ItsQuinn:
How is that fixed?

Because as usual, Your 'advice' is illogical.

Viking007:

Because as usual, Your 'advice' is illogical.

dingbang:
so dem follow ban u seff. Lwkmd

Yes o!

sylvalord:
This is the first time i am seeing you operate an alternate.. How are you?

Naijaboiy1:
19 years?

What sort of parents do you have?

Raphafire101:

Loolll...u want her parents to strike u abi

Lexusgs430:


Strike sores would heal, but my broken heart would surely not heal........

Raphafire101:

Hmmmmm...u sound serious...u have our support jare....asin Nairaland support ohhhh....

Lexusgs430:


Nairaland support is acceptable, but what would be of this kind of support, if OP does not respond?

Raphafire101:

We force her to respond jare...since we r in dictatorship era..

Lexusgs430:


We drag Toniaeloho here to this thread to come and respond, albeit kicking and screaming ..................

mrblessed:
It breaks my mind why you instill on defending what is vile and barbaric. Oh, she is ethnic Yoruba just like you. But Yoruba as an ethnic group is not on trial here, Igbo is. Therefore, any and everything she said about the Igbo must be true. I want you to read your defence slowly, and see how evasive you were. In keeping with the malicious scheme, you disingenuously refused to stay on the subject of discussion. You didn't want to mention it because you know your friend was wrong, instead you double down, citing the existence of an unimaginable hatred and tension. So much for defending what is overtly indefensible.

Funnicator:


Swerve go one corner before i comot big cassava!

Money rules the world.

*returns to work*.

Lexusgs430:


We drag Toniaeloho here to this thread to come and respond, albeit kicking and screaming ..................

pressplay411:
Momma knows best. Marry him, love will grow.hehe

pressplay411:
Momma knows best. Marry him, love will grow.hehe

lawlahbammy:
Hmmm
Op I certainly understand this just that mine was a little different.

I got a marriage proposal at 20 from my first wen I was in my third year, told my mum and she said I should marry the guy sharpaly because I'm fat. But I felt I wasn't ready and at 20 I have my education to tidy up first. He left me and quickly went ahead to marry someone else. At 21 again I got this loving guy that was bent on marrying me again, he begged and persuaded me he also involved mum. I turned it down again cos I told him to wait a while but he was in a rush to wife me which I found choking. My mum took it personal as she wanted me to settle down on time because of my stature but at 21 gosh! I can't just get married like that joor. The guy also went and marry another lady after sometimes later.


Later I told my mum how I felt about it and she reluctantly understood my plights, actually my dad didn't know about all these proposals as he won't allow me to do anything against my will.

Fast forward to now, I'm 28 and not married, my father that could take my side is gone to the other side #ripDad.
She won't allow me rest as she usually refer to what happened whenever she wants to remind me that I'm getting old and not married.

So op I will say follow your mind ooo and need I say that I don't regret turning down those proposals. I don't want to endure marriage simply because I was coarse into it. Lemme make my decision and face the consequence of it not putting the blame on my mum.

This is 21st century make your own choice.

millionboi:
hahaha
.. .. No mind her,small pinkin dey worry her.

biggz82:
Kill yourself

Malakh:
The way you people of this generation see love is different from the way our fathers saw it, you guys want to physically attracted to the man, you dont have to be in lust before you love someone,I was gonna really explain it's not even worth it among this nairalanders, this is why Christ said the children of this generation are "wiser"(educated/indoctrinated) than the children of the Light

Toniaeloho:

Lol, nice to meet you Lexusgs430

Lexusgs430:


Nice to meet you too. Hope you are clear on the path to follow now, regarding the issue you raised? Did you follow the conversation between Raphafire101 & I?

Toniaeloho:

Yes, I won't raise his hope by making him believe I will marry him. I won't marry first. I will think of your marriage plan

Toniaeloho:

Physical attraction is important. You must like someone physically for one reason or the other e.g, eyes, height, brain and speech. You can't find someone physically repulsive and love them. Sexual attraction on the other hand is different. You might not be sexually attracted to someone at first but do so as affection deepens. I understand you , my bro. I want to love someone so much that I want to spend the rest of my life with them. I did not say sex or lust. I don't love him. I might be a kid but I am not stupid

lawlahbammy:
Hmmm
Op I certainly understand this just that mine was a little different.

I got a marriage proposal at 20 from my first wen I was in my third year, told my mum and she said I should marry the guy sharpaly because I'm fat. But I felt I wasn't ready and at 20 I have my education to tidy up first. He left me and quickly went ahead to marry someone else. At 21 again I got this loving guy that was bent on marrying me again, he begged and persuaded me he also involved mum. I turned it down again cos I told him to wait a while but he was in a rush to wife me which I found choking. My mum took it personal as she wanted me to settle down on time because of my stature but at 21 gosh! I can't just get married like that joor. The guy also went and marry another lady after sometimes later.


Later I told my mum how I felt about it and she reluctantly understood my plights, actually my dad didn't know about all these proposals as he won't allow me to do anything against my will.

Fast forward to now, I'm 28 and not married, my father that could take my side is gone to the other side #ripDad.
She won't allow me rest as she usually refer to what happened whenever she wants to remind me that I'm getting old and not married.

So op I will say follow your mind ooo and need I say that I don't regret turning down those proposals. I don't want to endure marriage simply because I was coarse into it. Lemme make my decision and face the consequence of it not putting the blame on my mum.

This is 21st century make your own choice.

Toniaeloho:

Yes, I won't raise his hope by making him believe I will marry him. I won't marry first. I will think of your marriage plan

Raphafire101:

Lexusgs430 are u with us

Lexusgs430:


Life Live DIRECT........... You would be our officiating Minister....