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Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by ifoundmyperfect: 8:45pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
shoerack6: Hian! For where you see this one marry? |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by melodies: 8:45pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Feel for d op cos she has a man with low self Esteem on her hands who hasn't even started wit Her psyche yet! Very soon he would b acting Like he did his wife a favor by marrying her! He's goin 2 gradually go downhill. Its a pity d op is d kind dat would like 2 flow wit her hubby but he is nt d type,my advice is dat she shuld b a "yes sir" woman 4 any type of peace 2 reign in dat house. Mynd_44: Tribalist, acting childish and behaving like a demi-god. I am out of here |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 8:47pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
leMuhito: OP... two wrongs don't make a right. Keep begging. He'd change soon. Na wao Women have suffered sha |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
The mods,what you folks did was wrong She specifically wanted to get counsel from the family section and asked that you don't make this FP news and you denied her that That's not cool Listen to the requests of the forumites Without them,there would be no website 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by tintingz(m): 8:48pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
jreyez:And you jump into conclusion that the OP is not real? Some people open another account to post their problem meanwhile they have their original handle which they use frequently. |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by crazymommy(f): 8:48pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
ume: solution very simple,marriage have its ups and downs just make jesus your best friend and your bible your marriage consultant not a public forum,who knows who else you have told about this, you telling us your husband is a tribalist to gain cheap sympaty,were you forced to marry him ,simply dont speak your dielet in his presence,is it too much for a man to ask,cant you ignor such calls if he is arroundand na one woman go carry this one put for house oooo. 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
only an immature man will put his wife through a ringer regardless of being the only wife or co wife. a wife is someone's sister, cousin, niece, daughter, etc. how is a matured man mistreating the mother of his children? speaking different language is healthy for the relationship and a benefit for the children there is possibility they will learn all of the languages and will not be tribal baiting like those that are not and think their tribe is the only one worthy. heck, i encourage my spouse to speak her language and any language she knows. that husband of yours needs education about the diversity of mankind. why do these boys pretending that they are no more still in the schoolyard, when they are as husbands threatening to beat up their spouses? sick upbringing and or they are incomplete personality. 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
RoyPCain: @Tintingz; it there is a person to practice surah furqan, ayah 63 upon, it is baby mama. i am sure you are forced to respond to her here. so am i now. Worthy of ignoring and you spent time copying bits of my post and responding to them all Ha hahahaha. Try taking your own advise If you have an advise for the Op please give it to her and stop analyzing my own response 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by jreyez(m): 8:54pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
tintingz: And you jump into conclusion that the OP is not real? Some people open another account to post their problem meanwhile they have their original handle which they use frequently. Thought nairaland rules and regulations is against that |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Nobody: 8:55pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
@ the OP if there is a chance that your husband will read this thread,I suggest you don't reveal any more details of the relationship I wouldn't want you hurt I just thought about something Even though I cannot fathom why a young woman would choose to be in a plural marriage in 2014, can you and your co wife ( since you say he does her the same way),get together and plan how to approach una oga at the top. There could be strength in the number Plan your words,practice them then sit and talk with him I don't know if that strategy will work men ( including mine) are terrified of confrontations no matter how mild you appear,they get defensive ,let alone two wives together My only fear is that if he sees it as a Gang up,he could desert your foods and beds entirely and get another omoge and show you both serious pepper. 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by tintingz(m): 8:59pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
RoyPCain: @Tintingz; it there is a person to practice surah furqan, ayah 63 upon, it is baby mama. i am sure you are forced to respond to her here. so am i now.Good respond there brother Roy You too just confirm the bigot in this thread. |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by leMuhito(f): 9:00pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
[CHocolaTE: When he changes, he would be the one begging whenever he messes up. It happens. |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by tintingz(m): 9:02pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
jreyez:Yeah, but some people just choose this way to share their problems. |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Chidiphilip(m): 9:03pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Lady; no mind ur husband. If he is so controlling and upset just cos u merely speak ur dialect(a dialect he even understands);abeg whenever u wan talk; just go to ur room......i mean stay away from where he would hear u whenever u want to speak to someone in ur dialect. "O bu gini bu o chro agwa'm"? Cheer u! |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Another suggestion Almost every man gets weak in the knees where SE.x is concerned If it was just you and him,I would have suggested ways to mesmerize him and have that man eating off the palms of your hands just by turning on your womanly gifts to overdrive Since you are already in a plural marriage,is the man open for fantasies? Maybe a thre.esome? That could help Just a little spice in the polygamy IMHOj |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by ndidibabe(f): 9:07pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
shoerack6: The most painful part is when it comes to begging. I can stand for 1 hour begging him.No wonder. He has a second wife. That says it all. He is a Superman!!! Are both of you muslims? If not, Christianity condones divorcing an Adulterous Partner. Marrying a second wife is Adultery in Christianity. If you are a Christian, please divorce him now so you can live a happy life again. 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by tintingz(m): 9:07pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Baby mama: @ the OP if there is a chance that your husband will read this thread,I suggest you don't reveal any more details of the relationshipIf you don't have any reasonable thing to post here kindly STFU To your own biased thinking 'all' monogamous home are all in good state? 3 Likes |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
tintingz: If you don't have any reasonable thing to post here kindly STFU I wonder why u hurt so bad My comments stay I won't change them If you don't like them,go and die 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
ndidibabe: No wonder. He has a second wife. That says it all. He is a Superman!!! Are both of you muslims? If not, Christianity condones divorcing an Adulterous Partner. Marrying a second wife is Adultery in Christianity. If you are a Christian, please divorce him now so you can live a happy life again. She is a Muslim,most likely from a polygamous home too,so she is used to seeing women falling over themselves to please a man and compete for his attention. |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 9:13pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
leMuhito: Abeg that one na sufferhead. I am sure that men will never put themselves through the rubbish yet they expect women to do it without complaining. |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 9:16pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Baby mama: Don't answer that guy. You are exposing the truth about his religion and its paining him that's why he is all over your case. 5 Likes |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Decryptor(m): 9:18pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
shoerack6:I can swear with my life and my granfather's grave that this man is a yoruba man and the OP is igbo! See why i advice my sisters to stop marrying these useless childish people from the west! 1 Like |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
@laeroy; by Laeroy(f): 8:15pmthere is no evidence that christianity is the original way of the igbos or it is anomaly for igbo to become muslim. my wife is igbo and she is a muslim. and i encourage her to speak all the languages the knows. i happily introduce her to igbos and tell them to carry on in their language, because it is me she wants and no igbo man can get her. laeroy, it is a benefit for you to become muslim because your benefit extend to hereafter when there will be great Mercy from the One Who can show appreciation. unfortunately, men or individuals like the husband of shoeracks are the bad eggs of men, muslim or not, igbos or not. |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by IYANGBALI: 9:29pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Una no do CUNTship,you supposed to have noticed this during your CUNTship,anyway,leave am make him dey bone you,na bikos harmatan never come,if harmatan come,cold go catch am and your totogo hungry am,na dat time make you too bone am or if you wan pity am,give am make him do,but no moan,no scream,no talk,no shout even if the thing dey sweet you,just lie down for bed like a log of wood,na that time him go know say,na the person wey get toto na him be master 4 Likes |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Decryptor: And if you are wrong nko? What happens since you swore with your life You will join your grandpa abi. See how people curse themselves U berra take it back o This is just jan 3 2 Likes |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by IYANGBALI: 9:32pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Decryptor:you have a baby brain |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Nobody: 9:32pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
RoyPCain: @laeroy; there is no evidence that christianity is the original way of the igbos or it is anomaly for igbo to become muslim. my wife is igbo and she is a muslim. and i encourage her to speak all the languages the knows. i happily introduce her to igbos and tell them to carry on in their language, because it is me she wants and no igbo man can get her. laeroy, it is a benefit for you to become muslim because your benefit extend to hereafter when there will be great Mercy from the One Who can show appreciation. unfortunately, men or individuals like the husband of shoeracks are the bad eggs of men, muslim or not, igbos or not. Your wife or one of your wives Talk true Oya if she is the first wife,marry another wife and see if she won't flee with her children and change their last names to her maiden name Anyanwu or Ogbonna Try it My classmate married a Yoruba Christian man that reverted to the ways of his fathers and a mistress cum wife appeared on the scene That was the last time he saw his kids Their names are legally changed too Leave the woman,you have left the children Say wetin? |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by pinkluv(f): 9:37pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
may be there is something you do that always gets him upset |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by tintingz(m): 9:38pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
[CHocolaTE:LOL, a fool talking to a fool Where is truth In her biased post? |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by IfyChuky(m): 9:38pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
To hav had a 2nd Wife Shows how much he does lurv u. . Anyway, U've got to face it, koz u possibly wont deny neva having to know this b4 proceedin to marry him. I think u beta get demeaned to begging 4 his attention, koz d dude in question have got an Alternative wn u get absent. Just bear, 4 lurv endureth All! |
Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by Tallesty1(m): 9:38pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Vessi: Why dont you stop doing whatever it is thats pissing him off? You said it all, if you have made up ur mind to not appologise again then try to stop doing what annoys him. Atleast make it ur 2014 resolution. Hahahahhahaha, and they say man wey beat woman nah coward but slaps better pazz some treatment. It will also help if you can tell his best Friend to advice him, his attitude is boyish; he needs to grow up. Lastly, when something like this happens pls, talk to a marriage counsellor, your pastor/priest, an elder or elders, stop bringing ur marital problems online. It scares singles away from marriage. |
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