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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by gistmelove(m): 7:39am On Oct 23, 2014
yungcyrus:
The same tin wit me. I'm a quiet guy. I hav dis 1 female friend i mostly hang out wit, nt lyk we r dating. But dia is this oda Gorgoeous gal i lyk, we always catch ourselves starin @ each other. The same problem too, the way she relates to numerous guys gives me cold feet.

Sametin I do i jst make her luk lyk she doesnt exist on purpose. Although we say a few 'hi's' but i ignore her most tyms.

Dat guy u talkd about is my photocopy.

I dont lyk gals wit too much male friends. It sends a kind of ''being cheap n nasty'' message

why can't u open ur own thread too.. Mayb he cn hit frontpage grin
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by MrCork: 7:39am On Oct 23, 2014
msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.


...Story...are u light skin? angry

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by sixtus8525(m): 7:40am On Oct 23, 2014
It could be that he love you but if is looking for an opportunity to approach you .
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Nobody: 7:41am On Oct 23, 2014
If u lyk som1, chat d person up, the guy myt be shy to talk to u while u thinking hez ignoring u (except if u ugly) asides from dat, u are good 2 go.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by IamK2I(m): 7:41am On Oct 23, 2014
msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

Hope you are not obsessed first first? If you are not and feel comfortable seeing him with other girls, then, you can walk up to him. Don't ask him questions like" why have you being avoiding me or why, why, why..." I promise you if you ask those like of questions any thing when your eyes see enjoy am! Walk up to him as a friend like you guys know each other before, ask about school, funny lecturers, and don't forget to leave a nice conversation(even in his head), I bet you, he will come looking for you the next time he didn't see you in school.


But why do girls like these kind of guys?

The guy na correct guy! This my broda from another mother. This how we roll.
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Gorgeous58(f): 7:43am On Oct 23, 2014
Singing African China's If you love somebody: *If you love somebody walk up to am and tell am you love am oo. It does no crime no crime at all.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by p2t2r(m): 7:44am On Oct 23, 2014
Na wa o!...I see the things that make front page and I ask myself how manage?
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by OmoEziokwu: 7:44am On Oct 23, 2014
numericalguy:
OP, how do u expect such a nice and cool dude to approach you when you have baricaded yourself by hanging on the arm of the "most wanted guy" in your level. So much so that most people think you are dating. You get loads loads of attention from all the guys in your level buy flirting with them.

Must you have every guy in your class? He's the last one remaining and you must have him even when you know he has a favourite girl.

I don't think you really love him. You only want to conqure him since he's probably one of the few guys left that is not really bothered by you.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by yungcyrus(m): 7:45am On Oct 23, 2014
gistmelove:


why can't u open ur own thread too.. Mayb he cn hit frontpage grin
*laughs out low*

ma guy ,trust me, wen i open d thread I wil dedicate it to you *winks*
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Naijalastborn(m): 7:45am On Oct 23, 2014
He is just too shy and doesn't know where to start from. Just walk by someday and say hi and watch the what happens next.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Nobody: 7:45am On Oct 23, 2014
okay, this guy behaves like me, so that's why i am going to comment. haha. anyway, number 1, the guy likes you. some guys take the initiative and approach any girl, some other guys wait for something (by chance) to happen to bring both of you together. this guy is the second type of guy. There is this particular girl that comes around me like everyday to see a couple of girls i sit close to (i talk to these girls sometimes, maybe i am quiet like that grin ) . i know the only reason she comes around is cos i am there, but i dont say a word to her. I see her in the corridor and i say hi, and she smiles, but thats it. lol. still dont know how to break the ice with her. Guess i think she shld wait till i can break the ice, or she should just move on. is it fair, i have no idea.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by subzidi: 7:46am On Oct 23, 2014
@OP
This is coming from a big Aunty ie been there done that smiley I don't know your level in school but I feel the stage at which you are is the stage to develop and polish your social skills. There's nothing wrong with striking a conversation with this guy, in fact you might discover in due course he may not be worth the crush depending on what personality makeup appeals you! Now, you can start with borrowing his lecture note or complementing whatever he's wearing that captures your fancy wink from there a conversation starts... Trust me,when you finally get into the real world you will find yourself in situations where you have to socialize/interact with wider audience regardless and the ability to swiftly engage has a way of making advance in your career.
The issue is that the context at which people are interpreting your situation is as though you are looking for a date/rship with the guy which may NOT be true! Ain't nothing wrong with making great friends opposite sex or not. There are many people you'd meet in school that a few years down the line you'd be glad you did!
It is anti-social for you see someone you admire and pretend as though they don't exist, this also happens amongst girls too. You see a fellow girl, you like her personality,she's smart etc instead you'd rather hate on her, judge as being proud,feeling full of herself and so on without fully knowing the person...it has happened to me. Funny enough i've been in a position where someone I knew in school came for a job interview which I was in the pannel grin . Summary good social skills take you far in life and young people should please drop all these stereotypes and learning to make friends for the sake of it! Unfortunately relationships are over sexualized in our generation. You sound like one with her head properly screwed on her shoulders.
Wish you the best in your academic pursuit!

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by daben1(m): 7:46am On Oct 23, 2014
If gals toast boys. Dem go die?

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by JMystique(m): 7:46am On Oct 23, 2014
The fact that he purposely tries to ignore you means he's dying for you!!Trust me I've been there...we shy guys develop this defence mechanism where we never put ourselves in a position where our hands can be 'felled' so we just form 'I no send nobody'.He probably tnks ur too occupied wt guys to pay attention to him and thinking of ways to get close to you.I think he just feels he has spoilt everything by ignoring u initially so just continues for no good reason.You'd bbe suprised @ hw positively he'd react the second you make it easier for him.Next time he greets others and ignores you playfully ask 'didn't u see me!?'People seem to imply that a girl making the ist move means chiking him,it just means making him chike u more easier

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Johnnoo(m): 7:48am On Oct 23, 2014
@msrita; if you'll listen to me...do nothing. His attitudes is one of many guys tactics of wooing a "chic" wink
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by OmoEziokwu: 7:49am On Oct 23, 2014
100Cents:


How many carryovers will that save you ?

I don't want you to stay in school beyond your mates..

Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Emeka71(m): 7:50am On Oct 23, 2014
[quote author=msrita post=27332208]So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,bu
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Matthewbriggs(m): 7:51am On Oct 23, 2014
numericalguy:
OP, how do u expect such a nice and cool dude to approach you when you have baricaded yourself by hanging on the arm of the "most wanted guy" in your level. So much so that most people think you are dating. You get loads loads of attention from all the guys in your level buy flirting with them.

Must you have every guy in your class? He's the last one remaining and you must have him even when you know he has a favourite girl.

I don't think you really love him. You only want to conqure him since he's probably one of the few guys left that is not really bothered by you.


@bolded exatcly ... this is the main. Reason.

I have once nearly been a victim of such type of girls. I hardly, I mean hardly give women attention if she like make fine like Miss world me no send. I only send you if I really like you or we have something in common. .. If we don't, to me you do not exist.

Now I have discovered that most of them are surprised that every guy is bowing at their feet giving them attention and you seem not to send them it hurts them a little and they therefore embark on a mission to see whether they can win your likeness not because they like you but for more of an ego boost.

I can smell their intention from afar. My intuition tells me this Op sounds like one of these type of women.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Nobody: 7:53am On Oct 23, 2014
Oh i think i know the movie, Emeka ike later died nau. grin

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by IamK2I(m): 7:55am On Oct 23, 2014
msrita:



I don't wanna take that risk sister,you know he might misinterpret the whole thing and if he's a jerk he'll go about telling people I'm falling for him and add some loads of lies. Believe me some guys can and would do that.

Yea... but it depends on how you approach the guy. Starting the 'Holiest' conversation wouldn't send the wrong information and being cool by taking a step at a time wouldn't allow him just jump into conclusion...

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by temitemi1(m): 7:55am On Oct 23, 2014
My simple advice for u lady is that never force urself on any guy. If d guy is nt looking ur side that means is nt intrested in U, because forcing urself on him my dear d end result of such relationship is disaster. I will like to recomend a movie to u UNFORGIVABLE(by dayo amusa)
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by miembamish(m): 7:58am On Oct 23, 2014
1st I'll ask de university u are.. Koz it seems ur in Unical.... By de way. Don't blame de guy. If ah was him, I'll do same. Juz start chatting with him with little more "hellos" he'll adjust. Don't forget to reply if ur in Unical or not ...
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by mustafamamma: 7:59am On Oct 23, 2014
Get his number and express ur feeling tru text msg or call mi.
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by blakky97(m): 8:05am On Oct 23, 2014
msrita:


I actually think he's doing it on purpose too.
I used to always say that if were a guy I'll make girls fall for and do nothing about,I guess he that guides the universe decided to make me know what it feels like. But as a girl I don't make guys fall for me though ,I don't try at all ,I'm an effortless chic any day anytime . U wanna fall ? Cool, u don't want to ? Better.
Some guys don't like making the move all the time. Sometimes a simple good morning will indicate friendliness and humility on the girls part. But most girls will rather pass by than say hi. Believe me- those forward girls go farther in life than the proud ones, whether or not they are less beautiful

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by M4gunners: 8:06am On Oct 23, 2014
Sister just start up a conversation with him after lecture one day.It can be about what you guys learnt that day,his response will determine if you have chance you know! He might be interested in you too but don't know how to go about letting you know what he has in mind. Good luck.

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by madskills(m): 8:06am On Oct 23, 2014
Hahahahah na so we b o,guyz ba...its his moves 2 get U....i did dat once ...na so all d guyz 4 my class like dis hot babe...i keep ignorin her lik she doesnt exist..next tin she was comin close 2 find out Y i think she wasnt hot ...nxt tin U knw we were bleepin lik crazy b4 she found out it was 2 late...but its a 50-50 chance... grin
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by nickz(m): 8:06am On Oct 23, 2014
RossyBentley:
Oh i think i know the movie, Emeka ike later died nau. grin
lmfaocheesycheesycheesy

OP doesn't seem all that to me,some girls can make you come out of your shell
you need to visit a "voodoo priest to re-install your female magic"
you probably lost it hanging around too many guys
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by madskills(m): 8:07am On Oct 23, 2014
Hahahahah na so we b o,guyz ba...its his moves 2 get U....i did dat once ...na so all d guyz 4 my class like dis hot babe...i keep ignorin her lik she doesnt exist..next tin she was comin close 2 find out Y i think she wasnt hot ...nxt tin U knw we were bleepin lik crazy b4 she found out it was 2 late...but its a 50-50 chance... grin oya make una begin like my comment if U r familiar wit dis moves...
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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by adexsimply(m): 8:07am On Oct 23, 2014
sameer1212:
look my dear, atimes this tinz happen jst like that n we can't control it. as some pple hs already adviced, jst walk up to him n say hi n believe me when d friendship started u guys wl be d best of friends...because u said d guy is quit n many quit guys r matured.

#thankmeletter#
Which one be "quit guys" again biko?
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by raphroye: 8:10am On Oct 23, 2014
msrita:
Thank you all. I get it , there are 2 options, take the risk and walk up to him or crush silently. I think I already know which one I'm taking. Thank you all once again.
Chai! Dis gal is a dullard.......just walk up to him after lecture (GNS or GST class) and ask for his note dat u want to copy sumtins inside, believe me dats all u need 2 enta him.... It works dear. A lady once used dat scope on me and I fell for it

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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by 49cents(m): 8:11am On Oct 23, 2014
msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

Do you want the bitter truth? i will talk to you like a sister.........


Instead of staring at him and wondering why he is ignoring you,PLEASE AND PLEASE STARE AT YOUR BOOKS INSTEAD AND YOUR FUTURE WILL BE BRIGHT.

THERE IS PLENTY of TIME for stuff like ROMANCE SO BUT FOR NOW PLEASE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR BOOKS AND YOU WILL NEVER REGRET IT.
#TeamNeverPutTheCartBeforeTheHorse

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