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Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Astuteleader(m): 9:21am On Sep 21, 2014 |
I will comment when am back from church |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by fubbyy(m): 9:33am On Sep 21, 2014 |
This op doesn't just make sense @ all, she sounds so pained as if the former thread was pointing at her @ op, what the op of the former thread brought to the table is just an advise,she meant no harm,afterall she never asked anyone to settle for less, just wait for your man, he'll come someday 2 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by DikSin(m): 9:34am On Sep 21, 2014 |
That "less" guy must be very unfortunate o! Safarigirl be like: ladies, Don't settle for "less" please I want to know, who be less; has anyone seen him lately? Abi na only him waka come? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by kilokeys(m): 9:34am On Sep 21, 2014 |
did i read everything?. definitely not.. i believe in equal rights but different responsibilities its simple i go buy fuel for d gen, u do d dishes i watch tv with my hommies, u gossip at the salon i pay the bills, u cater for d kids if d Queen Bee , drones , the worker bee are keen on feminism the bee colony is doomed. No honey if u like no marry get belle o.. when a field (ur womb) is uncultivated, bush (fibroid) go grow there.. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by flinton(m): 9:37am On Sep 21, 2014 |
@op u totally got the other thread wrong!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by ZUBY77(m): 9:39am On Sep 21, 2014 |
While you have some good points, you still mixed things up. This whole thing has to do with the society you were born into. Things change over time. The same America you are trying to stamp as the good environment restricted women from voting. But eventually relaxed the laws that restricted women from doing certain things. Whether you like it or not, We have males and females on earth. One is stronger than the other and when you are stronger (America) You decide for the weaker (Iraq, Libya etc). In African context, a certain law made it that women doesn't get land allocations in their fathers place. It was made so to encourage marriage. If you decide not to get married, that's your business buy understand that you are not getting nothing from the Father. You must either marry or make your own big money. Even with your money, you are not allowed to have kids in your father's place. So the marriage thing comes again. When your desired man is not reachable, you can step down a little. Yes, men do the same too. I know thousands of men who wanted to marry Ini Edo but when it didn't work, they didn't go for Angelina Jolie, they stepped down. So forget your biased opinion. I have seen your posts where you argue with guys over football, it is something you have the right to do and must be encouraged but to tell your father that you want Brad Pitt or nobody else, then you must go out and look for Brad or don't come back because you can never be the only one who saw Brad on TV. All in all, knowing when to cash in is important. God blessed women in such a way that numerous men always come after them whether they are ugly or beautiful, it is left for the girls to be calculative and know when to cash in. Stop dreaming, we live in a real world. 27 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by free2ryhme: 9:40am On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: Being born into a society such as the Nigerian one connites certain things for a female. we cant argue with you on this you made some valid points and I commend your courage for standing up for the women folk. whether you marry the man of your dreams or not it is none of our business and it will always stay that way .. the one thing I don't understand is that why do women keep going on about this issue and keep flogging it over and over again. woman wey go marry go marry , (and what I refer to as marriage is the union btw a man and a woman not the perverse version we have today about gays and lesbians. ). you keep going about women who have issues in their marriage because they did not marry right but I don't see any reason why u cant sing the song of those that have married right . there are men who married rightly as well as wrongly but we dont see them complaining and whining just like you women Haba! let me states this clearly we don't care if you like marry /if you like don't . it was never our business and it will never be our business. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 9:41am On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: Being born into a society such as the Nigerian one connites certain things for a female. I read your response and then went back to read the original post. And it begs the question, did you actually read that original post? 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by pansophist(m): 9:41am On Sep 21, 2014 |
[b]I think you did not understand the whole point of the article you use as response to this your silly post. It is simply trying to say that ''you should not look down on any man simply because of his height which he is not in control off'' Ladies are simply being materialistic here, instead of being realistic. Look at the example you even cite as a defense to your shallow post, Kevin Hart, Mr Ibu lol If this caliber of men come for you, I am sure your family will disown if you disagree to marry men . Your post is also trying to pass the notion that ''it is only women that has choice and settle for less''. Do you also asked yourself what we men choose to over look when we go for women? most women marry up but men dont, most women are shorter than then their husband, men over look that, most men will start nursing a overgrown baby financially all in the name of marriage, women starts to grow fatter after child birth and the list goes on and on. This f.oolishh post is the reason why many young idiots that will pay attention to your post will remain single. They can keep waiting for a man as tall as great khali, serving jollof rice at their friends wedding ceremony every saturday and doing the flower girl, while they keep waiting for Mr perfect (not mr right) to come by. Just to remind you, your post make no sense at all, wonder why it got to front page in the first instance. [/b] 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by wo1F(m): 9:42am On Sep 21, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: The lady never said we should settle for less - I guess y'all misunderstood her...she meant, we shouldn't be blinded by physical looks, sometimes marriage goes beyond the physique...just marry someone you wanna wake up to everyday (and vice-versa)...that's just it This rebuttal Coming from a lady makes it even more sweet. Truth is Safarigirl is the female version of a male chauvinist. Most times I fail to get what her problem really is. Maybe its her petite physical structure, I don't know. But what I do know however is that she's loose with condescending words when it comes to her submissions here on nairaland. I salute you for your unbiased and seemingly intelligent reply to the OP 2 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Aspiregreat: 9:43am On Sep 21, 2014 |
I see. Read ma lips dont settle for less.........and bullshit marriage,.....tym will tell |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 9:43am On Sep 21, 2014 |
Booked. Brb |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by presidentgej: 9:43am On Sep 21, 2014 |
genevieve nnaji no fit marry because she be comfirm lesbian everybody knw. |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by zeb04(f): 9:44am On Sep 21, 2014 |
When you settle for less than you deserve, you get less than you settled for. Ladies you bera settle for the moon . Another person's moon might be your piece of trash( * moon is relative) Finally you should be able to attract the moon ....... if I am your moon and you don't shine like the stars you damn sure I won't be looking your direction . |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by OsoDupe(f): 9:44am On Sep 21, 2014 |
100Cents:Bro, u dey vex?let me just counter vex too, God punish all the sweet mouthed guys that promised ladies marriage and even go to the extent of introducing ladies to family members just to get down there and afterward dumping the ladies, all the ladies u have wrecked with ur sugarcoated mouth will haunt u and when u settle down, u will settle down with a woman that will show u hell. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by kilokeys(m): 9:46am On Sep 21, 2014 |
@ZUBBY77 ur head correct sir. smart ladies strategically position themselves where their "rich" dream man can see them. some chics rnt snowhite yet they want prince charming if u rnt blessed with beauty.. read the story of Ruth in d bible.. she positioned herself for Boaz, a matured rich guy to notice. i am single by choice. i can sweep any girl off her feet.. for a moment.. but i can't sustain that for now.. so i am working hard, making more money.. to be seduced by a wise gurl in d future.. make una siddon look dey argue with small boys of ur age.. mtcheew 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by expert101(m): 9:47am On Sep 21, 2014 |
Many Nigerian girls are greedy and too expensive with their fake packaging. Now we know better! |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 9:48am On Sep 21, 2014 |
ochon: I'm still wondering why the OP in the thread that lead to the birthing of this thread received so much flak for her thread. Did you bashers read that thread at all? As in, read it slowly, assimilating the post word by word? Because it seems to me most of y'all didn't get what the OP(on that thread) was saying. I didnt even read your post to the end before liking it. You said it all. I think the Op just wanted to talk. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 9:48am On Sep 21, 2014 |
Sidon dere u go end up like oprah wilfrey |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Tymax(m): 9:49am On Sep 21, 2014 |
CAUTION Nothing wrong with dating or marrying your fantasy. Date or marry someone who attracts you. But even when you meet him and catch his eye, please don't throw yourself at him. Approach it like a business deal. Let the parties have clear understanding of their respective values. |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Luvdmx(m): 9:50am On Sep 21, 2014 |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Tallesty1(m): 9:52am On Sep 21, 2014 |
100Cents: Finally, in the end, you will have only yourself to blame... |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by fyneboi79(m): 9:52am On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: Being born into a society such as the Nigerian one connites certain things for a female.Okwu nkasi obi |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by chizyn(f): 9:52am On Sep 21, 2014 |
u guyz ar so retarded, rili, y'll who ar jus freaking cowardz. |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by cliffm43: 9:52am On Sep 21, 2014 |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by bayulll01(m): 9:53am On Sep 21, 2014 |
well well safari,in ad much as i know u are still a kid i dont expect you to understand what adult is all about,nobody is saying u should not have a qualities u desired in a man,but u dont have to insult the someone who made her point,all shes saying is if u dont understand her write up is life will not give you all you desire come back here when you are 30 and tell us why ure not married,oh dilldo is there it will help u 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by OsoDupe(f): 9:54am On Sep 21, 2014 |
kilokeys: did i read everything?. definitely not..I carry the kids in my belly, u wash their clothes when they are born, I cook the food, u fetch the water. I peel yam, u pound yam. I cook soup, u grind pepper. I go to market, u do d laundry and clean the house.My friends come over for tea, u go to football viewing centre, equal rights so simple, so sweet 1 Like |
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