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Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by shumuel(m): 10:15am On Jun 17, 2017
Biafrareform:


INFATUATED . Exactly what am thinking. Thats one of the reason why i refused having sex with her. I feel the feelings will die down . I love and care about her, so i want the love to grow before introducing sex into it. But she want me to have sex with her to prove that I love her


Bro, there are always two things involved.

1. It's either she just wants to catch her fun, the weather isn't helpping matters, i'll like you to consider that.

Or

2. She wants to use sexx to pin you down, it's the latest development from ladies; all in a bid to get married,, now this is what they do; they Bleep the hell out of you, till you can't do without it, then bang! They force you to put a ring on it, if you still want it. Or They make you impregnate them, then they come up with the ''I can't abort, never!'' story or the ''My Father, My Pastor, My Mum would kill me, if i give birth out or wedlock'' story,, either way, you hit it, you get hocked for life, so I'll say you took the best decision, wait and study her more before going the whole 9yards with her.

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Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Eluwilussit(m): 10:19am On Jun 17, 2017
Medunah:

Sorry but can I ask u this just to prove a point?

Is ur wife beautiful? Great body?

She is exceptionally beautiful. Like pageant and natural beauty. U wanna know the truth? I didn't see the details till after i fell in love with her. U know when they say love at first sight? Eh hmm!

Believe me, i was a player and have done a lot of things i may not be proud of any longer, but my wife stole my heart effortlessly with her love and instant commitment. For once, i met a girl and sex was the last thing on my mind. Even when it happened the next day, it was not ceremonious. It was so natural, one would think we had been together for ages.

Bottom line is, there is no formula to relationship or falling in love. Just be bold and go for whatever u like. If it fails, try again. grin .

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Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by adeboizy11(m): 10:21am On Jun 17, 2017
Mr counsellor! grin grin grin "awon ti lashing"

Gofwane:
@op, sorry about your g.f behavior. All she needs is counseling.


Gimme her number let me help you
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by sunnyphem(m): 10:29am On Jun 17, 2017
Gofwane:
@op, sorry about your g.f behavior. All she needs is counseling.


Gimme her number let me help you
jesuuuuu shocked
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by cuvox(m): 10:33am On Jun 17, 2017
Biafrareform:
Let me start by giving you a background story to what you are about to read.

In 2015, the girl I love left me in a disvastating manner. I was so heartbroken. I decided to be careful so as not to have such experience again. I changed completely.
From 2015 to March this year, I comfortably and effortlesly walked in and out of 5 relationship. Leaving the ladies heartbroken,

It was in March that I realized that am finding it difficult to love a woman. So I consciously try to change it and settle with my future bae.

Last week, I met a dreamed girl. She is hot and well endowed from the back. She is the perfect girl I want. Within 3 days, I discovered she has fallen in love with me. I reciprocated by showing her care. Then I discovered she is the jealous type.
She told me she left an abusive relationship with a rich guy and have made up her mind not to go into any till I showed up.
I invited her over to my place today, the moment we walked into my apartment, she was all over me. She followed me to the kitchen while I prepared food for her and started kissing me.
While we were together, her ex called and she told him that she has found rest of mind with someone else.
Done eating, we set to talk and we started kissing. Then she asked me to make love to her. I declined and explained to her that is too early for it and don't want to rush into it. She was angry and mad at me, accusing me of sleeping around with my school friends, she couldn't believed I said No.
She started crying and made me to understand that I just have to make her cum. That's she is feeling that way cos she is totally in love with me. That I shouldnt make her remember her past.
I decided to play with her all through till she was satisfied.

Am left confused. I really love this girl and I don't want to have sex with her now. She may end up like others. My love for her hasnt matured yet. I need grow more in love with her.

a jealous woman can kill without thinking. glee from her insecurities and run for your life.
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Medunah: 10:33am On Jun 17, 2017
Eluwilussit:


She is exceptionally beautiful. Like pageant and natural beauty. U wanna know the truth? I didn't see the details till after i fell in love with her. U know when they say love at first sight? Eh hmm!

Believe me, i was a player and have done a lot of things i may not be proud of any longer, but my wife stole my heart effortlessly with her love and instant commitment. For once, i met a girl and sex was the last thing on my mind. Even when it happened the next day, it was not ceremonious. It was so natural, one would think we had been together for ages.

Bottom line is, there is no formula to relationship or falling in love. Just be bold and go for whatever u like. If it fails, try again. grin .
Lol, if she had been one ugly chic, am sure the story will be Different... ...
To me thou, there is nothing like love at first sight.....
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by hardbody: 10:38am On Jun 17, 2017
Biafrareform:
Let me start by giving you a background story to what you are about to read.

In 2015, the girl I love left me in a disvastating manner. I was so heartbroken. I decided to be careful so as not to have such experience again. I changed completely.
From 2015 to March this year, I comfortably and effortlesly walked in and out of 5 relationship. Leaving the ladies heartbroken,

It was in March that I realized that am finding it difficult to love a woman. So I consciously try to change it and settle with my future bae.

Last week, I met a dreamed girl. She is hot and well endowed from the back. She is the perfect girl I want. Within 3 days, I discovered she has fallen in love with me. I reciprocated by showing her care. Then I discovered she is the jealous type.
She told me she left an abusive relationship with a rich guy and have made up her mind not to go into any till I showed up.
I invited her over to my place today, the moment we walked into my apartment, she was all over me. She followed me to the kitchen while I prepared food for her and started kissing me.
While we were together, her ex called and she told him that she has found rest of mind with someone else.
Done eating, we set to talk and we started kissing. Then she asked me to make love to her. I declined and explained to her that is too early for it and don't want to rush into it. She was angry and mad at me, accusing me of sleeping around with my school friends, she couldn't believed I said No.
She started crying and made me to understand that I just have to make her cum. That's she is feeling that way cos she is totally in love with me. That I shouldnt make her remember her past.
I decided to play with her all through till she was satisfied.

Am left confused. I really love this girl and I don't want to have sex with her now. She may end up like others. My love for her hasnt matured yet. I need grow more in love with her.

Read where you said you found her as a dream girl and the perfect girl you want. So what is the issue, she wants to know whether you are the perfect guy for her. Now you are weak and confused.
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by oghohenry(m): 10:42am On Jun 17, 2017
pray for her bro since u say u love her....
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Eluwilussit(m): 10:43am On Jun 17, 2017
Medunah:

Lol, if she had been one ugly chic, am sure the story will be Different... ...
To me thou, there is nothing like love at first sight.....

I have taken care of ugly girls before as well. grin. Sister, there's always something beautiful about every woman.

........until it happens to u abi? Ok. How do u personally fall in love, if u dont mind my asking? grin
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Onedibe1: 10:43am On Jun 17, 2017
Medunah:
U met her last week and you discovered she is in love with u already.??

Guy, I doubt...... she likes u maybe or she is infatuated but love? No one Starts to love within that span of time.

I already knw ur type,d "is too early" type dat wld go at the bk and lash a guy she met 15mins ago..
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by cocktopuss: 10:49am On Jun 17, 2017
Better Run....

Any girl that is indctrinated to attach sex to love or a good relationship cannot do you life or destiny any good. Not only will she make you worse off, you will eventually find it hard to trust her. Go for a lady who respects sex enough not to have it with someone she has been seeing for a week. if possible go for a lady who does not want to have sex before marriage.


I had a girl i was falling in love with send me nude pictures that looked like she was in a porn scene, i bailed for my life, she is not marriage material, if i could get it that easy many other men could get it that easy.


Plus there are actually real life destiny thiefs, uno, the ones who have a spiritual side to their desire to sleep with you? Be careful, be patient.

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Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Elle277(f): 10:52am On Jun 17, 2017
Your cheerful giver girl friend, maybe she can't do without sex, bros think well oh!
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by engrpheleeks(m): 10:56am On Jun 17, 2017
Oyindidi:
OK, what do we do with this information?
Fry some beans with it
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by firstking01(m): 10:57am On Jun 17, 2017
dingbang:
oboy which stable relationship wey u don get for this your life
Smh, apart from mercy that you made me to live ever regretting opening up to you which other of my relationship escapades do you know??, stop sounding asif you know me....ya lots are just too loud mouthed and can't keep a lil secret, smh.
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Nobody: 10:58am On Jun 17, 2017
I think she is pregnant.. She needs to pin it on someone.

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Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by kechywillz(m): 11:00am On Jun 17, 2017
Gofwane:
@op, sorry about your g.f behavior. All she needs is counseling.


Gimme her number let me help you
Lol,u wan collect ur own,bad guy grin grin
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Medunah: 11:00am On Jun 17, 2017
Eluwilussit:


I have taken care of ugly girls before as well. grin. Sister, there's always something beautiful about every woman.

........until it happens to u abi? Ok. How do u personally fall in love, if u dont mind my asking? grin
Actually, every relationship av entered has not bin because I was in love with the person......I check out for some particular traits in a guy and some other factors, then we date.........love naturally comes in much later, after I see what length u can go for me, sacrifices u make and all.......

Dunno if u get

Love doesn't just happen, it takes time, steps and all......more reason why I believe love at first sight is a fallacy

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Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Dailyschoolnews: 11:01am On Jun 17, 2017
Gofwane:
@op, sorry about your g.f behavior. All she needs is counseling.


Gimme her number let me help you

It's People Like you, I should be afraid of. Not Nigerian Politicians
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by thunderbabs: 11:07am On Jun 17, 2017
dingbang:
See this human being.. Is it wen I bang her that your eyes will finally open..

Banger sneh cheesy
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Xerox01(m): 11:08am On Jun 17, 2017
dingbang:
See this human being.. Is it wen I bang her that your eyes will finally open..
Guy no kill me with laugh abeg!!
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Goalnaldo(m): 11:11am On Jun 17, 2017
it baffles me when people share or like an empty quote.

Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by thunderbabs: 11:13am On Jun 17, 2017
omusiliyu:
I have nothing to say, this one pass me...

Cc: NwaAmaikpe, your attention is needed here

This guy wey u Cc too dey misyarn oo
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by bukitt: 11:19am On Jun 17, 2017
shocked

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Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Jkvivi2020: 11:20am On Jun 17, 2017
is this story or what.she has given you permission to are wet pussy you are complaining if she no give you problem.if you no sabi adamu go come help you bang the hell out of her wet pussy make she cum fluid you go close ur eyes and stay outside so you no go feel am because na you still get d babe.love at first sight.that is the real truth.
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by desmond2pk: 11:20am On Jun 17, 2017
dingbang:
See this human being.. Is it wen I bang her that your eyes will finally open..
na
Naira Landers no go kill me with laughter
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Eluwilussit(m): 11:26am On Jun 17, 2017
Medunah:

Actually, every relationship av entered has not bin because I was in love with the person......I check out for some particular traits in a guy and some other factors, then we date.........love naturally comes in much later, after I see what length u can go for me, sacrifices u make and all.......

Dunno if u get

Love doesn't just happen, it takes time, steps and all......more reason why I believe love at first sight is a fallacy

We are all different. Some of us are just hopelessly romantic and can fall easily for the right person. I really dont get it when people use the term "dating". Does it mean bleeping just for bleeping sake, while u try to figure out the person?

I guess it is more like a case of different strokes for different folks. I understand you sha. grin grin grin
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by nwadiuko1(m): 11:32am On Jun 17, 2017
in all your fvckings beware of staph.
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Oyinlomobambam(m): 11:37am On Jun 17, 2017
The last time I did that, d girl nearly kill me with love but she know no say na lack of CD make me pretend

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Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Henri8: 11:39am On Jun 17, 2017
dingbang:
how you know say I no fvck pass you?, you go just dey cap nonsense...
Cos I be witness.
Make una shift make we read comments.
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by def111(m): 11:41am On Jun 17, 2017
Gofwane:
@op, sorry about your g.f behavior. All she needs is counseling.


Gimme her number let me help you

baddest guy
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 11:43am On Jun 17, 2017
Medunah:
U met her last week and you discovered she is in love with u already.??

Guy, I doubt...... she likes u maybe or she is infatuated but love? No one Starts to love within that span of time.
I think the babe just wants to feel him inside her.
Re: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by Nobody: 11:47am On Jun 17, 2017
you are a joker man...Bleep that pussy

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