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Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by gab264(m): 1:26pm On Oct 13, 2015
PrettyHausaGirl:


Why not just chop, clean mouth and move on tongue
Right now am more concern about being social,making friends and being in good terms with people.
Which for some time now, I was unable to do,so pitching tents with girls now is not in maa agender. I will consider that, after which I was able to come out of my shell.
Girls have been a whole lot of problems to (male nairalanders ) for some time nowgringringringrin
I have my own problem to put to an end bfr anytin.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Burger01(m): 1:26pm On Oct 13, 2015
benedictnsi:
@op..... I no wan sware for you now
'Sware' for him abeg. He deserves it cheesy
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Richy4(m): 1:26pm On Oct 13, 2015
The first thing I did was to click your picture after reading your agony. I don't usually look at peoples' picture but I was forced to look.
I was thinking I will see an Absalom of our time; the son of David in the Bible. the one the bible said was handsome......

By what standard were you judging yourself as being Good looking biko cheesy?

You don't really know the reason why they were avoiding you and you jumped into conclusion that it was your look.
number 1, how many time do you bath in a day?, 2 do you brush your teeth regularly? 3 do you use deodorant as often as you can?...
4, when you open your mouth to talk, was it all about your "beauty" and how nice you look?.....

All this could be reasons why they were avoiding you.

But if you think you are not all that i listed,I suggest you Ignore them and do your thing the best way you can.

In my opinion, no one is worth making you dress stupidly just to belong in a certain group and feel bad.just to make them feel good.
Dress badly because you want to dress like that. besides,life is too short to wear boring cloth.

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Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Nobody: 1:26pm On Oct 13, 2015
hahahahaha,funny dude
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by itsIYKE(m): 1:27pm On Oct 13, 2015
Gloryblossom:
Hello Narialanders.plx I want to use this opportunity to reach out to all of you here.kindly read this plx.a guy added mie from this forum his name is OLA TOKUNBO am sure wen he sees this msg he will change his name and tactis.we got chatting thou I nva had so much of his time.then one friday I went to sch and when I came back I planned going to vigil,on my way to vigil he chatted mie up d@ he would be going for a shopping tmorw w@ should he get for mie.joking I told him I needed just my kit which I dint remember telling him the name so I told him I was on my way to vigil d@ I will chat him up tmrw been saturday.when I came back I was so tired had to sleep,I dint hav time to chat till evenin when I was abt goin to sch,so I went to my bbm n discover he sent mie a message saying he has shopped already,he got me clothes,shoes,bags,n so many tinz includin a phone.@ ist he told mie he was an engineer,then later after d shopping he said he works in d sea so he went to shop for some clothe he will use blc of cold.I kept my cool.then he asked mie to send my name phone number and adress d@ he has sent the items he got for mie to d courier d@ de will use d@ to deliver d items to mie.I said okk.so on sunday he ask mie to send it so he cold send to dem.so I sent a fake name my number n a fake adress.we got chatting I told him to send mie a selfie holdin his nose.he did not sayin m takin him for fake n his wey to matured for such stuff.in my mind I concluded d@ dis guy want to play mugu.so d next day been monday he ask if hav receive any call from dem I said no.to cut d long tall short.de snt mie a message tellin mie d@ d items from him his now avialable I sud contact d customer careline for bulking n deliverin.chia I laugh come n see airport customer careline ordinary number.I told him v gotten d text he said I sud call dem so I call d guy said everytin is 12k n so n so fort.then I told him d@ if I don't c d items ist am not paying any dime.is nt my ist time of recievin items from uk n I know d procedure ,he said I sud for make a deposite for d bulking blc of police harrasment n co.I just say in mind dec 419.I told him ok let mie to gt to d person d@ sent it n tell him w@ v just told him he said okkk.I told d dude w@ his customer care said he said yes de cnt change dia company principle blc of mie.d@ I sud not worry he will order for d items back.I said aiit.d next tin he deleted himself from my bbm.so wh@ am I tryin to say is plx we sud be care to the ppl we add n d once d@ add us scammers,criminal,n 419 r here lookin for who to sap.for my ladies frekin for clothe bag iphone plxx be careful of demmmmm.daz my little story from friday till this mornin .luv u guys
why didn't you reject the gifts aunty?
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by MrMbaM: 1:28pm On Oct 13, 2015
therevelation2:


My father is a b.astard animal


Customized, I love when you call me different names, very interesting.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Nobody: 1:30pm On Oct 13, 2015
devonpaul:

Stop Oyin, Dont even bring that up, u know i cant come and see it.. upload it now or else i'll lead other guys on nairaland on a protest against ya'll nairaland females
I will upload mine later for you to see every...no be nipples you want see
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by gab264(m): 1:31pm On Oct 13, 2015
olowookerekemi:
pour a little acid on ur face nd d beauty wil reduce
Jeeeezzzzz!!!
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by therevelation2: 1:31pm On Oct 13, 2015
MrMbaM:


Customized, I love when you call me different names, very interesting.

italiano go and die
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by MrTeCO(m): 1:32pm On Oct 13, 2015
Really u're not ALONE on dat level. I concur with you 100%. Most of them be like "You're A Player".....handsome guyz are always Labelled as flirts n womanisers......!Really u're not ALONE on dat level. I concur with you 100%. Most of them be like "You're A Player".....handsome guyz are always Labelled as flirts n womanisers......!Really u're not ALONE on dat level. I concur with you 100%. Most of them be like "You're A Player".....handsome guyz are always Labelled as flirts n womanisers......!
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by devonpaul(m): 1:32pm On Oct 13, 2015
Oyind17:

I will upload mine later for you to see every...no be nipples you want see
Yes Yes Yes grin oya oya upload it we are waiting cry
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by MrMbaM: 1:32pm On Oct 13, 2015
therevelation2:


My cursed mother will die a miserable death

Amen bro
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by therevelation2: 1:33pm On Oct 13, 2015
MrMbaM:


My cursed mother will die a miserable death

Amen bro.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by tpraiz(m): 1:34pm On Oct 13, 2015
Is dat You on ur Dp @Op If Yes:::::then ur so called frends mst be very very Ugly Na wa o,let's talk money en Yu ar dia talking fine boi issh***
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by haibe(m): 1:36pm On Oct 13, 2015
luchy34:
@20 years old shouldn't you be more concerned about your studies than your looks all these kids on nairaland sef undecided

Oga i finished university at 20 years... Not everyone finish school at 40 years..
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by MrMbaM: 1:38pm On Oct 13, 2015
therevelation2:


My cursed mother will die a miserable death.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by therevelation2: 1:39pm On Oct 13, 2015
MrMbaM:
My cursed mother will die a miserable death.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by MrMbaM: 1:40pm On Oct 13, 2015
therevelation2:
My cursed mother will die a miserable death.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by refreshrate: 1:42pm On Oct 13, 2015
elvision1:



i swear! The guys just distract me from watching the screening! Them i'm like "anambrarians must be ugly as fu ck if you are their channing tantum!!!" FOH!! U never reach Lagos u dey claim fine boy. Lemme tell u something. Guys love to hang out with handsome dudes it comes with the "chicks benefits" we ain't like gals we don't beef for looks. Again FOH!

I tire o na fine boy I go use pay for orijin for bar after work today, or when u reach fuel station I go show dem your fine face...landlord come, see oga this guy get fine face so we can stay for free. Nepa climb pole, oga you no see say this guy get fine face? The nepa man go come down. or alarm begin tear belle we enter joint choose poundo with shaki, ponmo, Cowleg round about total 2,500, madam see fine face...that guy is still not ready for this millennium meanwhile dem Don begin do Christmas advert for NTA, oniranu.

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Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by gab264(m): 1:42pm On Oct 13, 2015
othenok:
Dear Gab, your power to socialise is in your hand. You can't force friendship. Besides Friendship should be more of quality than quantity. The mere fact that you see yourself as an Adonis of some sort can put a lot of people off but not a true friend.
Stop trying too hard to be liked, be yourself, be kind to all you meet then those truly meant to be your friends will stick to you.
Best of luck.
"Fanks sweetie"
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Nobody: 1:43pm On Oct 13, 2015
Lah only you waka come? grin
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Nobody: 1:47pm On Oct 13, 2015
@op am 18yrs also an INTROVERT

I feel yur pains

trying tu come out of et though


BUH I NR FIT angry
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by nwadiuko1(m): 1:51pm On Oct 13, 2015
Umuazi ebenine
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by Softhands(m): 1:52pm On Oct 13, 2015
funsho75:
I have a filling that... I fine pass u.. lolz...
oga if u wan speak English , Speak am well.
what's "filling" do there biko... By the way see your Pomo face.
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by mubarak001(m): 1:52pm On Oct 13, 2015
gab264:
Am not pumpous or whatever.
they never give me a chance to be around that's just it.
When u can't give a new friend a chance because they have not been able to look beyond maa physical look.
It sucks honestly,I need to be social with people all over.
Am fed up with my introvert of a thing.

U attract ur kind...meaning u neednt do anything to get ppl's hands in friendship.
Be ursef: self worth and reassurance...be a solution to ppl's challenges. Just find some1 with challenges and offer help,
I bet you, the table will turn around.

This is what i do every new place i go; I observe, watch and learn what's up in the environment, then, i try to fit in not rushing to hang out or talk to ppl...am a gud convo initiator though; dt help alot....Op, just build urself. shikena!
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by solidman59(m): 1:55pm On Oct 13, 2015
Hahahahaha hahahahahaha hahahahaha
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by helphelp: 2:04pm On Oct 13, 2015
Idiot... Na dem who dey lie to you
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by chaxking(m): 2:05pm On Oct 13, 2015
But bros u jst dy na, u no ugly or fine like dt why u feel say na d reason for ur frnds leaving u, u don check if u get mouth or body odour?? grin or wardrobe malfunction like ur pix smiley
gab264:
I'm 20yrs old as of now. I've been told that I'm a bit handsome by young and older women as well and by some guys. I had a good life back at my hometown where looks had little importance.

I now live with my parents in Anambra state and it seems that a lot of guys express hate for no apparent reason. Almost 70-80% of girls give me looks and I had experiences of girls trying to take pictures of me. I moved here as part of helping my mum in growing her business, but I feel that a lot of young people are more interested in dating than anything else.

Some girls act downright rude without looking at my face. I feel so lonely, and this has contributed a lot to my introvert nature of life which for some time now am trying to put to an end, no matter how simple I dress some people seem intimidated by me. Friends have being avoiding me for no actual reason, especially when they are about to going to a social gathering like party, ceremony's and all sorts, because I think that is where I can be able to explore the world and make friends some kind of being social to that is exactly what ave wanted all my life.

Please no insult and mind you that this thread is not to seek attention of whose so ever but just to spit out my daily pains with nairanders and seek solution's of how to present my self more than physical appearance to people, because they were unable to see the good aspect of me.

Plzz romancelanders how can I overcome feeling alone, avoid stereotypes of friends and (probably make real friends and build a social circle here
HELP!!!!sadsadsadsadsad

Mind you that this is no #attention seeking# thread as some will fink right now, but is just a true life packaging of just a growing up guy.......
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by fhranchez(m): 2:06pm On Oct 13, 2015
this shhit is common among anambarians always not wanting anyone to be beta than dem.....ever since I came to study (from ABUJA)ive been experiencing dis fate as d op(not DAT I'm DAT handsome) so I look dem in d eye and say...............GO TO HELLLL!
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by mrpatozky(m): 2:08pm On Oct 13, 2015
benedictnsi:
@op..... I no wan sware for you now
Lol... Upon all the no Insult begging grin grin grin
Re: Help!! I Hate That Am A Goodlooking Guy) by LaJose78(m): 2:08pm On Oct 13, 2015
Maybe this is spiritual...*jst sayin* I c no reason y ppl would jst beef u wit no reason. If truly u r gud lukin as u said, both male 'n' female will lyk u nd associate wit u. Nd alxo, being an introvert is a gud trait...dnt blame ur poor social life on ur introvert character; no one is 100% introvert...jst examine urself nd knw ur strengths nd weaknesses which will boost ur confidence 2 be social.

Mind u, dnt beg people to accept u. People will appreciate u when u stop giving a f**k.

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