cyberjinx:

[b] Uju,im being totally objective here.i will truly, truly run away from anything or anyone that sounds like you just like any reasonable man would, because i want a lady who will appreciate me(totally outside my accomplishments), not one that loves me because i have a ticket to the big life.even if ur guy was as rich,what makes u think he would go for you?he will probably go for the ministers daughters and not get to your level.
My advice: change your mentality, and do so fast!!!!

oyb:

^^^^or brains + hotness+porn star + silicone


i wonder which ujujoan has

Ujujoan:

I think the silicone will be very helpful

GEW:

it is good to know you have brains and can laugh too. dont let sweet mouth naija boys reduceyou to zero becos they love poverty.

Ujujoan:

ROTFLMAO @ most of the posts here.

What’s all these beefing going on here? I never meant for this to be a challenge to all you broke ass NL guys. I don’t condemn you guys for being broke. I just don’t want your kind!!

As for the ladies with the insults, I can only say you are jealous I have the courage and boldness to go for what I want. If you want to manage with a struggling guy . . . well, good luck! Me, I want the already made. At what cost I get them is my problem and problem only!

I read this on this forum sometime ago titled 'Why you need not marry a poor man' and I quote:

‘[b]The reality as I see it is that for a girl who marries a financially struggling guy; it’s head or tail, you still lose. Most often, when a girl marries a man who has little or no financial stability, she is forgotten when the going gets good. Look at it this way, what happens is that the wife wears herself out trying to make ends meet and carries the burden of the family. The husband gradually begins to see her as his slave or servant and treats her as one, regardless of her education and career. Trust me, I see this happen all the time. Ladies in such marriages do not buy expensive clothes and perfumes, they do not go to a Spa or gym; neither do they go for a manicure or pedicure. Their family is their life and they are ready to sacrifice their comfort for the comfort of their family. What happens? Their husbands begin to admire other ladies outside and begin to see their wives as unwanted baggage or package.

You see, when a girl marries a guy who, as they say, ‘has arrived’ or is ‘ready-made’, she has little to lose if the relationship does not work. In fact, she probably will have gained one or two things (except the guy was very miserly) to make up for her broken heart. In other words, during the moments of reflective regrets over the ended relationship, this lady would not be thinking about the labors of love she put into the relationship; how she did his laundry, cooked his meals, constantly spent time and energy trying to stretch the budget, going without a car, and on and on. For the girl who married a rich guy, after the divorce she will be concentrating on mending her broken heart. And in many cases, she will have the divorce settlement to use to try and put her life together[/b].’

What can I say, I totally agree with it!!

MUZBO:

@uju, thanks, I got rid of the bile. Why are you afraid to rate your beauty, declare your asset and reveal your discipline? Sebi you too much? Oya start!

aysometin:

Best thread on Nairaland for year 2009 (so far)

After reading this (in bold), I think I am switching over to Uju's side There is really no point suffering and losing out, when you can enjoy and lose out!!! uhnnnnnnn, food for thought!!!

Ujujoan:

@ Richy Black:

Thanks for your explicit analysis; and I must admit you are right!!

@ Muzbo;

You know that bile coming up your throat? Take a drink and swallow it down. Then take a hike in the lagoon to calm yourself  

@ Osisi;

Thank you jare. Pls help me tell them oh.


@ Soloqy:

Dont be a hypocrite!!

soloqy:

I no know how I one be hypocrite for this one.

I just wondered out loud why it had to be someone with an Igbo name posting the topic.

Living up the stereotype.

Ujujoan:

Oh c'mon, you've made your choice already and from your earlier post, I think you made the right choice for yourself.

Dont mind the likes of us that are still trying to make up our minds

Ujujoan:

If that's what you think, then so be it. But I dont think my desires has anything to do with my tribe. I'm not even a typical Ibo girl. I'm just Ibo by origin.

Ujujoan:

ROTFLMAO @ most of the posts here.

What’s all these beefing going on here? I never meant for this to be a challenge to all you broke ass NL guys. I don’t condemn you guys for being broke. I just don’t want your kind!!  

As for the ladies with the insults, I can only say you are jealous I have the courage and boldness to go for what I want. If you want to manage with a struggling guy . . . well, good luck! Me, I want the already made. At what cost I get them is my problem and problem only!    

I read this on this forum sometime ago titled 'Why you need not marry a poor man' and I quote:

‘The reality as I see it is that for a girl who marries a financially struggling guy; it’s head or tail, you still lose. Most often, when a girl marries a man who has little or no financial stability, she is forgotten when the going gets good. Look at it this way, what happens is that the wife wears herself out trying to make ends meet and carries the burden of the family. The husband gradually begins to see her as his slave or servant and treats her as one, regardless of her education and career. Trust me, I see this happen all the time. Ladies in such marriages do not buy expensive clothes and perfumes, they do not go to a Spa or gym; neither do they go for a manicure or pedicure. Their family is their life and they are ready to sacrifice their comfort for the comfort of their family. What happens? Their husbands begin to admire other ladies outside and begin to see their wives as unwanted baggage or package.

You see, when a girl marries a guy who, as they say, ‘has arrived’ or is ‘ready-made’, she has little to lose if the relationship does not work. In fact, she probably will have gained one or two things (except the guy was very miserly) to make up for her broken heart. In other words, during the moments of reflective regrets over the ended relationship, this lady would not be thinking about the labors of love she put into the relationship; how she did his laundry, cooked his meals, constantly spent time and energy trying to stretch the budget, going without a car, and on and on. For the girl who married a rich guy, after the divorce she will be concentrating on mending her broken heart. And in many cases, she will have the divorce settlement to use to try and put her life together.’

What can I say, I totally agree with it!!

Ujujoan:

Good for you!!

Now about the assets . .  they are way above your league so forget it okay?   

posakosa:

My question to Uju so what happens if you get this man of your dreams and along the way, he LOSES it all

Will you leave him ?