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Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Gurgle(f): 1:11pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Ugosample: To be honest, all the tribes marry small girls but the northern case is just extreme somehow It depends what youre marrying for- an 18 year old girl and a guy in his late 30s will have to make a lot of effort to bridge the generation gap. Unless theyre just marrying in the usual money/sex exchange, which is another thing I hope OP doesn't ruin that girl jare... |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by baloney: 1:20pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
I hop u not lookin fr a sugar girl Cause d only thing u can be to her is sugar daddy Maybe am wrong. U can try it just keep it in mind." Won't" 1 Like |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Nobody: 1:22pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
1miccza:Hello, I'm not |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by harristo(m): 1:35pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
kandiikane: Do you have visual problem? I said 14 was the age of consent in the past, but 18 currently is. Anyway OP need not fear bullies like you who choose to act based on their emotion refusing to notice life's events or to learn from the experience of others. OP need only wait a few months and his relationship will be backed by the law. And if people like you still think that a girl of 18 is too young to be engaged or married, go take it out with law makers around the world, who I am sure are wiser than you. Do you think it's easy to meet a woman you want to settle down with? There are lots of guys out there and maybe you included, who find it hard to settle down with / be serious about one girl. Here's a man who has met some one he is serious about and you are telling him to end the relationship because of 10 years age difference. |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by harristo(m): 1:38pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
illuminati66666: End time things. |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by 1miccza: 1:40pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
chimkaire: You dropped a line in that post that i mentioned that contradicts what you said,in few words, a don believe you... |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Ngokafor(f): 1:45pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
....@deniyor you sound like a really responsible dude..I had hope in our men by your posts here..God bless you. ...as for the op,10yrs is not much but 17 and 27 is not appropriate.You are way too matured for her.I know you will not listen to reason now,but will heed the silly ones urging you to go on,but dont worry,you will only come back to nairaland to cry us a river on how Nigerian girls are bad...una no dey hear word |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by deniyor: 2:00pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Ngokafor: Thanks . God bless you too |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by agabaI23(m): 2:01pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Stephansmily:How do I know? I no be winch na |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Maximus85(m): 2:16pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Gurgle: She never gave me a false age. Looking at her and her IQ, I just assumed she's like 23 when she's just 18-19. I can never let her go ooo. He Mum love me die. I still kinda feel odd sometimes then but I made it open met her Mum and the guilt disappeared. |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Topman0001(m): 2:18pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Chelseafan1: If i don't agree with your opinion, that doesn't mean you're wrong or i'm right. It just means we're different. I'm 32 and my girlfriend is 20, a 300L student. Before i met her, i used to be a game boy. I met this pretty lady as a virgin, initially i wanted to bed her but she wouldn't let me. I give her 100% attention and stoped gaming. Now our families has met, i'm still waiting for her to grad. Budy if ur 17 yrs old babe is still a virgin, pls don't bed her- that's enough keep her yours bcuz she will not go and do it elsewhere. If she tries it u'll know. Just love her and give all the attention she needs so that rivalry will nt be a threat. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by EmmyDe25(m): 2:20pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
killerman47:Not sure the girl will have the emotional intelligence to deal with such relationship unless you're ready to have her cheat on you. Because, chances are she'll get games while in school. I once dated a girl who told me she was 20 when we started dating,only to find out she was actually 17. Had to call off the relationship just a month into it. Worst off, she got admission into Unilag the very month we started dating, was left with no choice but to it call off. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Nobody: 2:23pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
There is nothing there ooo....my bf is 10years ahead of me.......if there is love and sex is not included dey there is nothing wrong with him... |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by harristo(m): 2:23pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
deniyor: I don't know why people don't know how to answer a simple question on the internet. I notice the trend on most question and anwer website on the internet. The OP never said he was sleeping with the 17 years old girl. You just assume that he is, because it will make it easier for you to condemn him. If your prefix is wrong how then will you succeed in giving the OP a proper answer to his question. |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by otiigba1(m): 2:25pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
When she grows up, she will realise her mistake in marrying you, and dumps you, what will you do then? Advice, find some one your own age so that the relationship will be balanced otherwise get ready to babysit her. Am sure they are a lot of women your own age in your area. And are you sure you are not taking advantage of the young girl? 1 Like |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by deniyor: 2:32pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
harristo: Dude, stop being naive. What your point mister? So he loves a 17 year old, and you think he doesn't want to sleep with her? Stop fooling yourself mister. And for the record, he did not say in his post that he has no intention of sleeping with her. And even if he doesn't plan to sleep with her for the next three years, he's going to have a huge influence on her that is just not fair. And I bet he won't be acting as a big brother to prevent her from making stupid teenage mistakes. More like teaching her sex positions. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by flokii: 2:46pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
killerman47: @OP you don dey fu*k d girl na .. which suggestion you dey find again? |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by harristo(m): 3:05pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
deniyor: Stop assuming things. Stop assuming that the OP is incapable of having a decent relationship with the girl. And stop thinking that a man can't have a decent relationship with a girl 18 and 10 years younger. Anyway I guess the OP should take it what you're worried about is the fact the he can't maintain a healthy relationship with the girl. And that if he can you have no problem with their relationship - yeah I know you believe that he can't. |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by deniyor: 3:24pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
harristo: You really are naive if you think someone who can't see that a relationship with a 17 year is wrong. You think that person will not sleep with her? Have you seen what 17 year olds look like these days? Dude wake up!!!! There is no healthy relationship btw a 17 year old and a 27 year old. What are they going to be talking about? What do they have in common apart from sex? What level of maturity and thinking does a 17 year old bring to the table. How long do you think the 27 year old will be able to stand her childishness before he dumbs her for another 17 year old? And for those who keep saying husband, did the OP say he has approached the parents to marry? Here's hoping the parents believe in their daughter well enough to chase him away. I also suspect you are capable of doing the same if you don't see anything wrong with it. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Nobody: 3:25pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
1miccza:...I don't get you.... I'm unrepentantly MBAISE But, which 'line' actually? Can you quote it, maybe? |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by jennyama: 3:30pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
pbs4real: love has boundaries i guess u kno? |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Fourwinds: 3:40pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
LaDivva:girls don't have a stable mind dats y some dude impregnate them before dey have a change of mind |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Ugosample(m): 3:45pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Fourwinds:imagine the mindset. damn it 1 Like |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Fourwinds: 3:46pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
zaragal:i don't see anything wrong with it except d girl is still a teenager. When d guy turns 37 years d girl will be 27 years. So i don't see any problem here. If d guy can wait and d girl must not betray him for waiting likewise d guy |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Fourwinds: 3:51pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Ugosample:it is serious. Even where i live. I have met some girls very young some teenagers only to discover they have given birth to babies and who is responsible, a poor guy with no stable income and d boys parents take care of caring for d baby mama and d baby |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by 1miccza: 4:19pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
chimkaire: Agadi na agwofe,that sure doesn't sound like anything close to the Mbaise dialect does it?? |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Ugosample(m): 4:22pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Fourwinds:this is pathetic. Where did we go wrong as a society? Small girls that do not know anything is being exploited by yeye men. And they often get away with it. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by harristo(m): 4:24pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
deniyor: I can your have a point. What I don't see anything wrong with is a healthy relationship btw an 18 years old girl and an older man and I know that it's possible. Of course a secret relationship btw them is a no no. A situation where the OP won't get the approval of the family will only get him killed .I know that I will attempt that if I were a member of the family, especially if I found out he has been with sleeping her. So no sleeping with her until she finish school. If the OP is someone who can do these (and I know there are men who can) then their relationship would be a healthy one. As for the family OP, just try to convince them that the relationship btw you and their daughter will be a decent one, even if you have to swear a no sex until her graduation from school oat. This is a strange advice but OP since you won't be sleeping with her until she finishes school, if you can, get the parents to let you sponsor her through school, as it would make her feel indebted to you and increase the chances of her staying with you till the end (although if I were the parent I won't let you do that). Well OP all this is assuming you haven't slept with her already. And if you've slept with her already; just go and dig your grave if she happens to have a siscon brother like me. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by Chelseafan1: 4:28pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Topman0001: While I'll agree partially with you on this, it could also backfire, one sweet guy will just come from no where and take her virginity, then she wud be left with two options, either to shed tears and beg the original bf or chose to break up and follow the new guy. Buh, If I have to still pick between leaving her a virgin or doing it, I'll go with the the former cos most of ds good girls who have second bfs in skul just got deflowered by their bf whos faraway. At other times too, it depends on the girl in question. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by hamingra: 4:32pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
killerman47: Bros its not normal at all! Wetin you won workout with a 17 year old? She is barely able to understand her sexuality not to talk of understanding your advances. Pls grow some brains and leave her alone. If in 10 years time she and you still dig it, then go for it. But now dont do a SANI YERIMA on her pls! By the way, wetin this ya name dey do with a 17 year old girl sef? "killerman47"? haba! 1 Like |
Re: I'm 27 Loving A 17 Year Old!!! Pls Help.. by harristo(m): 4:34pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Fourwinds: Fourwinds: As long as konji no overpower either of them. Konji fit overpower the girl as she enter her 20's and the guy go control himself refusing to sleep with her. The girl fit come go decide to satisfy konji with one of her guy friend. Well the relationship will be difficult for the guy, but it's possible to work out. |
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