@ rofemiguwa thank you. I thought I was alone in all these. Imagine your cousins that used to greet you and call you aunty get married and the table turns. They see you and pass leaving you to wonder if it's now your own turn to greet them and call them madam. Any way I think it's easier to talk about it when you are on your way out of spinsterhood than when you are still in the middle of it. It is well.

nwapastor: @ rofemiguwa thank you. I thought I was alone in all these. Imagine your cousins that used to greet you and call you aunty get married and the table turns. They see you and pass leaving you to wonder if it's now your own turn to greet them and call them madam. Any way I think it's easier to talk about it when you are on your way out of spinsterhood than when you are still in the middle of it. It is well.

What is with you and this serious complex issues.

Shebi you are engaged? marry na. Who hold you?

Chomzy19: Babe na wa ooo! All these stories only u! Na u b d only single wey waka come? Hian! 'coping with', 'managing' being single na affliction?

You won't understand!

jennykadry:

What is with you and this serious complex issues.

Shebi you are engaged? marry na. Who hold you?

Na fight?

coogar:

because the way the church girls present it. "i am born again, so no sëx until marriage." such statements depress me.



why should men wait for the d-day? it's risky on the part of the man. what if i wait & then discover we are not sexually compatible? won't it be too late to kick her out? if there's a reason born again christians have the highest divorce rate in the world, it's because of this issue.

But this is where you both should reach a compromise.

Say instead of the real deal how about giving you oral? I am talking about ''non'' church girls here.

nwapastor: Na fight?

Get the married and let us hear word. Ogi ni?

coogar:

because the way the church girls present it. "i am born again, so no sëx until marriage." such statements depress me.



why should men wait for the d-day? it's risky on the part of the man. what if i wait & then discover we are not sexually compatible? won't it be too late to kick her out? if there's a reason born again christians have the highest divorce rate in the world, it's because of this issue.

But this is where you both should reach a compromise.

Say instead of the real deal how about giving you oral? I am talking about ''non'' church girls here.

jennykadry:

But this is where you both should reach a compromise.

Say instead of the real deal how about giving you oral? I am talking about ''non'' church girls here.

why not go all the way then & test compatibility? sex is very important in marriage. when the sex is wack, infidelity will easily creep in. that is when you see christian wives shägging their driver or okon.

coogar:

nah!
i don't like church girls.

Church girls? No way. "My pastors says" rather than the bible says? No way. Wife will leave for 'programme' for 3-7 days...no way. Just a normal girl that's God conscious, social, visionary...and of course beautiful will do.

dapsy4u2: . Don't just know where these ladies meet the kind of guys!!!

They are everywhere so no particular place

coogar:

Bad boy

nwapastor: On the contrary, I have married men and women working under me at my place of work at the moment and they give me the respect I deserve because they've seen that I have what it takes to head them at that level. Some even use the word 'Mrs' when addressing me (which I correct immediately). But then if you are single, you are single your status in the society notwithstanding. So sometimes when you retire (from your busy lifestyle) you feel it as in sometimes you feel lonely even in the midst of friends. However single get level shaa as someone pointed out earlier, that is why in church I prefer singles fellowship to youth fellowship. 'Cos in youth fellowship you'll find girls' in SS 1 but when it's called singles fellowship that's a higher level and I fit in there more. Sorry I talk about church a lot I'm sure my username explains it small.

This killed me!

coogar:

why not go all the way then & test compatibility? sex is very important in marriage. when the sex is wack, infidelity will easily creep in. that is when you see christian wives shägging their driver or okon.

What if she doesnt want to and you are crazy about her?

Church girls need to open their eyes. In most church gatherings, women outnumber men in astronomical numbers. Most certainly majority of church girls will not end up with godly men, FACT. The men you now find working diligently in church you know damn well you would never settle to date let alone marry them . You tie yourself down in one church waiting for your knight in shining armor to gallop into the church and whisk you out. My sister, your eggs will dry up before he comes along. And 8 out of ten, that knight is the devil himself and he proposes out of the blue , we've seen cases like this over and over again not to be wary of 'impromptu proposals'. Nigerian men can convert to your religion just to marry your desperate bumbum . After marriage he converts back to his ORIGINAL religion of the devil and your life is finished . Next thing you will be creating threads on NL... Be wise!

jennykadry:
What if she doesnt want to and you are crazy about her?

i'll walk away and find someone i am crazier about. the world is such a big place to find anything i want.

Stillfire: Church girls need to open their eyes. In most church gatherings, women outnumber men in astronomical numbers. Most certainly majority of church girls will not end up with godly men, FACT. The men you now find working diligently in church you know damn well you would never settle to date let alone marry them . You tie yourself down in one church waiting for your knight in shining armor to gallop into the church and whisk you out. My sister, your eggs will dry up before he comes along. And 8 out of ten, that knight is the devil himself and he proposes out of the blue , we've seen cases like this over and over again not to be wary of 'impromptu proposals'. Nigerian men can convert to your religion just to marry your desperate bumbum . After marriage he converts back to his ORIGINAL religion of the devil and your life is finished . Next thing you will be creating threads on NL... Be wise!

coogar:
i'll walk away and find someone i am crazier about. the world is such a big place to find anything i want.

See Coogar...Is it not true? You can't even deny it. I have studied Nigerian men. I have to open my sisters eyes.

Stillfire:

See Coogar...Is it not true? You can't even deny it. I have studied Nigerian men. I have to open my sisters eyes.

stop spoiling our market. naija men are saints....one of the most decent male groups in the world. they are always willing to settle down & start a family but they are belatedly realising that the so called "church girls" are mostly ex-club girls & retired prostitutes....

so when the marriage breaks down like you have observed, it's mostly because the husbands have discovered the hidden secrets.

coogar:

stop spoiling our market. naija men are saints....one of the most [b]decent [/b]male groups in the world. they are always willing to settle down & start a family but they are belatedly realising that the so called "church girls" are mostly ex-club girls & retired prostitutes....

so when the marriage breaks down like you have observed, it's mostly because the husbands have discovered the hidden secrets.

Hehehe, since the day I developed bo.obs, I lost all respect for you 'saints'.
In fact there are no godly men left in Nigeria. They all died in the Nigerian civil war.

jennykadry:

Get the married and let us hear word. Ogi ni?

I'm sorry if you are in anyway getting me wrong. I'm only implying dt it might be part of d reasons why pple are not sharing their experiences. By the way the thread is for single ladies and married people who had walked this path (late marriage). He that wears the shoe knows where it is pinching. Thank you.

Stillfire:
Hehehe, since the day I developed bo.obs, I lost all respect for you 'saints'.
In fact there are no godly men left in Nigeria. They all died in the Nigerian civil war.

and yet there are more than 1,000 wedding ceremonies in that country every saturday. nigerian men come first on the totem pole of most attractive men in the world.

haven't you seen caucasian females jetting in to marry naija brothers? even african americans get to fly in to drag the naija men you are deriding.

you are definitely trolling.

nwapastor: I'm sorry if you are in anyway getting me wrong. I'm only implying dt it might be part of d reasons why pple are not sharing their experiences. By the way the thread is for single ladies and married people who had walked this path (late marriage). He that wears the shoe knows where it is pinching. Thank you.

Late marriage? What age range are we talking about here?

[quote author=SPEEDEPITOME]
Higher class? On the contrary, i have a lot to learn from you. Why i talked about levels was because i'm single-not married and not dating but i'm not in the about-to-marry class.[/quote Ok. You can contribute too. We are all here to learn.

coogar:

and yet there are more than 1,000 wedding ceremonies in that country every saturday. nigerian men come first on the totem pole of most attractive men in the world.

haven't you seen caucasian females jetting in to marry naija brothers? even african americans get to fly in to drag the naija men you are deriding.

you are definitely trolling.

Until the caucasian females decided to try congolese men....our men have since taken the back seat

jennykadry:

Until the caucasian females decided to try congolese men....our men have since taken the back seat

congolese men are babies to my brothers in the north & some parts of the south west.

coogar:

and yet there are more than 1,000 wedding ceremonies in that country every saturday. nigerian men come first on the totem pole of most attractive men in the world.

haven't you seen caucasian females jetting in to marry naija brothers? even african americans get to fly in to drag the naija men you are deriding.

you are definitely trolling.

A Nigerian man's face can scare pharaoh's army back to Egypt.
African american women that their men have abandoned them?
Caucasians will do anyone with an accent.
A caucasian woman will do me sef.

coogar:
congolese men are babies to my brothers in the north & some parts of the south west.

Your brothers in the north? you mean those uncircumcised phillipians that rely on burukutu for maximum performance? . Coogar I reject them being your brothers on your behalf.

Go see what your fellow africans (congolese) are walking about with...even you gan sef will want to convert to gayism

jennykadry:

Until the caucasian females decided to try congolese men....our men have since taken the back seat

Lol Jenny. Despite all their gra gra, the average naija man manage to reach 6 inches. Congo is 7.1, wow. The French sef (oyibo for that matter) has 6.3 according to the world pe.nis map.

jennykadry:

Late marriage? What age range are we talking about here?

If you belong there (late marriage) you will just know without any interpretation.

Stillfire:

[b[A Nigerian man's face can scare pharaoh's army back to Egypt.[/b]
African american women that their men have abandoned them?
Caucasians will do anyone with an accent.
A caucasian woman will do me sef.

blame that on the angle of the camera.

jennykadry:
Your brothers in the north? you mean those uncircumcised phillipians that rely on burukutu for maximum performance? . Coogar I reject them being your brothers on your behalf.

G see what your fellow africans (congolese) are walking about with...even you gan sef will want to convert to gayism

nwapastor: If you belong there (late marriage) you will just know without any interpretation.

No, you started this thread and you also said you are willing to cope with any questions thrown at you.

I am simply asking...what age range were you talking about when you mentioned late marriage? what YOU consider late might be the starting point for ANOTHER.

coogar:
blame that on the angle of the camera.

Lol, you can't even debate it.

Stillfire:

Lol Jenny. Despite all their gra gra, the average naija man manage to reach 6 inches. Congo is 7.1, wow. The French sef (oyibo for that matter) has 6.3 according to the world pe.nis map.

LMAO. I swear I almost spilled my coffee. If they sent you abeg tell them you did not see me on my oncall night. That penis map plus sizes cracked me up real good.

Don't mind our Naija brothers. Instead of them to accept defeat, they are busy going gra gra. During my uni days a friend of mine was dating this congolese guy, me I was a die hard Nigerian fan. We argued so tey I gave up..she was rooting for congolese me I was rooting for Naija.

So the d day came when she decided to prove me wrong. She took a picture of the black anaconda and showed me . For one week straight I forgot my first and last name. I am still suffering from the post traumatic stress disorder caused by that picture.

Now I know what these soldiers go through when they suffer from PTSD