serubawon:

At one point in the relationship, she broke up with me without warning. Apparently, I was getting way too close and she was getting uncomfortable with the vulnerability issues.I didn't freak out, just told her I understood and left her alone for about a week. After a week, she calls and says she's miserable and can't stand the fact that we're not even talking. I tell her it's her ball game. I understand where she's coming from and the trust issues and she can just take her time, no rush.



So, that's it. Wish me the best.

braveheart2012: I am super-happy for you. However, I think you should stop revealing so much information about yourself and your family on here. It's just not wise. Save some of the details for only both of you to savor later when you grow old and grey together. Your story is inspiring enough as it is. You don't need to put too much of yourself out here for everybody and anybody to see. It's a small world and whatever goes on the Internet stays on there forever. Good luck!

serubawon:

@braveheart2012. Very true. Look at it this way. It was a way to exorcise my demons and deal with my issues in the only way I knew how. If you actually look at it, how much personal info is actually here? Any friend of mine would see this thread and know it was me instantly. I have no secrets and no skeletons to hide, but you do have a very valid point. Thank you

suigeneris12: This is a nice thread. Thanks to all who have been an encouragement to Mr Serubawon.
Is it possible to chat with you, Mr Serubawon sometime? But not on this platform

serubawon:

@suigeneris12. It would really help if I know what you want to chat about? Send me a PM. If you don't get a reply, please let me know. My listed email here is not my real email (for obvious reasons), but I do check it from time to time.

LFJ: Congratulation Mr. Serubawon, your story is inspiring and soul lifting. How I get hook to this tread? I don't know. From the first page to the last are very interesting. The contributions of the women in the house add salt and peppe to everything. It is not always easy telling your own story especially in the part of our world, I praise you for this. The stuff we got on this tread is no doubt a reflection your age, experience and level of matuarity.

serubawon: . . . Also thanking 'Analytical' (wherever he is) . . .

prittigrrr: Serubawon is a prophet. I reconciled with my ex. With prayer, fasting, and godly counsel, we remarried after 10 years divorced. He was my friend and waited 8 years the first time for me to see he loved me. He is a patient man. For 10 years he waited for God to melt my heart and allow his return to it. When I lost my grandparents and suffered in my career, he became a listening ear. He did every task I required of him without complaint. Our families were so happy for our reconciliation. I'm blessed.

Analytical:

Serubawon, so love has finally found you!!! It's surely been a bumpy ride. They say all is well that ends well. Happy to hear this has ended, or rather almost ending, well. I am so happy for you and Olori. I pray all the years lost be restored seven-fold in a glorious and blissful union. You are a man that has been tempered by love, pain, loss, agony, self-control, patience, long-suffering, endurance, hope, love (again!) and finally self-rediscovery! Surely you are on your way to recovery. She will, no doubt, be in safe hands. Congrats, man! You deserve the best there is.

So much was happening on all fronts that kept me away from NL.

Cheers.

salsera:
Na d same analytical be dis? I always appreciated your posts

Wow... Nice to know you are well.
Our dear serubobo has found olori.

Do you still counsel?

Ujujoan:

Years lost As in

Analytical:

Uju, Uju, Uju, how many times did I call you? Don't look for my trouble so early this morning o! I am not yet in my full stride. I guess we have to ask Serubobo to throw more light on that

How have you been BTW?