ItsAnderson:

Told her I wouldnt wanna have sex again until I Got
married (which will be, at most, three years from
now), and the next day she sent me a text message
ending the two year relationship. I'm now caught
between a cliff and a high wall. She never told me
why. I just hope it's not because of the sex issue.
Honestly, I feel used because she was my first and
only. I Am 24 and almost through with my bachelors
but I've never found sex that appealing. We've dated
for more than two years but had sex a total six times.
I now feel horrible. I am not very religious but I just
feel like sex before marriage is just wrong. But I dont
think I am willing to let her go either.

ItsAnderson:

Told her I wouldnt wanna have sex again until I Got
married (which will be, at most, three years from
now), and the next day she sent me a text message
ending the two year relationship. I'm now caught
between a cliff and a high wall. She never told me
why. I just hope it's not because of the sex issue.
Honestly, I feel used because she was my first and
only. I Am 24 and almost through with my bachelors
but I've never found sex that appealing. We've dated
for more than two years but had sex a total six times.
I now feel horrible. I am not very religious but I just
feel like sex before marriage is just wrong. But I dont
think I am willing to let her go either.

hardbody:


6 times sèx only in a period 2 years is enough to end any relationship. If she gets it otherwise you will come crying to NL for advice. I suggest you go and date a nun.

KingTom:
Guy you wan turn Priest? Abi you wan become Eunuch? I started doing the do at 15 and by the time I got to your age, hmmmmmmm well just give her number to the guy above me

naijaboiy:
Andyblaze?

Btw...

How did she manage for two years with just having sex only six times?

She should have broken up since na!

whizzzz:
oqa nd yhu proud of ya #doinz...d story is quite cock and bull bur ya attitude #reality chanqe ooo b4 yhu do d wan wey qo do yhu...abstinence is the bestes

ivyT:



C dis guy wey dem born yesterday o

Who be this one?

prettythicksme:
like seriously op,nah u cant abstain from sex cos i no guys of nowadays!!

godG:
Let her go. Obviously, you guys are not on the same wavelength. Wait brother, you must be kidding right? At 24, still on your Bachelors and thinking of marriage in 3 years? A bit unrealistic.

For her, these are the likely odds:

1. She is probably not willing to wait that long.
2. She is probably a nymphomaniac.
3. You are not showing her enough reasons to wait.

Above all, I feel you should let her go. As it's, inferring from your post, she isn't ready to buy your idea of no-sex. And here you are, you are not ready to bend - that which I appreciate. See, do not listen to folks mocking your inability to 'shine her kongo' as expected. It's your life. If you are sure you haven't done anything bad, let her go - I can't emphasize this enough.

One of the hallmarks of a man is his ability to know when to walk away! What will miss you will not meet you and what will meet you will not miss you.

ItsAnderson:

Told her I wouldnt wanna have sex again until I Got
married (which will be, at most, three years from
now), and the next day she sent me a text message
ending the two year relationship. I'm now caught
between a cliff and a high wall. She never told me
why. I just hope it's not because of the sex issue.
Honestly, I feel used because she was my first and
only. I Am 24 and almost through with my bachelors
but I've never found sex that appealing. We've dated
for more than two years but had sex a total six times.
I now feel horrible. I am not very religious but I just
feel like sex before marriage is just wrong. But I dont
think I am willing to let her go either.

stephenqueen:

godG:
Let her go. Obviously, you guys are not on the same wavelength. Wait brother, you must be kidding right? At 24, still on your Bachelors and thinking of marriage in 3 years? A bit unrealistic.

For her, these are the likely odds:

1. She is probably not willing to wait that long.
2. She is probably a nymphomaniac.
3. You are not showing her enough reasons to wait.

Above all, I feel you should let her go. As it's, inferring from your post, she isn't ready to buy your idea of no-sex. And here you are, you are not ready to bend - that which I appreciate. See, do not listen to folks mocking your inability to 'shine her kongo' as expected. It's your life. If you are sure you haven't done anything bad, let her go - I can't emphasize this enough.

One of the hallmarks of a man is his ability to know when to walk away! What will miss you will not meet you and what will meet you will not miss you.

yinkeys:
My brother in this era where you'll be seen as dull if you don't bone her. It's a miracle to hear an adult of 24 years has done that only with one babe. After now, girls will say we are all after the same thing

naijaboiy:
Andyblaze?

Btw...

How did she manage for two years with just having sex only six times?

She should have broken up since na!

naijaboiy:

Who be this one?

ddaammyy:
Sori! Such is life! If u can't beat them u join them!

ItsAnderson:

Told her I wouldnt wanna have sex again until I Got
married (which will be, at most, three years from
now), and the next day she sent me a text message
ending the two year relationship. I'm now caught
between a cliff and a high wall. She never told me
why. I just hope it's not because of the sex issue.
Honestly, I feel used because she was my first and
only. I Am 24 and almost through with my bachelors
but I've never found sex that appealing. We've dated
for more than two years but had sex a total six times.
I now feel horrible. I am not very religious but I just
feel like sex before marriage is just wrong. But I dont
think I am willing to let her go either.