guy cool down
which kind of love love wetin . . . biko change topic you see something chop am finish clean mouth come nairaland de confess

if ur woman do am, u go understand? u don commit grieveuos offence. we can laugh as dudes but i dont think girls will find this thing funny.
if my girl cheats on me. . . kaput. e don end. love wetin. once u cheat, you'll do it again(just like domestic violence) .

how about your girlfriend sleeping with your best friend and telling you that she rerally loves u but has a problem controlling herself?

love my foot. . . .

b4 u enter a true relationship, you must be a responsible person, you must think of your partner b4 taking any action, even which shirt u wear, you think if she'll like it on you b4 u buy. she becomes a part of you through and through. in that circumstance, you will not even be able to cheat. your privates will not even get erection. that is when u start talking of love. true love. real love. until that happens, you are just another guyman who happens to like a particular girl more than others.

u think say love na mills and boon

'eyonigger' - Though I don't know you personally, I still can'y help but feel disappointed that you put yourself in this position, I thought you knew better, I know we're all human, but you know what cheating means, no matter what 'type' right?? Now you're looking for like-minds for comfort, that's what you're doing. These same people will try and convince you that these things are normal and expected.

I think the bad feelings you have should prove that what you've done is not good. That bad feeling is what's left of your conscience. I don't believe you love your girlfriend as much as you claim, I mean if she cheated on you and blamed it on your absence, how would you feel, would you feel loved? I'm sure you wouldn't tolerate it, you know deep down how serious the devastation of cheating is to a relationship.

When you cheat, your mind becomes cloudy, thinking it's a normal part of life is the first step, then you might begin to neglect your current relationship further, feelings of guilt will affect the way you behave in your relationship. This means the chances of your girlfriend feeling neglected, being tempted herself by another guy showing more interest and wanting to end the relationship from lack of attention increases.

Before you know it, the cat's out of the bag, she finds out, she can't trust you, she leaves OR she finds out forgives you but the relationship is never the same, and you might as well separate and move on.

LOVE

Well said by 'otele'.

u love her??. . . , seriously doubt it, . . . .

salsera:

This is so DUMB

You are a woman, I don't expect you to see my point. Just as a Dog can never see the rainbow. (Because scientifically dogs are color blind) But it don't mean that the rainbow does not exist. The truth will always remain the truth, the only thing different is our interpretations of it.

@ poster, seriously wtf is wrong with you? Assuming the same thing was done to you, you won't be smiling, will you? And imagine if it was your own sister that's being cheated on.

Man, I seriously hope your girlfriend dumps the hell out of you. She doesn't deserve this rubbish and you definitely don't deserve her. Haba  !

otele:

guy cool down
which kind of love love wetin . . . biko change topic you see something chop am finish clean mouth come nairaland de confess

if ur woman do am, u go understand? u don commit grieveuos offence. we can laugh as dudes but i dont think girls will find this thing funny.
if my girl cheats on me. . . kaput. e don end. love wetin. once u cheat, you'll do it again(just like domestic violence) .

how about your girlfriend sleeping with your best friend and telling you that she rerally loves u but has a problem controlling herself?

love my foot. . . .

b4 u enter a true relationship, you must be a responsible person, you must think of your partner b4 taking any action, even which shirt u wear, you think if she'll like it on you b4 u buy. she becomes a part of you through and through. in that circumstance, you will not even be able to cheat. your privates will not even get erection. that is when u start talking of love. true love. real love. until that happens, you are just another guyman who happens to like a particular girl more than others.

u think say love na mills and boon

Well said, Otele. Well said.

THOSE WHO CHEAT SHALL BE CHEATED UPON, ha ha

I have neva cheated on my partner and any1 can do so.
@Poster, so dat means weneva she is not around, u r gonna cheat on her,

It also depends on the Guy. If you're one of those lame, shy, lacking confident guys, then you are less likely to cheat on your girl (especially when it took you 10 yrs to get her). But if the guy is a cool, calm, confident, bad boy, good looking embodiment of sartorial excellence, successful MAN. Even the girls will agree to share you with other women (That includes your girl).

_ Your quote "The only loser is you having to stick your small penis in the same boring hole for the whole of your miserable life "

They say "The only loser is you having to stick your small penis in the same boring hole for the whole of your miserable life"
They say "When you see one naked body, you see all"

hilli666:

It also depends on the Guy. If you're one of those lame, shy, lacking confident guys, then you are less likely to cheat on your girl (especially when it took you 10 yrs to get her). But if the guy is a cool, calm, confident, bad boy, good looking embodiment of sartorial excellence, successful MAN. Even the girls will agree to share you with other women (That includes your girl).

On the contrary, it's about common sense, your morals, and responsibility. It takes a REAL MAN to have qualities like self control, intergrity, and be responsible (and trustworthy). If the person that's suppose to own your heart can't trust you, what makes you think anyone else will? No wonder everything has gone south these days.

thor, ur the craziest of them all

I believe that God wouldn't make just 1 Eve for 1 Adam, If men were destined/programmed to be polygamous. Most guys cheat today as a result of their mental conditioning. They grew up seeing their fathers, brothers, uncles or whatever male they looked up to cheat on women and never told em dt it wasn't the best thing to do!

@poster,remember TRUE LOVE DON'T CHEAT. If some how you find yourself cheating, jst kwn  this ,THE LOVE DON GET FAULT. FIX IT OR YOU LOSE IT.

well, i love my girl alot, funny thing i never thot i wud love her this much.But now we are sort of estranged,can you believe she did not call me on my birthday,no sms,nothing.what do you guys suggest i do.and i dont want to lose her

delvinmaya:

well, i love my girl alot, funny thing i never thot i wud love her this much.But now we are sort of estranged,can you believe she did not call me on my birthday,no sms,nothing.what do you guys suggest i do.and i dont want to lose her

Off topic, but my advise would be to have a heart-2-heart talk with her. Find out what's going. Then try to fix any problem revealed.

ocelot2006:

Off topic, but my advise would be to have a heart-2-heart talk with her. Find out what's going. Then try to fix any problem revealed.

yeah man i know just needed advise

@eyo/topic. . . I've never met a man that has not cheated. I'm not saying it's right, I'm just sayin nothin do u. . . just wrap it up and be smart about it. If u catch ur girl cheatin just don't be a hypocrite, shit happens 

All the women need to be serviced cos thats what they are for.

No man will behave himself if a beautiful girl seduces him in a dark room, And if you don't comply she will hate u for life

Krayola2:

@eyo/topic. . . I've never met a man that has not cheated.

you just met one . . . . me

Krayola2:

. If u catch ur girl cheatin just don't be a hypocrite, shit happens  

if i even hear rumor say she do am, it's over . . even b4 the rumor is confirmed

palogbo:

No man will behave himself if a beautiful girl seduces him in a dark room, And if you don't comply she will hate u for life

wetin carry u follow beautifu girl enter room?

Human behaviors are quite unpredictable. This topic of course is 1 that does not have a single practical  approach. My advice to all is to reach the bridge before attempt crossing, cos we do not know the length. GRACE OF GOD IS NEEDED in such circumstances & FORGIVENESS IS EQUALLY NEEDED IF CAUGHT. Check history, it has always been with man to behave that way, I mean cheating.

really, put yourself in the girl's shoes n imagine how u'll feel. why spoil something so good with a mere shag? (u can use hot bread)
lets think of the consequences of our actions before we do them. Just imagine her finding out and breaking up wit u after all your years of hard work in d relationship.
Think of where the relationship has come from and where u want it to go.

A man is only as faithful as his options

If infidelity was unnatural, it will not be such a rampant issue in every culture.

I believe the [b]modern [/b]society that we find ourselves in warrants some form of marital structure that is why we are trying to adopt fidelity.
I use the word [b]trying [/b]because I don't believe it has always been like this.

Can you imagine the chaos if you could freely "shag" anyone that was willing without society frowning?

With egos, disease, finance etc, man's natural competitive nature, which will manifest as jealously in this case, will derail order. We have organized everything else.

That being said, there is no one stick to judge a situation.
There are loving polygamous homes. "Love" is hard to define and varies vastly.

Like Chris Rock said about O.J. ; "I'm not saying he should have killed her, but I understand"
We are all fighting our programming for the greater good. Its only human.

yadi yadi yada,  if they tell you say any of the girl you wan cheat with come get HIV, you go sleep with am?? I guess not! we do many things cos our life does not depend on it. you thinks love is just saying "I love you" every morning you wake up? Love is practical and my friend, you do not love that girl! move on with ya cheating ass. why be in a relationship?

see these thread

slimfine:

yadi yadi yada,  if they tell you say any of the girl you wan cheat with come get HIV, you go sleep with am?? I guess not! we do many things cos our life does not depend on it. you thinks love is just saying "I love you" every morning you wake up? Love is practical and my friend, you do not love that girl! move on with ya cheating ass. why be in a relationship?

haha. Like say if Usher or one kind model show up for ur room u go chase am comot. abeg leave storee!!