Kinkybraids: Im loving this Topic...the comments are too funny

Personally I think the following are 'green light' moments

1. When you look across the room and your eyes lock and she doesnt look away but challenges you and smiles... its hard to keep eye contact so if she does then its a clear sign she wants you to come say hi

2. My personal favorite is coming up with excuses to always talk to him... like borrowing a book, or something that I will have to return to you. If she is always doing this then its a sure sign

3.When you are talking to a guy and as you laugh you tap on his arm ...

4. If she is always looking sexier than normal when she has to meet with you then its obvious she is trying to impress you...

5. I really think the smile says it all... I personally have this 'unique' smile that i only show when im with someone I like. Its sort of a shy smile...like im 'blushing' ... I think many girls use this

Lastly my personal favorite when she offers to pay for stuff...including your stuff, girls dont mind using the money of guys that they dont like but when a girl likes you she will try to make sure you dont spend unnecessarily.

vizkiz: #picking beans

Tymax:

Look, if you are the babe, better come out plain and talk Besides, she hasn't made him special. She has pet names for all the other guys. If she is giving green light then it must be for all those guys including him.

Babes can confuse guys ehn.

Eyop:

Ishi don't think am not seeing you with my binoculars. Well, continue with all ur yama-yama we shall see

chemystery: Thanks bro, you have said more than enough. Let's unveil their tactics ourselves since they don't want to help us. After today, if i see any lady wey complain say ihn give guy greenlight the guy no respond i go slap am seriously! See where dem for come teach us we no see any of them. Even dem sef deh come learn from the ones guys post. The other day a lady created a thread about how difficult it is to woo guys on nairaland. Maybe she has given some guys greenlight but they thought it was redlight. What is the moniker of that lady sef? Let her come here and share her greenlight tactics!

100Cents: Just like the first poster, let some guys tell us their experience with ladies showing green light before now.

Okay, there was this lady I liked so much. I really wanted to do her on our first date but I dey consider her as pikin. My conscience refused me, I know she liked me badly too. I held myself. Do you know she never honoured my request for a date again till 3 years later ?

Now here are the green lights. When she now came to my house for 2nd date. She was throwing cloudy eyeballs at me. I thought she was just being shy. She kept on fixing her gaze on my eyes. I didn't take it serious.

On a 3rd date, she wore a very short tight gown, she often got up from her seat and walked around, then leaned on a platform backing me, I didn't still understand. When I wanted to put on a shirt, she rushed at me to botton my collar.

And whenever we sat to talk in the car, she always patted my thighs. This particular sign don give me one beautiful lady in the past.

Another sign be say any lady way dey use style or short form call my name on phone.

O boy, nah when the girl wan dump me, I began to understand say nah green lightings o..

coolbibz: It's not always the guy's fault, some green lights could be misleading. You don't want to reach spurious conclusions & end up being rejected, it will be a disaster. Some ladies just want to get close, probably cos they've got something they really like about you, nothing more. It's imperative that green light "shines bright like a diamond" before you make any move. Some are just overly friendly.

I met this pretty chick at camp during my orientation program in one of the eastern states. Here is how we met: During one of those very boring lectures, I felt a nudge from a dude behind. He passed me some piece of paper & told me a lady behind him asked him to pass it to me; both of them were platoon members. I opened the paper & saw "hellloooo ", she also scribbled drawings of a rose, and some other impalpable jargons. Quite puerile maybe, but I surmise that's enough green light. I looked back to steal peeps at her, our eyes met & she smiled. I wanted to be sure, so I remained my normal reticent self. Till tomorrow, I can't tell if she's into me cos:

1. Every guy is her booboo.
2. She calls me her love, her "handsome nerd" but I got to discover she has a pet name for a platoon member too, and probably does for other guys.

so I'm just here chilling, acting like mumu. Enjoying every bit of the attention anyway; I like her. Her overly friendly (I will like to think that's what it is) self is just something I can't stand.

mencade5: researcher hw far na? Which research tool can we use to measure the ladies' green light?

Oluwasaeon: stale

MissMeiya:

Second female to comment. Here is my comment:

LOOOOOOOOOOOOL

Spidermon:

Ma guy, shey na until she put her poosie juice for your eyes like eye drop b4 u go soji yourself?

Kinkybraids: Im loving this Topic...the comments are too funny

Personally I think the following are 'green light' moments

1. When you look across the room and your eyes lock and she doesnt look away but challenges you and smiles... its hard to keep eye contact so if she does then its a clear sign she wants you to come say hi

2. My personal favorite is coming up with excuses to always talk to him... like borrowing a book, or something that I will have to return to you. If she is always doing this then its a sure sign

3.When you are talking to a guy and as you laugh you tap on his arm ...

4. If she is always looking sexier than normal when she has to meet with you then its obvious she is trying to impress you...

5. I really think the smile says it all... I personally have this 'unique' smile that i only show when im with someone I like. Its sort of a shy smile...like im 'blushing' ... I think many girls use this

Lastly my personal favorite when she offers to pay for stuff...including your stuff, girls dont mind using the money of guys that they dont like but when a girl likes you she will try to make sure you dont spend unnecessarily.

iamord:


Hmm interesting!!!
**Rushes to buy 60 leaves exercise book**

micynute94: Ladies! Ladies!! Ladies!!!
Their greenlight can vary from been all smiles to ignoring you and looking for a way to provoke you for no good reason.
Experience has taught me no two signs are the same when it comes to green light.
Have had my share of ladies showing me the greenlight with varied voltage sha.

Kinkybraids:

She wrote him a note... hint hint. You dont just write any nigga a note... and every one calls each other 'booboo and dear' all the time but assuming he is a 'nerd' I cant understand his reservations

Wasquad:

The greenlight can start BTW us now abi wat did u think

TrollMan: It's really disturbing that the “guys” are the ones explaining the tips instead of the girls..

redcliff:

Lmao. Yes you did. Literally.

Yes thank God for the grace

Vig86: No lady is too shy to tell you that she loves you but you as a man must have these two things:
1) You must be a MAN not hit and tell. If a girl understands that her secrets are secured with you she doesn't mind coming to your house every morning begging for s*x.
2) Have the money. When I say money I mean CASH. Na there u go see WHITE LIGHT not Not Green Light.

Ishilove:
Eyop my love, art thou jealous??

Kinkybraids:

I had to literally laugh out loud for this to be fair...many NL girls commented before me.

Emma8043: ;DI know the NL ladies will not come out and say something but if its about Brazilian hair now by now we go for they page 10000........

UjSizzle:
Guy why you fvck up like this na
The girl liked you sha.

hardbody: Sadly i am color blind. So no matter the colour flashed i see only black and white. Please what does both colors mean?

Tymax:
But she has surrounded herself with other guys. It will be sad if he pursues this interest and she turns him down. Cos I don't think her green light is properly focused

Ishilove: How does Ishilove show greenlight?

If you're on her bb contacts: when you chat her up and she responds, that's a major greenlight. On a normal day Ishilove does not respond to bb messages.

When Ishilove calls you with her credit: Under normal circumstances she NEVER uses her hard earned credit to call men. If she ain't attracted to you, you might even call her and she won't pick.

When you call her and she picks at the first ring. That's a green light. Most times she usually just stares at the phone and bobs her head as it rings.

She sends you text messages, and asks you personal questions.

When you meet her, she is very chatty and laughs at your lame asss jokes. Ishilove is usually reserved and would rather listen than talk, but if she chats and laughs, that's a neon green light flashing.

When you walk together on the street, if she moves close to you so that your bodies touch, that's a greenlight.

When you chat, she makes a point by making it a point to touch your hands, chest or neck, in order to pass a point. It doesn't get more 'greenlighty' than that.