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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Tabh(f): 12:33am On Dec 13, 2013
Are the tips for men alone? How bout women?

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:38am On Dec 13, 2013
Certified Freak: Spot on; IMO tho' a girl that doesn't dig u won't give u tha time of tha day. Be a real fine specimen then this would make things easier.

I respect ur views...but do u know thinking like dis can lower ur potentials of getting a girl?....u aint got a ride, fone, handsome face, and oda limiting beliefs like dat. Trust me..all dis doesn't make a true chick like u. # she go just chop u run. Yes a fine face goes a long way..I respect dat. But what if u don't look like wizkid.does dat mean u shudnt make a move..yes it makes d job easier but trust me..I av dated hot chicks..and I aint even handsome..I ugly pass akpors..its all abt ur self esteem.I respect ur views man.. Thumbs Up.bro

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Mcslize: 1:19am On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx I am glad coming across this threead. I just met this girl online. I told myself am gonna take things slow without rush. In our first time chat al I did was to get to know her. What she do, Her Hobbies, and all that which really made Her feel free with me. Along the line after chatting wit Her for few days she has been waiting for me to ask Her of Her number but I didn't I then simply post to her 'I think it is high time we get taliking on the phone waiting for the right time.' her reply was now is the time and immediately post me her number. I didn't call Her for two days. We were just chatting along the line I post her a romance poem and her reply was 'I luv u'. Everything was going pretty fine until lately I began noticing that she is no longer into me as at the first time. Wen I post to her weneva she is online she hardly reply me. I believe I have gotten it wrong some where. My question now is I really want this girl to be Heel to head in luv wit me ann I want to keep her emotional attraction stable for me. How do I make Her fall deeply in luv with me?

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:45am On Dec 13, 2013
Mcslize: xxxtedyxxx I am glad coming across this threead. I just met this girl online. I told myself am gonna take things slow without rush. In our first time chat al I did was to get to know her. What she do, Her Hobbies, and all that which really made Her feel free with me. Along the line after chatting wit Her for few days she has been waiting for me to ask Her of Her number but I didn't I then simply post to her 'I think it is high time we get taliking on the phone waiting for the right time.' her reply was now is the time and immediately post me her number. I didn't call Her for two days. We were just chatting along the line I post her a romance poem and her reply was 'I luv u'. Everything was going pretty fine until lately I began noticing that she is no longer into me as at the first time. Wen I post to her weneva she is online she hardly reply me. I believe I have gotten it wrong some where. My question now is I really want this girl to be Heel to head in luv wit me ann I want to keep her emotional attraction stable for me. How do I make Her fall deeply in luv with me?


Alryt. There is something abt emotional attraction..once she is feeling u..u need to act fast..not delay it. Itz like striking the metal when it's red hot. U made some mistakes. Chatting wit her gave her positive feelings. U got her nbr n wasted time making ur impact. The positive feelings u instilled in her the first time has waned. The best tin now for u to do..is to call her.... Send her a cute morning text..dis moring.. Like " hi dear...hope u slept fine and had a happy wake... Av a blast!"

U can den give her a call later..like some few hours after dat. Reduce d chatting n focus on fone interaction. Get the positive feelings back.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Mcslize: 2:06am On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:


Alryt. There is something abt emotional attraction..once she is feeling u..u need to act fast..not delay it. Itz like striking the metal when it's red hot. U made some mistakes. Chatting wit her gave her positive feelings. U got her nbr n wasted time making ur impact. The positive feelings u instilled in her the first time has waned. The best tin now for u to do..is to call her.... Send her a cute morning text..dis moring.. Like " hi dear...hope u slept fine and had a happy wake... Av a blast!"

U can den give her a call later..like some few hours after dat. Reduce d chatting n focus on fone interaction. Get the positive feelings back.

Thanks a lot

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:15am On Dec 13, 2013
More stuffs coming up..right away...u can post ur dating issues or sticking points.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:15am On Dec 13, 2013
Mcslize:

Thanks a lot

U wcm bro...
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:26am On Dec 13, 2013
Hey guys take dis.... Av used dis a couple of times... U r talking to a girl and she aint responding at all....


#het r u robot or sth....""#where is ur remote control""

Dat usually cracks 'em up.

Don't be a nuisance tho. You see the problem wit us guys is dat, most times wen a girl doesn't respond we tend to push it too hard. Several times, an unresponsive girl myt just be goin tru lots of personal issues dat r unrelated to u. Its not abt ur game...d girl myt not just be a in a gud mood. So don't push too hard... Just smile....abt it. Don't get angry or insult her in anyway.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 6:21am On Dec 13, 2013
am back.... hmmm u guys stayed up late! na wao...
anyway i guess its time to send a good morning love text... brb
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:47am On Dec 13, 2013
MøЯ‎הł‎הĞ PΛŁŚ....let's continue

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 8:02am On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: MøЯ‎הł‎הĞ PΛŁŚ....let's continue
no wahala...
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:03am On Dec 13, 2013
Let me start the day with dis...:

Don't focus on your shortcomings ...its better to focus on ur good qualities. Most guys give demselves 1000 and 1 reasons and excuses why they can't get a girl or date one. Ignore ur limiting beliefs and just go for it. Women find attraction by how a man makes dem feel.


~~~

Insecurity is always un-attractive. Don't assume everyone sees ur shortcomins...ur height, face , legs..etc.

~~~
A guy can be attractive wen he controls his presence.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:10am On Dec 13, 2013
Let's talk about how to build rapport. Rapport building wit a chick can be fun..like seriously..u know u..just jumping from one thread to anoda..applying humour and different teasing techniques.

Its essential u don't ignore d stage of rapport building wit a new chick...cos if u ignore dis step..u will always start all-over from square one. What do u tink makes a chick reply u wit:
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""oh..sorry..we aint dat close yet" ..or y do u think she always flakes on u..wenever u wana invite her?
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Or she gives u always stops u wen u wana go for the kiss or sth...

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Building rapport will make a chick..open up to u...rapport building tips..applied wit crazy attraction tecniques will get her thinking u r a bf alredy.without even asking her out...

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:23am On Dec 13, 2013
Pls note: all rapport tecniques must be sincere. Am not a fan of the school that believes in lies to get a girl. If u like lie say ur papa na dangote. If she aint feeling u...she aint bro. Being truthful matters..so she doesn't flake on u later wen she realizes tha "" wow.so na ajegunle dis boy dey stay..person wey lie say na banana island"" :PPls note: all rapport tecniques must be sincere. Am not a fan of the school that believes in lies to get a girl. If u like lie say ur papa na dangote. If she aint feeling u...she aint bro. Being truthful matters..so she doesn't flake on u later wen she realizes tha "" wow.so na ajegunle dis boy dey stay..person wey lie say na banana island"" grin

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Here are some fun questions I av used with success..


So..what do u do for fun <insert her name>?
- most chicks will reply wit their hobbies or sth along the lie...

If u wana spice it up..some more...u can use... ""So what do u do for fun..don't say shopping oh""#smile..or add a funny smiley if u r chatting wit her.


Where did u grow up?

Are u like a middle born..or sth...?..u don't appear like last born to me though #dis question wil always open her up abt her family...show true appreciation for her family...tell her abt urs too...u can end it up..wit ...

" Lucy....u ve got a very interesting family..wow.. I love ur mum" dat will get her suprised..lols....

If she asks y..just tell her..her mum did a gud job..bringing a cute chick like her into d world..or sth along dat line.

#other cool questions

If she describes an event or sth dat happend to her..don't forget to ask.."How did dat make u feel" trust me..u can't over-use it. Ladies r all abt..d passion...and ow sth makes dem feel. A girl can buy a fancy stuff..not becos she likes it..but just becos of d way it makes her feel....

#to be continued

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by lordfalcao(m): 8:32am On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: Hey guys take dis.... Av used dis a couple of times... U r talking to a girl and she aint responding at all....


#het r u robot or sth....""#where is ur remote control""

Dat usually cracks 'em up.

Don't be a nuisance tho. You see the problem wit us guys is dat, most times wen a girl doesn't respond we tend to push it too hard. Several times, an unresponsive girl myt just be goin tru lots of personal issues dat r unrelated to u. Its not abt ur game...d girl myt not just be a in a gud mood. So don't push too hard... Just smile....abt it. Don't get angry or insult her in anyway.
guy did you graduate from woman affairs or something?? I just used DAT robot stuff and a lady who added me on bb but has been snubbing me replied...she said am sorry dear... holy grail!

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 8:39am On Dec 13, 2013
angry op wait naaa.... lemme finish copying previous notes niii.... plus i have to cram dem also... small small abeg... we will get there...

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:02am On Dec 13, 2013
lord_falcao: guy did you graduate from woman affairs or something?? I just used DAT robot stuff and a lady who added me on bb but has been snubbing me replied...she said am sorry dear... holy grail!


Lols...thumbs Up bro
.Keep it Up

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by lordfalcao(m): 9:07am On Dec 13, 2013
ifex370: angry op wait naaa.... lemme finish copying previous notes niii.... plus i have to cram dem also... small small abeg... we will get there...
just screenshot am

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by lordfalcao(m): 9:08am On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:


Lols...thumbs Up bro
.Keep it Up
hehehr she's a very mature lady...I haven't dated that type...buh wanna give a try...how can I step up...we are just in introduction
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:10am On Dec 13, 2013
Continuation...Rapport Tips

If she mentions an experience or sth dat happened to her..u can follow up wit. ""What was it like?""

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What do u find challenging abt ur work..school..blah blah?

What do u find challenging abt cooking....etc
What do u find challenging abt X...

Where X can be cooking, dancing,her work,swimming, a particular hobbie she mentioned...etc

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If she says she is a nurse, makeup artiste..blah blah..u can ask..." So what inspired u to become...blah blah"

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Get her to open Up to u..and make sure u use active listening.

Avoid red flags..or sticking points..wen u can listen actively to a babe..u can tell what topics she is pounding on and d once she is avoiding.

~~~

I used these rapport tips on a chick..and she ended up telling me one of her secrets.. She was raped @ age 12 by one of her older cousins. It was a touchy topic for her, and she ended up crying. Well..I just had to avoid the topic all togeda..made her laf, and in no time..she was even laughing amid her tears.


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Avoid red flags...

Notice her points of interests and feed on them.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:18am On Dec 13, 2013
Pls note: u can use dese concepts weda u r talking wit her one on one..or chatting wit her on fbook,whatsapp..bbm..blah blah

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So friends, dts just abt active listening...if she says sth she is proud of,repeat it to her, don't just av a blank still look, don't interrupt her until she is done. The BEST TOPIC U CAN TALK ABOUT WIT A GIRL...is herself.

Talk her about her, show genuine interest.


She..--yea I am aving a great day...chillin tins tho..

You-- oh..a great day..I see u r aving fun alredy...so wat r u cooking today?...


Blah blah...bounce to a different thread..based on her replies.

~~~

You can also echo and mirror her words. I like dis one wella..hehe.

E.g.

Kemi - it was a tough exam...really tough..I just had to do ma best.

You-- yea..It was a tough exam..but u survived...congrats..

#repeat d main point...wit a different wording..always make sure ..u keep the convo goin..don't get ur sef into a deadzone.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 9:26am On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: Continuation...Rapport Tips

If she mentions an experience or sth dat happened to her..u can follow up wit. ""What was it like?""

~~~

What do u find challenging abt ur work..school..blah blah?

What do u find challenging abt cooking....etc
What do u find challenging abt X...

Where X can be cooking, dancing,her work,swimming, a particular hobbie she mentioned...etc

~~~

If she says she is a nurse, makeup artiste..blah blah..u can ask..." So what inspired u to become...blah blah"

~~~

Get her to open Up to u..and make sure u use active listening.

Avoid red flags..or sticking points..wen u can listen actively to a babe..u can tell what topics she is pounding on and d once she is avoiding.

~~~

I used these rapport tips on a chick..and she ended up telling me one of her secrets.. She was raped @ age 12 by one of her older cousins. It was a touchy topic for her, and she ended up crying. Well..I just had to avoid the topic all togeda..made her laf, and in no time..she was even laughing amid her tears.


~~~~

Avoid red flags...

Notice her points of interests and feed on them.
this one is best practised on OTA transmission ooo... in oda words... u have to call her.. n hear her voice,maybe nite call,or js try load #200 port go family n frnds... call go long die... dnt ever expect to win a grls heart via texting alone!
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 9:28am On Dec 13, 2013
shay am ryt @op
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:37am On Dec 13, 2013
ifex370: this one is best practised on OTA transmission ooo... in oda words... u have to call her.. n hear her voice,maybe nite call,or js try load #200 port go family n frnds... call go long die... dnt ever expect to win a grls heart via texting alone!

Lols yeah..dts correct.

Well..I usually go back and forth between calling...and chatting..and hooking up on dates.

Going bk n forth between calling n chatting ensures u become a part of her quickly.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:38am On Dec 13, 2013
Guys drop ur dating issues and problems.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:39am On Dec 13, 2013
If u av any questions, u can also drop it.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by lordfalcao(m): 11:05am On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx: If u av any questions, u can also drop it.
you haven't anserd my question about d lady how to step up and ain her heart

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by GeneralShepherd(m): 11:47am On Dec 13, 2013
xxxtedyxxx:

U need to do a couple of tins.. Here are d tins u need to do.

1) Get her invested. ...don't keep the convo..on just d usual whatsap..do some calls and step dat up. Joke wit her n laf wit her...she wil most like return ur calls too..witing a shor pace

2) U want her to be ur gf ryt?..well don't ask her out.. Just start behaving as her gf... U see d mistake most guys make is asking a girl to be dier gf..wen dat happens u give her d chance to say yes or no..which is bad. Don't forget attraction is emotional..not logical..its d way u make her feel dat will spike up..her attactrion for u. A simple way of acting like her bf alrdy..is start calling her baby... Or let's take for example..u r chatting wit her..use d work bbe, or baby, or sweets..here and dere..its simple...""Hey there babe,ow u doing"..u can also voice it during calls... D basic point is..act like her bf. Sup wit u babe..av u eaten?...how u doing tonite babe...op ur nite is starting out fine...blah blah

3) Don't be desperate. U want her as ur girl before xmas..xmas is alredy here. Don't ask if she has a bf alrdy.. Dat will be going bk to square one. If u do..u myt just be bringing up d picture of anoda guy into her subsconcious

Basically...make her invest..get her to share pics wit u...wen u take genuine interest in a babe..she will definitely open up to u...tell her..."" Its really been nice getting to know u..its fun...I feel like I av known u..for such a long time..I just feel free and open wit u"" she will most likely reciprocate. And become open n free wit u.

4) Get romantic..u can use role play, future projection...etc..I will explain dese concepts for u.

I give it to you,you are good

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Mcslize: 11:47am On Dec 13, 2013
Mehn I like this Thread wella. Wow am gonna make use of all these. xxxtedyxxx could u believe I asked the girl last night wen was the last time she felt excited about me and she replied that wen we newly got chatting. Meaning not any more. But from this moment on I wil be using these tips let me see how she wil feel in the next few days about me. Thanks Bro. A bigger hug for ya. I am actually good at making a lady feel my vibe at the beginnign but always don't know how to maintain her attraction on a stable state along the line. I need more tips. Thanks @ xxxtedxxx

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:16pm On Dec 13, 2013
lord_falcao: hehehr she's a very mature lady...I haven't dated that type...buh wanna give a try...how can I step up...we are just in introduction

Roger that. Ur aim @ dis point is to steer some form of attraction in her, u can easily do dat using rapport. Ur stage in d convo now is @ stage one. U need to get to know each..but getting to know each oda shud be fun n exciting for her, u can use rapport tips. Next tin. Is to stir some form of attraction in her, using teasing.. Den u get her nbr..and talk on one one. Chatting only won't do d job. And its important u don't rush it. Don't chat wit her all d time...do it sparsely..if u av any issues...holla

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:24pm On Dec 13, 2013
Mcslize: Mehn I like this Thread wella. Wow am gonna make use of all these. xxxtedyxxx could u believe I asked the girl last night wen was the last time she felt excited about me and she replied that wen we newly got chatting. Meaning not any more. But from this moment on I wil be using these tips let me see how she wil feel in the next few days about me. Thanks Bro. A bigger hug for ya. I am actually good at making a lady feel my vibe at the beginnign but always don't know how to maintain her attraction on a stable state along the line. I need more tips. Thanks @ xxxtedxxx

Thumbs Up..u are doing a great job. Yea...u are able to get d girl attracted @ d beginning but d attraction dies down...hope I am not mistaken. Here is what u shud do. Girls see attraction differently..if u don't feed it..it will die down.. But if u can get a girl attracted, den u can get her emotionaly invested, trust me. The attraction won't die easily. Ladies appreciate and value tins dey work for. So get them attracted like normal, tease play,call,..and make dem.invest too, like calling u, texting...blah blah..once a girl sees dat she is involved in d convo..she won't let it die. You also need to start using d nickname tin..give her a unique nickname..so u won't av to ask dat question next time..u just call d name..and she gets dis emotional spike which comes from previous positive feelings.


~~..one of ma close chicks..I call her pee pee.. Her name is princess tho. Once I call dat name..she can't just help laughing.


More tips coming Up

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:32pm On Dec 13, 2013
Attraction is emotional not logical. Its not a yes or no thing. Ever asked a chick out and she tells u yes...?..den later she tells u..she has a bf..an ex..dat she is trying to forget?...well...she stil feels dat gut level attraction for her ex..and not You.

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Av u gotten her nbr,..maybe online or real one-on-one convo?.. Then make sure u call her or send a txt withing 24 hours. Don't stay too long, she myt just forget abt u. I usualy send them a tx..


"Hey dear, hope u got home safely..it was fun meeting u early...mz smiling face"


#

Don't stay too long.. So she doesn't forget abt u..and she asks "who is dis" wen u finally call her.

Also.make sure u guys exchange nbrs...don't just get her nbr..if dere is time,get her fone and save ur nbr in it...get her nbr too..u can simply exchange fones.

I usualy.save ma nbr in dier fones wit "teddyboo''..hhehehe..

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