RoyPCain: @[CHocolaTE]; is 3 some like childbirth? come on, woman.

scholars make mistakes. for sincere effort, he gets 1 unit of reward. if he is correct [correction is in the Quran and Sunnah 'authentic hadith'], he gets double.

Sweetlemon: See how people are lamenting over the OP being in a polygamous marriage.
Lol! Most of us women are sharing our men one way or the other! That's the painful reality. The only thing about polygamy is that it's in your face.
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Chillisauce: If something is not working try other methods.

Begging is not working, try ignoring.
Nagging is not working, trying keeping quiet.


Maybe wear red pant and bra to seduce him, if it didn't work, your husband is cheating

shoerack6:
The thing is I don't even nag. I've never done that before since we got married. I don't even talk when he's angry and lashing at me.

Sniper4real: Dis woman get brain, just registered and had a post dat reached fp, Kudos to u. I hail u. I 1da if d post real sef

shoerack6:
Thanks for your advice but the thing is we have separate room but when it's time to sleep he comes to my room. So practically, when he's angry, he'll decide to sleep in his room.
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[CHocolaTE:
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Yea, this is sad but true.
Many married men are shameless dogs that still continue chasing women outside after marriage yet they expect loyalty from their wives.

tintingz: If you don't have any reasonable thing to post here kindly STFU

To your own biased thinking 'all' monogamous home are all in good state?

Ewuro707:

Sisi Socolate, we need to talk. What's up?

shoerack6: Hello house,

Whenever I have disagreement with hubby, he'll decide not to talk to me. He won't eat my food and also will not sleep on the same bed with me. I'll have to beg and beg before he finally decides to talk to me.
I'm so sick and tired of his attitude. I tried discussing with him that we should look for a better way to resolve issues but he said he doesn't want to discuss anything with me.
We are presently not talking and have promised myself that this year, no more begging and begging. Have apologised to him like thrice since yesterday, i've sent him messages apologising even though I know that i've done nothing wrong.
Now i'm always in my room because even when I go to where he is, he'll stand up and leave d place.
This is killing me inside. Don't know what to do.
Pls mature advice only.
Mod pls I don't want this thread on front page.

Sunshine lady: . Dis tintin abi na wetin, leave baby mama alone na, must u comment on all her responses?? Damn !! Are u like 2yrs or somfin

Beey: Am her messenger. Say it & it will be passed on to her.

shoerack6:
Thanks for your advice but the thing is we have separate room but when it's time to sleep he comes to my room. So practically, when he's angry, he'll decide to sleep in his room.
Yes I have two kids. I've stopped cooking for him whenever is angry cos if I see d food there on the table, I get more heart broken.

shoerack6:
I don't even want to explain what happened cos if I do, u people will help me insult him.
Ok, let me explain. Hubby is a tribalist. He said he doesn't like me speaking this particular language and that's the language I use when communicating with my family.
So yesterday, my aunty called. I tried as much as possible not to speak this language so was just answering her hun, ehn ehn but at the same time I don't want him to think i'm talking with someone I don't want him to know, so I decided to ask after her son in the language. That's where the trouble started oo.
I'm so sick and tired of all this. When I tried begging, he asked me to leave his presence and that was when I asked him if he was trying to frustrate me. He now said these days that my mouth is becoming too sharp and even threatened to slap me.

RoyPCain: ^ so you ladies have not seen co wives who are like sisters? and their children are like children of each co wife?

i come such a home. and i have seen many in america.

and those who called their husbands dogs, wow is what i say.


you women are so selfish that you do not want the good that you have for your sister in womanhood.

ypepe: Baby mama abeg no kill me!
Look at that man and d wives!
I like their style.

C fine gals. Eew.
Honestly speaking, what pple fail to grab is that they r responsible for their own happiness. Society or religion shouldn't detect to u the criteria u must follow to be happy.

[color=#990000]Go and c how women r treated in d north, u will weep. Even some christians there picked after them.

And those idiots in NA r not even helping matters.
I know one day, maybe not in my generation but they will revolt like d minorities did in US.

Cruel and babaric world. There r sane ones that dot on their only wife too.

Decryptor: Please read the story well. She is ibo who got converted to islam after she married the monkey! Stop trying to cover up.

Bantino: If you offend him, ensure that you appologise accordingly. If the cause of your misunderstanding is not your fault, ignore him for a while, ensure you prepare his food even when he refuses to eat.

If you guys don't have kids yet, wear some skimpy cloths at home, and try so many ways of seducing him without talking to him.

Walk out of the bathroom unclad most times, he may behave as if he's not noticing your moves, just continue. To break him, at night, just pretend to feel cold and tell him to hold you, beleive me, he will gladly hold you and from there one thing leads to another.

When you guys are done making love then you can have a 'brief discussion' with him concerning his attitude, Bleep him after the discussion then sleep off. If you get it right, he will change with time and learn how to talk issues over.

shoerack6:
I don't even want to explain what happened cos if I do, u people will help me insult him.
Ok, let me explain. Hubby is a tribalist. He said he doesn't like me speaking this particular language and that's the language I use when communicating with my family.
So yesterday, my aunty called. I tried as much as possible not to speak this language so was just answering her hun, ehn ehn but at the same time I don't want him to think i'm talking with someone I don't want him to know, so I decided to ask after her son in the language. That's where the trouble started oo.
I'm so sick and tired of all this. When I tried begging, he asked me to leave his presence and that was when I asked him if he was trying to frustrate me. He now said these days that my mouth is becoming too sharp and even threatened to slap me.

shoerack6: Thanks so much everyone.
Baby mama, thanks for your advice. But I don't know if I can still go for NYSC. I mean, where do I start from cos I didn't even collect my call up letter then.

hamzeiy: @ baby mama al jahannami if Allah wills...i am still waitin for ur proofs oh...d authentic hadith u hav as proofs...pls dnt bring daeef hia..i bliv u shud knw d meanin of dt since u seem to be knowledgable on hadith......use**less thing...await ur destruction oh

Mynd_44: Tribalist, acting childish and behaving like a demi-god. I am out of here

jaytee01: Yes, absolutely. Simply go to the nearest NYSC State Secretariat and present your case to the Head of Deployment and Relocation. You will be mobilised asap.