how can i step up ma game and have her as my girlfriend before christmas

U need to do a couple of tins.. Here are d tins u need to do.

1) Get her invested. ...don't keep the convo..on just d usual whatsap..do some calls and step dat up. Joke wit her n laf wit her...she wil most like return ur calls too..witing a shor pace

2) U want her to be ur gf ryt?..well don't ask her out.. Just start behaving as her gf... U see d mistake most guys make is asking a girl to be dier gf..wen dat happens u give her d chance to say yes or no..which is bad. Don't forget attraction is emotional..not logical..its d way u make her feel dat will spike up..her attactrion for u. A simple way of acting like her bf alrdy..is start calling her baby... Or let's take for example..u r chatting wit her..use d work bbe, or baby, or sweets..here and dere..its simple...""Hey there babe,ow u doing"..u can also voice it during calls... D basic point is..act like her bf. Sup wit u babe..av u eaten?...how u doing tonite babe...op ur nite is starting out fine...blah blah

3) Don't be desperate. U want her as ur girl before xmas..xmas is alredy here. Don't ask if she has a bf alrdy.. Dat will be going bk to square one. If u do..u myt just be bringing up d picture of anoda guy into her subsconcious

Basically...make her invest..get her to share pics wit u...wen u take genuine interest in a babe..she will definitely open up to u...tell her..."" Its really been nice getting to know u..its fun...I feel like I av known u..for such a long time..I just feel free and open wit u"" she will most likely reciprocate. And become open n free wit u.

4) Get romantic..u can use role play, future projection...etc..I will explain dese concepts for u.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 10:57pm On Dec 12, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:

U need to do a couple of tins.. Here are d tins u need to do.

1) Get her invested. ...don't keep the convo..on just d usual whatsap..do some calls and step dat up. Joke wit her n laf wit her...she wil most like return ur calls too..witing a shor pace

2) U want her to be ur gf ryt?..well don't ask her out.. Just start behaving as her gf... U see d mistake most guys make is asking a girl to be dier gf..wen dat happens u give her d chance to say yes or no..which is bad. Don't forget attraction is emotional..not logical..its d way u make her feel dat will spike up..her attactrion for u. A simple way of acting like her bf alrdy..is start calling her baby... Or let's take for example..u r chatting wit her..use d work bbe, or baby, or sweets..here and dere..its simple...""Hey there babe,ow u doing"..u can also voice it during calls... D basic point is..act like her bf. Sup wit u babe..av u eaten?...how u doing tonite babe...op ur nite is starting out fine...blah blah

3) Don't be desperate. U want her as ur girl before xmas..xmas is alredy here. Don't ask if she has a bf alrdy.. Dat will be going bk to square one. If u do..u myt just be bringing up d picture of anoda guy into her subsconcious

Basically...make her invest..get her to share pics wit u...wen u take genuine interest in a babe..she will definitely open up to u...tell her..."" Its really been nice getting to know u..its fun...I feel like I av known u..for such a long time..I just feel free and open wit u"" she will most likely reciprocate. And become open n free wit u.

4) Get romantic..u can use role play, future projection...etc..I will explain dese concepts for u.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 10:58pm On Dec 12, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:

U need to do a couple of tins.. Here are d tins u need to do.

1) Get her invested. ...don't keep the convo..on just d usual whatsap..do some calls and step dat up. Joke wit her n laf wit her...she wil most like return ur calls too..witing a shor pace

2) U want her to be ur gf ryt?..well don't ask her out.. Just start behaving as her gf... U see d mistake most guys make is asking a girl to be dier gf..wen dat happens u give her d chance to say yes or no..which is bad. Don't forget attraction is emotional..not logical..its d way u make her feel dat will spike up..her attactrion for u. A simple way of acting like her bf alrdy..is start calling her baby... Or let's take for example..u r chatting wit her..use d work bbe, or baby, or sweets..here and dere..its simple...""Hey there babe,ow u doing"..u can also voice it during calls... D basic point is..act like her bf. Sup wit u babe..av u eaten?...how u doing tonite babe...op ur nite is starting out fine...blah blah

3) Don't be desperate. U want her as ur girl before xmas..xmas is alredy here. Don't ask if she has a bf alrdy.. Dat will be going bk to square one. If u do..u myt just be bringing up d picture of anoda guy into her subsconcious

Basically...make her invest..get her to share pics wit u...wen u take genuine interest in a babe..she will definitely open up to u...tell her..."" Its really been nice getting to know u..its fun...I feel like I av known u..for such a long time..I just feel free and open wit u"" she will most likely reciprocate. And become open n free wit u.

4) Get romantic..u can use role play, future projection...etc..I will explain dese concepts for u.
op hellp me oo,am in deep poo,we r chattin even now and heres what i sed " Forgive me,if am being too forward or something,buh,i js have to ask js dis one que!" the next que was supposed to be "do you have a boyfriend?".... buh i js read ur advice... what do i tel her now,shes waiting for d question

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:04pm On Dec 12, 2013
ifex370: op hellp me oo,am in deep poo,we r chattin even now and heres what i sed " Forgive me,if am being too forward or something,buh,i js have to ask js dis one que!" the next que was supposed to be "do you have a boyfriend?".... buh i js read ur advice... what do i tel her now,shes waiting for d question

Tell her..." Are u a gud cook?"" Den joke wit her reply

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:06pm On Dec 12, 2013
Hope that wasn't late sha. Just joke wit her reply..if she says yes.."Lols..indomie shey....or just say...ll...yea I gues so..I bet u can only cook indomie... D aim is to make her open to u.. Sorry for late replies ma network is kinda bad.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 11:10pm On Dec 12, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: Hope that wasn't late sha. Just joke wit her reply..if she says yes.."Lols..indomie shey....or just say...ll...yea I gues so..I bet u can only cook indomie... D aim is to make her open to u.. Sorry for late replies ma network is kinda bad.
hehehe... trust ur boi na... i asked her about her fav meal,with a smiley... imagine d tension.. i'm sure her mind must ve gone smwhr else grin ... am baq on track... what next

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:14pm On Dec 12, 2013
Never ever ask a girl if she has a bf.. Becos she alredy knows what u r tryna elicit.. If she is cute n hot..she wil most likely reply wit yes...if if she doesn't av..she will still say yes. No babe wants to be considered a chick without a bf. Assuming she says yes..den what next?..u gona reply..oh...dts cool..which makes u appear weak and not manly. If she says no..she alredy knows u wana propose. Let her bring up d topic her sef..she will most likely bring it wen she is getting attracted to u. And wen she doest..just act like its nothing..ignore it. Or just laf and say..u r not d jealous type. D point is..don't stay on d bf topic. Move to sth else. She is only teling u she has a bf..herself..so u don't think she is cheap or easy. Dats d psychology. The quicker u grrab it..d better.



#Attraction is not Logical. Its Emotional.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 11:15pm On Dec 12, 2013
i js got her num ydae... n we stay in d same city... i really hope tins cn work out btw us...

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:17pm On Dec 12, 2013
ifex370: hehehe... trust ur boi na... i asked her about her fav meal,with a smiley... imagine d tension.. i'm sure her mind must ve gone smwhr else grin ... am baq on track... what next

Nice one.I like dat....I bet she is more open to u now.. Keep geting light topics, her most embarassing day, her happiest day..her favrt song...den u can end it up..wit my gues what am tinking..tecnique

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:19pm On Dec 12, 2013
ifex370: i js got her num ydae... n we stay in d same city... i really hope tins cn work out btw us...

It will work... Just relax ur mind...don't fidget.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 11:19pm On Dec 12, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: Never ever ask a girl if she has a bf.. Becos she alredy knows what u r tryna elicit.. If she is cute n hot..she wil most likely reply wit yes...if if she doesn't av..she will still say yes. No babe wants to be considered a chick without a bf. Assuming she says yes..den what next?..u gona reply..oh...dts cool..which makes u appear weak and not manly. If she says no..she alredy knows u wana propose. Let her bring up d topic her sef..she will most likely bring it wen she is getting attracted to u. And wen she doest..just act like its nothing..ignore it. Or just laf and say..u r not d jealous type. D point is..don't stay on d bf topic. Move to sth else. She is only teling u she has a bf..herself..so u don't think she is cheap or easy. Dats d psychology. The quicker u grrab it..d better.



#Attraction is not Logical. Its Emotional.
u know.... ur completely right oo.. that's how i messed tins up with dis gal i had a chance with.. ma guy almost swore with his life dat she was single,buh she still said she wasn't ... wish i was dis smart a few months bk...




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ehen,op am sorry for keeping u up this late... i hope u make front page... i'l keep coming bk for more advice... u rock

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:21pm On Dec 12, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:

It will work... Just relax ur mind...don't fidget.
the best tin u wana do now is give her positive emotions she can sleep of with...I hope u av given her a nick name alrdy..a gud nickname dat will give her positive feelings..wen u call it or use it...I call..ma gf tomtom...cos she is cute and troublesome. Give her a funny unique name.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 11:25pm On Dec 12, 2013
yeah... i'm gona name her cheese balls.. all this running around z making me loose concentration on her and kip her hanging... grls dnt like dat... hehe brb.... buh op

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enlighten me on that "guess what am tinking tecnique abeg"

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:34pm On Dec 12, 2013
ifex370: u know.... ur completely right oo.. that's how i messed tins up with dis gal i had a chance with.. ma guy almost swore with his life dat she was single,buh she still said she wasn't ... wish i was dis smart a few months bk...




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ehen,op am sorry for keeping u up this late... i hope u make front page... i'l keep coming bk for more advice... u rock


Its all gud..bro...we make mistakes..but d best tin..is bouncing bk..I lost some cool opportunities too..wen I was still a novince in the game.




Am Glad u r making progress. Keep it UP

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:36pm On Dec 12, 2013
ifex370: yeah... i'm gona name her cheese balls.. all this running around z making me loose concentration on her and kip her hanging... grls dnt like dat... hehe brb.... buh op

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enlighten me on that "guess what am tinking tecnique abeg"


Dts onpoint..lols..nice nick..use it to lighten her up..everynow and den. Don't forget to give her positive emotions... D slow replies r ok...for her.it makes her anxious.wondering what u r gona say next..don't always reply immediately..and don't make it too late too..be unpredictable. Girls love it.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 11:43pm On Dec 12, 2013
hehe... shez fillin d boy yeah.. am still waitin for dat tecnique oo... and dd i say UNILAG I mearnt UNIBEN,js for references purposes though...

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:04am On Dec 13, 2013
ifex370: hehe... shez fillin d boy yeah.. am still waitin for dat tecnique oo... and dd i say UNILAG I mearnt UNI
BEN,js for references purposes though...


Ok..no p..I call..it..Emotional Bomb..its basically an emotional spike. It shud be used wen d convo between u and d babe is goin fine. It can be spoken or written..asin during chat. Here is it... Its not compulsory u use it exactly.u can spice it up. Dis tecnique is kinda pyschological..it uses future projection and other covert tecniques that can influence behaviour.

You..: .hey de..<Funny nickname> gues what..

Her :..what...


You... Guess what am tinking

Her: what..# or sth like dat..or I can't gues



You... Am just tinking abt u wearing sth like a cute skimpy tyt gown...not to skimpty n tight doh.don't want guys staring @ ur ass.(Backside). And ur hair looking long and falling over d sides of ur face, while u r adored wit. Lovely earings, and some cute high heels to match...#but pls not too high oh...(Suprise smily or suprise face frome u) cos if u fall down..I won't carry u up oh...lolz....


Her-- wow...(Positive respons) # note she will most likely defend her sef concerning wearing heels n blah blah


I crafted dis routine ma sef and it works all d time..I av given it to most of ma friends and it always elicit a gud response.

U can always joke n tease her abt her respons. It works all d time.
Her :what

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Tabh(f): 12:08am On Dec 13, 2013
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 12:19am On Dec 13, 2013
haha... we js ended d chat now... told her to go to bed... we l continue again tmao...might as well call her sef!!! grin xmas tins ooo

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by CertifiedFreak(m): 12:20am On Dec 13, 2013
Spot on; IMO tho' a girl that doesn't dig u won't give u tha time of tha day. Be a real fine specimen then this would make things easier.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 12:23am On Dec 13, 2013
Tabh: undecided undecided
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:25am On Dec 13, 2013
Some few tips friends.

There are always more women out there...so be a challenge...av dis mentality of absolute abundance..and stop kiiling ur sef over one babe. There lots of cute babes out there.

Don't care or give a Bleep what she tinks abt u..just attract her. Simple as abc.. Remove d focus from ur sef and focus ur mental beams on her.

Whatever method u are using, make it look spontaeneous...not pre-meditated.


Its the act dat gets u women..not the act it self....stop thing abt d s***x too much and focus on the little tins dat u will do..to get u there. Focus on the process..Not the outcome.

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