Gaggi: There are many eligible men who have no mny to marry. Single women who are doing well should look for one and brush him up, haba. Not every one would be married anyway. Some would marry at an old age, some would force themselves on others and end up divorced. This are sad realities we all must deal with.
No need to fret. What would be would be.

charles316: Most people have got no pity for single naija ladies cos most of them spent their prime chasing shadows... Shawarma, Brazilian hair, bold 5. The focused one always get married. If u cant get one man (there are over 3billion men ) to marry u then u ve got a problem.

Lizabeth:

What happens when you brush them up and they run away

nwapastor: One thing that surprised me about how I got engaged is that I had always thought that one must change somethings about oneself to be able to attract a spouse (which might still be true), but I didn't change a thing he just came and proposed and I was so surprised and taken aback. That is not to say that we should not upgrade our character, dressing, career e.t.c if need be but sometimes in the bit to upgrade we change so much that he might not recognize us when he meets us. So my friends sometimes it's better to just be yourself 'cos one man's poison is another man's meat. Did I mention that some people heard about the engagement and went to meet him giving him reasons why he should call it off but he told them that he has made his choice and I know that the God that started it will bring it to pass.

coogar:

he just came from nowhere, proposed & you accepted just like that? i hope you have not dropped your panties for him. this could be a hoax to get to your promised land.

you better be careful......naija boys are desperate like that for sex.

Gaggi:
Run after them. Haba

Lizabeth:
It is not worth it bro

I ain't against brushing a guy up but I have realised he don't appreciate you in the long run

Even if your feeling is true as a lady right at the back of his mind, he will think you are desperate

Gaggi:

Life is a risk. Some have done it and it worked for them. Lot's of men want to get married but no resources. If a well to do woman meets a struggling man and they care about each other, let them make it happen.
U never know until you try.

Lizabeth:
Bros i am not assuming. I have tried it

I helped him built his CV and sent to different organisations but he thought I because I was earning more and more comfortasble , he wouldnt be able to handle me and left after he got a jb

He didn't even tell me he was attending interviews. When he knew a particular job would click was when he left. He called me later to thank me

Some of them have complex issue.

Phema:

Mtcheew!

nwapastor: One thing that surprised me about how I got engaged is that I had always thought that one must change somethings about oneself to be able to attract a spouse (which might still be true), but I didn't change a thing he just came and proposed and I was so surprised and taken aback. That is not to say that we should not upgrade our character, dressing, career e.t.c if need be but sometimes in the bit to upgrade we change so much that he might not recognize us when he meets us. So my friends sometimes it's better to just be yourself 'cos one man's poison is another man's meat. Did I mention that some people heard about the engagement and went to meet him giving him reasons why he should call it off but he told them that he has made his choice and I know that the God that started it will bring it to pass.

coogar:

complex issue? because you earn more? where do you people find spineless men? if i happen to be dating oprah winfrey, i would be the boss in the relationship.

wait a minute - i hope it's not that boy of yours you didn't like cos he doesn't look presentable. if he's the one then it serves you right.

Lizabeth:

Lol

Stop following

Nope he's not the one

Some guys are cowards sorry to say

I can't stand guys that don't have confidence in themselves

nwapastor: For some of us, it's not that we are not getting proposals but it's just that they are not coming from the right guys (as per our standard). As for me I'm engaged to be married but I really stayed long on the other side and know how it feels. At a time I closed my face book account 'cos it seemed all I see there are friends and family uploading photos of themselves with their spouses and children. Believe me I may be happy for them but it leaves me depressed. More to come.

SPEEDEPITOME: *checks thread again* I wanted to sign in here but with the comments,i'm not sure i fit in. I think single has levels sha.

charles316:

I hope it is not what i m thinking. Naija boys are too sharp for u girls

coogar:

he just came from nowhere, proposed & you accepted just like that? i hope you have not dropped your panties for him. this could be a hoax to get to your promised land.

you better be careful......naija [b]boys [/b]are desperate like that for sex.

Lizabeth:
Bros i am not assuming. I have tried it

I helped him built his CV and sent to different organisations but he thought I because I was earning more and more comfortasble , he wouldnt be able to handle me and left after he got a jb

He didn't even tell me he was attending interviews. When he knew a particular job would click was when he left. He called me later to thank me

Some of them have complex issue.

nwapastor: It might interest you to know that I've not dropped my panties for any man and by God's grace I have no plan of doing that till I say I do. I'm not desperate to get married even if he leaves (God forbid) no problem I'll continue living my life and serving my God till it pleases him to settle me maritally.

As for 'boys' I've passed that level. I move with 'men'.

nwapastor: Why is it that when a man likes/loves a woman/lady he often finds a way of communicating it but when he falls out of love he tends to just walk away without any explanation leaving the lady to keep wondering what went wrong? Sometimes the next thing the lady will hear is that he is getting married to someone else leaving the lady speechless (to say the least).

nwapastor: I understand you perfectly. I know you belong to a higher class/level but you are also welcome. Just let us into your world and that might trigger further comments from people of your type. We want to learn from you too. Welcome on board in advance.

freecocoa: I'm single now and loving it.

Guess I've not gotten to the point where marriage is about the only thing on my mind, am I even ready for marriage?

freecocoa: I'm single now and loving it.

Guess I've not gotten to the point where marriage is about the only thing on my mind, am I even ready for marriage?

jennykadry:

Freecocoa nwa oma. Better prepare yaself for marriage cos I have one nice hot bobo who wants a wife. Now I have to choose between you and Aisha2