prettythicksme:
pussy dey slack?

harry509:
can I trust nigeria gals dis days? My x-gal alwys satisfy me wen we rr 2gada, aldoh b4 I meant her she refuse d 1st day, bt afta sum weeks later she kame 2 visit me, afta aloot of gistn wit sweet words frm me d asorto dance nu b here ooh. So eva since den she satisfy me b4 she 5nally dump d ass @ of me. Bcus she said she dos nt like my characta animo. Well I said 2 maslf life goes on. Afta sum few months later I meant new gal. 2 cut d story short, I demanded 4 sex she said no dat we shud wait afta our weddn, wit all d presure I gave 2 her dat 9t she later agree we shud do it. Bt I nava knew dat was goin 2 b d end of her relationship wit me bcus I sex her dat 9t. She refuse callin me, nt even a an sms frm her. Den I decided 2 call her 1 day 2 ask her y, she said bcus I sex her. Den I pleaded she has 4gven me. Now d nsurs here is dat she told me afta our weddn we can sex d way we like, y she is demandn alott of gift frm me 2 d extnd am even planin 2 pay her sch feels soon wit@ sex xcpt kiss. 2 cut d story shot, pls NL wat is her ntension 2wards me

Beamborla:

It's rather unfortunate you fail to see that there is need to treat everyone as an individual. Don't treat the lady next door the way you treat the one in your school / work place.

We all have different up bringing hence, our view and orientation of life is different. Don't forget I used the word 'OPEN MIND' without anyone holding anything back... here you need to let go of all your insecurities and fear and try to be selfish... this is what I want then you remove the selfishness and reach a compromise if you can


This believe / idea of yours actually accounts for some form of subtle rape where guys would Tell you don't mind her she wants it, she's just pretending.

If I can't show you my real color, i doubt if it's love. Something as fragile as sex should be discussed in a relationship it's very wrong to rely on assumption.

Mhizkel:
Lol..If u dn't call for insult, i won't insult u!Btw i'm frm lag

Mhizkel:
The ladies might not really want sex tho...A sister in church once told me about a guy she dated...she said whenever she visits him, all he does is talk and talk..not even a kiss from him..Not that she wanted sex but @least he shud be a little bit romantic...I advised her to talk to him or rather make a move herself...she said no because she doesn't wanna look cheap before him! So she ended d relationship

tosyne2much:
mind you, I don't treat my ladies with disdain or haughty contempt

You said ladies are taught to hide their sexual pleasure and you further added that sex should be discussed b4 a relationship... Don't you think you are contradicting yourself ?

Why on earth would one sit a lady down and expect discuss sex b4 a relationship. I mean what do you expect her to say ? She wants it ?

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zenithgroup:
[s] A lady will dump you cos you lack wisdom to keep relationship. The truth is "sex before marriage is bad" but certain things needs to be frequently done to her, to keep her on her toes.
Ok let me ask you this,
1,what do you think her breast is meant for?
2, why do you think she clean and look her best whenever she coming to your place?
3,why do you think she stare at you frequently?
4,what do you think those her voluptuous body meant for?
5,Do you know your woman love language?
Sex is only 10% of relationship

jmoore:
If you "dump" something that is valuable, then foolishness is your surname.
I can't even date a woman that wants premarital sex. My standards are defined before starting a relationship.

Beamborla:

Okay! Take e easy... ma ti binu.
I never implied you treat them funny.

Yes, I mentioned that they've been taught to keep it in check and that it's a topic that should be discussed.

I've been taught to always be a super woman but isn't it proper someone I love and who claim to love me as well create an enabling environment where I can easily speak my mind on the forbidden topic? I used the word OPEN MIND.

Who goes into a relationship without discussing sex with his or her partner?

Yes, I expect her to say yes or no and mean it. Why withhold such information from whom I claim to love. If you don't discuss it with her, who will you discuss it with?

dharmie092:
I disagree with this, tosyne2much I always love to read ur write-up's but this is a NO! NO for me.

harry509:
can I trust nigeria gals dis days? My x-gal alwys satisfy me wen we rr 2gada, aldoh b4 I meant her she refuse d 1st day, bt afta sum weeks later she kame 2 visit me, afta aloot of gistn wit sweet words frm me d asorto dance nu b here ooh. So eva since den she satisfy me b4 she 5nally dump d ass @ of me. Bcus she said she dos nt like my characta animo. Well I said 2 maslf life goes on. Afta sum few months later I meant new gal. 2 cut d story short, I demanded 4 sex she said no dat we shud wait afta our weddn, wit all d presure I gave 2 her dat 9t she later agree we shud do it. Bt I nava knew dat was goin 2 b d end of her relationship wit me bcus I sex her dat 9t. She refuse callin me, nt even a an sms frm her. Den I decided 2 call her 1 day 2 ask her y, she said bcus I sex her. Den I pleaded she has 4gven me. Now d nsurs here is dat she told me afta our weddn we can sex d way we like, y she is demandn alott of gift frm me 2 d extnd am even planin 2 pay her sch feels soon wit@ sex xcpt kiss. 2 cut d story shot, pls NL wat is her ntension 2wards me

2sExy1:
You be mumu... you never see anything. The OP is very correct!

jmoore:
If you "dump" something that is valuable, then foolishness is your surname.
I can't even date a woman that wants premarital sex. My standards are defined before starting a relationship.

NairaMode:


Your father na mumu. Disrespectful infant.
Can you not pass a message accross without being insolent?

2sExy1:
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Tallesty1:
#speechless

Mhizkel:
The ladies might not really want sex tho...A sister in church once told me about a guy she dated...she said whenever she visits him, all he does is talk and talk..not even a kiss from him..Not that she wanted sex but @least he shud be a little bit romantic...I advised her to talk to him or rather make a move herself...she said no because she doesn't wanna look cheap before him! So she ended d relationship

tosyne2much:
Who the discuss sex with a lady b4 a relationship ? I mean who does that ?

Discuss it with a lady b4 a relationship and she would plainly tell you she doesn't want it

amalder:
A gal dump me last year cus of dis d first day she came to my place she ask for a hug dat I treat her like on one ever did dat I should allow her to HUG me,s he keep coming to me place and I never touch she we will just lay on d bed and gist at a time she stop coming and not happy wit me again and till today

obillyj:
When you guys say things like this, I wonder if such men truly exist. I am yet to meet a man that wants no sex in relationshio. Where are they pls?
I will love that person till death do us part. :'