KarmaMod:

Lol she ran off before you can use her to make Tatase and the rest of us uncomfortable with your ridiculous serenades

~Sauron~:

See her mouth like suya.
Oniranu!!!


Where's Stillwater da seductress??

stillwater:

Lol

Please o.  I don't want to be your accomplice in your flirting business.

~Sauron~:

Drop it and start flirting?? Hehehehehehe
This is hilarious.
Tatase means pepper, right??

~Sauron~:

I don't like that kind of pepper. . . . .abeg.

Tatase started the flirting. She said we should "drop it"
I don't make the rules, i abide by em.

Tatase:

I think I've been respectful this whole time. You have made insulting stereotypic generalizations about me and I don't think you'd say I've been rude back or taken it down to the level you've chosen to take it to. Like WTF! I'm sure I'm misunderstanding. I'm sure you're not under the misapprehension that I have the vaguest interest in flirting with you. I wouldn't say I was a feminist but I'm a human being and I respect myself and I expect a certain amount of respect back from the people I would choose to engage with in a social way. So no, I don't want to flirt with you. I think you've insulted me enough for one night. I think it's enough, eh?

You want to take it to that level. I'll take it to that level with you. You appear to be delusional. I quoted the post I was referring to. And I was flirting? I promise you if I was flirting it would be obvious. Primary school was a while ago. I don't need to engage in juvenile tactics to get a boy's attention. I commented on something I thought was unfair. I don't know what kinds of girls you're flirting with, and I'm not really interested in knowing, but I assure you, I wasn't flirting. In the English language, drop it, means we stop talking about it and stop referring to it, ok? I'm absolutely done. I'll admit I'm pissed. I'm insulted and pissed. Like AS IF!!!! There comes a point in life where you have to realize that not everyone likes you like that. I realize you've flirted till you've become "common" on NL but I haven't and I don't want to, thank you. Like I hope you're joking and I'm blowing it out of proportion because I'd rather that I look like an idiot than believe that you actually think I want to flirt w/you or that flirting with you has been remotely linked to any intention I've ever conceived of. I always like to believe that when people on NL are being shites, that that's not how they really are in life, and I hope that's true for you. I really do. I'm so done talking to you and talking about this. I'm over it!  

Tatase:

<sigh> Anyway sha, back to the original topic:

My opinion is that women should be submissive to their husbands. But husband's should love and respect their wives. I have to say I agree with sistawoman and ilurveit. Submission is tempered by love and respect and vice-versa. Feminism has nothing to do with love, but respect has everything to do with it.

I also don't think women are single because of lack of submission. I think it's a priority shift because so many are focused on education and career that they don't realize till later that they've not put any effort into love. I'm an idealist sha and I think there's someone for everyone and that somehow, if one has faith they'll find their someone.

A-40:

What matters is balancing your career and love by meeting a guy who wouldn't mind you being in the spotlight but at the sametime you respect him enough to still know that he is the man of the house that way we would all be happy because even God is against either a Man or a Woman being alone[b] _{i am not a pastor ooh just keeping it real}
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~Sauron~:

U are a pastor!!!

shegirl71:

@ poster
probably 70% of the black men are not responsible.So the ladies prefer to remain single.

~Sauron~:

Naija men have suffered.

THIS IS WHY I THINK THE BLACK WOMAN IS LOOSING THE FIGHT OVER THE WHITE WOMAN:
1]DURING THE CIVIL RIGHTS MOVEMENT, BLACK GUYS WERE DEPRIVED OF THE WHITE LADIES, SO WHEN EVERYTHING WAS COOL, THERE TASTE FOR A WHITE LADIES WAS HIGH.
2]YOUNG WHITE LADIES THESE DAYS THINK BLACK GUYS ARE COOL, HIP, AND FUN TO BE WITH
3]BLACK LADIES DON'T SEEM TO UNDERSTAND THAT BLACK GUYS WANT PEACE.

I think the only reason why a large majority of AA ladies are single is because AA women refuse to date men of other races.

Tell what is wrong with these lyrics:

Now put your hands up
Up in the club, we just broke up
I’m doing my own little thing
Decided to dip but now you want to trip
because another brother noticed me
I’m up on him, he up on me
don't pay him any attention
cried my tears, for three good years
Ya can’t be mad at me

[Chorus]
because if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
Don’t be mad once you see that he want it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it


(Chorus)
I got gloss on my lips, a man on my hips
Got me tighter than my Dereon jeans
acting up, drink in my cup
I could care less what you think
I need no permission, did I mention
don't pay him any attention
because you had your turn
But now you going to learn
What it really feels like to miss me

(Chorus)

Don’t treat me to the things of the world
I’m not that kind of girl
Your love is what I prefer, what I deserve
Here's a man that makes me then takes me
And delivers me to a destiny, to infinity and beyond
Pull me into your arms
Say I’m the one you want
If you don’t, you’ll be alone
And like a ghost I’ll be gone



This song does not encourge women to stay single but incourges them to leave men that are not willing to put a ring on their fingers.


Addtionally, any brotha that sleeps with a white woman or prefers them over us the weaker of the rase and should stay with those oyinbos because we don't want them anyway.

It happens but it doesnt mirror all interracial relationships. A large portion of them are genuine loving relationships and is not about the poor white chic taking nonsense no one else is prepared to take. Seems to be the consolation for a lot of black women.

Your claim in bold is sometimes true . . . perhaps why some black men are more comfortable with white women, they are ready to take you for who you are, penniless or not. Black women are simply looking for a huge pay day.

Sista:

@Davidylan



The truth comes out, so is the reason why your girlfreind is white David

Black woman take too much crap trying to prove loyalty to men who have no prople leaving them for women of other races in the first place

Yeah for once we agree on something, lets not make it a habit.    I feel that upwardly mobile black women are starting to wise up.  I'm getting to the age where I may be ready to settle down soon and I refuse to "settle" for a black man, just because he is black.  I will marry a healthy-minded male from any racial background, before I marry a black man of idiotic variety.

So many AA women are burdened and dealing with the issues that many others (black community, black men, etc.)  bring and lay on them, or AA women take on others' issues voluntarily, whereas other groups of women tend to be MUCH more free to be lighthearted, float around, flirt, and look out for their own happiness and interests. So why have AA women been so blindly loyal??


--  AA women fantasize about marrying black men and having black children:  There's nothing wrong with this fantasy, it's quite natural.  But if one dreams about being a movie star, yet 10-13 years later they are still working at Subway, it's time to let that fantasy go and try something else. AA women should take into consideration the fact that MAYBE they will have a husband who is non-black and they may have children with non-black men. The fantasy, needs to be replaced by what is reality.


--  AA women worry about how "dating out" will hurt the black man's pride:  Yet, he's running around the world chasing everything.  I've even heard of black men running through Rio and writing books about it. (laughing)


--  AA women have been conditioned to believe that all white men are racist oppressors and that no other race of man desires them for marriage:  Yet, you will find black women venturing out, marrying men of other races AND having children.


--  AA women have been labeled by some black men as loud, obnoxious, boring in bed, ugly, lacking something, gold diggers, thug chasers, too fat and so on; while black men on the other hand perceive themselves to be more desirable.  Alot of black women have internalized this notion and feel that the only race of man who will tolerate them is the black man.  They are conditioned to believe that he is the only race of man who will accept her loud, ugly, lacking something ass.  Which simply isn't true.  This is just an excuse he gives, so that he can date white women and men. It's an excuse that he will use to justify his desire to be unloyal to a group of women who have been loyal to a fault. It's a game

Here's an example.  Sometimes when a man is unloyal in a relationship, he will place all blame on the woman.  He does this so that she will feel guilty, blame herself and focus on what she's doing wrong.   All the while, he is out somewhere being unloyal, while she's being hard on herself. 

I just think that  black women who are still single, need to wake up to this game.  AA women need to stop being so nice and kind and letting men walk all over them.  They need to stop being the church mammy for everyone.   The average AA woman is everybodies mother and rarely has a chance to just be a light-hearted individual.

Her lyrics remind me of something anyone can pull from a box of cracker jacks or a preschoolers mouth of first thoughts in song.

Most importantly, they need to stop believing that men from other races do not want BW.

@ LoveAlways

the reason most black females prefer their black brothers is the natural weapon of mass destruction we are blessed with, it can not be found in any other race. most women, especially AAs can't give that up. we got the ace card girl 

LoveAlways:


I do not want to offend black men on the board by talking about private size or lack there of (laughing).  But it's just not true.  Believing that all black men have "weapons of mass destruction" is hilarious  LOL.

@LoveAlways
Lol no be small thing is that a woman in the Mickey Mouse pic? doesn't exactly look like one besides the hat