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Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by othenok(f): 1:06pm On Oct 13, 2015
Dear Gab, your power to socialise is in your hand. You can't force friendship. Besides Friendship should be more of quality than quantity. The mere fact that you see yourself as an Adonis of some sort can put a lot of people off but not a true friend.
Stop trying too hard to be liked, be yourself, be kind to all you meet then those truly meant to be your friends will stick to you.
Best of luck.

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Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by sage2(m): 1:07pm On Oct 13, 2015
Mzdivacious:
search deep down n ud find out whats wrong with u.cos honestly noone gives a hoot about ur looks.if anything they really shd get u more friends...
go out more.nd pleease talk to females.dont be shy.female frds reduce boredom

get past ur comfort zone n try to talk to people more...put on an act of familiarity with guys.like u know them before.u really dont expect them to approach u first do u?

idk for u tho.just loosen up.dont put urself in a shell cos life isnt a movie.noone wud try to break d shell

Good advice you've got for him there. You both are looking gorgeous in that pic. Which of the two hotties are you?
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by elvision1(m): 1:08pm On Oct 13, 2015
refreshrate:
Nonsense post
Seen OP from his profile nothing fantastic

OP please ehn go and read your books or work harder at becoming successful in life. Remi Adetiba is running model shoots open house. if you're as good as you think you are then sign up and stop whinning here Biko.

I'm waiting to see Senate fvck amaechi up this your story na distraction


i swear! The guys just distract me from watching the screening! Them i'm like "anambrarians must be ugly as fu ck if you are their channing tantum!!!" FOH!! U never reach Lagos u dey claim fine boy. Lemme tell u something. Guys love to hang out with handsome dudes it comes with the "chicks benefits" we ain't like gals we don't beef for looks. Again FOH!
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by friends4ever(m): 1:08pm On Oct 13, 2015
Where's the pic? Mehnn...
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by sage2(m): 1:09pm On Oct 13, 2015
PrettyHausaGirl:


Why not just chop, clean mouth and move on tongue

Wow! I like that.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by naijacommando: 1:09pm On Oct 13, 2015
elvision1:



i swear! The guys just distract me from watching the screening! Them i'm like "anambrarians must be ugly as Zap if you are thier channing tantum!!!" FOH!! U never reach Lagos u dey claim fine boy. Lemme tell u something. Guys love to hang out with handsome dudes we ain't like gals we don't beef for looks.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Chris95(m): 1:09pm On Oct 13, 2015
Bitc*h ass nigga...
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by therevelation2: 1:10pm On Oct 13, 2015
MrMbaM:
[s][/s]

I am a useless coward animal . I am a shameless thing

good odinma1
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by devonpaul(m): 1:10pm On Oct 13, 2015
Oyind17:

Where is the handsome dude
Where is ur #NoBraDay Pics oooooooooooo shocked
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by daclint(m): 1:10pm On Oct 13, 2015
NWANNEM YOU'RE JUST BEING SHY, E DEY HAPPEN TO ME BUT MY OWN CASE IS BETTER CUZ I NO DEY FEEL LONELY, I LIKE LIVING IN MY OWN WORLD.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by MrMbaM: 1:11pm On Oct 13, 2015
therevelation2:


My smelly mother is cursed. May my father die a miserable death

Okay Nwabekeyi Simeon
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by naijacommando: 1:11pm On Oct 13, 2015
elvision1:



i swear! The guys just distract me from watching the screening! Them i'm like "anambrarians must be ugly as Zap if you are thier channing tantum!!!" FOH!! U never reach Lagos u dey claim fine boy. Lemme tell u something. Guys love to hang out with handsome dudes we ain't like gals we don't beef for looks.

I was really surprised when I checked up his pix. Not wat I expected at all. Sure he nids to come down to Lagos to av a reality check
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Princejboy(m): 1:12pm On Oct 13, 2015
Guy if whats on ur DP is what you describe as GOODLOOKING then i tell u all guyz are goodlooking.

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Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by hope4nigeria(m): 1:13pm On Oct 13, 2015
gab264:
I'm 20yrs old as of now. I've been told that I'm a bit handsome by young and older women as well and by some guys. I had a good life back at my hometown where looks had little importance.

I now live with my parents in Anambra state and it seems that a lot of guys express hate for no apparent reason. Almost 70-80% of girls give me looks and I had experiences of girls trying to take pictures of me. I moved here as part of helping my mum in growing her business, but I feel that a lot of young people are more interested in dating than anything else.


Some girls act downright rude without looking at my face. I feel so lonely, and this has contributed a lot to my introvert nature of life which for some time now am trying to put to an end, no matter how simple I dress some people seem intimidated by me. Friends have being avoiding me for no actual reason, especially when they are about to going to a social gathering like party, ceremony's and all sorts, because I think that is where I can be able to explore the world and make friends some kind of being social to that is exactly what ave wanted all my life.

Please no insult and mind you that this thread is not to se









ek attention of whose so ever but just to spit out my daily pains with nairanders and seek solution's of how to present my self more than physical appearance to people, because they were unable to see the good aspect of me.

Plzz romancelanders how can I overcome feeling alone, avoid stereotypes of friends and (probably make real friends and build a social circle here
HELP!!!!sadsadsadsadsad






Mind you that this is no #attention seeking# thread as some will fink right now, but is just a true life packaging of just a growing up guy.......
op if na ur pix be dey that pix, u r not handsome at all! they hate you because you always trespass i.e woo people's woman unecessary. tbat attitude can kill you trust me.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by madjune(m): 1:14pm On Oct 13, 2015
The curse of being good looking

Guys will call u pompous and girls, a flirt.

Dude, its not easy.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Nobody: 1:15pm On Oct 13, 2015
devonpaul:
Where is ur #NoBraDay Pics oooooooooooo shocked
Lol, come and see it. undecided
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by therevelation2: 1:16pm On Oct 13, 2015
MrMbaM:


Okay Nwabekeyi Simeon

I pity Nwabekeyi Simeon...... embarassed embarassed embarassed
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by ilo04(m): 1:16pm On Oct 13, 2015
my brother I have been in your shoe, it depent on your altitude not your looking.
Maybe you are d shy type and people misunderstood u as a proud person.

Just be yourself, good looking is very good, is a gift from God, u don't have to hate yourself because if u do, is going to bring u low self esteem
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Pidggin(f): 1:17pm On Oct 13, 2015
Why is this in FP?
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Nobody: 1:18pm On Oct 13, 2015
Op....u are just averagely fine.... Not near spectacular..... BTW u gbagaun for ur signature....wat a pity.... O ye of little brain
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Nobody: 1:18pm On Oct 13, 2015
@op just like me u r indeed good-looking. but unlike u I don't have such issues. in fact I am mostly loved by people I meet and I enjoy a lot of good-will just by my smile or the way I talk. now to your problem if indeed you are having anti-social issues I suggest u do a personal body-odour check. if it comes out negative, don't lose hope. go meet a qualified dermatologist to do the check for u. I don't believe the solution is far from u. don't worry about thanking me....what are friends for? grin@op just like me u r indeed good-looking. but unlike u I don't have such issues. in fact I am mostly loved by people I meet and I enjoy a lot of good-will just by my smile or the way I talk. now to your problem if indeed you are having anti-social issues I suggest u do a personal body-odour check. if it comes out negative, don't lose hope. go meet a qualified dermatologist to do the check for u. I don't believe the solution is far from u. don't worry about thanking me....what are friends for?
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Gloryblossom(f): 1:19pm On Oct 13, 2015
Hello Narialanders.plx I want to use this opportunity to reach out to all of you here.kindly read this plx.a guy added mie from this forum his name is OLA TOKUNBO am sure wen he sees this msg he will change his name and tactis.we got chatting thou I nva had so much of his time.then one friday I went to sch and when I came back I planned going to vigil,on my way to vigil he chatted mie up d@ he would be going for a shopping tmorw w@ should he get for mie.joking I told him I needed just my kit which I dint remember telling him the name so I told him I was on my way to vigil d@ I will chat him up tmrw been saturday.when I came back I was so tired had to sleep,I dint hav time to chat till evenin when I was abt goin to sch,so I went to my bbm n discover he sent mie a message saying he has shopped already,he got me clothes,shoes,bags,n so many tinz includin a phone.@ ist he told mie he was an engineer,then later after d shopping he said he works in d sea so he went to shop for some clothe he will use blc of cold.I kept my cool.then he asked mie to send my name phone number and adress d@ he has sent the items he got for mie to d courier d@ de will use d@ to deliver d items to mie.I said okk.so on sunday he ask mie to send it so he cold send to dem.so I sent a fake name my number n a fake adress.we got chatting I told him to send mie a selfie holdin his nose.he did not sayin m takin him for fake n his wey to matured for such stuff.in my mind I concluded d@ dis guy want to play mugu.so d next day been monday he ask if hav receive any call from dem I said no.to cut d long tall short.de snt mie a message tellin mie d@ d items from him his now avialable I sud contact d customer careline for bulking n deliverin.chia I laugh come n see airport customer careline ordinary number.I told him v gotten d text he said I sud call dem so I call d guy said everytin is 12k n so n so fort.then I told him d@ if I don't c d items ist am not paying any dime.is nt my ist time of recievin items from uk n I know d procedure ,he said I sud for make a deposite for d bulking blc of police harrasment n co.I just say in mind dec 419.I told him ok let mie to gt to d person d@ sent it n tell him w@ v just told him he said okkk.I told d dude w@ his customer care said he said yes de cnt change dia company principle blc of mie.d@ I sud not worry he will order for d items back.I said aiit.d next tin he deleted himself from my bbm.so wh@ am I tryin to say is plx we sud be care to the ppl we add n d once d@ add us scammers,criminal,n 419 r here lookin for who to sap.for my ladies frekin for clothe bag iphone plxx be careful of demmmmm.daz my little story from friday till this mornin .luv u guys

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Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by wman(m): 1:21pm On Oct 13, 2015
This is a ret.arded thread open by a reta.rd for fellow reta.rds.
This guy is just so conceited. Being shy or being an introvert is different from being over handsome. Some people just like to delude themselves.
Nonsense.

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Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Holluwatarhyor(m): 1:22pm On Oct 13, 2015
If u fine,wetin make I talk
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by MrMbaM: 1:22pm On Oct 13, 2015
therevelation2:


I am a bas.tard and may I die a miserable death...... embarassed embarassed embarassed

Pity your senile father customized.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by devonpaul(m): 1:23pm On Oct 13, 2015
Oyind17:

Lol, come and see it. undecided
Stop Oyin, Dont even bring that up, u know i cant come and see it.. upload it now or else i'll lead other guys on nairaland on a protest against ya'll nairaland females
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by mojeed4(m): 1:23pm On Oct 13, 2015
What gave you the impression that its your *good looks* causing you this??
Sounds kinda lame! Why would friends not want to hang out with you cause you are good looking? which kind guy go even dey check out how good looking a fellow dude is before hanging out with him?

And besides if thats your pix on ur profile, just tell me you are joking, cause you are not more than a normal dude.

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Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by ekibor1(m): 1:23pm On Oct 13, 2015
U not ok. It seems like you sleeping ok. Better wake up cuz u not helping yourself. U not a woman and as such men don't jealous their self wen it comes to handsomeness.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by misreal(m): 1:23pm On Oct 13, 2015
gab264:
Am not pumpous or whatever.
they never give me a chance to be around that's just it.
When u can't give a new friend a chance because they have not been able to look beyond maa physical look.
It sucks honestly,I need to be social with people all over.
Am fed up with my introvert of a thing.
i truly understand you my Friend because I m going tru the same thing.just as people get taunted for being ugly, that is just how handsome guys are treated.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by mojeed4(m): 1:24pm On Oct 13, 2015
What gave you the impression that its your *good looks* causing you this??
Sounds kinda lame! Why would friends not want to hang out with you cause you are good looking? which kind guy go even dey check out how good looking a fellow dude is before hanging out with him?

And besides if thats your pix on ur profile, just tell me you are joking, cause you are not more than a normal dude.

My advice will just be that you should rather focus on fixing you introvert ways rather than trying to blame it on some pointless shits...
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by emmabod(m): 1:24pm On Oct 13, 2015
gab264:
I'm 20yrs old as of now. I've been told that I'm a bit handsome by young and older women as well and by some guys. I had a good life back at my hometown where looks had little importance.

I now live with my parents in Anambra state and it seems that a lot of guys express hate for no apparent reason. Almost 70-80% of girls give me looks and I had experiences of girls trying to take pictures of me. I moved here as part of helping my mum in growing her business, but I feel that a lot of young people are more interested in dating than anything else.

Some girls act downright rude without looking at my face. I feel so lonely, and this has contributed a lot to my introvert nature of life which for some time now am trying to put to an end, no matter how simple I dress some people seem intimidated by me. Friends have being avoiding me for no actual reason, especially when they are about to going to a social gathering like party, ceremony's and all sorts, because I think that is where I can be able to explore the world and make friends some kind of being social to that is exactly what ave wanted all my life.

Please no insult and mind you that this thread is not to seek attention of whose so ever but just to spit out my daily pains with nairanders and seek solution's of how to present my self more than physical appearance to people, because they were unable to see the good aspect of me.

Plzz romancelanders how can I overcome feeling alone, avoid stereotypes of friends and (probably make real friends and build a social circle here
HELP!!!!sadsadsadsadsad

Mind you that this is no #attention seeking# thread as some will fink right now, but is just a true life packaging of just a growing up guy.......

who dey deceive this ugly wagon.....you be mumu walai
it's like you re so jobless....ohh, you re 20 years old.
even @ 20, you should filled with mind blowing goals and plan....mtchwee
what rubbish!!!
and how the heck this made front page!!!!
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by therevelation2: 1:25pm On Oct 13, 2015
MrMbaM:


I Pity my senile father.

Sorry italiano

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