Toks2008:

Baby gal wats really goin on? I never criticized you but it was you who came down on me for no justifiable reason except my harmless opinion aired on a public forum.

The posts are still there for reference. Habba.

Toks2008:

Its quite disheartening that your response shows the nature of a lady who lacks decorum when it comes to making intelligent post and i honestly see no reason for your adrenaline type of response.

Any lady with a moderate IQ will understand my standview and if needs be,will respond in a responsible,humble and ln a decent manner.

Ademolapaul: bro seriously,check her profile for her twitter handle

Sacluxpaint: I saw her twitter profile, she is not even worth it self, but like they say every aboki to his own kettle

Mondisweets:
again i will say dont expect to be treated with respect u dont deserve get yourself a dictionary learn what showing a sense of decorum really is

Toks2008:

A lady has no business in been selective when it comes to outward quslities because wat matters is what you mean to the guy so this not settling for less should be well contextualized.

Mondisweets: its also not your business to be telling who should be selective and who shouldnt and its not for you to decide who someone else should or should not be married to either. If women in your generation fell for it, well too bad. The times have changed now.

Toks2008:

And do you think your response was not too harsh and confrontational?

50calibre: I'm familiar with the OP Safarigirl, she has a runny mouth like a tap, as well as a knack for talking nonsense.

Telling Nigerian women not to settle for less is akin to telling a beggar not to settle for less looolz.

Nigerian women are already less, they occupy the bottom of the barrel therefore asking them to set impossibly high standards for themselves is asking them to condemn themselves to a life of singlehood and lonliness.

Don't be delusional, Nigerian women score low in everything, their attitude sucks, physically they're less appealing with disgusting fake weaves, they've got nothing upstairs except different techniques on how leech off a man.

I consider Nigerian women a liability rather than an asset, & so do many guys. Therefore my advise to Nigerian women; if you're lucky to have any man come for you, just on him quicker than you could blink because you will not get anything better.

I don't see myself spending more than a day trying to woo a Nigerian chic, in fact after the first 5 mins, I determine if she's worth anymore of my time.

Mondisweets: nope i simply treated in the manner u asked for

Odunharry:
50calibre don talk..

50calibre:

Loooool

Odunharry:
if u talk abt some of d bad behavior exhibited by many 9ja gals,dy will tag u a woman hater..y?

harde2lah:
I wish I had you as my English teacher in secondary school. Very intelligent write-up.

shymexx:

Tell them, bruddah!

Personally, my own understanding of "Nigerian women settling for less" means: Naij women settling for Ghanaians or men from other African countries because naija are the hottest commodities out of Africa, and far superior to naija women, who're very promiscuous and needy, but pretentious about it.

Honestly, I think it should be about naija men not settling for less (naija women), and aiming higher. Being with a naija woman is more or less a curse these days, I tell ya.

shymexx:

Tell them, bruddah!

Personally, my own understanding of "Nigerian women settling for less" means: Naij women settling for Ghanaians or men from other African countries because naija are the hottest commodities out of Africa, and far superior to naija women, who're very promiscuous and needy, but pretentious about it.

Honestly, I think it should be about naija men not settling for less (naija women), and aiming higher. Being with a naija woman is more or less a curse these days, I tell ya.

safarigirl: maybe I do, but who has my time?

safarigirl: yeah, and it's because I'm small that I require a man that's tall...and so far, I've not attracted anyone below 5ft.8"

100Cents: Finally, in the end, you will have only yourself to blame...

Since you are a trophy who deserves free food, free ride, expensive dates and BIS/recharge card for doing absolutely nothing. Please do not settle for less.

The way our young ladies carry themselves shows that marriage is not their ultimate goal but scouting for the richest, most handsome and most successful man in the society who is willing enough to pay the imaginary value she has placed on her love.

These sort of ladies do not take corrections for any wrong. They are always right and the last thing she expects from you, her date, is saying that what she did didn't go down well with you, instantly her mind tells her, " it is time to dump mike for John ".

Some of them go as far as dating every single guy who says hi to them seeing him as a potential maga to be kept on the ever long list of those under her false promise of, " I will come and see you ". Because he is a potential goldmine and will serve a future purpose at a future date. This keeps the stu.pid gullible man calling and sending recharge card to make sure he out performs or outsmarts any other competitor for the elusive girl. It is all a game. But it ends in confusion. It takes deceiving oneself first to be able to deceive others..

God punish all the gold digging ladies. All the men you have wrecked with your lying tongues and pretences will hunt you later.. Keep searching for Mr. Right. He has already passed you by when you treated him as dung..

Nonsense..

Polchiz:

My dear Safarigirl,

Falsehood is the greatest crime against humanity, especially if such lies are meant for public consumption.

Firstly, you attacked a young married lady and even insulted her and her husband when her only sin is advising Nigerian girls NOT be be obsessed with men's height. If I may ask: "do you have a strange concept of the word 'obsessed' ?"

Secondly, you denied that your thread is NOT a counter thread when it is glaring that it is. Why are you forcing lies down our throat?

Thirdly, your post implied that when a lady marries a short or NOT very tall man then she has settled for less. And it baffles me that you are just 5ft 2 inches. Can you create a human being? Who taught you that height is a yard stick to measure how successful and nice a man would be?

Lastly, the woman you insulted is happily married to man who is 5ft 8 inches. A cute height a man and you have dated men of the same height. Permit me to say that you are simply envious and jealous. I would advise you to change your ways and learn that emulation is better than envy. No sane man will marry you if he is aware that you accepted him simply because he is tall. What is your own definition of love?

safarigirl: never been fuuucked. Nigerian men are scared of me.

safarigirl: OK. Good morning to you too. I've said all I want to on this topic, you can make your judgments without mentioning me. Thank you for judging

Polchiz:

I am NOT a perfect person and therefore have no right to judge you.

My Dear, sometimes we find it difficult to accept someone's opinion but at the same time we should learn to respect it.

Your subsequent posts showed that you are NOT a bad person after all.

Also, know it that the most important thing is that one day, one enterprising young man will fall in love with you (i.e accept you the way you are) and he is ready to be there for you till death. This man may be very tall, average or short.

However, from all indications, you prefer (want) a very tall man but God doesn't always give us what we want but what we NEED.

I pray that you eventually marry a man of your heart desire. Yes!! You will definitely get married. I don't advise you to stay single forever.

Odunharry:
buhahahahahahah..scared of u?
Anyway i am nt

Sehindemi:
Nah quarrel?

Anywayz,b4 I go further,I need to ask U a questn...*Sincere answer plz*

Like how many ladies av done dis to U?(I mean,after pretendin to be wat they are not,they wrecked U & flee)

safarigirl: i don't consider you an entity. I speak of those I hold in high esteem

50calibre:
Hahahaha when ever I come accross delusional threads like this one, I never fail to bring in a touch of reality into it, even it means expressing extreme opinions at times. It may ruffle a few feelings but in the end, it will be of help to many.

We say things most guys on NL actually feel but are too scared to say. We're like the dirty cops, we do the dirty jobs for the good cops to stay clean,

Well Costa's fitness levels has recently been called into question by Mourinho. Costa currently enjoys a scoring form but expect fatigue or injuries to set it sooner or later.

Odunharry:
wow...nt an entity??brilliant

safarigirl: there's a difference between "I don't consider you an entity" and "you're not an entity". Feel free to interprete my words however you wish