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Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 10:15am On Mar 02, 2016 |
lezz:What Was the first two ? And whats the last one .. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by misspicy(f): 10:20am On Mar 02, 2016 |
BumBae:lol that's like searching for a needle in a haystack,let's make do with Lezz pleeeasse |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by lezz(m): 10:21am On Mar 02, 2016 |
BumBae:You actually do not expect me to untie the knot with which I have you bond, dear. I plan to be your Tarzan . 1 Like |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by misspicy(f): 10:25am On Mar 02, 2016 |
lezz: still looking for it though for the last time,I don't share |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by lezz(m): 10:27am On Mar 02, 2016 |
BumBae:A virgin man will not even begin to fathom the conundrum of the vastness of your bewitching butty. He will sooner spill his holy water in the corridors of your cathedral in an epileptic feat of anxiety before he gets to your chambers. Let me hold my devotional oil still and steady, worshiping the corridors and vestibule of your cathedral. I will deliver that oil in the depths of the hallowed chambers of your cathedral in a climaxing pulsation of vibrating spillage after 45 minutes of worship. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Toks2008(m): 10:33am On Mar 02, 2016 |
misspicy:Im sorry to make reference to the fact that some things wont make sense to us until latter in life. I made an allegory with 3 set of people and i pray you dont ever find yourself in any of the 3 categories. When i was 25 i had the mindset of a 25yr old but at 40 my mindset is a total far cry from wat it use to be years back. This is why im always quick to jusxtapose opinions to pples age cos you just cant ignore the correlation. Ok lets say you are 23. .apparently you are still blooming,fresh curves and lots of expectations which i pray will be fufilled but ladies in their late 30s will nderstand better. Dont ever preempt what you can do in a given situation cos you never can tell wat u are capable of until u find urself in a certain situation. My threads on nland are products of my years of experience and that is why there will always be a conflict in understanding with people of very young ages. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 10:36am On Mar 02, 2016 |
lezz: |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 10:36am On Mar 02, 2016 |
misspicy:Lol exact,y my point Ok |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 10:40am On Mar 02, 2016 |
Lezz misspicy catch yall later .. 1 Like |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by misspicy(f): 10:50am On Mar 02, 2016 |
Toks2008: My advice? you should try and put a check on your chauvinistic tendencies which are largely portrayed in your words,not neccesarily now I see it most times on your threads,it will help a larger audience understand your threads. Have a fruitful day |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by misspicy(f): 10:51am On Mar 02, 2016 |
BumBae: |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 10:57am On Mar 02, 2016 |
lezz:IM INTERESTED TO KNOW HOW MANY LADIES UVE FORKED, DAT U MET ON NAIRALAND, DNT JUST WRITE ALL DIS EPISTLE 4 NOTHING, we dat have the higher shares(u know wat i mean) dnt write epistle 4 ladies nd yet we dig oil wells 4rm nairaland weekly. "go ask najaboy,kintom,tosyn2much,hector,trucpusher,jacksparrow etc. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 11:03am On Mar 02, 2016 |
BoiledHead:so right |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by danbrowndmf(m): 11:03am On Mar 02, 2016 |
misspicy:please explain all these english for me. Mi o lo school. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by lezz(m): 11:06am On Mar 02, 2016 |
BumBae:Have a nice day, and keep in touch. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Adaeze003(f): 12:25pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
misspicy: *button pressed* hehe... |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by PunterTim(m): 2:34pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
lezz:Chai! 1 Like |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Toks2008(m): 8:48am On Mar 03, 2016 |
WORDWORLD i think you may have to consider changing the topic to something like My pillar of truth about polygamy. You may leave the contents as they are. I guess lalasticlala will be more at home with that new title. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 12:36am On Mar 05, 2016 |
Toks2008: I GET SUCH REMARKS AND ADVICE ALL THE TIME. "Try make your write-ups as CONCISE as possible" WHY? Because of those who don't love to read. And i always wonder, why should it be because of those whose priority is to NOT growing their BRAIN? Dont love to read! SHOULD WE BE AT THEIR MERCY BY AFFECTING AND EFFECTING OURSELVES TO PLEASING THOSE WHO DONT LOVE TO READ? "Reading makes a FULL MAN, Conference a REAL MAN and writing an EXACT MAN" says one of the greaters essay writers of all times. Francis Bacon. From my years of experience as a privilege writer my observation as regards general comments made by people and not just comments about my writings. Is that most people dislike reading, even if its just a sentence written. Let alone STUDY what has been written. It reflects in their comments and opinion. Instead of coming up with points that will help us all to LEARN from them. THEY ARE ALL OUT TO INSULT, ABUSE, CURSE ALL BECAUSE THE HAVE NOT BEEN GROWING THEIR BRAIN THROUGH READING. The best they could have done is to keep shut and not express their FOLLY. But they dont know this because they are too lazy and havent read such an advice some where before. Because they dont READ. And when they do, they dont read to understand. That was your first write up i ever read and at my first reading its too clear that you are such a good writer. Thank you for appreciating my write-up and thanks for your responses and patience to alot of people who find it difficult to expressing their views. My post and yours is not saying NO TO MONOGAMY but that POLYGAMY is a solution by CHOICE to the enumerated challenges at the same time it comes along with a lot of RESPONSIBILTY which is the reality. People JUST dont read to understand. A reason why our world is such in a MESS. Yes, all those scriptures are read up-side-down. No understanding. Thanks once again for your advice. Will do my best to be as precise and as clear as possible. The TRUTH is writing LONG ESSAYS has become my TRADE MARK. I hardly write in few words. Am to good at FINGERING my key board to moan, groan and scream in ecstasy. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 12:53am On Mar 05, 2016 |
Toks2008: Effected the change you suggested but not because lalasticlala may not be at home with the title sha but becos 'of Toks2008'. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 2:49am On Mar 05, 2016 |
misspicy: Its good that i make certain things clear. Am all out for the COMMON GOOD of humanity. THE WRITE-UP NEVER SAID POLYGAMY IS A MUST BUT BY CHOICE. Its a suggestion to solving the enumerated marital challenges. Monogamy or Polygamy all have their challenges. And the root of all problems encountered in any relationship is INSINCERITY and MISUNDERSTANDING. Once there is SINCERITY and UNDERSTANDING between the parties involved then there is no room for problems. A man marries a second wife with the understanding of the first and the second. That makes it all easy, their understanding could be as a result of culture or religious beliefs or on marital agreement. For crying out loud, POLYGAMY is nothing new. Practiced by our grands until the WHITE - MAN programmed our brains to fit his selfish desires. And if not for our PRETENTIOUS LIFE STYLE of emulating our 'gods' 'EUROPEANS' there is nothing to shout aggressively against polygamy about. Who is not familiar with the INDECENT PRACTICES of the 'MONOGAMY EUROPE'. Their indecencies has become our culture and not even monogamy. This fact is to clear to those who possess a LUCID MIND. There is DIVORCE RATE everywhere today despite the practice of one man to one woman which is so outrageuos all because we mostly do not even know what marriage is all about before diving into it. So beyond all these problems, the solution is a matter of SINCERITY. Alot of women betray their God given intution when it comes to choosing a spouse. The right of choice is with the woman. To be able to say No or Yes. THE CONSEQUENCE IS HER's TO BEAR IF NOT WISE IN HER CHOOSING OF WHICH THEY MOSTLY CHOOSE MEN FOR ALL THE WRONG REASON. she will be the one to carry the burden if it doesnt work out in the end so also keeping her man from straying, chasing after women outside is also her problem to prevent too. There are men whose brain and heart is one women alone. Search for such if you cant bear otherwise. As for the economic aspect that you mentioned. A French Economic Philosopher Jules Simon Said, "women have started working in Textile Factories where, they can earn a few Francs. But on the other hand this has totally destroyed the bases of family lifes." The kind of economic pursuit by mostly today's women has become a deteriment to the family which they think they are doing a favour to protecting. Motherhood has lost its valour. The blame is actually on the systems that runs our so called societies of CONSUMERISM and CAPITALISM as against yesterday. Systems that keep conflicting with natural laws. Infact in the past POLYGAMY was for ECONOMIC benefit and other benefits too but in a very health manner. In the modern context, where the programing of the world's systems that runs us undermines MATRIMONY, undermines the HOME and has made MONEY King. The society without doubt must SUFFER like Europe all kinds of DISTRESS that they are involved in and which emanates from not following principles that leads to living a decent life. We are emulating their INDECENCIES above all else and must have to carter for those 3 enumerated marital challenges which are also by- product of our dysfunctional socities. A suggestion of Polygamy was only made as a solution and a very valid one too but not by enforcing it but by choice and through ENLIGHTENMENT. And Neithet do i play gender contest. Men are made for women and women need men irrespective of these women's ECONOMIC STANDS. So, In finding solutions to our modern day dyfunction, we need to look beyond Polygamy in finding solutions to RELATIONSHIP such as marriage. We need alot of pre-marriage education to making them work. And one of the solutions too is that the modern woman should start seeing motherhood as a privilege, prestige, with great responsibility. For behind every IRRESPONSIBLE MAN an irresponsible upringing which MOTHERHOOD plays the most active role. Women movement have made women more masculine, hardened, bitter, and aggressive who have little or no faith in emotional maturity. CAN BE VERY UNNECESSARILY EMOTIONAL!!! Polygamy was only a suggestion but turn into a fight. That is what emotional immaturity does. Women should learn to take off their boxing gloves and amour and properly embrace motherhood by training boys that will grow up to uphold the dignity of women. The fathers too have active roles to play. The most impart still remain women. ITS A POPULAR SAYING THAT ITS A MAN'S WORLD. BUT IS IT NOT THROUGH WOMEN THAT EVERY MAN ENTERS INTO THIS WORLD CALLED WORLD OF MEN AND WERE NURTURED BY WOMEN? I have widen the perspective. All that i honestly want is marriages to work. Poly or Mono for the survival of the good virtues that we all should be in pursuit as human beings which is much more valuable than gold and silver. JUST AS TOKS2008, POLYGAMY IS A VALID SUGGESTION AND ITS BY CHOICE AND BY UNDERSTANDING. Those who are not for it shouldnt condemn it. NO! That is not fair to do and its not right as long as MONOGAMOUS marriages is not a golden bond that doesnt break. I know a lot of marriages that became very UPRIGHT after the man married a second wife due to the first wife's negligent of her role as a wife because of 'MONOPOLY' in MONOGAMY. Thank you for your thoughtful contributions. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by MrCork: 9:19pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
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