ClassicQueen:
Nairalanders i bring this topic here because i am scared...my boss always look at my legs seductively and sometimes look into my eyes whenever i am not looking at him...last year December, he also told me i am adding weight. I feel so concerned because as a Lady, i am having another thought please pals what do you think? Could it be that he have nothing bad in mind? I dont think i can even stay alone in the office when other staff are gone cos i am scared of the unknown!!!


I need your advice

Scared of what you have not done before or what?

Madam it would do u good to cover ur body properly. Stop wearing short skirts. Wear the ones that covers ur legs down to ur ankles. Wear Long skirts. And stop protruding ur breasts too much with ur bra. Reduce ur smiles and unnecessary familiarities with him. U are actually sending a message across. And pray to God to help u overcome him.

ClassicQueen:
I dress well i dont even expose any part of my body just from the end lenght of my skirt down to my feet is exposed. Thanks for the advice i hav to b very careful...

Jst ignore him. Pretend as if U̶̲̥̅̊ don't kwn wat he wnt. Since u've nt see anoda job. Lastly be prayerful. Bless U̶̲̥̅̊

ClassicQueen:
Lool no please i control the way i walk.

okay do you have a husband or fiance? cos most perverted men often take single ladies as possible conquest.
plan with your oga. let him visit you one day in your office with flowers. and make sure hes a very grab person.

I don dy read the advice wey we peeps they give this chick...I was just wondering if na toddler we dey advice here...u dy cry foul like fowl wey dem thief her pikin....

He looks at u when u aint looking-(from every indication u have eyes everywhere,I wonder hw u take see am when u r nt looking)
He look at ur thigh and legs-(i was wondering if u walk about with ur eyes on thighs and legs)

Cover your legs then, wear only trousers.
Also avoid smiling.

ClassicQueen:
Nah you are the fool here no work today? still on Nl? oh i forgot you are still a job seeker...come on run along to job vacancy section now thanks!!!

foolish harlot.am on my way to my office.Smelling bi*ch. Your client are waiting 4 you! Go and service them.

ClassicQueen:
I dress well i dont even expose any part of my body....

@Op, I beg to slightly disagree wt u here. U are looking at exposure frm d angle of uncovered part of your body bt I tell in all honesty, ordinary exposed bra strip can turn a man on, even sighting a trace of d pant on d skirt. When u boast u dont exposed any part of your body, as an office person, hw well do u manage d little space exposing your bra inbetween d two front chest buttons of your shirt? Don't we see mess in d churches these days even among d so-called married women who are supposed to be modest, nt to talk of workplace? Except u convince us dat u dress like a deeper life sister, then we take u serious...... lol

ClassicQueen:
.....just from the end lenght of my skirt down to my feet is exposed....

U never can tell what runs in d mind of an average man when he sights an opposite sex. It goes far beyond what u may conclude as point of attraction. Dat thing u claim 'just' is what somebody out there wants to die for.

Well, d long story short: if your assertions are true, then he's already nursing a feeling for u. And IF U ARE NT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP WT YOUR BOSS, then BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL WHEN WT HIM OR AROUND HIM AS OTHERS HV ADVISED EARLIER.

Sorry for my long story bt ladies need to be decent for men to also think right & zip up!!!

Perceptor:

Mtcheew! Abi u want to confirm if u av succeded in gaining his attention and seducing him. Why the sensitive dressings in the first place??

just wat I had in mind!

Perceptor:

Mtcheew! Abi u want to confirm if u av succeded in gaining his attention and seducing him. Why the sensitive dressings in the first place??

just wat I had in mind!
She wan confirm her fears......

And what if you are not telling us the truth, and your boss is also reading this?

Lady, you may be falling in love for your boss o. He is making you feel wanted, flattered, and 'loved' (p.s. na cheap toto him dey find)

Find another job quickly or you will end up in bed with him. Hopefully he is not a married man else you will be doomed.

Decryptor:


Let's take them one by one...

Looks at your legs.... You seem to be putting on expensive shoes
Looks into your eyes while you are not looking at him...he is thinking of how to deal with you (I'll tell you why in a jiffy)
Told you last December that you are adding weight....He knows your salary is not enough for you to be adding so much like that


CONCLUSION: Your boss is suspecting you stole office money!

dude! Com'on u have no right to crack me up like that

ClassicQueen:
I dress well i dont even expose any part of my body just from the end lenght of my skirt down to my feet is exposed. Thanks for the advice i hav to b very careful...

Is fuwaduing a bad thing now? U no want cash?

Don't think he actually has anything up his sleeves. At times we are too quick to jump into conclusions. Am a boss at my place of work, and once in awhile I compliment my female staffs, especially when properly dressed, and everyone stays professional on the job. Comments once in awhile from bosses is not (in most cases), a sign of sexual harassment as the case may be; but just at times to motivate, relief stress off co workers etc.

Just my humble opinion.

Cheers

almostFamous:
Tsk tsk tsk...he didn't call u sweetheart


He doesn't call u



He doesn't text u



He doesn't buy u free lunch




He doesn't rub on ur boobs by "accident"

And u think he wants to "woo" u


Smh for some babes sha. He's just a man acting the way every other man acts when they get close to a girl whom they think is pretty.


Dunno why u think he's trying to "woo" u and u even carry the matter for head to the extent of bringing it to nairaland. Nawa oo

You get sense like Buhari I swear...That girl is as senseless as Jonathan.... Na she dey trip for the guy o

ClassicQueen:
Nairalanders i bring this topic here because i am scared...my boss always look at my legs seductively and sometimes look into my eyes whenever i am not looking at him...last year December, he also told me i am adding weight. I feel so concerned because as a Lady, i am having another thought please pals what do you think? Could it be that he have nothing bad in mind? I dont think i can even stay alone in the office when other staff are gone cos i am scared of the unknown!!!


I need your advice

Do you mind if I get a glimpse of you and I mean the full package befre I comment.

Ps: don't tae this negatively o just wat to know if your boss is in right sense or not!

Waiting. Lol

ClassicQueen:
Nairalanders i bring this topic here because i am scared...my boss always look at my legs seductively and sometimes look into my eyes whenever i am not looking at him...last year December, he also told me i am adding weight. I feel so concerned because as a Lady, i am having another thought please pals what do you think? Could it be that he have nothing bad in mind? I dont think i can even stay alone in the office when other staff are gone cos i am scared of the unknown!!!


I need your advice

hmmmmm i do not know what to say for many reasons:
but if my guess is right that he really wants to ride u, then see my suggestions
1. i know that we men at times struggle with a lot of things going on inside of us and ones in a while find a way to let them out especially through jokes thereby expecting the lady will understand.
2. men most times fall for what they see( u need to be sensitive of what you wear to the office, how u walk, how you sit down, how you look at him when he is talking or u are talking etc)
3. beware of jokes with him
4.Beware of intimate discussions with him
5. Always ask him about the welfare of his family especially his wife and kids.
and so on
That is in the event that you mind what he is trying to achieve o bc i know some girls that also have such ulterior motive to do the man and gain control of some things around him to the detriment of their freedom, conscience and so on.
But on the other hand he might not really have any such intention it could just be that he is only being a nice boss. Any of these possibilities could play out

saasala:


You get sense like Buhari I swear...That girl is as senseless as Jonathan.... Na she dey trip for the guy o

lol...the babe dey feel hot. But don't call her senseless,maybe she never mature

bosun11:



be nice jor

bet I was nice now

d question is are u both married? If no, den i see u lovin him nd him imaginin u on bed. U guyz can make it hapen! But if he is maried pls stop seducing him i take god beg u. Cos u ve got a bad mindset

almostFamous:
bet I was nice now

far from nice

bosun11:


far from nice

the op is embarrasing us jor. because he looks at her,he's trying to "woo" her? Mchew

Blackett:
People will always ask the most _stupid questions.

Is he trying to woo you?

Hmm. Lemme see.

- he looks at your legs seductively
- he looks passionately into your eyes
- he noticed you added more ass and called you fat

I think he's trying to ask what you had for breakfast.

Dis guy and his trademark comments sa

smsdigito:

hmmmmm i do not know what to say for many reasons:
but if my guess is right that he really wants to ride u, then see my suggestions
1. i know that we men at times struggle with a lot of things going on inside of us and ones in a while find a way to let them out especially through jokes thereby expecting the lady will understand.
2. men most times fall for what they see( u need to be sensitive of what you wear to the office, how u walk, how you sit down, how you look at him when he is talking or u are talking etc)
3. beware of jokes with him
4.Beware of intimate discussions with him
5. Always ask him about the welfare of his family especially his wife and kids.
and so on
That is in the event that you mind what he is trying to achieve o bc i know some girls that also have such ulterior motive to do the man and gain control of some things around him to the detriment of their freedom, conscience and so on.
But on the other hand he might not really have any such intention it could just be that he is only being a nice boss. Any of these possibilities could play out

Thanks

Faraidi:
foolish harlot.am on my way to my office.Smelling bi*ch. Your client are waiting 4 you! Go and service them.

Mumu

almostFamous:
the op is embarrasing us jor. because he looks at her,he's trying to "woo" her? Mchew

buhahahahaha.....it happens....how u doing?

ClassicQueen:
Thanks

UWCM sista

My advice, not guilty until proven. If he hasn't wooed you yet, then relax. If he does, you can come back and create a new topic: My Boss has Finally Wooed Me, What Should I Do? We go cross the bridge when we reach am.

ClassicQueen:
[...]and sometimes look into my eyes whenever i am not looking at him...[...]

I need your advice

Wait, what?
I... I don't even... What sorcery?...

is your boss married? if yes, then he probably wants to bang you. be careful and try to stop joking with him so that he will not get the balls to do anything stupid.