stillwater:

There's tendency for a woman to be very emotional when in love. In a sort of way all women are the same when it comes to emotions, most will deny it though.

Yeah, there's that tendency, but the ability to overcome it is maturity, and that's rare.

Nuffin wrong with being emotional . . . but leaving a little space sometimes is essential for the relationship.

TOPE2000!:

I dont blv kellorah is a female, stillwarra u with me?

She's a babe, abeg.
I know her across the street. . . . .Her real name is Keisha.

eldee:

Yeah, there's that tendency, but the ability to overcome it is maturity, and that's rare.

Nuffin wrong with being emotional . . . but leaving a little space sometimes is essential for the relationship.

that is not true. We make too much of the word "maturity". It doesnt mean a robot who behaves exactly as we want.

~Sauron~:

She's a babe, abeg.
I know her across the street. . . . .Her real name is Keisha.

LOL, she iant and if she is, she def one of those emotionless babes o . . . . she scares me


@Eldee
If u mention maturity again, i will punch u for mouth o

Keisha wetin?! Nice name, but no thanks.

Haha, Tope, wow!!   Are u serious?! LMAO!
I don't sound like a dude, do I?  

I'm 100% female abeg.
I don't trust people on NL sha, so I wont blame u if u still think I'm male. But Lalaboi (if u know him on here) is my witness, and Bluspice too.

TOPE2000!:

LOL, she iant and if she is, she def one of those emotionless babes o . . . . she scares me

A serial KILLER!!!!

davidylan:

that is not true. We make too much of the word "maturity". It doesnt mean a robot who behaves exactly as we want.

You called them babies, the difference between a toddler and a teenager is the ability to break away from the mother's attention.
That is maturity right there, it applies to chics too.

~Sauron~:

She's a babe, abeg.
I know her across the street. . . . .Her real name is Keisha.

Tell me Keisha's not on Nairaland!!!

TOPE2000!:

LOL, she iant and if she is, she def one of those emotionless babes o . . . . she scares me

LMAO!!!! U no well.
I'm sorry for scaring u but, it's just the way I am.
To survive in this world I had to toughen up. . . .I've still got a heart o!

kellorah:

I'm 100% female abeg.
I don't trust people on NL sha, so I wont blame u if u still think I'm male. But Lalaboi (if u know him on here) is my witness, and Bluspice too.

I blv u and its because u mention my lil sis bluespice o but really how do u do it. U sound COLD, i dey fear u

~Sauron~:

A serial KILLER!!!!

Na u talk am.
you are her next JOB

kellorah:

LMAO!!!! U no well.
I'm sorry for scaring u but, it's just the way I am.
To survive in this world I had to toughen up. . . .I've still got a heart o!

Ahhhhhhhhhh . . . Now i can exhale.
I still have faith in u then I think u havent found the guy that wud sweep u off ur feet ma'am

davidylan:

that is not true. We make too much of the word "maturity". It doesnt mean a robot who behaves exactly as we want.

Thing is, you've let women define what maturity is . . . this is the one place where it's clear-cut.

TOPE2000!:

I blv u and its because u mention my lil sis bluespice o but really how do u do it. U sound COLD, i dey fear u

Na u talk am.
you are her next JOB

Next wetin?
I am untouchable. . . . .I don't fall in love randomly.

eldee:

Tell me Keisha's not on Nairaland!!!

She is here LIVE n DIRECT!!!

Kellorah is Keisha and she carries a Luger.

~Sauron~:

Next wetin?
I am untouchable. . . . .I don't fall in love randomly.

Love ke, i mean KILL

TOPE2000!:

Love ke, i mean KILL

I know that's what you meant but i am saying she only KILLS guys who fall in love easily.

I guess I kept seeing a lot of emotional chicks out there, and how much they hurt after pouring out their hearts  out to dudes who ended up not appreciating it, and what not, and then I said to myself "I'm never gonna be like that" lol. I'm just saying. . .I really don't know how it happened haha.


Wow, it's a good thing I know Blu then.

TOPE2000!:

I blv u and its because u mention my lil sis bluespice o but really how do u do it. U sound COLD, i dey fear u

TOPE2000!:

Ahhhhhhhhhh . . . Now i can exhale.
I still have faith in u then I think u havent found the guy that wud sweep u off your feet ma'am

Lol, I have o!! But he's currently messing up. He's confused. And I'm not being patient with him.

eldee:

Thing is, you've let women define what maturity is . . . this is the one place where it's clear-cut.

nah its not . . . i think we all have an unbalanced view of what maturity really is. Being mature is not the same as not being bothered when your bf wont call for 2 weeks at a stretch, assuming he loves you because you are too "mature" to ask him to tell you, not expressing your God-given emotions because to cry or nag is to be "immature".

Different strokes for different folks . . . we have emotions for a reason. Maturity does not remove the need to express it one way or the other.

Abeg, who is Keisha?

Nah, I don't kill dudes who fall in love randomly. . .hahaha. When did I say that?

I just find it annoying when some chicks act all silly.

And I hate guys that lead chicks on. So unfair!! God sha will punish them someday.

~Sauron~:

She is here LIVE n DIRECT!!!

Kellorah is Keisha and she carries a Luger.

Are you serious??
Isn't she the same girl that rejected Sly 23 times??
Whoa . . . I'm not suprised man

Is Eldee saying it is immature to act like you're bothered when your bf doesn't call u for a while?! LOL.
I'm confused.

~Sauron~:

I know that's what you meant but i am saying she only KILLS guys who fall in love easily.

Oh . . . . and who are u tryin to deceive that u dnt fall in love easily. All that dark lord sauron doesnt fool me one bit

kellorah:

Lol, I have o!! But he's currently messing up. He's confused. And I'm not being patient with him.

Biko continue to have patience . . . . .Its in their DNA to mess up at one point.

kellorah:

Is Eldee saying it is immature to act like your not bothered when your bf doesn't call u for a while?! LOL.
I'm confused.

Eldee is confused, he is just using the word maturity anyhow forgetting we are human being with feelings

kellorah:

And I hate guys that lead chicks on. So unfair!! God sha will punish them someday.

A to men

TOPE2000!:

Oh . . . . and who are u tryin to deceive that u dnt fall in love easily. All that dark lord sauron doesnt fool me one bit

Hehehehehehehehehe. . . . . . Cheeky!!!

kellorah:

Abeg, who is Keisha?

Nah, I don't kill dudes who fall in love randomly. . .hahaha. When did I say that?

I just find it annoying when some chicks act all silly.

And I hate guys that lead chicks on. So unfair!! God sha will punish them someday.

Take it easy, haba!!!!

eldee:

Are you serious??
Isn't she the same girl that rejected Sly 23 times??
Whoa . . . I'm not suprised man

Not too sure about it. . . . .I will cross reference later.

U dey mind them?! Mcheww!!  

There's only so much patience I can have.  


Anyways, I'm one of these people who believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason/God knows best, so I just take days as they come. I'm tired of bothering myself bout tomorrow, only for that thing to end up not being a bother the next day lol.

all men come equipped with a brain just that some don't know how to use it.

Sauran, there werent cold sparks coming out when I typed that o. It was just a prayer. . .so yeah, I've been taking it easy since 4ever.  

kellorah:

Anyways, I'm one of these people who believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason/God knows best, so I just take days as they come. I'm tired of bothering myself bout tomorrow, only for that thing to end up not being a bother the next day lol.

BEST WAY to live
I dnt bother myself abt 2moro, it will sort itself out. let me just enjoy today

~Sauron~:

Take it easy,  Haba!!!

Easy? u berra dnt let me add more curse abeg

davidylan:

nah its not . . . i think we all have an unbalanced view of what maturity really is. Being mature is not the same as not being bothered when your bf wont call for 2 weeks at a stretch, assuming he loves you because you are too "mature" to ask him to tell you, not expressing your God-given emotions because to cry or nag is to be "immature".

Different strokes for different folks . . . we have emotions for a reason. Maturity does not remove the need to express it one way or the other.

Maturity in this case is about choosing the right way to express your emotions.
That's where wisdom comes in. . . afterall, women are 'more mature than men'

kellorah:

Is Eldee saying it is immature to act like you're bothered when your bf doesn't call u for a while?! LOL.
I'm confused.

I'm saying it's immature to go into a Kanye West rant just because your boyfriend (with whom you chatted on IM) says he's to busy to call.
It's as bad as immature goes.

Lol Ok Tope, I think u shud take it easy haha More curse u know. Pity dem small nau

eldee:

I'm saying it's immature to go into a Kanye West rant just because your boyfriend (with whom you chatted on IM) says he's to busy to call.
It's as bad as immature goes.

No its not, Most men use that i am BUSY bullshit, and most the time u aint doing shyte

kellorah:

Lol Ok Tope, I think u shud take it easy haha More curse u know. Pity dem small nau

There is nothing more that i hate than guy leading n stringing a girl along wen u know u have dont have any intentions watsoeva 4 her

TOPE2000!:

No its not, Most men use that i am BUSY bullshit, and most the time u aint doing shyte

Yeah . . . 'I am busy' is what I use when I'm too annoyed to talk to you right now.
It saves me from saying things I will need to apologise for.

ELDEE:

Come on now, some men are more mature than women.

But yeah, her reaction to the fact that he was busy was immature, but there's much to the relationship that we don't know about, so he might be a liar, crap bf, etc. . . .and so she felt her reaction was justified, seeing as she's been putting up with his crap for so long.


A woman can be mature throughout the relationship, but might be "immature" in one or two circumstances. Would u then see her as immature, cos she messed up a few times?

I understand what u mean bout reacting in a more mature way, but don't forget that most times people don't exactly think before they react to certain things. It just happens. So don't lose out on a good relationship just cos she reacted immataturely a few times.

eldee:

Yeah . . . 'I am busy' is what I use when I'm too annoyed to talk to you right now.
It saves me from saying things I will need to apologise for.

Now that i can appreciate but some guys just say it because he just doesnt want to talk to u, to me that means i dnt mean shit u or i dnt matter