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Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Badgers14: 6:05am On May 16, 2015
If she tag her friend along to your place, holla @ one of your homies when she visit next. .. E dey don tey wey nyash dey back cool
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Luukasz(m): 6:10am On May 16, 2015
oyin17:
Broke guys be like......
oyin17:
Broke guys be like......
oyin17:
Broke guys be like......
While UGLY GIRLS like you be like...

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Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Shigoboy(m): 6:32am On May 16, 2015
Magas will never finish on earth, buh as for me babe way go magarize me go try gan, cos no be today #streetOTisAlwaysDere...
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by 9jatatafo(m): 6:51am On May 16, 2015
If a babe is doing that stupid move, pour her and her friend a bucket of water so their clothes will be so wet and give them iron to dry their clothes, that punny she is hiding she will expose it.
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Nobody: 6:52am On May 16, 2015
it happen to me ones, omo after me takin a day off from work, arraging refreshment(CD, drinks and every), tidy my room sef, only for this fake babe to call me that she went somewhere and is comin with her friend, i complained dat let her find a way to dish her friend na, she no agree oh, dont knw why maybe for sex or they both wanted to chop me. Anyhw i told her her friends presence will ruin the whole fun, she shd dish her friend or postpone the visit. she postpone it, the next time she came alone, just gave her week of grace. the second time na yanshing straight up. no time grin she later confessed she brought her friend to avoid me from touching her.
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by gboly3190(m): 7:02am On May 16, 2015
ceoosaz:
Some girls can try to act smart sha smiley. I met this girl, after spending big time on her on several occasions, something will always come up why she has to rush home, and will promise to come visit me the next day even suggesting sex, but eventually she will always bring her friend along. smart for me, i got friendly with her friend, we exchanged numbers, promised her an iphone 5s, invited her later when the friend was gone... to cut the long story short, we grin. i didnt call any of them afterwards, i can recall seeing her some days later, she looked confused didn't realize why i stopped calling, deep down in me i just smiled grin
Dude u re smart.
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by PreacherxSon(m): 7:07am On May 16, 2015
Pinkiedearie:
what's she saying yes to?..buh you know you're no longer a maga...since your spending is based on the fact that you like her..





...Trust 9ja chicks na, you can Love her and she might not Love you bak, so d guy is still a MAGA with capital letter....
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by lordmario(m): 7:12am On May 16, 2015
I have met one of such... Told her to meet me at a popular eatery like that. Went dia with one of my hommie and if am not exaggerating, she came alone with 3 of her friends and I was like wtf? I ordered for them,ordered take home for I and my hommie , called the babe aside and gave her a piece of my mind and left them there since its not me she came to see, na food she come chop. And ever since then I stopped picking her calls and never made attempt to see her again.
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by johnsonjosbles(m): 7:34am On May 16, 2015
Pinkiedearie:
Sharp babe!! kiss..she dun catch maga
a lady did that to me on val day 2005! I invited her to Mr Biggs, she emerged with 5 of her friends;with my 3k in my pocket! They never even alow me to order for them maybe I will get them pie of #100 each with drinks within the range of my pocket; they order for chicken,fried rice,chi exotic,take away for their friend who coudn't make it to come! When I realise the bill was around #8500, I just disapeared on phone call pretence; the girl who has bn refusing to visit my house sundenly appeared insulting me for being a coward!
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Tallesty1(m): 7:42am On May 16, 2015
Pinkiedearie:
Sharp babe!! kiss..she dun catch maga
That shit doesn't work on me. I will invite my friends and they will get busy with her friends.
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Nobody: 7:46am On May 16, 2015
agarawu23:
grin grin grin

OK! I have been refreshing romance section for minutes now but can't find topics so let's discuss this.


Guys I want you to know that any lady you have been spending your hard earned money on but kept denying you sex, brother you have been magarized grin, she promised to visit you so that u guys can have fun but on her arrival, she is always holding a friendgrin

Listen its a plan job ladies do, that's their game and if you are a professional guy in the game you will understand my point (is not a must u accept my point sha)

conversation between your babe and her friend before visiting u grin

your babe:- please I don't want to stay long in his place ooo. so be disturbing me ASAP so he can let me go

her friend:- hmmm what if he asked me to excuse u guys?

your babe:- don't mind him, tell him you are scared to leave me alone. and alws remind me we are late already.

things Like that sha.

guys have u dealt with such Ladies before?
Is this really a problem? Just entertain both of them and invite one of your guys to join you and the rest is now yours. As simple as that cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by JoeCutie(m): 8:14am On May 16, 2015
Lmao. This is quite typical of some girls. Always walking in two's and three's. One of my guys complained bitterly about this. It happened to him. grin

There was this chic my guy was lusting after. E kon be like say the babe sef na correct Warri girl. When they first met, my guy collected her number and the next day, he invited her over. She came but based on say na first day, my guy lock up. He treated this babe to a very delicious meal - Indomie & egg (that type they fry. And mind you, if this guy cooks indomie & egg for you, you must fall in love; even if not with him, with his indomie at least). The babe ate, drank cold fanta, cleaned her mouth and left. My guy no do. grin

On the 2nd day, she came again...alone. For my guy's mind, he go do today. My guy went into the kitchen as usual, prepared another indomie & egg and served the babe. As she chop finish, e kon reach my guy turn to chop his own na. The babe was on her period. Chei!!! Bad market. Mogbe! My guy just maintained. The babe left for that day. My guy was disappointed. embarassed

On the 3rd day, she came over again...with her friend. WTF?! The both of them ate indomie & egg. They even drank Hollandia Yoghurt sef. When e kon reach for my guy to chop from the national cake, he took the girl to the bedroom (they had been in the sitting room). But you know what? This babe had told her friend to come and knock on the door every 5 minutes. Choi! Another mogbe. embarassed
As the babe knock the 1st time, knock the 2nd time, the 3rd & the 4th time, even my guy's D!ck that had been standing heavily even before the babe arrived, got angry, lay back flat and slept off. My guy too vex, discharged them, and that brought the indomie-eating days to an end. The kain laugh wey I laugh the guy ehn, he no go ever forget. cheesy cheesy cheesy

Girls! Dem be winch. undecided embarassed

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Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Dinirojones(m): 8:18am On May 16, 2015
Guy u ar my hero walahi cheesy grin...dey shud use tramadol n viagra
Jayjay0:
call ur boys nd fu*k the shit out of her nd her friend
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Nobody: 8:24am On May 16, 2015
Luukasz:
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] While UGLY GIRLS like you be like...



Dude kiss my ass
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Nobody: 8:33am On May 16, 2015
Dollyak:
Guys who has their head screwed on, don't need advice on this. Good looking alpha guys will never stay in the friend zone for long in the first place. *shrugs*

You no lie...
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by badboyphc: 8:38am On May 16, 2015
Guys, spending money on girls communicate to her that she is of a higher value, and you are spending to compensate for the gap. when you spend money on girls or give them loans especially girls you are not dating; you put yourself in the "provider" frame also known as Maga Zone.

If a girl won't be with you because you don't spend on her...let her go she's a gold digger.

On the other hand if you meet a gold digger and you really need to screw her here are a few tips:

1. Fool her by your lifestyle. Make her believe you have loads of money and high status.
2. Hint that if she is good to you, she will reap the benefits asap (obviously a lie)....come up with stories of your vacation to dubai with your ex.
3. Escalate quickly and bang her as fast as possible.
4. keep posting her as long as you can then dump her when she's closing on you fiercely for the money.

The only problem with this tactic is that you get to hit the coochie just once or twice...but come on, that's enough sex for free, plus you don't want a gold digger as a girlfriend no matter how pretty...she will wreck you!
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Jayjay0(m): 8:48am On May 16, 2015
Dinirojones:
Guy u ar my hero walahi cheesy grin...dey shud use tramadol n viagra
wink
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by ernal1: 8:50am On May 16, 2015
I've been in dis situation b4 bck in 2004 my University days, I met dis pretty looking girl & her friend together, I collected her Number & took the both of them out dat same day & spend good money. Then the ist time she came visiting me, she came wit her friend. I saw dat it's a trap because they are both the most sought after girls in school then. I jst turned my Attention to her friend, discussing & chatting wit her, making it as if she isn't dere. So whn it was time for them to go, I gave them a ride home, dropping my girl in her Hostel ist, b4 I went to drop her friend. The next time I was so shocked my girl came alone dis time to pass the night wit me & the rest was history. All u need is to be a big boy wit swag & 9ja girls will flock around u like bees.

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Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Tinyemeka(m): 8:52am On May 16, 2015
Jayjay0:
call ur boys nd fu*k the shit out of her nd her friend

As in, with or without the girls' consent? undecided
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Tinyemeka(m): 8:53am On May 16, 2015
ernal1:
I've been in dis situation b4 bck in 2004 my University days, I met dis pretty looking girl & her friend together, I collected her Number & took the both of them out dat same day & spend good money. Then the ist time she came visiting me, she came wit her friend. I saw dat it's a trap because they are both the most sought after girls in school then. I jst turned my Attention to her friend, discussing & chatting wit her, making it as if she isn't dere. So whn it was time for them to go, I gave them a ride home, dropping my girl in her Hostel ist, b4 I went to drop her friend. The next time I was so shocked my girl came alone dis time to pass the night wit me & the rest was history. All u need is to be a big boy wit swag & 9ja girls will flock around u like bees.

Simples!

Show me a wise post and I'll show you a wise man.

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Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Juliesexy(f): 9:06am On May 16, 2015
JoeCutie:
Lmao. This is quite typical of some girls. Always walking in two's and three's. One of my guys complained bitterly about this. It happened to him. grin

There was this chic my guy was lusting after. E kon be like say the babe sef na correct Warri girl. When they first met, my guy collected her number and the next day, he invited her over. She came but based on say na first day, my guy lock up. He treated this babe to a very delicious meal - Indomie & egg (that type they fry. And mind you, if this guy cooks indomie & egg for you, you must fall in love; even if not with him, with his indomie at least). The babe ate, drank cold fanta, cleaned her mouth and left. My guy no do. grin

On the 2nd day, she came again...alone. For my guy's mind, he go do today. My guy went into the kitchen as usual, prepared another indomie & egg and served the babe. As she chop finish, e kon reach my guy turn to chop his own na. The babe was on her period. Chei!!! Bad market. Mogbe! My guy just maintained. The babe left for that day. My guy was disappointed. embarassed

On the 3rd day, she came over again...with her friend. WTF?! The both of them ate indomie & egg. They even drank Hollandia Yoghurt sef. When e kon reach for my guy to chop from the national cake, he took the girl to the bedroom (they had been in the sitting room). But you know what? This babe had told her friend to come and knock on the door every 5 minutes. Choi! Another mogbe. embarassed
As the babe knock the 1st time, knock the 2nd time, the 3rd & the 4th time, even my guy's D!ck that had been standing heavily even before the babe arrived, got angry, lay back flat and slept off. My guy too vex, discharged them, and that brought the indomie-eating days to an end. The kain laugh wey I laugh the guy ehn, he no go ever forget. cheesy cheesy cheesy

Girls! Dem be winch. undecided embarassed
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Until you kill someone with laugh one day, Joe. embarassed

You and your guy are very funny. grin
And that girl is wicked oh. cheesy

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Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by AfricanApple(f): 9:12am On May 16, 2015
Tallesty1:
That shit doesn't work on me. I will invite my friends and they will get busy with her friends.
you too bad lipsrsealed
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by MRLANNISTER(m): 9:18am On May 16, 2015
Dotwillis1:
You are very wrong man! ...

...Then she isn't really your babe!

...

True. If she is your babe na she go dey say "hope you are not having visitors this weekend o. Pls reserve it for me, I'm coming over".
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by JoeCutie(m): 9:24am On May 16, 2015
Juliesexy:
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Until you kill someone with laugh one day, Joe. embarassed

You and your guy are very funny. grin
And that girl is wicked oh. cheesy
The girl is very wicked. cheesy
And trust me and my guy, we treated her 4kup later. grin

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Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by agarawu23(m): 9:25am On May 16, 2015
Truckpusher:
Why can't guys just say please 'I want to fucck' ? undecided

If she feels offended let her move her asss out of ya sight , instead of making it to look like a damn TV. ? grin

Everyone enjoys sex ,no party deserves to be begging too much for it .
Some boys deserve a castration for suffering themselves in the hands of a puccy. grin

grin grin I want to fuuuck just like that? when she know be ashawo
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Tallesty1(m): 9:29am On May 16, 2015
AfricanApple:
you too bad lipsrsealed
Not bader than the girlgrin
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Behira(f): 9:30am On May 16, 2015
Jayjay0:
call ur boys nd fu*k the shit out of her nd her friend
angry it is spe*m frm ur type dat is needed for quick money.
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Behira(f): 9:33am On May 16, 2015
JoeCutie:
The girl is very wicked. cheesy
And trust me and my guy, we treated her 4kup later. grin
undecided Did u just say trust u and ur guy treated her F up...... are u indirectly tellin us u guys raped her?
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by dipopo83: 9:56am On May 16, 2015
Guy must av sex shey nah food ni she is not ready to give u sex then let her be
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by Jayjay0(m): 9:56am On May 16, 2015
Behira:
angry it is spe*m frm ur type dat is needed for quick money.
stop swallowing too much sperm nd try to make good money out of it....i see you love sperm alot
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by agarawu23(m): 10:01am On May 16, 2015
NobleG1:


Your post is so juvenile. How old are you? 14?
You claimed to have spent money on the girl and never got some p*ussy, without giving a bit of a detail of what exactly you spent the money on. The next thing you did was create a ridiculously exaggerated dialogue! Look let me tell you something, not everyone that visits this website is a kid. If you need mature advice, give mature info.

Getting into her pant is more important to you than getting to know who she's. She may have noticed that and becomes more concerned about letting you in. Anyway, any girl who behaves the way she does may have one of the following reasons;

- she doesn't want you to have the p*ussy too early to avoid being seen as a s*lut.
- she found out you're a player, so she playing it safe.
- she doesn't find you attractive but trying to see if there's something attractive about you.
- she wants to use you.
- she wants to know if you're a keeper (someone who could last in a relationship).
- she sees you as a friend not a lover.

You have to found out which category she falls in. You didn't give much info. so my advice will be based on assumption that you buy her stuffs.

My advice; Follow below steps;

- Stop buying her stuff for now. You can't buy real love unless you want a fake one. A girl who really likes you will be with you whether you buy her stuff or not.

- Make sure she always enjoy herself whenever she comes around. Make her miss you when she's not around.

- Never show her you're upset due to lack of p*ussy, unless you want her to think you're after her pant which will scare her away.

- Tell her, politely, that you want to spend time with her alone once in a while. If she agrees, fine. Otherwise, tell her if she can't be comfortable with you alone then you don't need a double-date girlfriend. If the relationship is important to her, she'll agree, but if her refusal persists, dump her.

- If she comes alone, DON'T go for sex. This will make her trust you (if she has trust issue). You can touch and kiss her passionately but don't go for her pant. Pretend as if sex is not in your mind. Continue doing this every time she comes around alone.

- If she actually likes you, your attitude will make her want you more. She may even be worried that you don't find her attractive enough to want to have sex with her or you've problem. Her curiosity will lead to getting you laid. She may display her frustration verbally or through body language.

- If she open up to you, then go for it. But if she's the body language type, be patient and you may notice one or more of the following;
a. Her visit duration increases.
b. She gives you an excuse to sleep over.
c. She wears a very sexy cloth she hasn't worn around you before.
d. She does sexy moves on you.
e. She becomes more touchy and cuddly.
f. She wants to wear your t-shirt and short to "feel more comfortable".
g. She starts lying on your bed more.
i. She wants a full body massage from you.
j. She asks you about you sex life.
k. She says you don't like her.

When you notice any of the above body languages, it's time to kill alibaba.

Every woman wants sex. Every healthy woman likes and enjoys sex, especially, with someone she likes or loves. Unless a prostitute or runs girl.
excellent!!!

I am not the one involved.

its a topic we all can learn from


thanks for your contribution
Re: You've Been Spending On Her & She Keeps Coming Along With Her Friend To Visit? by pheyhi(f): 10:04am On May 16, 2015
serz i can boast that i av never followed ma frnd to a guys house n if i am going to a guy's house i go alone

i go out with ma frnds dey tell me deir guy is cming i disappear asap buh if i avent met im before stay sme few mins den i take ma leave i believe as a girl u shud only go to a guy's house whom u trust if u dont trust im y r u frnds with im?

its dose girls following dem dat r greedy , n dont know how to advise her frnd

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