[quote author=flawlessT post=38729780]U just needed ma attention n u got it so sleep happy with dis...Am not gud at insulting pple dah fast cus I knw it will make u miserable for days if I start so just stop quoting me.[/quote


wateva... good riddance... just let me be... i dnt hve ur time]

MsBliss:

kwenu

my sis carry go the hustle is REAL

emusmith:


The hustle is real, bro.
We go make am real big tho

amen ooooh,dis pix wey u put no badt @ all

activelyA:

Now follow me as we imagine....
A supposed under market value girl is seen in Segun's house trimming his nails on Tuesday and is also seen knotting Aminu's tie on Thursday. Then she goes about being nice to Chike mummy and buying gifts for his siblings( who will collect it and still tag her 'desperate')

Her weekends are busy as she is using her money to cook for Samuel.

Note: these men are not her boy friends but she's only 'increasing her market value'

Now imagine this girl was your sister...
Will you still encourage this topic and post?

Oh well

well I tink wat u saying here is diff from wat the op's is saying,maybe u shld read and understand wat the op is actually talking abt..

tolustx:
I think linguists have to come up with a new figure of speech (or maybe it already exist, I dunno). I learnt "personification" in school, which means referring to an inanimate object as tho it is animate but I don't understand what figure of speech takes care of d opposite - describing an animate object with inanimate qualities. Any answers or suggestions?

Exmples of such descriptions are:
A. Husband or wife material
B. A woman's ringtone (as used by a Nigerian artist)
C. A woman's market value (as used by d op)
D. Woman wrapper (pidgin)

Anthropomorphism
Objectification,dehumanization,abstraction,

That's Just Simple. Open & Close

bukatyne:


@OP:

What is 'old-fashioned' in bursting a pimple or cutting toe nails? I thought they are stuffs people do for their loved ones?

@Characteristics of lady: I hope she is like that to everyone and not because she wants to 'hook' a man

I also do not agree with taking shait from his siblings so that she is 'seen' as good.

A nice tread I must say.

At least, she praised my my thread...

pbs4real:
amen ooooh,dis pix wey u put no badt @ all

Thanks bro!

emusmith:


Thanks bro!

Uw

emusmith:


At least, she praised my my thread...

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bukatyne:


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Getting a complement from Bukatyne is rare

Some men sha... always looking for ways to show their chauvinistic self.
Op u could have just said they should turn themselves into doormats as soon as they see their man coming. So the man will notice them as wife material, Since they don't hv better positive things to do with their life, than trying to catch the attention of some yeye guy who might start taking their submissiveness and caring displays for granted.
mtcheeew.......!

[quote author=louismane post=38726857][/quote]

It's not by being stingy, I started with my fiancee wen he was not even working, still leaving with his parents, and I was working so I do take care of some of his bills, cook for him with my own money most times, we dated for 4yrs before he proposed to me. But as luck will have it we are not together, all dose 5 yrs are all in vain. So tell me do you think I will do all dat for 1 guy again? Besides I don't date a guy for his money,

MissEfe:


It's not by being stingy, I started with my fiancee wen he was not even working, still leaving with his parents, and I was working so I do take care of some of his bills, cook for him with my own money most times, we dated for 4yrs before he proposed to me. But as luck will have it we are not together, all dose 5 yrs are all in vain. So tell me do you think I will do all dat for 1 guy again? Besides I don't date a guy for his money,

i understand ur point buh a guy who has bin hurt also despite having made many sacrifices for d relationship will definetely not do same in d nxt relationship as well too domt u think?... anyways my point is... lets not make odas suffer fr wat som1 else has done to us..cos it wont b fair... dont give 50% and expect 100% back...cos in d end u get what u give bck...or evn less sef.. aint nobody gt time to beg nobodyfr attention or luv.

louismane:


i understand ur point buh a guy who has bin hurt also despite having made many sacrifices for d relationship will definetely not do same in d nxt relationship as well too domt u think?... anyways my point is... lets not make odas suffer fr wat som1 else has done to us..cos it wont b fair... dont give 50% and expect 100% back...cos in d end u get what u give bck...or evn less sef.. aint nobody gt time to beg nobodyfr attention or luv.

That's OK now.
I don't want to think of it and more

emusmith:


I doubt you read it.

No one is compelling anyone but I think whatever you do is totally for yourself. Does reading/ prepping for exams help your lecturer in anyway?

gbam! U haff hit tthe nail in the gee-spot!

[quote author=MissEfe post=38733625]
That's OK now.
I don't want to think of it and more[/quote

im sori... uve probably bin hurt before... buh dont mke d next nive guy who comes into ur life suffer fr wat a jerk did]

Monalisa185:


easy na...haba

lol why now?

ronald4lif:
What a thread. Men be appropriating themselves false sense of importance and think they are the best thing to happen to women after roasted corn. Such mentality is why we think we're doing women a favour by marrying them. How a man would assume a woman has to adapt to his ways before she can be seen as a 'market valuable' or whatever that means is mind boggling.

I almost threw up when I read someone cite an example as when footballers are being sold to another club to give credence to a narrow minded sexism post that is designed to further subjugate women. Never read something as folderol as that comparison commercialising women.

A woman doesn't have to live their lives to suit men and be seen as a 'market value' to any one. Marriage is not the goal of every woman to have to live to please a man or make him propose. What this thread is suggesting is that women should stop being their natural self and jettison habits men find to be offensive and abhorrent. We don't have the right to dictate and set principles on how anyone should their lives.

Abeg you are too much...very matured observation on a very useless and disrespectful thread!

It is this rubbish mindset that gets Nigerian men in trouble when they take this barbarian mentality to civilised countries. Nigerian women have really suffered, I swear!!!

pinkiberry:
only desperate girls that really need to marry do this but sorry i arnt desperate.




after doing all these for a guy he starts feeling like some kind of demigod.

Hahaha! I can feel u. Ur touched.

pinkiberry:
only desperate girls that really need to marry do this but sorry i arnt desperate.




after doing all these for a guy he starts feeling like some kind of demigod.

Nooo...! No do am, after some years Shiloh program go carry matter wey e no know anything about.

Someone please remind me to come back to this thread when if I get desperate!!

Xiadnat:


I am single by choice. Not because I haven't had suitors. I am deliberately choosing wisely. I am not desperate. I love myself as I am. I am financially stable. I have a career. I have friends and family who love me. I have fun alone and with others. I enjoy my company alone.

Tell me again, why would I need to hustle fast to get married or for me to be marriageable? Hm?

If and when I decide to marry, I will do it for love and when I find the right person.

I refuse to get married for pressure, society or mother nature or anything short of love and compatibility*

Amen honey....Amen

See all of them claiming I m not desperate,

Mtchewwww, even those in their 40's , 30's and late 20's,
Anyway people can stay behind their phones and claim what they r not

U are wrong. Some ladies are like that naturally.

pinkiberry:
only desperate girls that really need to marry do this but sorry i arnt desperate.




after doing all these for a guy he starts feeling like some kind of demigod.

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WhoBeThisMan:
lol why now?

nah...no reason in particular.. just take am easy

The question is, do Nigerian men deserve someone with those qualities?

MissAssy:
The question is, do Nigerian men deserve someone with those qualities?

Most, if not all do.
BTW, it's for yourself you are having those qualities for

emusmith:
Most, if not all do.
BTW, it's for yourself you are having those qualities for

I hear you, but 80% of guys if do not deserve that kinda lady. You know am right.

MissAssy:

I hear you, but 80% of guys if do not deserve that kinda lady. You know am right.

80% ? That's so unfair!

I think my kind are many...like 75%

Another question: Can you be that to your guy?

pinkiberry:
only desperate girls that really need to marry do this but sorry i arnt desperate.




after doing all these for a guy he starts feeling like some kind of demigod.

as if any one has decleared interest