weyreypey:

femi4:
Must you go to eatry? Why not Church, bustop, field etc

Goldmaxx:
do u knw dat wen a gal says no sometimes it means yes.They prove a little resistant not seem cheap and loose.

sonofananimal:
BY YOUR COMMENT!! YOU ARE A POTENTIAL RAPIST,

SO GIRLS WON'T VISIT GUYS AGAIN UNLESS SHE IS YOUR GIRLFRIEND


I HAVE SO MANY FEMALE FRIENDS, AND THEM DO VISIT ME SOMETIMES AND SOME WILL EVEN STAY LATE WATCHING THERE GOD DAME FIRM, AND NO SIGN OF SEX WILL BE IN MY MIND.

AND SOME EVEN THINK I AM NOT SEXX ACTIVE THERE BY CLASSIFIER ME AS IMPOTENT.

WOMAN'S BRAIN ARE JUST FVCKED UP.

oreos:


Ode! What is the essence of writing like an slowpoke to make fun of her? What if she were truly raped what business of yours is it to write like an imbecile_?

chigoizie7:




Just like I ve met a lot of female whores, does that in anyway mean that all gals are whores? (U can as well speak for yourself if ur ans is NO) @least a lot of guys can relate to some girls being whores.


My point is.


*all guys are not the same, (there are bad ones, but u don't ve to generalize it.


*i can not support rapists, I can not be a party to people who speak for them or who blame ladies for being vulnerable to rape victims. But ONE thing I know for sure is that prevention is better than cure. I want ladies to do their part and leave the rest to God.



I will stop here. Otherwise. Would throw more light on what I meant.

dfrost:


Forget about the coherence. Message passed, message received. I'm not above mistakes either owing to typo.

classicB
soonest
yetseyi

Don't be afraid of all men. Don't loose guard either. Shalom.

dfrost:

yetseyi
Don't be afraid of all men. Don't loose guard either. Shalom.

soonest:

We are not doing the blame game here. We are talking about rape and i'm happy we agree on prevention being better than cure and that's what the Op is preaching. So it beats me why many guys here will insult the Op and discard the message turning it into a gender fight.

dfrost:


Hi lexisjay your point is okay too. But have you also tried to look at the issue from another angle. The 2, 3 and 4 year-olds molested by some men, do they dress provocatively also? I pointed this to the OP and she got the drift while also mentioning that some women are at fault too.

About you not commenting, bros you have too. I was like that too, watching from the sidelines (for quite some time) on most debates on NL and the way adults and younger ones on the forum throw banter and insults at each other but I then asked myself some pertinent questions.

What if I was directly affected on some of the issues?
Will I accept that the issue doesn't affect me and move on?

dfrost:


Hi lexisjay your point is okay too. But have you also tried to look at the issue from another angle. The 2, 3 and 4 year-olds molested by some men, do they dress provocatively also? I pointed this to the OP and she got the drift while also mentioning that some women are at fault too.

About you not commenting, bros you have too. I was like that too, watching from the sidelines (for quite some time) on most debates on NL and the way adults and younger ones on the forum throw banter and insults at each other but I then asked myself some pertinent questions.

What if I was directly affected on some of the issues?
Will I accept that the issue doesn't affect me and move on?

Dragonking:
Women brains are truely fvcked up. If you touch them, dey tag u as rapist. If you no touch dem, they tag you as impotent. Which way naija.

oreos:


Ode!

She should have sued their asses_ for sexual assault. You have never been in her shoes, so why don't STFU and take it as it is. Try and imagine yourself in that situation with no idea of what could happen the next second. They should have stopped immediately when she started struggling or said ‘no' and they should have asked her why she didn't want to. It is not in their place to try to break her restraint with their sickening touches.

soonest:

My dear speak for yourself. You don't know the heart of many guys out there. Alot of ladies can relate to the op's post

soonest:

My dear speak for yourself. You don't know the heart of many guys out there. Alot of ladies can relate to the op's post

Joy1706:

This right here is the problem with nigerian men. Even if she said no to form hard to get nko? She said no. What's wrong with u people? So u assume she's forming and then rape her?

Nigerian men r sick aswear.

Goldmaxx:
shut up joor,u dare not try dat wit me cos i will first destroy ur properties wey dey ur room then beat u mercilessly afterwards.
Nonsense

yetseyi:

Happy sunday to you tooo

First paragraph- I agree just a little ooo

2nd paragraph - no comment

3rd paragraph- hmmm thats true and one point I will emphasize is the unnecessary tension it will create between guys and ladies. I have never been harassed but the way it seems a sizeable number of ladies have had near-rape cases is quite alarming

4th paragraph- You think ladies are just playing the victim card unnecessarily?


why am I not seeing my mentions

dfrost:


Forget about the coherence. Message passed, message received. I'm not above mistakes either owing to typo.

classicB
soonest
yetseyi

Don't be afraid of all men. Don't loose guard either. Shalom.

afolwalex20:


The poster above me stole my spot

classicB:
I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape,

SirShymexx:


I noticed the mentions thing as well - I think it has to do with whatever scripting language they used for the back-end of the forum. I'm guessing it's python cos that's the programming language the owner of the forum is conversant with.

Hmmm...don't fret, all guys aren't potential rapists. We're human, just as chics are, albeit with a different body anatomy induced by the XY chromosomes. We just happen to be heterogametic, while women are homogametic sex. And we have sisters, mothers, and nans. However, always be observant/vigilant cos the the world is a dangerous place.

C'mon, women have overused the victim card and it's so nauseating/boring right now. It's always about them, them, and them. The average woman out there is allergic to taking any responsibility whatsoever, it's always the fault of the men. Err, I'll give you a pass cos you're different.

emsheddy:
Sweet heart, that doesn't mean you go ahead and label all guys as MOLESTERS! Abi are u trying to tell me that I am correct to assume all ladies are the same? I stand on my point! The signs were there but u threw all cautions to the wind

vfactor:
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So how do u know which one is good or bad? You didnt give any clue on how to.

Most rape cases are perpetrated by acquaintances and close friends, people you'd never expect. So my advice is do not put yourself in a compromising situation. If a girl decides to visit a guy, she should ask herself if she's willing to give in to the guy, if he makes advances. If she's willing, she can visit. If she's not, she shouldn't.

I don't know if u hold the bible as an authority, but the story of Diana is a lesson. She was raped by a man whom the bible described as the most honourable in his fathers house. He even had intentions of marrying her. But she was molested by him. So you can't really tell.

I'll go with the ops advice any day, anytime. I sually ask the females I wish to meet to choose a place that is convenient and comfortable for them, so I can come.

SirShymexx:


Shalom, bruddah.

And don't drink too much juice - it's not good for ya health.

Drink bottled water.

Pidggin:

She is useless to you because her topic has exposed you right?

Hizzy:
Na waiting I de observe if you it read u will understand what she's trying to do advertising lesbianism by telling ladies not to visit man but to visit who