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Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Toniaeloho(f): 6:59pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
daclemx:Omame gare, Migwo 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by rosalieene(f): 7:01pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
linearity:What do you mean?,that you graduated at the age of 35 does not mean others must be like you. This is the 22nd century, ppl graduate at 19,20,21,22yrs. As a matter of fact I have a sibling who graduated this year and is just 19years 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by AdunniIwo(f): 7:03pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Your story and mine are almost the same. My dear, it's really hard and frustrating. I'm doing what makes me happy and I'm enjoying it...it's only possible cos I'm really far away from home now and not as young as you. |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Abagworo(m): 7:06pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Toniaeloho: There's nothing like love in marriage. Its just tolerance and cooperation that's all. However I believe you are too young to tie the knots. Tell your parents that you'll marry at 22 and if the man can wait you will accept him then. |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Kaybaba5(m): 7:09pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Eleyi gidi gannnnnn |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Originalsly: 7:16pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Hmmm....at 19?... in 2016?... being forced into marriage?.... I think you have already told your mom about your decision... say no more to her. Tell the guy you are not in favour... and if you are forced... he would regret it since you are giving him fair warning... that you would never be loyal to him... nor would he ever know peace.. and you are 99.9% sure that he shall not be the father of any of your children...if he rapes you.. you will abort...that is... if you show up for the wedding. |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by millionboi(m): 7:26pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
uzoexcel:yes beta than giving her out @49 |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Rukkydelta(f): 7:31pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Toniaeloho: Sis please don't marry someone you're not attracted to cos you're going to regret it later in life. It's your life and not you parent's. Just look for one or two things to start doing. And that man seems to be authoritative type with his statement ''those days girls marry men their parents approved of'' Personally to me. I think @ 19 you're still young to be rushing into marriage. Make your decision wisely |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Malakh: 7:42pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
The way you people of this generation see love is different from the way our fathers saw it, you guys want to physically attracted to the man, you dont have to be in lust before you love someone,I was gonna really explain it's not even worth it among this nairalanders, this is why Christ said the children of this generation are "wiser"(educated/indoctrinated) than the children of the Light Toniaeloho: |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Toniaeloho(f): 7:45pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
windeal:Lol I found this very funny. You don't have to believe me. So all Nigerian girls are in their late 30s. It seems girls have lied to you too much 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by decepticos(m): 7:47pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Well, Best u marry ur parents. |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Tajbol4splend(m): 7:52pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
No matter what your parents say about it, don't marry him except if u love him, it's not their decision, it's yours and yours only, I must tell u have selfish and inconsiderate parents |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by raphieMontella: 8:02pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
tee59:seems your myopic nature didnt see eloho? |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by ThonieNwako(f): 8:10pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Have been in this kind of situation before.... it's really frustrating but just stand your ground manage yourself when they see that your mind is made up they will stop..if possible stop calling them for a while, wen they don't hear from you for longthlong they will call you and reason with you |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Uniben4sure: 8:13pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
automatix:Arranged marriages yet Igbo's have the most successful marriages in Nigeria. If that's the case then arranged marriage is the best! Mean while the op is not Igbo but as usual, some people have started showcasing their obsession with the great Igbo nation. @op, what an elder sees while sitting, a child can not see even while standing on an iroko tree. Your parents might have cogent reasons for wanting you married to this guy. Better listen to them. All these special advisers here will not be there to help you when the chips are down. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by KvnGRezz(m): 8:22pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Raatataataatataataa!!! Daz how the thunder dah'll fire your parents will sound like |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by KvnGRezz(m): 8:25pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
ThonieNwako:Haabaa she shudd disparents her parents ni?? |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Sotenna(m): 8:40pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Toniaeloho: Some parents need public flogging. They don't care about what their daughter feels, they forget she'd be the one living with the man and not them. They are just laser focused on the guy's achievements and money. They just don't care about their daughter's safety. They don't even know if the man will end up killing their daughter for money rituals. Some parents ain't worthy to have kids. |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by franklynsunny(m): 8:53pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
U ve come to d rite plc? Pls note 30post n weigh d advise for u nt to marry him in quote n chart sheet? Ur mum is so blind wit material tins? Take d case to her own pastor alone first bfor dey invite ur parent |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Goldeno(m): 8:55pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Masonic:or she could be one of those loose girls jumping from one guy to another. her parent may be trying to avoid unwanted pregnancy in their home 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Rone16(f): 9:01pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
ameezy: I'm not a fan of putting profile pictures of me on forums e.g NL. |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by ameezy(m): 9:03pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Rone16:Ok girlie |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by vislabraye(m): 9:06pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Toniaeloho: Just 19 . What sort of parents are those ? You shouldn't even be thinking of marriage now. If you marry now, it could slow you down. I think you should present your case to someone your parents would listen to. Do you have an elderly uncle, aunt or a mutual pastor ? |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Hexzyz(m): 9:06pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Toniaeloho: I don't think the way people think anyway. But you do have sex with a boyfriend whom you love and don't even know if you will end up together. Why not get married and have sex legally? 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by jeff1607(m): 9:12pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
NO TOO MUCH TALK BRING THE GUY'S no AND LEMME FIX HIM WITH A WORKING CLASS AND WELL TO DO INDEPENDENT LADY @24, SO HE CAN LEAVE YOU ALONE, don't come here after 5years complaining,. why not play along with ur parents and d guy, finish your education, further a bit and if he still fancies u den hit It off, if he is matured he wud see d clear picture, before you r thru, u wud b hitting mid 20s |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Nobody: 9:12pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Toniaeloho:Your story is totally un-true. You just have to quiet. So many fake stories on this social media. |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by mrjojo: 9:13pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
my neighbor, She is just 21, her mom is on her neck to get a husband. Some mothers sha, smh |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by tsannee(m): 9:34pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
money don enter ur parents eye |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Towncrier007(m): 9:35pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Toniaeloho:I still smell bad gang lie, because my first day on NL I didn't know how to quote, but you sounding like a pro, and even quoting me.but never mind, Ogun is still watching you |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by dingbang(m): 9:44pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Naijaboiy1:so dem follow ban u seff. Lwkmd |
Re: Help! My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone I Don't Like. by Raphafire101: 9:55pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Lexusgs430:I feel this ur comment jare....especially the absconding part, u sure know how to calm nerves.... |
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