pocohantas:

Stop trying desperately hard to get my attention.
anymore dumb pictures?? Too much effort...SMH

You're pouring water on a rock, it'll be more profitable to watch paint dry Nice argument, we need more sane men and women.

FILEBE:


Oga mi sir! Han han! what is it with you and this sexual compatibility thing sef? is it only sex that fails a marriage? Sex failing a marriage is a small problem that can be fixed compared to other marriage problems that can't be fixed. Their is more to relationship than sex. Self control is having the urge and also having the power to say no. I can't say i am innocent. I am working on it. Okay? lol. It just not right that i think it is my right to have sex with a girl just because we are doing bf and gf. If she asks for it. Baba, i wont say No o. if i ask and she gives me. I will be glad. If she doesn't,then i rebuke the devil . If she becomes my wife. Ehn ehn! i can make it my food. if we are not sexually compartible, we will solve our problems ourselves. There is more to marriage. It is an institution. Sexual compatibility is the least of marital problems

thesuave10:


No reason to do boyfriend and girlfriend if it won't lead to marriage abi? So you see a girl and with the help of jazz you know she will be your wife and then you go and marry her that's how relationships work in your village abi? Before she becomes your wife she was a stranger first then she becomes your gf then she becomes your fiance. Baba enough with these fallacies you're making men sound illogical

pocohantas:

Stop trying desperately hard to get my attention.
anymore dumb pictures?? Too much effort...SMH



You're pouring water on a rock, it'll be more profitable to watch paint dry Nice argument, we need more sane men and women.

FILEBE:


What are we saying what are you saying? I said the essence of relationship is to know your partner before marriage. If we agree to court or date then it is because we love ourselves and we have marriage in mind. I dont know how we came about Serious and unserious relationship if not for thi sex thing . Abi what is a serious relationship? Isnt it the one you guys have it in mind to marry? and the unserious one is what we call a fling or whatever, that one you are just attracted to him/her but deep down u can't marry her.

Men are logical beings bro.very logical and wise gan . Also we are manipulative. That was how we came about the "blue ball" story just to get laid out of pity. lol. imagine how many girls are falling and have felt for it? lol. We just have to always call a spade a spade. Truth should be said every now and then.

Safiaa:
This thread just doesnt naked any sense to me.

pocohantas:
Nigerian men and the overflogged, 'what you offer is sex', then in the same breathe say if you can't give sex...stay away from relationships. It's not about what she can offer but what you willingly accept. If you give the average guy everything, without sex...lots of them won't be satisfied. Face it and stop the 'it's all you can offer' talk.

When will you guys realise that sticking with a girl who offers just sex and isn't ready to improve, makes you as stupid, if not more stupid than the girl? You reserve the right to walk away from these kind of girls with your values intact...but you stay, because what you also want is sex.


I just imagine how angry some people will be if a girl says guys without money shouldn't think of romantic affairs. Don't give me that, so you sell your body. Good number of Nigerian relationships are fukcd up, guys in it for sex...girls for money.

Tueeh!!!

truthsayer009:


Chaiii You like fight o ! You just dey dash am out like AK47 !!!

Ifedith:

Cus these are either the most delusional or na these type na dey chop guy money and discharge.

Gerrard59:


Not every relationship is supposed to lead to marriage. The stats are low.


Folks talking about "borehole" should understand that a female's vagina is elastic. So your "borehole" analogy is false.

@Post, To an extent, OP is right. Like and Like.

However, it is the hypocrisy displayed by some or same males that accuse ladies who are sexually liberal of that pisses me off.

gudofuck231:


She will soon find a special bingo and answer his name, (MRS BINGO)

Yuji:
If sex could make men marry you, all prostitutes would be married by now. A man stays where he is well loved, not where he is well sexed. So don't allow satan deceive you. You do not have to engage in premarital sex to keep a man.....
It is high time we understand this...

If you tell me where anybody said a woman can win a man with sex, I'll deactivate my account. Be there smoking bitterleaf

Silentscreamer:
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.

SlayQueenSlayer:


So what's the way forward? We can't continue like this nah.

thesuave10:



If you tell me where anybody said a woman can win a man with sex, I'll deactivate my account. Be there smoking bitterleaf

thesuave10:


You are high on waterleaf weed bros. So as you're entering a relationship, you know that you'll marry her? So as your dating and you know that you'll marry her, why don't you have sex with her? After all you know that you'll marry her. Now what happens if you don't marry her? Baba stop making fallacies up and down this thread

FILEBE:
Sexual compatibility is the least of marital problems

thesuave10:


[b]So in your mind because it is the least of your problems then it should not be handled. Young man think na . Pls what is marriage adding? Marriage is a house built on the foundation you laid up before marriage. Bros if you didnt get to know yourselves properly the marriage will fail. The key is not only on sexual compatibility stop reasoning anyhow. The key is taking everything thing into perspective including sex. Now let me advise Cuz you're obviously inexperienced. A man who is less concerned about his sex life like you will have problems. It's better to be in check with your partner in all things emotionally physically sexually etc. Because sex is such a big deal to you, you have removed it from the equation and made it scared IN your world. So why does it become food in marriage? Because you think she's all yours abi. There's a word in the dictionary called divorce look it up. What you dont know is lack of sexual compatibility causes different problems and you'll be wondering were it came from. Now I know your problem so you think if you and your partner and not sexually compatible she'll come and say "babe we are not compatible sexually o" hahaha see this man. She'll just change mood attitude everything and then you will just be confused and not know what the problem is which will make you make greater mistakes Oga be wise and receive sense[/b]

FILEBE:


Bro! kilodw gan ! han han! what is it with you and this sex sef? han han! I am a dating her, i will marry her. If she opens ... i enter. If she doesn't open ,it wont change a thing. If she opens and i enter and we ended up not getting married, then we both wont be angry. It was mutual. Abi? Sex with a g.friend is not your birthright. It should be mutual. Shikena! wen entering a relationship, define your aim and goals , state your terms,if that is what you want and if she agrees(mutual). no shaking. If she doesn't agree. Move on and not make it a point that you must

Your sense is irredeemable. I am done with you. This my diagnosis. I'll get back to you when it returns

pocohantas:

They should live their life and leave ladies vagina alone.
If they are not checking the mileage of our vagina. They are checking the diameter... The depth...
Na wetin sef!!! their future dey inside there?

pocohantas:

They should live their life and leave ladies vagina alone.
If they are not checking the mileage of our vagina. They are checking the diameter... The depth...
Na wetin sef!!! their future dey inside there?

udemejack:
And this was the same reason why i seperated from my ex last month.I accepted the no sex stuff but we used to smooch,touch all the touchables,kiss but no penetration only for her to wake up one day that there'll be no hugg,kiss,touch etc.......i come tell myself that i cannot survive this thats when i startd ovoiding her like a plague.
The experienx is terrible

FILEBE:


if you have succeeded in tearing hymens up and down, suceeded in tasting all species here and there all in the name of compatibility, and you laterfound who you are "sexually compatible" . Pls, Bros, who will marry all the girls you have drilled here and there?
come to think of it sef . dude, what if men have a vagina and the ladies have the rod, will you say they should be testing you if you are sexually compatible first?

FILEBE:


if you have succeeded in tearing hymens up and down, suceeded in tasting all species here and there all in the name of compatibility, and you laterfound who you are "sexually compatible" . Pls, Bros, who will marry all the girls you have drilled here and there?
come to think of it sef . dude, what if men have a vagina and the ladies have the rod, will you say they should be testing you if you are sexually compatible first?

FILEBE:


baba. Me and you na man. Make we no lie give ourselves. Let it not be that i dey try do eye service or gather attention from the ladies but the truth has to be spoken bro.
KONJI NA BASTARD!
I won't deny the war we fight with this Konji every now and then as a guy. These girls sef no help matter them dey always trigger the Konji. Make i leave that talk for another day.
You see ehn, wetin u write up there na just to justify your request for sex from ur g.
Frnd. Sex should be mutual. If she wants to give you, collect it and don't make it like it is your birthright. If you want to make it your birthright, bros, marry her.
Sex is sacred. Na before before talk be that (it still is). Now, e no sacred anything for our eyes again. Which style our papa Don do wey we never do pass am before 25? We are just making a big deal out of sex
I rather, we focus on self improvement, money and family. If a girl sees this in you. Forgerrit! Ut have her legs (although some girls are stupid and born to open for any stupid reasons or deceit) As, a guy man, u just gaz work hard, make am and marry ur babe. If una marry... If you like, make una dey do the thing every night and morning. E no affect ny body and e good for una.
I know ladies have their faults or bad habits o but we should use bad to fight bad, e no make sense.
Personally, to me, their shouldn't be any reason why we are doing boyfriend and girlfriend and it won't lead to marriage. What is the essence of the relationship if it won't lead to marriage? You guys just have to define your relationship, if na for friends of benefits relationship o abi na the do-me-i-do-you relationship.

Lastly, O. P, can you say or give this advice to your daughter?
Make you no vex o. Guy to guy talk over some bottles of malt and isi ewu.

IamLEGEND1:
Get married first.... Experience that shit_ before you come back come yarn dust.

Yuji:

Stop quoting me with trash I only aired my opinion.

FILEBE:


Oga mi sir! Han han! what is it with you and this sexual compatibility thing sef? is it only sex that fails a marriage? Sex failing a marriage is a small problem that can be fixed compared to other marriage problems that can't be fixed. It just not right that i think it is my right to have sex with a girl just because we are doing bf and gf. If she asks for it. Baba, i wont say No o. if i ask and she gives me. I will be glad. If she doesn't,then i rebuke the devil . If she becomes my wife. Ehn ehn! i can make it my food. if we are not sexually compartible, we will solve our problems ourselves. There is more to marriage. It is an institution. Sexual compatibility is the least of marital problems