is the fellow a nairalander btw.

and how far with the love.

All that stuff you say he's buying- you can also buy them yourself if you work hard.

even the iphone sef- dont you get it free or at a greatly reduced price with a contract?


anyway, better marry him before some other girl does since you say you love each other.

prolly d guy aint nigerian, u don meet maga be dat. if u claim dat he's a nigerian, the u must be daydreamin. vacation 2 uk or wat, dafinitely daydreamin. on top wat. wel can we meet i also have some kindness 2 show u, enuff credut 4 ur fone, soi, our fone n enuff shaggin 4 u

@hotteju
Gal, u're just spot on, nice one.

I just couldn't help but comment , its possible the poster is telling the truth , if the guy has the money to spend and has no qualms spending on the poster, then please let him spend , and poster , please enjoy , it may finish tomorrow & it just may not , but at least if it finishes, you can look back and know you enjoyed while it was there.

but poster wants to know what she should do to show appreciation and not my opinion on whether or not she is telling the truth or anything about their relationship. so i'll ask, did you do anything special but be yourself all this while? i suggest you keep doing what you've been doing , a guy that likes you likes you, whether or not you slave on his behalf. if you been pretending all this while, keep pretending (_{no even try show ur real sef}), if you been as real as you say, then keep on keeping on , and all the best 2 u,

I think most male posters have instinctively recognized something is wrong somewhere. We are not disputing that the guy does not buy gifts but actually he is just treating her like a mistress/concubine.
Notice also how the poster never talks much about their compatibility or their shared interests,shared time but only about what she receives from him. If she truly loved the guy then these things would be most important not the expensive trinkets/food.The fact that he has not discussed making any commitment does seem not bother her only how to ensure that the gifts keep coming. (By the way what is wrong with earning you own living)

Funny enough I read d post of an idiot claiming to be rich and spends money on his girl, Anyway,he got nabbed I suspect dat ur story is crap,very big crap, ASUU!!!!, see what you've caused,I just found out dat Bill Gate has adopted me, Punk ass liar!.

How is that our biz, have you given me any of his present pls if na joke stop am, y must i tell you how to thank ur guy if like say u too like money.

You can thank him by taking him out sometime on your own trip. Doesn't have to be expensive but at least let him not be the only one churning out the surprises.

@topic

FAKE STORY ALERT

i find it amusing that some people think i made this up.

what exactly do i aim to acheive from such.
just an update: we are still together, our love has been waxing stronger, we've had a few arguements which is normal in any relationship. we have been supportive of one another in numerous ways, lovemaking has been wowwww
i thank God for bringing our paths together
truly: men like him are rare !

@ poster congratulation u want chicken 2?

helovesme:

i find it amusing that some people think i made this up.

what exactly do i aim to acheive from such.
just an update: we are still together, our love has been waxing stronger, we've had a few arguements which is normal in any relationship. we have been supportive of one another in numerous ways, intimacy has been wowwww
i thank God for bringing our paths together
truly: men like him are rare !

Nice to hear that. I did not say you made it up. The main thing you should be concerned about is whether the guy is planning to commit to you.
If not then why should you be satisfied with mere gifts and trinkets?

@poster so how do you do it with him all the way from Europe, does he fly you in to have sex with him?

When the guy is broke, you won't feel him again. You are happy since the money is there, will you stay by him when the money is not there. I know when he get broke, you will tell him he is not financially mature.

That guy wey dey do that thing, i'm sure is one stupid guy who think money can buy love.

Well first he has a good job, secondly he loves you, but wait for a year to see if he continues, be careful he is not luring you into marraige.

Sometimes,these sort of stories come being hard to believe,sometimes from people who dream of an ideal state,and assume the dream is real, but if this is REAL, then the previous posters have given the poster(of the topic) more than enough ways to keep the guy settled with her, i wish her the best luck can give.

why is it that things like this often last

Why is it dat things like this often DOSEN'T last

@post
How old is dis ur man?

What can i say. Bleep his brains out, how else can u appreciate him? Mr too much money is paying for it right? But on a more serious note u can stop him from spending too much that way ur showing that ur interested in him not his deep pocket.

@poster, no offence but what do you really want from nairaland?
you are obviously more interested in guys believing your story than in guys helping you with your need,
speeking of your need, what actually do u want from us.

you are just like a guy who is so healthy and goes to a doctor to say "Doctor, i am very healthy, i excercise, i take balanced diet, please what should i do to be healthy?" if i were the doctor i will ask you out of my office for wasting my time.

you obviously played your card right to get him, and you are still playing it right (according to your statements) to keep him. then why do u make ur self cheap by bringing it up here?

if i must speak, most nigerian guys who have the money will do such for their ladies. i can make a girl feel the way you feel about your man without having to go to such lenght.

most guys will feel bad because u (Unconsciouly) make it sound like these stuffs he does for you are what makes u love him, meanwhile its not.

it is good to appreciate your man, but we have seen all these before. some of us have been there and done that. u stand to gain absolute nothing by bringing it up here.

the reason why most guys are not happy with you is this: how many girl have come here to appreciate their men for what they really are? they only come here to call there men stingy becasue the mony is not there. i bet you, your man will never do all these if he has not got the mony. then what are we really saying?

lastly: ask yourself, if your man is given the oportunity to talk about you in a forum, what will he say? will he come here to tell us what a good fu_ck you are? because that will make him materialistic like you. enjoy yourself while it last becasue good things dont last forever

good for u

@Poster, what is d latest??

Chie some Nigerians are such haters. Both guys and girls have villified this girl for just asking about what she can do to show how much she appreciates her boyfriend. That's why our country is soo divided, once our fellow person is doing well, some naijas will be soo jealous and hoping for the persons downfall. My dear, u sound like a good and decent girl, sistawoman and some other betta people have given u good advice. I hope and pray things work out between u and your bf. Forget the haters, they don't mean didly squat. Carry go Jare, enjoy and take care of ur man.

Aniont d guy fast

helovesme:

i find it amusing that some people think i made this up.

what exactly do i aim to acheive from such.
just an update: we are still together, our love has been waxing stronger, we've had a few arguements which is normal in any relationship. we have been supportive of one another in numerous ways, lovemaking has been wowwww
i thank God for bringing our paths together
truly: men like him are rare !

You asked the question right, why don't you give us the answer?

@Poster introduce him 2 me. . . i am sure that he will be pleased. . .

^^^ lmao

Pweety4me:

@Poster introduce him 2 me. . . i am sure that he will be pleased. . .

LOL.

ehen, so i guess you must be rotten now depending on how long he has been spoiling. hope i will not see you tomoro to want to marry you. just kidding, but be careful. is it his nature or you are the only one he is spending that much on . if yes, heeeen be careful

@poster

Pls be realistic

Bad belle, envy, jealousy and strife is written all over the thread. Just because some people are not lucky enough to be the girl or the man, they are taking it out on the OP by raining curses on her. My dear ignore the bad belle people and pick up the constructive advice you have received.
I am very happy for you and it shows there is always a reward for being decent. Not like most girls out there that have sold themselves at the rate of 3 for N5 and are being treated like shit by men. When they hear stories like this, they become jealous and try to bring down the lucky girl.

Nigerianss, Poverty is a bad thing sha.

Sweetie just keep praying for him and remain faithful. I see a wonderful home in the future