Wittylens:
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Nice content but your blog design is too poor . please work on it as I will be visiting more often

lirusehn:

mi hardly smile. . This got me waohing

LordReed:


Never give your love because of another person. Give your love for you. This way your love will remain true even if the other does not.

culcid:
Oh, do we still talk about love, to me it doesn't worth it, because its just a cycle. Always starts with attraction, then you start spending more time with him/her, likeness sets in, progresses to love, oh what a great feeling, nothing counts anymore, d best gift from nature, sacrifices, disappointments, commitment etc. Now you are fully attached, the world stops when he/she is away, why go through all the stress. All of a sudden, normal things you can do becomes too hard, you start seeing the world through his/her eyes, fear sets in, her/his every movement starts to count, you become possessive and jealous, you start thinking about only them, gradually you are becoming violent ....................Gbam!!! You are out again searching for love . It doesn't worth it.

uboma:
@ MizMyColi,

Love is a beautiful experience although with its up and down sides. But it is we humans that makes the experience hard/difficult....

NoContract:
Single ladies fraternity.

Elantracey:



Its not really that easy you know , there are times when you'll just need a little compensation and when it doesn't come its saddening.

Elantracey:




Lol , me I don't know o , am only scared of giving my all and getting little or nothing in return .

aflyingbird:
i swear folks b trying 2 hard these days. op, read more 2 improve ur writing. u doing 2 much, patrick obahiagbon. simplify ur writing, gets ur point across much berra

1one:
Very Beautiful Piece .

Very Very Beautiful Piece

Very Very Very Beautiful Piece

Love scares the knickers off of me, but not because of past hurt, not at all, but rather because the way my personality and heart has been cultured; I have so so so much to give in love, the fear becomes- Will she have so so so much to give me in return too. I know love is supposed to be selfless and unexpectant(atleast some versions of what loves means have these ideals as its centre piece) but at the same time, I'm human and by being human, something deep inside me craves for a "kick back".

We can't also help but realize that love, as wonderful as it is, in this present age, has become such a "political concept".

I believe in love...I believe in love alot... and in 2015, I hope love believes in me enough to find me.

Once again MizMyColi..... Very Beautiful Piece.

MizMyColi:
Touche!

FKBZ:
People are afraiD to love,cos opening their heart to love makes them vulnerable to hurt.and even when they get hurt they won't want a repeat so they don't appear weak.
Most folks just Like you nowadays and not love wholeheartedly.
While some people from birth they don't know or feel loved....so it always hard to receive or return it when it comes along the way.

LordReed:


No doubt it is but remember you are doing it first for you, that is a whole lot of compensation already.

culcid:
Oh, do we still talk about love, to me it doesn't worth it, because its just a cycle. Always starts with attraction, then you start spending more time with him/her, likeness sets in, progresses to love, oh what a great feeling, nothing counts anymore, d best gift from nature, sacrifices, disappointments, commitment etc. Now you are fully attached, the world stops when he/she is away, why go through all the stress. All of a sudden, normal things you can do becomes too hard, you start seeing the world through his/her eyes, fear sets in, her/his every movement starts to count, you become possessive and jealous, you start thinking about only them, gradually you are becoming violent ....................Gbam!!! You are out again searching for love . It doesn't worth it.

kilokeys:


its u girls that want little na. we can give u plenty and everything including babies. if u let us o

haibe:
The last time I tried love, it was disheartening and I felt so empty and heartbroken. Anyone who sees me then will think I was under a spell,l. In the end, the love wasn't reciprocated. Not sure I will ever find a girl like that again, that's why I don't even think of such love again cos I won't only hate myself if it doesn't work out as planned, I also may not love the one meant for me the way I ought to. So for now, I have said and saying no to love

Urine:


MizMyColi, this is the real issue here, some people love hard, love like they are under a spell. What assurance can you give these people?

Taolyn4lif:


Please expatiate. Justify this statement with reasons.

culcid:
Oh, do we still talk about love, to me it doesn't worth it, because its just a cycle. Always starts with attraction, then you start spending more time with him/her, likeness sets in, progresses to love, oh what a great feeling, nothing counts anymore, d best gift from nature, sacrifices, disappointments, commitment etc. Now you are fully attached, the world stops when he/she is away, why go through all the stress. All of a sudden, normal things you can do becomes too hard, you start seeing the world through his/her eyes, fear sets in, her/his every movement starts to count, you become possessive and jealous, you start thinking about only them, gradually you are becoming violent ....................Gbam!!! You are out again searching for love . It doesn't worth it.

McSterling:
Love can be a dangerous/unhealthy thing especially when you invest all your emotions and energies into it. You love somebody so much; you become so dependent on them like an invalid. You literally can't do without them. And even when they hurt and abuse you, you can't feel it, you can't see it. And when you do see and feel it, you keep going back to get hurt. You become a masochist of sorts- you relish the pain. Even when it's crystal clear that they do not love you at all or at least not as much as you do, you fail to see, you fail to accept. You're so emotionally attached. You so desperately want their love and so you end up vitiating yourself in the process.

That's some f*cked up bullsh*t!

goofyuncut:
Again, beautiful expressions from MizMyColi. This one's like good promise for the new year. Please eat love, drink love and make love. It's good and there's vitamins and other minerals in it

God!
your approval of me glowwws
Thanks Phil

Uglyduckling:
You've just summarised my last experience in love with this. Now I'm stuck on whether to give love another chance or just forget about it totally. And the worse is that I am too afraid that I will hurt someone who will love me the way I loved. And I not ready to be a source of pain to anyone because I know how that feels.

MizMyColi:

Seriously Dear, Love is not bleeped up bullshit.
We made it that way.
I'm afraid of what we'll pass down to our generation.
We modified and have now made it so impossible.
we mix love, lust and infatuation.
Love Applies Self Control
Love Is not Obsessive
Love gives breathing Space.
The scenario you described above shows a person who has little or no self love.
Take it from me dear, Love that you have not given to yourself, you cannot give to others.
Even if you try to, it will not be received in its truest form.
Self love is not selfish.

FKBZ:
People are afraiD to love,cos opening their heart to love makes them vulnerable to hurt.and even when they get hurt they won't want a repeat so they don't appear weak.
Most folks just Like you nowadays and not love wholeheartedly.
While some people from birth they don't know or feel loved....so it always hard to receive or return it when it comes along the way.

BJ4REEL:
Hmmm....op, more like you talking to me...
Argghh...i guess my heart has been so hardened?

MizMyColi:


I understand you sir, and I've seen that play out as well.
One of the things I learnt this year was differentiating love from infatuation.

I realized and I, to a large extent concurred with people who say Love doesn't exist.

Y'see, I realized that I've never really given love a chance to blossom all my life.

Love, beyond the frills and beyond the thrills --- is a decision.

you might like this thread. https://www.nairaland.com/1951211/must-read-10-experinces-signal

MizMyColi:


^^^ This is my latest blogpost on www.mizmycolimusings..com

Waow! The blog's a huge leap of faith for me.
I'd appreciate your coming around and support.
Thanks in anticipation