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Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Folib(f): 2:53pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Listen Dear, am also a female and av bin hurt but the fact is you gotta move on. The worse dat can happen is if u r stuck in ur past, gather urself and be better dan u were, also move closer to God and believe me you will be comforted. U gotta move on |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by MoNickk(f): 2:56pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Deehvahrzz:I'm sorry but I still don't agree with you. four years is a long time to stay with someone who isn't committed yet because I don't believe that in those four years,he never gave her signals that all wasn't well with the relationship? We women see signs and choose to patch up believing all would be well when clearly,all isn't well and when it happens,we cry foul. I don't know the girl but I still stand on my words that she should find something engaging to do otherwise depression may set in and before long,she would be over the guy. |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by mysteriousman(m): 3:02pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
I read comments like he doesn't deserve you, when you guys don't even know what made him dump her, questions to be asked are 1. Has she been of good behavior 2. Did she cheat on him 3. Is she the temperamental type and. So on Men don't just get up and leave relationship they have been in this long 1 Like |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by SAZZYSKOLY(m): 3:02pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
I tink thiis is the best av read so far.... but the thing is this aw about guys with broken heart.... our skins are tough... we can't cry.... so what's aw own take.... I grief yes... Beamborla: 1 Like |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by decode55(m): 3:10pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Twaci: Hi miss |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Twaci(f): 3:25pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
decode55:Hello darl! |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by decode55(m): 3:46pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Twaci: How's your Sunday turning out? |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by tablu: 4:03pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Word!
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Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by obidiegwujane10(f): 4:32pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Lala247:my dear its not too late, it may not be the end of the world for you and its right that he dumped u rather than when it will be too late, who knows you might get someone better in the future |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 4:36pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Girl I think you start thinking the way I'm thinking my thinking over the thinking of others thinking... Much has been said but nothing has been done and in case you actually succeeded in moving on I have only one advice for you; Don't ever involve your heart in a Relationship.... Starlingslimnet |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by onoja12: 4:38pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
what happened you haven't asked,but you are ready for judgement,tell me why your relationship wouldn't fail Twaci: |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Amazo: 4:41pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
lalasticlala: There are probably about 3 billion men in this world, and then she's depressed because one guy broke up with her ? Anyway, I never feel sorry for any girl who gets heartbroken because last time I checked there are countless guys who have been heartbroken by girls too. So, it's just another touché - deal with it or kill yourself! |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 5:06pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
it happened to me,mine was also 4yrs,at first I taught it was a joke,until it dawned on me dat it is real,d least u could do is move on,I have moved on,its been a year nd six months,now he wants me back,but am not a dog dat goes back to its vomit,just try nd be strong |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Trustworthiness: 5:12pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
For every action, there is a reason behind it. You only told us her 4 yr lover broke up with her. No reasons for that is given. There is what is call root cause analysis. Before you can Truely advice someone on a matter like this, you must be able to know and breakdown the events that have transpired, why it happen and advice, appropriately, how to prevent such event from reoccurring. Most times, I don't pity ladies who found themselves in such situation. Because, they are the Genesis of most things that is happening to them. Women rarely learn from mistakes of other females that these things had happened to. They believe it will not happen to them. |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 5:13pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Lala247:lala,no mind am joor,his. Thinking no dey correct |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 5:17pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
MrCork:hahaha |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 5:24pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
RomanZeus:seriously |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Amazo: 6:01pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
jomile: Can someone hug this girl |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Beamborla(f): 6:23pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
SAZZYSKOLY:Awwww! Sorry, dear. But I do not agree men can't cry... They can cry but you keep telling yourself men shouldn't cry. My guy, if you feel your eyes misty and warm, let out. It's not cowardice or anything. To me, I believe you are just strong enough to let your emotions show. |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by SAZZYSKOLY(m): 6:31pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Big up.... thanks.... just a matter of feeling empty inside.... crying makes 1 feel better somtimes... but it takes a lot to make a man Cry. Beamborla: |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by otosa(m): 6:52pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
lalasticlala:did this ur friend tell u what she did before her boy friend came out from relationship because the same thing happened to me here and there is nothing I could do than to get out from relationship. |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Beamborla(f): 7:19pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
SAZZYSKOLY:Ehehehehehe... Are you sure? Well, all the same, whenever you feel the urge, let it out. I even read somewhere that it cleans the eyes and makes one see clearly. |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 7:31pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Amazo:don't mind if u do |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by freshcvv(m): 7:34pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
You can be dumped easily when you add little or nothing to the life of your partner.. If after 4 and half years, you were dumped easily, its either you have no value worth sticking to in the relationship or he doesn't value whatever you are bringing to the table. Evaluate yourself and your values not for him, but for thre next man. |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Allureoftheseas(m): 7:36pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
lalasticlala: tell her to pray to father Lucifer for help, mortals have no help to offer her. |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by SAZZYSKOLY(m): 7:40pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Lolllz... thats true I read somtin like dat to.... Aldo d last time I checked my eyes are quite reddish clean ..... ii tink d only tiiin that can make me cry s if I clld lay my hands on 1 million dollars and above... hehhehehehehm Beamborla: 1 Like |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by SAZZYSKOLY(m): 7:45pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
OMO babe u fa..... sorry u fine..... even in black and white u Glow ;....... hmmmmmm.... I lack d words..... jomile: |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Beamborla(f): 8:11pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
SAZZYSKOLY:Lol... Okay! Jes pray you don't stand on the queue in the sun for 2hrs plus then realize you left your ATM card at home. As for me, I cry when looking for smth. That type where you get to scatter the whole house and check everywhere. |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by frankson1(m): 8:17pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
[i][/i] Well, this is not the time to criticise. I feel pain when a guy keeps a girl this long and break up with her after wards. Ladies should accept such long periods of relationship only in school. (ma opinion though). Otherwise, how can a lady date a guy for over 2yrs. What do they discuss, what are their plans etc. I would really need the ladies to give me answers to these questions and reasons to why they choose to be this "foolish". Don't mean to insult anybody. |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 8:39pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
MojAyo: Nah jealousy dey worry am No worry i go greet am too .. Make E no vex lol |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 8:46pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
obidiegwujane10: Erm this is not about me |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Decallmemartin(m): 8:48pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Sometimes the reason for this break ups are not far-fetched..Gul, put urself 2geda nd confront this guy with confidence if u truely luv him. I'm currently in a mess like this.... |
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