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Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by davidakenzy: 9:13am On Mar 07, 2016 |
seriously man,y waste ur time on a girl like dat who definitely tinks dat u shud b grateful 4 her just giving u her attention and pussy..as in 4 real?..she cant change cus dat is hw she has bin brought up by her mum to tink dat she is a Queen who her man must b ready 2 to take up all resppnsibilities if he wants her 2 grace his bed..man wake up,if u still enjoy her pussy den continue dating her but NO marriage o..find ur wife 4 front o 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by suwalee(f): 9:13am On Mar 07, 2016 |
deyemia:hmmmm dis kinda pesin can't change my dear runaway now that u can I jst pity ur future with he sha 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by PresVA: 9:13am On Mar 07, 2016 |
deyemia:Didn't read this before I commented earlier. . Mehn, her case is pathetic Husbands and wives are in partnership and should be willing to support each other at all times! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by bmaks: 9:14am On Mar 07, 2016 |
adepeter26: mY person!!!!! nice talk about changing her mindset but you no be God or Holy Spirit wey go fit change her mind. Even if she tends to give in now for the sake of not loosing you, when you marry finish d matter go change ooooo, her inherent nature go resurface ooooooo! I must tell you, its not possible to get a "perfect" spouse, but you've got to weigh the sh**t you can smear on yourself without feeling the awful smell and stick to the one that worth the smell. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by 2sexycom(m): 9:14am On Mar 07, 2016 |
0taPiaPia:no, not really. Before marriage actually. It means you tried instead of just ending without trying. It is wrong to end a relationship simply because of one's error or flaws. I have ended numerous relationship because the other person just seemed unreasonable, mostly without trying to change them or help them become a better person. But if I continue like that, it would be very detrimental at the end because there is no complete package anywhere. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by SirEurope(m): 9:15am On Mar 07, 2016 |
Start now to teach her the lesson First all her to take care of herself, stop dropping her at home by telling her to handle that and excuse yourself with the excuse that you are saving it all for the future family...... Let her take care of herself and feel how is it to be an island. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by favouryemmy: 9:15am On Mar 07, 2016 |
deyemia: Don't marry her until you're sure she has changed that mindset. I'm talking from experience |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Akaewu: 9:16am On Mar 07, 2016 |
halfricanadian: Na from clap dance dey start 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by nelcliff(m): 9:16am On Mar 07, 2016 |
Kindly confront her personally regards that topic and hear out her final decision on it. if she still affirm it as her top priority.... let go and point your search beam light into another direction.... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Walexsammy(m): 9:17am On Mar 07, 2016 |
2sexycom:Pls bro, there is nothing to mould in such a lady, she has already made up her mind,infact such ideology must have been instilled in her by her 'mother' or her mentor. Itz a good thing the guy is aware now b4 saying 'I do'. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Ghost01(m): 9:18am On Mar 07, 2016 |
Run, OP, run! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by MrEverest(m): 9:18am On Mar 07, 2016 |
deyemia:First I'll like to know some facts, is she working now or earning some kind of steady cash? If yes then test her, find a way or gimick, maybe tell her your car broke down at a bad area & you need some money urgently to fix it & for one reason or the other you cant access your money in the bank, if she refuses to help you when she is capable then there is no basis for such relationship. On a personal note, I used to assume that the lady I want to marry is selfish & wont help me financially because she was always demanding even when I was broke, then she got a job & things changed, she now uses her money to solve some needs & even bought me a designer shirt this weekend, I was shocked!! So her rhetorics might eventually be different from her true character. |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by 2sexycom(m): 9:20am On Mar 07, 2016 |
PresVA:Domestic work are piece of cake for me lol. |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by robosky02(m): 9:23am On Mar 07, 2016 |
suwalee:i know say you, you go give your man every.... dollas plus pounds lol |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by marv1: 9:23am On Mar 07, 2016 |
What a life? 1trillionlikes: |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by favouryemmy: 9:24am On Mar 07, 2016 |
2sexycom: Yes, this is one imperfection,but it's a major major one. If she doesn't change, he should move on jare. This imperfection can lead to a divorce. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by 2sexycom(m): 9:27am On Mar 07, 2016 |
favouryemmy:Glad you get my point. I actually meant TRY before giving UP, instead of just moving on like that. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by suwalee(f): 9:28am On Mar 07, 2016 |
robosky02:I'd give him all of it cos I seen such situation nd I tell u its not funny atall for one person to bear the whole burden 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by truthisbittar12: 9:28am On Mar 07, 2016 |
wat is this be a MAN. are u waiting for a woman to support u financially? i dont think u deserve respect. the more u rely on them the more disrespect u |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by demoore1(m): 9:28am On Mar 07, 2016 |
2sexycom:So if she accept to change, you advice him to go ahead and marry abi....What is the assurance that she will not change back after marriage....This is God telling you to run for your dear life in my opinion. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by kingDarius(m): 9:30am On Mar 07, 2016 |
Op...if u luv her,go ahead n marry her. Like time, events changes a woman. Knack her two children n u will c d motherhood in her. |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by marv1: 9:32am On Mar 07, 2016 |
Na to abandon her husband and children, pack out of the house or begin to look for another man crazy for toto to carry her responsility. A lot of them are arroud us. deyemia: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by robosky02(m): 9:32am On Mar 07, 2016 |
suwalee: gbam thats it with this your talk ehhh i recommend YOU to any sensible man that wants to run faster in life cos you can give him wings to fly 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Ujupsy: 9:33am On Mar 07, 2016 |
That Sunday is your special Sunday ,God used it to reveal to you that you going the wrong way ,is left for u to change direction 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by 2sexycom(m): 9:36am On Mar 07, 2016 |
demoore1:bros, you can't light a candle and hide it under the bed;the light will still show. |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by Hermionegranger(f): 9:41am On Mar 07, 2016 |
deyemia:One thing about relationships is that you should never enter one with the intention of changing your partner especially if he/she has a major character flaw just like this one. You can NEVER change person unless it's by the grace of God or such person personally resolves to make a change. My advice for you is to quit now that it's still early. I know two women who are selfishly spending their earnings on themselves by buying expensive clothes and handbags and still depend on their husbands for every other thing even expecting them to provide money for buying simple things like matches or pepper. Their Children are always dressed so poorly that you'd be surprised to learn that those women are their mothers. I'm really sure you won't like to be in a similar situation. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by MaxyBrown(m): 9:42am On Mar 07, 2016 |
This looks like a test to me. I want to believe you're hardworking yourself; if you really love her, probe her intentions further. If not drop her like hot potato when you still can. Marriage without all-round support is a conditional arrangement that may not stand the test of time. Trust me, the tests will surely come and they will include financial tests |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by OLUWAFUNMISE(f): 9:42am On Mar 07, 2016 |
You want to change her |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by tottinova: 9:43am On Mar 07, 2016 |
deyemia: Bro, just leave her alone, na small pikin dey worry am. If she doesn't intend to help you out, you too shouldn't. She'll draw back her stupid ideology in no time. But for the main time, just leave her alone. Don't call or contact her in any way. She'll run back to you. |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by glossy6(f): 9:48am On Mar 07, 2016 |
Please move on. You cant changr her. I learnt helping my hubby from how my mum supported my dad while growing up. My brother's wife will not cook if there is no cray fish in the house. My brother sponsored her to NTI after marrying her with SSCE attempted. She is a teacher now. Her son is 19 now and she has not changed that attitude. Her husband must provide everything. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Said She Can't Support Her Husband! by coffee77: 9:52am On Mar 07, 2016 |
Funminicrown: Please dont try this, this her friend may have done that to confuse your mind knowing that her friend(ur fiance) is not smart and make you see her as the supporting person. please work on ur wife and convince her to see reasons why she should support finacially |
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